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How to Get a Girlfriend – Demonstrating Higher Value to Get a Girlfriend

Friday, June 10th, 2011

One of the core concepts behind any effective dating advice is for a guy to start demonstrating higher value in order to attract women. Now, this concept does take on many forms, as some guys take it to mean that they need to always present themselves as being of higher value than the woman that they want to attract. However, there is another route that you can take with this, which is very simple and very effective. And that is to instead demonstrate higher value than most of the men that she comes across.

See, a lot of men make the mistake of trying too hard to be perceived as being higher value than a woman and when they do this, they come across more like an arrogant jerk than they do a desirable male. It’s actually quite easy to end up that way, because if you are constantly trying to show that you are out of her league, eventually you are going to cross over into being arrogant.

Here’s why it is much better, more effective and more natural to instead focus on being of higher value than other men that she meets:

For a little frame of reference, keep in mind that I am mostly talking about really good looking women, the kind that have no trouble at all getting male attention. Okay, so if you are a good looking woman, and most of the men that you meet end up trying hard to impress you, are quick to do you favors and such, what are you probably going to be thinking?

Well, you probably would be thinking that it’s very nice to get that kind of treatment, but at the same time, you would also be thinking something along the lines of, why is he doing this? It just does not seem natural.

On the other hand, if you were to approach a good looking woman and show her that you are above that kind of behavior, then you will get a much different reaction. You don’t have to worry about trying to make yourself seem out of her league, because you are already showing her that you are not going to just suck up to her to get her attention or to get her approval.

The quickest way to get a girlfriend is to take on the attitude that you are of a higher value than the average guy.

This automatically puts you in another light and ‘forces’ her to take notice of you. Simply because you are not doing what all of the other men she encounters do. You don’t have to be a jerk to her to give her that impression. You don’t have to worry about using any kind of routines. You don’t have to worry all of the time if you are holding yourself right. Because you will be. And that will make you seem more attractive and appealing and get you more attention from women, which of course will lead to way more opportunities to get a girlfriend.

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How to Get a Girlfriend – 3 Tips on Attracting a Woman and Keeping Her

Sunday, December 5th, 2010

Wanting to know how to get a girlfriend can drive a guy crazy. Maybe you have tried all of the traditional advice on how to get a girlfriend and it just doesn’t seem to pan out for you. That’s probably because that kind of advice is based more on what sounds good than it is on what actually works out in the real world. Most of that kind of advice is based on trying to play up to the image of being a Prince Charming in a woman’s eyes and that really is not the most realistic approach.

Here are 3 tips on how to get a girlfriend that will help you attract a woman and keep her:

1. Never make a woman out to be your entire world when you first meet her.

As much as you might like her and think that she is wonderful, you can’t immediately make her out to be your entire world. That’s just not really natural. I mean, if you are the kind of guy that has a great life and has selection when it comes to meeting and dating women, would you fall in love after the first five minutes? Probably not. And that is the attitude that you need to convey, that you do have a life and that you do have selection when it comes to meeting and dating women. Of course, you don’t just want to fake it, so make that become a priority in your life and make it real to have that attitude.

2. Don’t be the kind of guy who gets jealous at the first signs of another guy checking her out.

Can you say INSECURE? Well, that is exactly what will be ringing through her ears if she picks up on jealousy coming from you, especially if it is in one of those situations where it does not really mean anything at all. For example, let’s say that you are talking to a woman and hitting it off just great. Then, another guy kind of gets close and says something to her as a way to flirt with her. If you get jealous and insecure in that moment, you are going to lose points. Handle it in a cool and confident way, and she will be impressed with you.

3. Go out and have fun looking for a girlfriend.

The whole experience of meeting and dating women is supposed to be fun, right? Well, when most guys are stressed out and really frustrated with the whole idea of getting a girlfriend, it stops being fun. And guess what? It starts getting harder and harder for them. You have to let go of the idea that it is so important, and relax and concentrate on having fun while looking for a girlfriend.

