Every man has had to go through the pain of breaking up with his girlfriend at least once in their lives. For most men, this is where it ends. They break up with their girlfriend and that’s the end of the story. Usually there is a lot of pain, anger, and sadness that goes along with this. In the end, though, most men will give up on trying to get their girlfriend back.
Some men may go the extra mile and try with all their might to attract her back and this does not usually end up very pretty at all. While it is entirely POSSIBLE to get her back, this usually will not happen for the simple fact that, the average guy will do more to make her want to get away than to return to him.
If you really want to get your girlfriend back, then there are some classic mistakes that you cannot make with her. Not for ANY reason at all. If you do, you pretty much are guaranteed that in no way will you see her walking back to YOU.
Here are five reasons why she’s NOT coming back…
1. You try to pressure and persuade her to come back to you.
There’s only one thing that is going to happen if you place to much pressure and you try and persuade her to come back to you. She’s going to feel as though you are either trying to control her, or she is just going to get fed up dealing with you. Either way, you LOSE.
2. You call her and contact her all of the time.
For some reason, in our grand stupidity as men, we will pay more attention to our girlfriend when she’s no longer really our girlfriend. If you find yourself trying to contact and call her all of the time, you need to STOP. Not only is this going to annoy her and make her resent you, but you can easily cross over the line and become a stalker. And no woman fantasizes about having her ex boyfriend stalk her.
3. You try to use her friends and family as a way to get back with her.
Trying to manipulate her friends into making her change her mind is a little too middle school when you really think about it. If this is your strategy, then you might as well let her go and move on. Her friends and family don’t belong in this situation and this will just drive a wedge between you and your ex-girlfriend FOREVER.
4. You get angry and start arguments with her.
This is another situation where you pretty much can kiss her GOOD-BYE. The more arguments you start with her and the more anger that she sees, the better she is going to feel about the relationship breaking up. And think about it like this. When you are pursuing a woman, one that you would like to date, do you start arguments with her? No. So, why do this to try and get your girlfriend back?
5. You sit back and do NOTHING at all to try and get her back.
This is not some film where the girl knows instinctively that she should be with you and only you. You have to show her this. The thing is, you do have to be easy as to how you approach the situation. Too much and you push her away. Too little and she will just move on, figuring that the breakup was meant to be.
Stay away from these 5 mistakes and you will have much better odds at getting back with your ex girlfriend. You don’t want to PUSH her away, you want to be able to ATTRACT her back to you.
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