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How to Attract Women – Is Texting a Good Way to Attract Women?

Thursday, April 21st, 2011

There’s no doubt about it, texting has becoming an everyday part of most people’s lives now. Even my 60 year old mom knows how to send text messages. Because it has become such an integral part of our lives, especially amongst the under 30 crowd, a lot of guys wonder, is texting a good way to attract women. And there are a lot of guys who swear that this is one of the best ways to attract a woman. So, is it?

Hate to say it, but I disagree with the idea that you can use texting to attract a woman. You can easily use it to catch up and touch base with a woman, you can use it to add a little humor to her day with a funny comment, and you can even brighten up her day by sending her a little uplifting text message every now and again.

But does it really ATTRACT women?

Well, if it attracted women, then that would kind of imply that all you needed to do was get a girl’s cell phone number and start sending her messages. Say that out loud with me now, getting her number and just sending away text messages. Do you really think that this is a good way to gain rapport, build up sexual tension, or attraction?

If it were, then there’s no reason why you couldn’t just blast away messages on any social website and attract women. I mean, it would be the same thing pretty much. And you have to have her phone number to send her a text, so why not just hit the send button and call her up and get REAL interaction with her?

Look, texting is a great little tool to stay in communication with someone, but you have to remember what it really is. Words on a tiny little screen. And half the time, it’s incomplete words. Words on a screen can be interpreted ANY way the person receiving them wants to. So, if it is going to have any effect on attracting her, she’s already got to be feeling SOME attraction for you.

Obviously, there is an exception to this rule. A really lonely woman might just be happy to get a text from a guy, much like she would probably be happy to get a Tweet or a Poke, but if you want to go for quality women… the text is mostly good to keep in touch and for quick little things like… Be there at 8.

Consider this: If a woman receives a text message from a guy she barely knows and it says something like… I miss u, what’s her reaction going to be? A little weirded out, probably.

Now, say she gets the SAME message from a guy she’s been seeing for the last few weeks and she is really attracted to? Same words, completely different context and reaction from her.

So, is texting a good way to attract women?

Not really. It is a good way to keep in touch and send a random one liner here and there to make her laugh, keep her thinking about you, or build UP any attraction that she is ALREADY feeling for you.

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How to Attract Women Without Even Trying- Yes, It’s POSSIBLE

Wednesday, April 6th, 2011

Doesn’t it sound like kind of a dream world? Just imagine that you had the ability to attract women without even trying. You would be able to become ruler of your own destiny, the kind of guy who lives life to the fullest. You wouldn’t be sitting around, worried about your love life or whether or not you were going to be able to get a girlfriend. You would know that it WOULD happen, that it was not even something that you had to think about.

I know, it probably DOES seem like just a dream, a fantasy world that you cannot even contemplate being YOUR REALITY. However, you may want to open up your mind to the possibility that it can be that way, and that you don’t have to be like all of the other single guys out there. While they sit around and think about their lack of success with women and why it turns out that way… you can be hitting the town, having fun with women, and just living it up the way that you were meant to.

Yes, it IS possible.

No, most guys will never know that this is the way that they COULD live. The reason is, they will never search for this possibility because they don’t think it exists. It’s funny when you think about it just how much guys really do stress out over girls. You would think that men would be able to come to the conclusion that all of the traditional ways of attracting women are not all that efficient, but most of them will never break free from that mold of thinking.

If YOU are going to attract women without even trying, that is the first step that you need to take.

Look, it’s really not going to happen at all if you continue to think that the traditional advice that you have received on dating and attracting women is the holy grail of what really works. Some holy grail. Most guys end up getting the shaft from the women that they desire, and if they are LUCKY, they end up with a consolation prize… a woman that they can deal with, but they don’t really desire with any passion at all.

To attract women without even trying, you need to adopt a new MINDSET.

