There is a lot of “traditional” love advice for men out there that basically reinforces the belief that in order for a guy to make a woman fall for him, he has to go through a long courtship process where he basically bends over backwards to try and make her feel that way. And many guys follow that traditional advice, not realizing that they are headed in the wrong direction. There’s a reason why it seems like nice guys always finish last in relationships and dating, and it’s because they do the wrong things to try and make a woman fall in love with them.
Just like you can count on the fact that the sun is going to rise in the morning, you can pretty much count on the fact that a woman is going to play a little hard to get with you, even when she likes you a LOT. For some reason, most men don’t quite grasp the idea that this can be a good thing, and the minute a woman plays hard to get…they give up.