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Tips on How to Get a Girlfriend – 3 Quick Tips to Make It Happen NOW

Saturday, November 27th, 2010

This time of the year can feel a bit lonely if you don’t have someone in your life that you can spend quality time with. It’s one of those time where if you don’t have a girlfriend, you definitely start to feel the need to get one. Yet, it usually is not as easy as just wanting a girlfriend, after all if it happened like that, you wouldn’t be reading this article, would you? Funny thing is, you can make it happen almost that easy when you know what you are doing.

See, women feel the same urge to have someone in their life this time of year as well. So, it’s actually a pretty good time to be looking to find a girlfriend. As long as you are willing to put in a little “work” in your search for a woman that you want to date and be with, then getting a girlfriend can actually be kind of easy when you think about it.

Here are 3 quick tips on how to get a girlfriend that will help you make it happen right now:

1. Get out of the house and mix and mingle.

This is the simplest and yet most effective thing that you can do if you want to meet women. Just getting yourself away from the house, away from the television will make it a lot more probable that you will end up meeting the right woman and start something up with her. Way too often do guys complain about not having a woman in their life, and yet, they are not actively out there mixing and mingling and meeting women.

2. Show off your sense of humor.

You might be thinking that you really don’t have a sense of humor if you are not one of those guys that is always telling jokes, but we all have a little funny side to us and really, that is all that you need to show a woman. Just let her see that you know how to have fun and that you are not serious all of the time and chances are, she is going to want to spend some time with you.

3. Make her feel intense sexual attraction by being “selective.”

Most guys are anything but selective when they want to get a girlfriend, and that really ends up biting them in the end. You want to show a woman that you are selective and that she will have to work to win you over, because you need to be able to make her feel massive sexual attraction and that is not going to happen if she knows that she can have you without having to do anything at all.

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How to Get a Girlfriend – Attracting Women Anywhere You Go

Monday, September 13th, 2010

One of the things that I see happening amongst guys that are kind of at their wit’s end about figuring out how to get a girlfriend is, they end up thinking that there is a lack or a scarcity of attractive women that are out there. And I have to say, that my experience has been the complete opposite. And compared to most guys, I have higher standards.

So, what makes the difference?

In the self improvement world, there is a lot of talk about having an attitude of abundance, and having an attitude of scarcity. Those that believe the world to be abundant, seem to have an easier time attracting all of the things that they want in life. And those that seem to think everything is scarce seem to have a hard time.

How does this relate to getting a girlfriend?

Well, when you think that there are not enough women out there, you are going to start to get a little desperate. I mean, a lot of guys have told me, that there just are not a lot of attractive women out there. Like I said, my experience has been the exact opposite of this. And if you believe that there are not many attractive, available women out there, the minute you come into contact with one, you are going to feel like you have to hold on to her.

What happens when you try and hold on to a woman too tightly?

She usually leaves. If you are in a relationship and you hold on too tightly– you are the jealous and possessive type. If you are in a club and you are trying to hold too tightly onto a woman’s attention– you seem desperate and a little too needy for her. And she will usually walk away and hope to find another guy.

You have to get rid of the scarcity mindset that makes you believe that there are not enough women out there.

Do yourself a favor sometime, and just really take a look around. Take a trip to a crowded shopping mall, to a museum filled with people, anywhere that a lot of people are congregating. Look around, and just become AWARE of how many attractive women there are. I have to tell you, sometimes it seems like there are just too many, and not enough time to date them all!

Find new places to meet women.

I got up with a friend of mine not too long ago, and we have kind of gone our separate ways over the years. Well, like most guys, he seemed to be having a tough time meeting women. So, I invited him to go out on a Friday night, and hit the clubs that I usually frequent. This guy’s jaw practically dropped to the floor when he saw how many hot women were in there.

His problem was not that there are not enough attractive women, he was just looking in ALL the wrong places!

Trust me, there are plenty of good looking women out there. If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, then you need to recognize this and learn techniques that are proven to work to attract beautiful women.