Having the mindset that you need to court a woman like you were in a real life Shakespearean play is going to end up sending you to the poor house with a broken heart quickly. You are going to end up buying her things to try and ‘prove’ your love or adoration for her, and most of the time… you will end up being just a really nice guy. You are not going to end up in her bedroom or with her as your girlfriend.

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How to Attract Women Online- 5 Tips to Get More Hits to Your Profile

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

So, you want to know how to attract women online, huh? When it comes to dating online, there are a lot of similarities to the offline world. In the offline world, all a decent looking woman has to do is step into a bar and she can be assured that she will get a decent amount of attention. Guys get none unless they are willing to really put themselves out there and be proactive about it. Well, it’s the same when it comes to dating online. A woman can set up a profile and put a picture of herself on there and get hit after hit from desperate guys looking to meet a woman. A guy can put his picture and profile up and get nothing, nada, zilch.

Just like the offline world, you have to be proactive when it comes to getting hits to your profile. For most men, you are going to be lucky if you get one message a week from a potentially interested woman. Most women can get several per day. It doesn’t seem fair, does it?

Well, who cares about what’s fair, you want to get attention from women, right?

Here are 5 tips on how to attract women online and get more hits to your profile:

1) You need to make sure that you choose the right site for You.

Not every online dating site attracts the same crowd. Some of them tend to get more people looking for really serious relationships that can lead to marriage and some of them tend to attract people just looking for a fling or a hook up. You have to know what you want and see what each site has to offer. Check to see if there is a free trial period or something so that you can get a feel for what the crowd is like. This is important because to attract women to your profile, you have to know what they are looking for. More importantly to be satisfied, YOU need to know what you are looking for as well.

2) Choose your photos that you put up there wisely.

Like it or not, women are going to get an opinion of you just based on what kind of photos you have up on your profile. If you have a lot of photos of yourself partying like a frat boy and most of the women on the site seem to be looking for a long term, stable relationship… don’t expect to attract to much interest. Likewise, if you are on a site where most of the women seem to want something more casual, you might not want to toss up photos that make it look like you are too serious about life.

3) Take some time to really think about what image you want to project before you set up your description of yourself.

For the most part, guys are most interested in a woman’s photos and then all of the other stuff is secondary. And for the most part, it’s the other way around for a woman. She’s going to read carefully all of the things that you put up in the spot where you get to describe yourself and your likes/dislikes. Do you really want to tell her that your favorite movie is Showgirls and that your favorite hangout spot is the local strip club?

4) Just having a profile up does not mean that you will generate a lot of interest, so be active on these sites.

Look, these sites are not magic bullets. It’s not like you are going to put up your profile tonight and have 10 women hitting you up for dates this weekend. Women are not the ones who tend to make the first move and nothing really changes when you are online. You are going to have to be active on these sites and make the move. And you need to be a little more creative than just sending a message saying that she is hot.

5) Learn how to sell yourself.

Most people don’t want to look at dating as a way to sell yourself, but in a sense that is what you are doing. You are trying to make yourself look as fun and appealing and attractive as you can. Get confident before you set up your profile and really work on selling yourself without making it a hard sale. You can’t expect that a woman is just going to come across your online dating profile and just know that you are a great guy. You have to let her see that and the way to do this is to sell yourself in a way.

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Tips for Dating After a Divorce- How to Get Women to Want to Date You

Monday, March 7th, 2011

After getting a divorce, you might start to assume that most women are going to get turned off knowing that you are coming out a marriage that did not work out. You might have had your confidence shaken a little by the whole situation and now, you are self conscious about trying to meet and attract women. It does not have to stay that way. As long as you are open and willing to change the way that you look at things, dating after a divorce can actually be kind of fun for you.

Now, I am sure that there is a part of you that is disappointed in the way that things turned out in your marriage. That’s to be expected. After all, you cannot help it if you thought things were going to turn out well and now you are a little more skeptical about relationships. That can actually be kind of a good thing, anyway.

