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How to Approach Women in Bars and Nightclubs – 3 Tips on How to Make Yourself Stand Out

Saturday, September 25th, 2010

When you are in a crowded, lively place like a bar or a nightclub, one of the hardest things is to get noticed by women. The music is loud, the place is kind of dark, and there are lots of people there. How does a guy like yourself stand out and get noticed by women, and more importantly, come off like the kind of guy that she wants to get to know a little better?

Clubs and bars can be easy spots to meet women, but since they are so easy, there is always going to be a lot of competition from other guys. You can’t change this, it is what it is. So, you have to learn how to play the hand you are dealt, and come off like you are the ONE she should be taking notice of.

Here are 3 tips on how to approach women in bars and nightclubs and make her pay attention to YOU:

1. You have to dress in a way that stands out from the rest.

Like it or not, your appearance IS going to be the first thing that she notices. When you spot a woman from a distance and she sees that you are approaching her, she is going to be taking a quick inventory of you to see what kind of “vibe” she gets from you. If you give her the wrong kind of a vibe, then you are not going to make quite the same impression on her as you would if you gave off the “right” vibe. Dressing in a way that makes you seem friendly and fun, while standing out from the crowd is the best way to give yourself a good first impression on a woman.

2. You need to be the one that kind of guides the conversation, don’t leave it up to her.

Want to see one of the most awkward moments in a bar or a club? It’s when the guy nervously makes his approach, gets up to the woman, and then has nothing to say to her or leaves it up to her to guide the conversation. Be a man, take your role, and be the one that guides the conversation. This will automatically put you in the position of being the alpha male and it will take some of the awkwardness or weirdness off of her.

3. Get in close when you are talking to her, touch her lightly as you talk.

One of the best things about approaching women in bars and nightclubs, is that with all of the loudness, the darkness, and the crowdedness; there are a lot of opportunities to get close to a woman and get that physical intimacy started right away. Don’t shy away from getting close to her, and while you talk to her put your hand lightly on her shoulder or her leg if you are getting the right vibe.

Knowing how to approach women in all situations will literally change your life, as you will be able to meet and attract women wherever you go…

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How to Approach Women in Bars, Clubs, and Anywhere Else You Might Go

Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

How to Approach Women in Bars, How to Approach Women Anywhere,How to Approach Women in Clubs

The approach is definitely something that most guys allow to get the best of them.  And when you are a little too hesitant to approach women,  you are going to put  a lot of restrictions on yourself.  After all,  how are you going to meet new women if you cannot go over and make the approach?  You’re not,  unless you somehow get lucky and they all just are magically drawn to you,  and the odds of that happening are not really that good.

The most common places for guys to go and hopefully approach women are bars and clubs.  Truth is,  you should work on getting used to approaching women anywhere,  because there are so many more opportunities outside of these places.  And most of the time,  women are going to be a lot less hesitant when you approach them outside of a club.

Just the other day,  I was at a miniature golf course,  just having fun with some friends,  and as luck would have it,  a group of college girls ended up right behind us.  Of course,  I did not let that opportunity slide by,  and by the time we reached the 18th hole,  they were playing with us and ended up going out for drinks later that night.

Point is,  you need to be able to make the approach anywhere that you might go if you want to become really successful with women.

Here are 3 tips on how to approach women in bars,  clubs,  and anywhere else you might go:

1.  You need to relax and not take it so seriously.

I see a lot of this in guys that have a hard time approaching women.  They make it out to be this big deal,  like approaching a girl is some kind of big event.  You need to relax and not be so taken aback by the idea of walking up to a woman and starting a conversation with her.  Most of the time,  the worst that will happen is that you talk for a little bit and end up with nothing but that experience.  That’s usually about the worst of what will happen.  No big deal there,  is it?

2.  You need to make women laugh when you talk to them.

It’s the easiest thing to do to automatically make them feel comfortable with you approaching and talking to them.  Especially in non bar and club situations.  Crack a little joke and get something started.  When you can make a woman laugh,  she no longer really thinks of you as being some guy that she does not know.  She thinks of you as being the cool guy that made her crack a smile.

3.  You need to be able to “up the ante.”

If you want to have the interaction be MORE than just a simple conversation,  then you need to up the ante.  What I mean is,  you need to keep the conversation flowing with her,  build attraction,  and then have a reason to ask for her number or to hang out with her.  When I was at the golf course,  I ended up making a bet that it would be guys versus girls and whoever won,  would buy the other group drinks.  You see what I did there?  No matter what,  if we won or lost, we still would end up having drinks with them.  Luckily,  we won, and they DID pay for the drinks.

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Tips on How to Approach Women – 3 Approaching Tips You Need to Know

Monday, July 5th, 2010

Most guys are pretty much out of the loop when it comes to to the subject of approaching women. When you approach a woman and you don’t really know what you are doing, it can be one of the most uncomfortable feelings in the world. And when you feel that way, you are not going to make a good first impression on her, and let me tell you, first impressions count a lot.

So, you DO have to know how to approach women if you are ever going to be able to score a woman’s phone number, a date with her, or something more. But, that does not really do you a lot of good until you really have it down on what works when you approach a woman in a way that is going to leave her feeling impressed by you.

Here are 3 tips on how to approach women that will enable you to do just that:

1. Always smile but not in a way that looks intentional. What I mean by not looking intentional, is that you want to appear like you are just naturally smiling, not like you are doing it for a specific reason. This gives off the impression that you are just a happy guy, the kind of man that most women have no problem starting a conversation with.

2. You have to make your approach quickly without thinking about it too much. Some guys swear by a three second rule, and while I don’t agree that it always has to be that quick, you also don’t want to hem and haw for 20 minutes before you actually go and approach a woman. Especially if she has noticed that you are checking her out, because well, that’s the kind of thing that most women will find to be a little on the creepy side.

3. Your body language has to talk to her before you even make the approach. Body language accounts for anywhere from 70-90 percent of communication depending on which expert you talk to and so, you want to make sure that you do not neglect what your body language is saying to a woman. Keeping your body language OPEN will make a woman a lot more likely to WANT you to come and talk to her.

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