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Online Dating Tips for Men- 5 Must Know Online Dating Tips

Tuesday, March 22nd, 2011

Some people look at online dating as a last ditch effort to attract someone into their life. Others look at it as sort of a magic solution, as if all they have to do is to join an online dating site and they will automatically solve all of their dating problems in one fell swoop. The funny thing about it is, dating is pretty much the same whether you do it online or off line. If you want to be successful with an online dating site, then you should keep that in mind.

There are lots of online dating sites out there nowadays. From the bigger names like Match.com, Eharmony.com and Chemistry.com to the smaller less known sites, there is a wide variety available. Years ago, it really wasn’t this way, as you had to hope that you would come across someone in a chat room or something. Still, there are some tips to help you out with dating online that you must know or you will end up like the many guys who put up a profile and get nothing at all.

Here are 5 must know online dating tips for men:

1. Different websites attract different kinds of women.

Some online dating websites will cater mostly to people looking for long term relationships, even marriage. Some dating sites cater more towards people looking to date casually and some are even geared more for hooking up for sex. Keep this in mind, because your approach has to match what the site is offering. For example, if you want to get into a long term relationship, then you probably should not join a site that is designed to hook people up for casual sex.

2. Sending messages to women telling them how hot or how sexy they are is the worst way to try and make a good impression.

Most women when they join an online dating website will quickly discover that the majority of instant messages or comments that they are going to get all deal with telling them how hot they are. Well, if that was the way to go, then most guys would be hooked up in no time at all and they aren’t. If you don’t want to make the wrong impression or get ignored, then don’t fall into the trap of trying to tell her how hot she is or how sexy she looks in her pictures.

3. Actually read the profile of the women you want to meet online.

Skimming really quickly through their profile is not the way to go. You want to actually read what she has to say about herself, so that when you do communicate with her, you come across as the rare guy who actually knows a little bit about her. You want to use these bits of information to start up conversations that are going to lead somewhere.

4. Put up pictures of yourself having fun and enjoying life.

To really get attention of the higher quality women, most of the pictures that you put up of yourself should reflect the fact that you have fun and know how to enjoy life. When most people want to meet someone on one of these sites, the last person they want to meet is someone who is just a boring, stay at home kind of guy. You want to show a woman through your pictures that she will have a good time with you.

5. Dating online is not any different in the fact that you should be the one who makes the approach.

Throwing up a profile does not guarantee that all of a sudden, women are going to be contacting you left and right. You have to be the one who makes the approach, and you have to do it in a way that makes her want to get to know you. Start off with some observation about what she has described about herself and let that lead into more conversation. Tease her a little if you can.

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How to Attract Women Online- 5 Tips to Get More Hits to Your Profile

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

So, you want to know how to attract women online, huh? When it comes to dating online, there are a lot of similarities to the offline world. In the offline world, all a decent looking woman has to do is step into a bar and she can be assured that she will get a decent amount of attention. Guys get none unless they are willing to really put themselves out there and be proactive about it. Well, it’s the same when it comes to dating online. A woman can set up a profile and put a picture of herself on there and get hit after hit from desperate guys looking to meet a woman. A guy can put his picture and profile up and get nothing, nada, zilch.

Just like the offline world, you have to be proactive when it comes to getting hits to your profile. For most men, you are going to be lucky if you get one message a week from a potentially interested woman. Most women can get several per day. It doesn’t seem fair, does it?

Well, who cares about what’s fair, you want to get attention from women, right?

Here are 5 tips on how to attract women online and get more hits to your profile:

1) You need to make sure that you choose the right site for You.

Not every online dating site attracts the same crowd. Some of them tend to get more people looking for really serious relationships that can lead to marriage and some of them tend to attract people just looking for a fling or a hook up. You have to know what you want and see what each site has to offer. Check to see if there is a free trial period or something so that you can get a feel for what the crowd is like. This is important because to attract women to your profile, you have to know what they are looking for. More importantly to be satisfied, YOU need to know what you are looking for as well.

2) Choose your photos that you put up there wisely.

Like it or not, women are going to get an opinion of you just based on what kind of photos you have up on your profile. If you have a lot of photos of yourself partying like a frat boy and most of the women on the site seem to be looking for a long term, stable relationship… don’t expect to attract to much interest. Likewise, if you are on a site where most of the women seem to want something more casual, you might not want to toss up photos that make it look like you are too serious about life.

3) Take some time to really think about what image you want to project before you set up your description of yourself.

For the most part, guys are most interested in a woman’s photos and then all of the other stuff is secondary. And for the most part, it’s the other way around for a woman. She’s going to read carefully all of the things that you put up in the spot where you get to describe yourself and your likes/dislikes. Do you really want to tell her that your favorite movie is Showgirls and that your favorite hangout spot is the local strip club?

4) Just having a profile up does not mean that you will generate a lot of interest, so be active on these sites.

Look, these sites are not magic bullets. It’s not like you are going to put up your profile tonight and have 10 women hitting you up for dates this weekend. Women are not the ones who tend to make the first move and nothing really changes when you are online. You are going to have to be active on these sites and make the move. And you need to be a little more creative than just sending a message saying that she is hot.

5) Learn how to sell yourself.

Most people don’t want to look at dating as a way to sell yourself, but in a sense that is what you are doing. You are trying to make yourself look as fun and appealing and attractive as you can. Get confident before you set up your profile and really work on selling yourself without making it a hard sale. You can’t expect that a woman is just going to come across your online dating profile and just know that you are a great guy. You have to let her see that and the way to do this is to sell yourself in a way.

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