Here are some tips for dating after a divorce that will help you get women who want to date you:

1. Don’t feel as though you need to be ashamed of or that you need to try and hide the fact that you have been divorced.

They say that 50 % of all marriages are going to end in a divorce, so when you get out there and start meeting women, there is a really good chance that you are going to meet a woman who has been divorced herself. Or, she will at least know someone who has been divorced. What you need to know is that there is not as much of a social stigma as there once was and there really is no need to hide the fact that you have been divorced.

2. Don’t try to rush into a new long term relationship.

This is one of the biggest mistakes that both men and women make after a marriage does not work out. They go out and meet someone they kind of click with and next thing you know it, they are back in a long term relationship. You don’t want to rush into things, take your time, get some experience under your belt, and really discover whom you want to be with and what you really want in a relationship.

3. Learn how to flirt with women wherever you go.

It’s amazing how many opportunities to meet and date women will come up when you just get used to being naturally playful and flirty with women you meet on a daily basis. If right now it feels like it’s hard to meet women, try learning how to flirt and then using those techniques that you learn to flirt with the women you come into contact with daily. You’d be amazed at how many women do not hang out in clubs and bars and by flirting with women when you are out and about, you can meet a whole new set of women you wouldn’t if all you did was look in bars and nightclubs.

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Dating Tips for Men Over 40- How to Attract Women No Matter What Your Age Is

Monday, March 7th, 2011

Some guys seem to limit themselves when it comes to dating when they get past the age of 40. They assume that they have reached a point in life where they don’t have the luxury of being able to select and choose the women they date. Maybe they even get a little hopeless and decide to stick with the first woman who comes along. The thing of it is, it does not have to be that way for You.

Just because you have reached a certain age, you don’t have to give up on wanting to either find the right woman for you, OR, to just have a little fun playing the field. Most of the limitations are just in your own mind anyway, and you don’t have to allow them to keep you from attracting the kind of women you really desire to be with.

Here are some dating tips for men over age 40 to help you attract women no matter what your age is:

1. If you are going to be serious about having no limits as to whom you can attract, get things in order as quickly as possible.

This is something that should be done at any age, but especially when you get past the age of 40. You want to have real goals and dreams that a woman can attach herself to and feel attracted to you for being someone who is doing things with his life. Get in shape if that is something that you need to do. Go and start getting some fun hobbies that make your life a little more exciting. Whatever can make your life better and yourself a little more attractive to boot, go ahead and do it.

2. No matter what age you are, as a man you need to be able to approach women you don’t know.

The only way to really get around this is to have a never ending supply of blind dates that your friends set you up with, and for most people that is not going to happen. So, you need to be able to confidently approach a woman and know what the right things to say to open a conversation with her and then guide that conversation to a point where it can lead to something more.

3. Set your sights on only the women you really want to date.

This is something that you really need to do. You need to sit down and really think about what kind of women you want to attract into your life. Do you want to just have a good time or do you want to settle into a long term relationship? Knowing what you want will help make it easier for you to actually go out and get it. And women love to be around a man who knows what he wants and does something about it.

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How to Attract Women – 3 Keys to Attracting Women Most Guys Miss Out On

Saturday, December 11th, 2010

When you have enough experience with women, and you have enough situations where you have been able to attract a woman without having to second guess yourself, you will realize that most guys kind of miss the boat. They fail to do some of the simplest, and yet most effective things to attract a woman and make her want them, and that’s why they remain challenged in the dating area of their life.

If you currently feel a little challenged in that area of your life, it’s okay. It’s not like you can never pick up the skills and the experience, because you can. And as long as you are willing to keep an open mind and “forget” the things that you have been taught to woo a woman, you should be fine.

Here are 3 keys to attracting women that most guys miss out on:

1. Women are attracted to guys that don’t seem to care so much about being liked.

This is one of those big keys to attracting women. Guys who have no problem with getting women, have an attitude and an aura about them like they really don’t care whether or not they are liked. That does not mean that they are not liked, because they are, it means that it won’t rock their world in a bad way of they find out that a woman does not like them.

