How to Be An Alpha Male
A lot of guys wonder, what does it really mean to be an alpha male? And depending on who you ask, you are going to end up getting a LOT of different answers to this. Some guys think it is all about being dominant, being able to push others around, and to kind of be a jerk to be honest. Other men just aren’t quite sure of what an alpha male really is. An alpha male, in my opinion is not a dominant guy in the sense that he pushes people around, but instead he learns how to be a leader of men, and of women as well.
We all have our own styles, so there really isn’t a cookie cutter, follow these exact tips and you will be an alpha male definition. However, there is a huge bonus to being the kind of alpha male who relies more on his leadership skills and his confidence than there is in trying to be dominant.
So, let’s talk about leading. In this case, we are going to talk about what it means to lead a woman. And what we want to do is to lead a woman into seeing YOU as being her DREAM guy, the kind of guy she thinks about, can’t resist, and wants to date. So, how do you go about positioning yourself as her dream guy?
LEAD Her To Tell You What She DESIRES…
You can sit there and try to guess what she wants in a guy, you can try all the mind tricks that you want to try and get a peak into what she really desires, or you can get her to tell you herself. How do you do this?
Ask.
Of course you can’t just come right out and say what is your dream guy like? If you do that, all you are going to get are the made up answers that sound good, but are not necessarily what she is attracted to.
What you have to do is to get her to reveal her desires and passions in life, and from there you can kind of put together what she really responds to in a guy. For example, if she is an obviously shy woman, but she talks about liking exciting things, then you can kind of figure out that her dream guy would be someone that evokes excitement.
Once you can get her to reveal the little things about herself that reveal what kind of guy she really is attracted to, and what kind of guy she really will respond to, you know what features about yourself to highlight. You don’t have to go around making things up, you can be genuine, you just have to position yourself as matching up to what she really desires.
POSITION Yourself to Be Off-Limits to Her…
Once you start to kind of imply that you are the kind of guy she really desires to be with, then you need to put yourself in the position of being off limits to her. Everyone enjoys the thrill of the chase when it comes to dating, and women are no exception to this. One of the biggest mistakes that guys make is, they qualify themselves to the woman and they let her know right away that she can have them.
Goodbye chase and goodbye thrills.
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