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How to Get Women – Why You Can Never Really ‘Get’ Women

Wednesday, April 20th, 2011

Sometimes, a little lesson that we get taught when we are younger tends to help guide us in our lives later on. I can remember very fondly a girlfriend I had when I was about 18 who told me that I could never really ‘get’ her. This little phrase at the time seemed silly to me, but hey, what do you know when you are 18 years old, right? A few years later and I can reflect back on a little phrase like that and see the real wisdom in it. Are you lost as to what I mean?

I’ll explain.

When guys find themselves challenged in their personal dating lives, a real common expression is that they don’t really ‘get’ women and they want to learn how to do this. Of course, in this context, getting women has less to do with getting dates, and more to do with understanding *every* aspect of a woman’s mind. And therein lies the real riddle to this.

You can never totally ‘get’ a woman.

Guys that have been happily married for 30, 40 years still get surprised by their wives all of the time. They ask her a question, thinking that they know what the answer will be… and she gives them one that totally takes them by surprise. And this is the way it really is when it comes to male/female relationships. Try as you might, you will never totally grasp all aspects of a woman’s mind.

How does this help you in terms of dating and attracting women?

Tons, really. See, one of the things that most men end up getting mixed up about is, they aren’t supposed to totally be able to predict what a woman will do, what she will say or how she will think about things. So, you have to be able to ‘roll with the punches’ and deal with it when she throws you for a loop.

If you can’t do this, you will end up becoming all insecure and confused.

And when you are confused and insecure, your ability to attract women goes down the toilet, really fast. If you assume that there is some way to totally understand a woman inside and out, and that you should be able to predict her every move… think again. That is some of the beauty of learning how to attract women. To learn how to roll with the punches and deal with the little surprises and still be able to keep her attracted to you.

If you can do this, then in no time, you will be able to get as many dates as you want, get second and third dates with women you are really attracted to… and be able to remain confident in almost any situation.

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How to Get Women Interested in You – 4 Reasons Why You May Not Be Getting Attention From Women

Monday, March 7th, 2011

Sometimes, you just have to own up to the fact that you might be doing a few things wrong when it comes to meeting and attracting women. I mean, if you are not getting the kind of attention that you really desire from women, you have to be honest with yourself if you want things to change. It’s easy to take on the mentality that the whole dating thing is stacked up against you or that all women want is to end up with the jerks, but that is not going to make much of a difference in your life. It’s not going to get you any dates this weekend.

Here are four common reasons why you might not be getting the kind of female attention you desire:

1. You are not coming across as having strong alpha male traits.

We’ve all heard that women are definitely more likely to go for the kind of guy who comes across like an alpha male, so if you are not getting the kind of female attention, you want, then you might need to work on giving off that kind of a vibe. You don’t have to come off like a jerk to be seen as an alpha male to a woman, but you do need to show her that you are confident and can be a leader when need be.

2. You are not flirting with women the way they respond to.

A lot of the time, guys pick up on how to flirt with a woman from what they see and it’s not always the best or most effective way to flirt. Women almost always pay attention to a guy who knows how to flirt in a way that is exciting and fun to her. Guys that just try and throw a woman a bunch of compliments, don’t get quite the amount of female attention that the ones who know how to be fun and exciting do.

3. You are not showing women that you have a unique personality.

It’s hard to get women to notice you when you come across like almost every other guy that they meet. I mean, if she is meeting several guys that are pretty much just like you, what is going to get her to really notice you? You need to be able to show a woman that you have a unique personality so that there is a reason why you stand out to her.

4. You have a hard time making conversation with women.

This is really common and it can easily be overcome. Many times, a guy will get used to talking to his buddies, so when he comes across a woman he really wants to impress, he doesn’t quite know what to say. Either he will try too hard to say things to impress her, or her will just go on and on about topics that end up boring her to tears. Or, even worse, he won’t say much at all and there is a lot of dead silence. You need to be able to talk to women if you want to get noticed in a GOOD way.

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How to Get Women to Notice You – 3 Secrets of Serial Daters

Tuesday, December 21st, 2010

Have you ever known a guy who was a serial dater? Meaning, it always seemed like he had a woman to date, no matter the time or the place? There are lots of guys like that out there, but they are still by far in the minority of men. Most guys struggle to get dates, and it almost doesn’t seem fair that some guys, guys that look just like you- have no problems at all getting dates with women. How would you like to know what their secrets are?

Now, you may not want to become a serial dater, you may not be interested in dating lots of women. Still, since most guys struggle to get dates and even just getting attention from women, it’s probably not a bad idea to at least get a handle on what makes it so easy for them.

Here are 3 secrets of serial daters that will get women to start paying attention to YOU:

1. They know that it’s all in the vibe that you project.

Two guys can walk into a club looking basically the same, wearing the same clothes, and if they hold themselves differently, they are going to get different amounts of attention. The guy that projects the vibe that he is confident, fun to be around, and knows how to have a good time is almost always going to pull more female eyes his way than the guy that looks a little out of place, a little insecure. Project the right vibe and women pay attention.

2. They know that it’s not the clothes that make the man, it’s the way that you wear the clothes.

It’s not nearly as important what kind of clothes you are wearing, it’s whether or not you are wearing them with style. There’s a big difference in just putting on an outfit and putting on a style. Style has pizzaz, it has flavor, it attracts eyes wherever it goes. That’s what you need to do if you want to get women to pay attention to you.

3. They know that when you break it down, it’s a numbers game.

Like I said, you may not be interested in becoming a player, a serial dater, or anything like that. Still, you have to know that it’s a numbers game. When you know that it’s a numbers game, you don’t get hung up on just one woman. And when women can sense that you have that kind of carefree attitude, they love it.