2. It’s not about having the coolest things.

This is a mindset issue that a lot of guys have and they come up with this kind of thinking usually to rationalize why they are not getting too many women. They come up with the idea that women only want guys with the sports car, the designer clothes, and any other material things. While there are women out there that are definitely all about the material things, most of them will not make or break you based on that. You don’t have to worry about having the coolest things to attract women.

3. She will drown you out in her mind if you don’t know how to talk to her.

If you do not know how to talk to a woman, then you are not going to get very far unless you look like a movie star or a male model. Talking to a woman can make or break you, especially if you end up boring her, or just talking about things that have no “hook.” You need to have some experience in talking to a woman if you want to really become successful with women.

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How to Attract Women to You – 3 Ways to Make Women Feel Drawn to You

Saturday, November 27th, 2010

One of the hardest skills to develop is to be the kind of guy that women are just naturally drawn to. Well, it’s really not the hardest skill for you to develop, it just usually seems that way. For most guys, the dating game is all about them pursuing the woman, and that can get kind of frustrating and stressful. When you know how to make a woman feel drawn to you, then you don’t have to do all of that chasing.

Here are 3 ways that you can make women feel attracted to you:

1. The way that you dress will say a lot about you and can have a HUGE effect on your “magnetism.”

It’s nice and fluffy to say that how you dress has no effect at all on whether or not you can attract women, but is that really the way that it is? Not at all. See, women have their “types” and how do they judge a guy on whether or not he is their type? Well, until they get the chance to get to know him, it’s his appearance that gives them their first impression.

Here’s an example of what I mean: A woman whose type is the classic “business guy” is not going to be as drawn to a guy who is dressed like a biker, at least not in the first few moments that she sees him. So, your appearance DOES have some effect on whether or not women are drawn to you.

2. If a woman sees that other women seem to enjoy your company, she is a lot more likely to be attracted to you.

The social proof a woman seeing you having a good time with other women can be staggering, and it can be a huge game changer for you. I remember the first time that I really saw this in action. I had a friend who was really kind of goofy and you would not really think that women would want to get to know him. But, he also had a couple of sisters and he was really close to them.

Whenever women would see him and see that he had his sisters around him, they were a lot more likely to approach him. When his sisters were not around, he did not get approached by women at ALL. See, it did not matter that these were his sisters, all that mattered was that he was with women, and they seemed to be laughing with him and that was enough to give him that “social proof” element.

3. When a woman knows that you have the ability to make her feel the right emotions, she will be totally attracted to you.

This last tip is based on the fact that guys that know how to make other people laugh, tend to be able to attract some of the hottest women out there. Just take a look at some of the funniest looking comedians and see that they can actually get some really hot women. Now, you might be saying, well they are a top comedian, but those same women that they get could also go after an action movie star or a musician or something.

Being able to make women feel good when they are around you is an easy way to get them to approach you. How? Let’s say that you are at a party and a really good looking woman is within ear shot of you. Now, if she hears that you have a bunch of people cracking up and having a good time around you, watch as she will try to make eye contact and even inch closer and closer towards you.

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Tips on How to Attract Women – 3 Keys to Attracting Women to YOU

Wednesday, October 20th, 2010

If you want to be successful when it comes to dating and attracting women, then you have to be able to attract female attention. Honestly, most average guys are not getting a lot of female attention, but all that can change just by making a few simple shifts in the way that you carry yourself and the way that you behave around women. Act like a regular guy and you will be treated as one. Act like a guy who is in demand with women, and you will be.

Here are a few tips on how to attract women that will help you get female attention:

1. You need to dress in a way that attracts attention.

A boring wardrobe will not get you many stares from women, but a dapper one will get females to pay attention to you. There’s no question that most women are pretty into fashion and style, and they do notice when they see a guy who seems to have his own style. Most men all kind of dress the same and that’s one of the reasons why they don’t get much female attention.

