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She’s Just Not That Into You- Or Is She?

Monday, April 11th, 2011

When it comes to dating, there are a lot of “rules” out there that people live by as if they were set in stone, applied to every person and every situation, and could never be broken. The sad thing about this is… guys that don’t have a lot of experience and success with women will believe that they are true all of the time. And that will make it that much harder for them to ever have any success at all with women.

One thing that you will come to understand once you have started to meet and date a diverse group of women (1 at a time, of course), is that there really are no “rules,” there are merely guidelines that you can use. If you are too rigid with trying to adhere to some standard of rules that some dating ‘expert’ came up with to sell a book, you are going to end up getting the shaft when you did not have to.

An example of this, is the supposed signs that *all* women give when they are not interested in a guy. While it is true that there are some broad signs that usually mean one thing or another… they are by no means set in stone. A woman from one walk of like will not always react and respond the same way a woman from another walk of life will.

Here are some more examples of what I mean about the supposed signs that a woman is not that into you… and how they can be interpreted the WRONG way:

1) They say that if a woman does not make enough eye contact then she has no interest at all.

Well, it sounds true and it seems like it would be… until you meet a woman from a culture where the women are conditioned not to make eye contact with men. Then, you are playing by a new set of rules. It does not even have to always apply to a new culture, though. If a woman is used to being ‘dominated’ by the men in her life… then she may not give a lot of eye contact. Or, if she is painfully shy, she might also shy away from giving a lot of eye contact to a guy she likes. She may even try to hide it altogether, while stealing glances at him when he is not looking.

2) They say that if a woman is not calling you back right away, then she has no interest at all.

What they don’t say is that this is not always true if the woman has a really hectic life going or she keeps herself really busy. I’ll give you a personal example of mine. A couple of years ago I ended up meeting a woman in a local bar who was working full time AND going to school full time. That night that I met her, it was the first time she had been out in a couple of months. Well, it took two weeks for her to call back after that night, but she DID call. And we DID date. So, what happened? Well, she had a week of studying and then a week of tests at school. And she also had to work overtime at work as well. Had I listened to the ‘rules’ I would have just assumed that she was not interested and missed out on getting to date her.

3) They say that if she talks about other guys when you are with her, then she could not be interested in you.

To debunk this ‘rule,’ all I have to do is bring up a friend of mine, who is a woman. She has a way of testing guys that she likes. And how does she do that? She brings up OTHER guys into the conversation to get their reaction. She wants to see if they are going to act all squirmy and jealous. And sometimes she wants to see what they are really like. For example she might say to a guy that she knows a guy named Chris (me) who hates country music. Point is, she likes it, and she wants to see what the guy’s response is going to be. Just because she mentions another guy… it does not mean that she is not interested. It could be just her way of testing YOU because SHE DOES like YOU!

4) They say that you always have to wait 3 days before calling up a woman you’ve just met.

Oh, how wrong this one can be! They almost all use the movie “Swingers” as the example for what not to do, and I cannot disagree with that. However, sticking to a strict three day rule can be detrimental to your success with a woman.

Here’s an example: You meet a woman one night and she does not have time to hang out anymore, but the attraction and chemistry is DEFINITELY there! So, you get her number and the next day is a Saturday and you really want to see if the sparks are for real or not. However, you listen to that silly 3 day rule. What you don’t know is that she has nothing at all to do that Saturday and she wants YOU to call her. She waits and waits and then Sunday goes by and suddenly, she loses all of that attraction that she felt for you! Sometimes, you have to strike while the iron is HOT! If you don’t and she gets lost in the drag of another work week… she may just lose interest in you completely.

Sometimes, you have to be a bad boy and break all of the rules… including the ones put forward by the so called dating experts. Sometimes, they are wrong. And sometimes, you can end up having a pretty good time breaking those rules!

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Signs of Attraction – 5 Tips on How to Read a Woman’s Body Language

Sunday, March 7th, 2010

Signs of Female Attraction | Is She Attracted to You When you know how to tell if a woman is showing signs of attraction when she sees you, you have an incredible skill that most guys only wish that they possessed. You can now leave the guesswork out of female attraction, which will save you time, money, AND frustration.

As men, we have ALL been in situations with a woman where we thought she was showing signs of attraction, only to find out that we were dead WRONG!

All along the way, you might have been spending money on her, putting a dent in your schedule to spend time with her, and where did it get you?

Nowhere!

You have to know how to look at a woman and know immediately whether or not she is interested in you.

How can you do this?

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You have to know how to read a woman’s body language. You have to know what she is saying when she isn’t saying anything at all. You have to have ninja like skills when you are reading a woman, but luckily, any man can gain this skill.

What will it give you?

Not only will you be able to tell if a woman is showing REAL signs of attraction with you, you will also be able to reduce any anxiety that you might feel around her, and trust me, almost ALL guys feel anxiety around a woman from time to time.

Plus, we have all experienced times where a woman will say one thing, when she really means something else entirely. Now, you will be able to really know what she means, no matter what she says.

Here are 5 tips on how to read a woman’s body language and tell is she is really showing signs of female attraction:

1. You have to notice if there is eye contact with her or not.

When a woman gives you eye contact, you want to pay attention to how long it seems to last and how intense it is. See, a woman can give you a little eye contact and really not feel any attraction at all for you. Or, she might linger her eyes on you and still, there is no chemistry or electricity between the two of you. Most guys would assume wrong and think that just because there is some eye contact, that she is showing clear signs of attraction. You want her gaze to linger on you, but you also want there to be a charge or an energy behind that look.

2. Her posture can give her away.

When you are close to her, does she seem to “close” up or does she seem to open up to you? Does she stand there trying to make herself look as good as possible? A woman’s posture when she is around a man can often say much more than anything that will come out of her mouth. Pay attention to her posture when you are with a woman and see if she is giving away signs of attraction or clues when she is near you.

3. If she tries to make herself appear more attractive, then she might be into you.

A woman will usually try and make herself look a little better when she is around a man that she is really attracted to. She will do little things to adjust her clothes, or fix her hair so that it looks just right. When you are with a woman, you want to check to see if she is trying to make herself look better for you. Also, you want to notice if she just does these things out of habit. Some women do.

4. Where are her hands going?

If a woman is slightly nervous because she likes you, she will quite often try and do something with her hands to keep them “busy.” Or, she might try and move them closer to you, as if asking for you to reach out for them. Both of these things can be a good indication that she is attracted to you. Always be on the lookout to what she is doing with her hands and if she is using them to show signs of attraction with you.

5. You also want to pay attention to the tone of her voice when she is with you.

Does she sound like she is filled with excitement when she is around you? Does she try to sound seductive and sexy when she is talking to you? Both of these are good indicators of interest from a woman and can be a sign that she is definitely attracted to you.

When you know how to read a woman’s body language and correctly identify signs of attraction from her, then you can take away almost all of the guesswork when it comes to dating and female attraction.

This will put the game in your hands, right where you want it to be and make you one of those guys that just seems to naturally have a way with women.

And who could want anything more than that?

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Note: Be careful of trying too hard to analyze a woman’s every move. There are so many nuances to reading a woman’s body language, and if you are only going on what you observe, you can easily interpret things the wrong way. Also, be weary of pseudoscience on body language. Just because someone has watched a couple of episodes of “Lie to Me,” does not necessarily mean that they know all about body language or a woman’s signs of attraction.