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Seduction Tips for Men – How to Get Women In Bed

Monday, December 20th, 2010

One of the most prevalent thoughts that all single guys have is, how do you get women in bed? Guys have been trying to figure out the answer to this riddle for a long time, and unfortunately, most of the ‘answers’ they come up with end up being dead wrong. If you want to know how to get women in bed, then you need to understand what it is that makes a woman feel that kind of sexual attraction that she will end up feeling like she cannot resist you.

Here are a few seduction tips for men on how to get a woman into your bed:

1. The last thing that she should assume is that you are just trying to sleep with her.

Properly seducing a woman entails that you get her in the mood first before you make any kind of a move on her. This is something that a lot of guys end up getting wrong. They make it way too obvious to the woman that what they want to do is get her in bed, and because of this, it does not happen for them. If you make it too apparent that you want to sleep with a woman, you are more than likely going to get the cold shoulder at some point in time.

2. You need to learn how to use your eyes to seduce a woman.

Using your eyes can create a powerful animal like instinct that she cannot resist, the thing is, you cannot make her feel uncomfortable by staring at her in that creepy way that some guys do. Practice using your eyes to create attraction with a woman, because this can end up being one of the most powerful techniques that you can have.

3. Don’t get hung up on thinking about it too much.

Way too often guys will get caught up thinking about things just way too much, and it ends up preventing them from getting the kind of response that they need from a woman. If you are going to end up seducing a woman properly, then you need to clear your mind in a way, so that you aren’t thinking too much about every move you make and every word that you say. It might sound a little funny, but thinking too much about what you want to happen, can actually prevent it from actually happening.

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How to Get Women to Talk to You – 3 Tips to Get Her Talking

Saturday, November 27th, 2010

One of the worst experiences any guy can have is to approach a woman and try to get her talking and get absolutely nothing at all. Can you hear the crickets chirping? Anytime that you approach a woman, it’s kind of on you to get the conversation started and if you don’t do your job, lots of times you will end up being met with virtual silence.

This is one of the reasons why some guys will shy away from the thought of even approaching a woman, because they experience trying to start a conversation with a woman and getting nothing at all and that is something that they do not want to experience ever again. That does not have to happen to you. You can learn how to get women to talk to you.

Here are 3 tips to get her talking:

1. Your opener can make you or break you in this situation.

A woman that you have just approached does not have much to go on when you first walk up to her. So, that opener that you use to start a conversation, that is going to play a big role in whether or not she starts talking to you. Most of the time, if it seems like you are strolling over to her just for a pick up and that is exactly the kind of line that you drop on her… expect to hear those crickets chirping. Instead, use something relative to the situation. Not only does that “smell” less like a classic pick up move, but she would have to be rude not to talk back to you in some way.

2. Your appearance is going to play a big role in whether or not she feels comfortable talking to you.

Like it or not, people DO judge a book by its cover, especially when they don’t have much else to go on. Who cares if it is politically correct, it’s just the way that it is. If you approach a woman with a hard look on your face, kind of trying to pull off the tough guy look, and that kind of a guy “scares” her, do you really think that she is going to talk to you? Probably not and even if she does, it’s just going to be enough for her to think of an excuse to get away from you. Soften up your appearance a little, look like a guy who is approachable and friendly, and you will have a much easier time getting women to talk to you.

3. Stay away from controversial subjects and don’t get drawn into a debate.

This is not a good approach, especially if you really don’t know her at all and you are just walking up to her in a bar or a club or any other public place. Controversy and debates can stimulate sexual tension in the right context, but the first time that you meet a woman, or in the wrong venue and it will have a bad effect on what you are trying to accomplish. You need to keep the conversation light and fun, hey, even humorous more than anything else. This is especially true when you have just made a cold approach on a woman.

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How to Get Women – 4 Tips to Get Women to Want YOU!

Wednesday, March 3rd, 2010

-Chris Tyler

Knowing how to get women to want you is something that almost EVERY guy wants to know, but very few men ever really pick up the right information when it comes to attracting beautiful women. If you want to know how to get women, then you have to know what it is that women are attracted to. If you don’t, it’s kind of like being on a wild chase and you will never really understand what it takes to get women to want you.

Here are 4 tips on how to get women to want you that you MUST know:

1) You have to clean up your appearance and look like you are in charge of your life.

While you don’t have to go out and suddenly become the kind of guy that worries about his looks more than a woman does, you certainly do have to keep your appearance clean and well groomed. We live in a world where the first impression is almost always based on appearances, so you don’t want to make the WRONG impression on a woman by looking like a bum.

2) You have to be able to sweep her off her feet by knowing how to flirt with her.

Most guys seem to think that they have a way with the ladies and they already know how to flirt with a woman the right way. Well, if that were so true, then most guys would not be out with their boys on the weekend, they would be out with a hot woman instead. If you want to know how to get women, then you have to know how to flirt with a woman and sweep her off her feet.

3) She has to see YOU as an alpha male.

If you don’t give a woman the impression that you are a confident and secure alpha male, then she is not likely to fall hard and fast for you. Being the alpha male does not mean that you have to go around and act like a cocky jerk. Far from it. Being the alpha male means that you are able to show her your confidence and you are not the kind of guy that is going to get nervous and jittery in front of her.

4) You MUST be able to make her want you for more than just a friend.

Guys that understand how to get women, know that trying to be her best friend is not going to get you anywhere with her, other than being that guy that she calls on when she needs a favor. Or maybe when she wants to whine about how some other guy is treating her. To get more women to want you, you have to STOP trying to win her approval and make HER want to win YOUR approval instead.

Forget about what you have heard attracts women.

You have to discover how to get women to want YOU the RIGHT way!

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