2. Get noticed by being around beautiful women.

It’s funny how easy this one is, but when women see you around attractive women, they automatically see you as a guy that is in demand and therefore, a guy they want to get to know. Grab yourself a female friend who is pretty and see if she has a few others who are attractive and hit the clubs. You will notice that good looking women start paying attention to you and you really don’t have to do a thing. You are pre-qualified as a guy that attractive women flock around, and that is usually enough to get yourself noticed by women.

3. Walk around with the right body language.

Have you ever noticed how some people can just walk into a room, and people stop and have a look and they are not all that good looking and they are not famous or anything like that? Use the right body language and you can have the same effect on women. Most men have no idea on how important this is, and they never educate themselves on what the right body language is. The funny thing about body language is, it can do more to make or break you than any conversation can. And most guys ignore it.

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How to Attract Women and Not Have to Spend a Fortune

Monday, September 6th, 2010

Most guys seem to end up with the impression that they need to have a lot of money that they can blow in order to really attract women. They start to add up all of the costs of traditional dating, and next thing you know, they end up a little discouraged when they realize it can end up costing a small fortune just to try and get a woman to fall for them. To that I say… NONSENSE! Of course, it helps to have some spendable money. Just like it would help if you owned a Mercedes convertible or a Ferrari, but it is not a necessity., by any stretch of the imagination.

I can remember a time not too long ago when my financial situation was a LOT tighter than what it is now. I drove a 15 year old Volvo and barely had more than a little bit of cash after the bills were paid. Yet, I was still able to have no problems at all lining up dates for the weekend, and I had friends that were quite the opposite. They had nicer cars, much more spendable cash, and they had very few dates at all.

So, don’t think that it is impossible, because it is NOT. Like Slick Rick, the old school rapper once said, “Even in a Yugo I can take their woman from them.”

Here are some tips on how to attract women and NOT spend a fortune:

1. Buy clothes that are timeless.

A friend of mine spends a fortune every year on new clothes, because he thinks that he has to be one of the “trendy” guys in the club. So, when one year’s clothes are no longer in style, he has to go out and buy the new ones that are. Right now, he basically dresses like he belongs on The Jersey Shore, and when that fad passes, he will have to spend hundreds of dollars more to “update” his wardrobe. If you buy clothes that are pretty timeless, then you don’t have to worry about that, do you?

2. Be creative when you take a girl out on a date.

Near where I live there are quite a few State parks, and these places are great to take a woman. They all have beautiful scenery, they all lead to the Hudson River and have great views, and best of all, they don’t cost a thing to go there. Even women that don’t seem like they would enjoy the great outdoors seem to love these kinds of dates, and you can spend a couple of hours without spending a dollar on her.

3. Get HER to pay for YOU.

Women hate to hear this kind of thing, but let me tell you, it works all of the time. Especially when you are dating a woman that is “modern,” she will gladly pay for some of the dates. A couple of my buddies used to think this was impossible, till they saw it happen. There are many times when, if the woman offers to pay for something, I let her. It gives her the feeling of equality, the feeling of independence, and she doesn’t feel like you are trying to “buy” her affection.

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How to Attract Women To You – 3 Tips to Make You Appear More Attractive to Women

Monday, August 30th, 2010

A lot of times, we like to think that people do not judge each other based on appearances, but the reality is, it happens all of the time. People are just wired to do this, and it is not necessarily a bad thing. You have to keep that in mind when you want to know how to attract women, because to think that your appearance does not matter at all, well, that’s just a little naive to say the least.

It’s not a deal breaker, all of the time, but if you give off the wrong vibe to a woman when she first notices you– you are definitely going to have to “work” a little harder to make her feel attracted to you. Some guys end up becoming a little too concerned about their appearance to a woman, and that is the opposite end of the spectrum, but still something that you want to avoid.