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How to Get a Girlfriend Fast – 3 Tips That Will Help You Attract Your Fantasy Female

Saturday, August 28th, 2010

If you are like most guys, then you probably want to know how to attract a girlfriend. But, you don’t want to attract some plain Jane type. You want to attract your fantasy woman, one who is sexy and fun to be around. One that will make your head spin and your friend’s jaws drop to the floor when they see who you gave on your arm. Now, you might automatically start to think that this is just wishful thinking, but it does not have to be.

When a guy is wanting to attract a girlfriend, he more than likely is feeling like he NEEDS to have a little female attention and affection in his life. You don’t want to have your weekends always filled with warm beer and cold pizza, and a stack of DVD’s when you could be out enjoying the night life with a beautiful woman.

You also probably want to get a girlfriend to make yourself FEEL BETTER. This is a common trap that most guys fall into. They think that they will be able to attract a woman and that is what will make their life complete.

Problem is, a woman that is a fantasy kind of girl KNOWS that she can attract just about any guy that she wants to, and if you come across as though you need a woman to make yourself feel better… she is going to get a little turned off by you.

So, here are a 3 tips that will help you to get a girlfriend and make sure that you end up with a fantasy girl:

1. Build a social network that you can tap into.

Nowadays, most people hear the word social network and they think of websites, but you need to have the real social network of people that you can call and hang out with. Think about it, when a woman is really attractive, she has a higher social value than most other women. People (especially men), want to have her around. So, she can pretty much choose the guys that she dates and so, she is going to choose a guy that also has some social value. Plus, when you have a social network that you can tap into, you can end up meeting a lot of women that way as well.

2. Make your life ENJOYABLE.

The more enjoyable that your life is, the more attractive it and you will be to other people, including beautiful women. She will want to be a part of your life. Most “bachelors” have a really boring life. They go to work, then hit the couch, or maybe hang out with some guys for a while. They don’t have a life that makes a woman want to be a part of it. The more enjoyable YOUR life is, the more women will become interested in YOU.

3. Be a TEASE to women.

Guys that are already attractive to women and know it, do not act desperate or needy for female attention. So, they have no problems teasing a woman, and you know what? Women love that stuff. For real. the more you can tease a woman playfully, the more you set yourself apart from all the other men that she comes across, and this will help you to appear a lot more attractive to a woman.

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How to Get a Girlfriend – Tips to Make a Woman Want to Know What It’s Like to Date YOU

Saturday, August 7th, 2010

Every single, straight guy out there wants to be able to have a girlfriend. And the sad truth is, that most guys end up either hopelessly single, or they fall for the first woman that they can find. They don’t feel like they deserve the possibility of attracting the kind of woman that they REALLY desire. They don’t feel like they have the know how to make a woman want to know what it is like to date them.

Well, you can be the exception to the rule and be one of those guys that gets clued in to what will make a woman want to date you, even when she seems to be WAY out of your league. If you think that it is impossible to do this, then you NEED to keep READING this article.

Here are some tips on how to get a girlfriend that will help you get the women that you DREAM about dating:

1. Work on developing a SOLID inner game.

This is still the most overlooked aspect of dating, and until you really handle your inner game, your outer game is always going to fall short of your expectations. Being able to develop a solid inner confidence and see yourself as the kind of guy that women want to date is a necessary trait that you must have. You have to BELIEVE that women want you, and then you will start to actually see your reality show evidence of this. It might sound a little bit out there, but you will believe it when you start to see how women respond to you.

2. Find out what women really respond to.

There is a big difference between what sounds good and what really is. See, it sounds good to say that women want a sensitive guy that will handle their every need, but when you look at what a woman responds to, you start to see a much different picture. The classic and traditional dating advice is sweet sounding fluff, but in the dating world, you need to work with techniques that women actually respond to.