Here are 3 tips on how to attract women to you by appearing more attractive:

1. Make sure that you are well groomed whenever you step out the door.

Unless she is one those leftover grunge chicks from the 1990′s, a woman probably is not going to dig the idea of getting with a messy, sloppy kind of guy. So, you want to make sure that you are not stepping out into the world looking like a bum. Some of the best opportunities that you will get to meet women will happen when they are kind of unexpected, and you don’t want to get caught out there looking like a total mess.

2. Make sure that your body language is congruent with the image that you want to project.

If you want to have women look at you like a confident, alpha male that knows what he wants out of life and is going to get it, then the body language has to match that message. Walking around with your head down or your shoulders slumped kind of defies that image and will send off the exact opposite signal to a woman.

3. Smile and look like life is GOOD for you.

This doesn’t even have to just apply to attracting women, when you smile and look like you are enjoying life, people like to see that. You will attract a lot more positive attention from women, from co workers, your boss, anyone that is around you. So, make yourself feel good and appear attractive to women by looking like you enjoy your life. Oh yeah, and start enjoying your life if you are not already.

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How to Attract Women – You Are The PRIZE!

Saturday, August 7th, 2010

Usually when a guy looks at a woman that he finds attractive, he immediately starts to associate her with being some kind of a “prize” that he wants to win. You may have heard in romance movies a line where the guy will describe his girlfriend as being a gift that he has to cherish or something to that effect. Well, that sounds sweet and everything, but if that is the attitude that you take when trying to attract a woman… You are going to have a tough time and be in for a rude awakening.

When attracting a woman, you have to start to think of yourself as being the prize and not the other way around. Let me give a brief explanation as to why this is.

When you think of a woman as being the prize, your behavior around her is going to follow suit. You are going to spend all of your time and your energy trying hard to “win” her, and neglect to spend any time at all attracting her using natural methods of attraction.

Here’s how to start thinking of yourself as being the prize and not the other way around:

1. The way that you think has to change.

You cannot be so grateful to be in the presence of a woman that you are willing to do anything that you can think of to try and make her like you. If you get caught up thinking like this, your wallet will empty, your ego will get fractured, and you will still end up going home alone for the night. You have to start to think of it being the other way around and that the woman should be grateful for meeting you. This line of thinking will instantly change the way that you behave and give you a much needed shot of confidence.

2. You need to stop worrying about what she is going to think of you.

If you are caught up in worrying about what a woman thinks of you, then you are going to end up getting caught right back in the cycle where she is the prize and you are the jester that is there to put on a show for her. It does not matter really what she thinks of you. Come from a mindset of abundance and realize that there are plenty of fish in the sea, and that you can attract another woman if things don’t work out with this one.

3. You need to be able to SHOW HER that she is entering YOUR world.

How do you do this? You don’t care about what she thinks of you, and you take her out to places where you feel comfortable. When she is in your environment, there is a “power” shift. She will feel like she has to be the one that wins you over and pleases you. This is how you really begin the shift from thinking of her as the prize into yourself as being the prize.

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How to Attract Women- 5 Traits of An Irresistible Man

Saturday, July 10th, 2010

Admit it.

Fess up.

You want to make women feel like you are irresistible.

It’s okay, there is no politically correct police that are going to take you away for being honest.

Guys, we are wired to want to be attractive to women. We want to be able to have the choice and selection that goes along with being the highly desired alpha male.

We don’t want to be the guy that always gets shoved into the “Let’s be friends” category.

So, what can you do about it?

Well, you can explore these 5 traits of an irresistible man and adapt to make yourself seem like you ARE that guy.

Here we go:

1. A man has to radiate the classic “charm” that women love.

Yes, women love a charming guy. Just think of a guy like Hugh Grant in any of the cheesy romantic comedies that he seems to always be in. Whatever the character is supposed to be, he always emanates a little of that boyish charm that women all over the world seem to find attractive. Work on developing that charm and you can create quite the stir yourself.