3. Get out and APPROACH women whenever and wherever you can.

You need to get excited about the idea of being able to attract a girlfriend. Seriously, you need to be able to go out and find out where the women are and start to approach them. Getting comfortable with making the approach does take some time and experience, and you need to be able to get it out of the way as soon as you possibly can. Don’t be one of those guys that sits at home 24/7, and then complains about how hard it is to get a girlfriend. Be a DOER and make it HAPPEN!

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How to Get a Girlfriend – 7 Tips to Make Yourself MORE Attractive to Women

Friday, April 30th, 2010

Struggling to get a girlfriend can be devastating to a man. When you feel that you are at the end of your rope trying to figure out different ways to get a girlfriend, you can easily make yourself go batty. Some guys will rely on tricks to make a woman fall for them, and hope that the women they meet will fall for them. Other men just seem to be a natural with women and have no problems at all figuring out how to get a girlfriend. Well, if it is not apparent already, then I think you can see that being one of those men that can naturally attract women is definitely the way to go.

Here are 7 tips that you can use to make yourself more attractive to women and make it easier to figure out how to get a girlfriend:

1. Work on your inner game.

Your inner game is more important than any clever line that you could ever come across. If you want to know how to naturally attract women, and you see that some men do seem to have this ability, you will also find that they all have their inner game in check. They are confident, content, and in control of their lives. They are not the kind of guy that complains about how hard it is to attract women. Instead, they just seem to be able to go through life with their head up high and women will naturally respond top these traits and qualities.

2. Work on your outer game.

Appearances are definitely not everything, but they are something. You cannot expect to get a girlfriend easily walking around looking like you just rolled out of bed and have yet to take a shower. Keep yourself clean, well groomed, and smelling good and you should be able to easily attract attention from women. Some guys go a little bit overboard and are more worried about how they look than most women are, and you really do not want to come across this way, either.

3. Learn how to approach women.

Guys that are able to get a girlfriend easily have no problem at all approaching women. They are not talking themselves out of approaching a woman inside their own head, they just go about it. If you have a hard time approaching women, then you want to work on clearing out your mind and stop thinking about all of the possible things that could go wrong when you make your approach. Be casual and let your demeanor shine through and show that you are not going to just drop a line on her or sweat her every move and you should be fine.

4. Learn how to start a conversation with a woman.

Starting the conversation with a woman can be hard to do at first, but the more times that you find yourself approaching women, the easier and more natural you will feel. Talking to women is a little different than shooting the breeze with your fellows, as you want to make her start to feel attraction for you. You want to make a woman feel like she just cannot get enough conversation with you, so that she either wants to keep the night going, or at least hands you her phone number.

5. Flirt with her.

If you are not used to flirting with women, then this is another area that you NEED to work on. Some guys will find that it is hard to flirt with a woman, especially if they do not have a whole lot of experience with women, but this is one of those things that you can build on with some experience. The whole point in flirting with a woman is to make her feel chemistry, comfortable with you, and waiting for MORE of you. Keep it fun and don’t put any pressure on yourself or on her, if you want to make flirting with a woman EASY.

6. Use physical contact to build attraction with a woman.

Shy guys will usually have the hardest time doing this, but so will guys that seem to come on too strong with a woman. When you use physical contact as a way to flirt with a woman, then you can build attraction with her VERY easily. The closer that you can get to a woman, the more intimate things will become, naturally. Instead of looking like you are deliberately trying to make a move on her, it will seem like it is just happening, which is a GOOD thing. Just do not try and be too forward with a woman that you have just met. You can easily turn a woman off by trying to come on too strong with using physical contact to build attraction with her.

7. Go for the close.

Depending on how things are flowing, you can either get a woman to give you her phone number, OR, you can get her to want to get a little more private with you. Do not be afraid to go for the close and at least get her phone number or a date in the future, as missing out on the right timing can have an adverse effect on whether or not a woman will think of you as just a nice guy or a guy that she wants to date. You can figure out how to get a girlfriend pretty easily, but if you do not go for the close, you are not going to get what you want.

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