2. You have to make a woman feel like she is protected when she is with you.

Don’t think that you have to pull off any of the crazy kind of stuff that you see in an action movie. All a woman really needs to see is that you are not a pushover, not the kind of guy that is going to let her or yourself get walked. Just be sure to tread the line carefully, as you don’t want to end up being a jerk to try and make her feel like you are not a pushover. There is a balance.

3. To be seen as an irresistible guy, she has to see that OTHER women like you.

This is where it gets a little bit tricky. See, most guys are taught that when you are with a woman that you are into, that you should NEVER pay attention to other women. Well, let me tell you something. Letting her see you flirt a little bit with another woman and that other woman flirt back with you is NOT a bad thing. As long as you are not blatant about it, you can actually do a lot of good. You can make her see that other women do find you irresistible, and in turn, so will she.

4. You need to have a sense of style.

But this is what you really need to know. It does not have to be the suave, high fashion kind of thing. There are a lot of women that are actually more attracted to the blue collar type as long as you still have a sense of your OWN style. You don’t have to put on those tight jeans and $ 80 t shirts to come across as having style. You just don’t want to look like every other guy that is out there.

5. You need to be able to make her laugh.

Want to know why this is so important? Because a woman wants to date a man that makes her FEEL better. That is irresistible right there. If you can make her feel better, then she is going to want to spend time with you. And laughter doesn’t cost a dime, and unless she is some uptight chick, then making her laugh probably won’t even be that tough.

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How to Attract Women – 4 Tips to Win the Heart of Any Woman You DESIRE!

Saturday, May 15th, 2010

Want to know what you should be doing to win the heart of any woman that you desire? For some guys, the question of how to attract women always goes unanswered. They never quite get it, they never figure out what it is that attracts a woman, and what makes her fall hard and fast for one particular guy. If you do understand female attraction, then you CAN be that guy that women fall for and you can make just about any woman you desire fall in love with you.

Before you assume that it’s going to be too hard, or somehow out of your reach, you may want to keep reading. Female attraction is not rocket science, and the truth is, even guys that are overweight, pretty average looking, and just plain normal can discover how to attract women and make a woman fall for them.

Here are 4 tips to do exactly that:

1. Being able to talk to women without getting obviously nervous is key.

When you are talking to a woman, there are a lot of things that can give away what you are really feeling. Your tone of voice, your body language, the rate at which you speak are all things that can make a woman see that you are nervous when talking to her. And if a woman sees that you are indeed nervous talking to her, she’s going to automatically feel a little bit like she is out of your league. However, if you control your body language, your tone of voice, and the rate at which you speak, you can make her feel like YOU are out of her league.

2. When you flirt with a woman, don’t make it seem like you are trying too hard to win her approval.

A guy that is pretty obviously seeking a woman’s approval is not going to come across like a man that has confidence. You will also not come across like the kind of guy that has choice when it comes to which women he decides who to date and who to spend time with. You WANT a woman to see you as the kind of guy that does not need her approval in the least bit, and the kind of man that SHE is going to have to win over. This is how you are going to be able to make her see you as a true and genuine alpha male.

3. If you don’t want to lose her interest, then you HAVE to be able to throw her for a loop.

What I mean to say by this, is that you cannot do the expected things all of the time. You have to be unexpected to make her feel an increasing amount of attraction and desire for you. You have to make a woman feel like she never knows what she is going to get, as long as it always something good and enjoyable. For example, if you have five dates in a row with a woman, and for every single one of them you end up doing the same exact thing, then you are NOT doing a good job of surprising her. This helps to keep things fresh, which is ALWAYS a good thing.

4. She’s got to wonder whether or not she really has you or not.

Most guys, especially if they find the woman really appealing, or they are kind of desperate just to have someone in their life, will pretty much let a woman know right away that she can have them any way that she wants. This is when you are going to end up being whipped, wrapped around her finger, and slowly losing any appeal that she might have had for you. You want to keep a woman on her toes and wondering whether or not she really has you. The suspense of it all will create intense sexual attraction with her, and that is definitely something to shoot for.

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