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How to Attract Women to You – 3 Ways to Make Women Feel Drawn to You

Saturday, November 27th, 2010

One of the hardest skills to develop is to be the kind of guy that women are just naturally drawn to. Well, it’s really not the hardest skill for you to develop, it just usually seems that way. For most guys, the dating game is all about them pursuing the woman, and that can get kind of frustrating and stressful. When you know how to make a woman feel drawn to you, then you don’t have to do all of that chasing.

Here are 3 ways that you can make women feel attracted to you:

1. The way that you dress will say a lot about you and can have a HUGE effect on your “magnetism.”

It’s nice and fluffy to say that how you dress has no effect at all on whether or not you can attract women, but is that really the way that it is? Not at all. See, women have their “types” and how do they judge a guy on whether or not he is their type? Well, until they get the chance to get to know him, it’s his appearance that gives them their first impression.

Here’s an example of what I mean: A woman whose type is the classic “business guy” is not going to be as drawn to a guy who is dressed like a biker, at least not in the first few moments that she sees him. So, your appearance DOES have some effect on whether or not women are drawn to you.

2. If a woman sees that other women seem to enjoy your company, she is a lot more likely to be attracted to you.

The social proof a woman seeing you having a good time with other women can be staggering, and it can be a huge game changer for you. I remember the first time that I really saw this in action. I had a friend who was really kind of goofy and you would not really think that women would want to get to know him. But, he also had a couple of sisters and he was really close to them.

Whenever women would see him and see that he had his sisters around him, they were a lot more likely to approach him. When his sisters were not around, he did not get approached by women at ALL. See, it did not matter that these were his sisters, all that mattered was that he was with women, and they seemed to be laughing with him and that was enough to give him that “social proof” element.

3. When a woman knows that you have the ability to make her feel the right emotions, she will be totally attracted to you.

This last tip is based on the fact that guys that know how to make other people laugh, tend to be able to attract some of the hottest women out there. Just take a look at some of the funniest looking comedians and see that they can actually get some really hot women. Now, you might be saying, well they are a top comedian, but those same women that they get could also go after an action movie star or a musician or something.

Being able to make women feel good when they are around you is an easy way to get them to approach you. How? Let’s say that you are at a party and a really good looking woman is within ear shot of you. Now, if she hears that you have a bunch of people cracking up and having a good time around you, watch as she will try to make eye contact and even inch closer and closer towards you.

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How to Attract Women To You – 3 Tips to Make You Appear More Attractive to Women

Monday, August 30th, 2010

A lot of times, we like to think that people do not judge each other based on appearances, but the reality is, it happens all of the time. People are just wired to do this, and it is not necessarily a bad thing. You have to keep that in mind when you want to know how to attract women, because to think that your appearance does not matter at all, well, that’s just a little naive to say the least.

It’s not a deal breaker, all of the time, but if you give off the wrong vibe to a woman when she first notices you– you are definitely going to have to “work” a little harder to make her feel attracted to you. Some guys end up becoming a little too concerned about their appearance to a woman, and that is the opposite end of the spectrum, but still something that you want to avoid.

Here are 3 tips on how to attract women to you by appearing more attractive:

1. Make sure that you are well groomed whenever you step out the door.

Unless she is one those leftover grunge chicks from the 1990′s, a woman probably is not going to dig the idea of getting with a messy, sloppy kind of guy. So, you want to make sure that you are not stepping out into the world looking like a bum. Some of the best opportunities that you will get to meet women will happen when they are kind of unexpected, and you don’t want to get caught out there looking like a total mess.

2. Make sure that your body language is congruent with the image that you want to project.

If you want to have women look at you like a confident, alpha male that knows what he wants out of life and is going to get it, then the body language has to match that message. Walking around with your head down or your shoulders slumped kind of defies that image and will send off the exact opposite signal to a woman.

3. Smile and look like life is GOOD for you.

This doesn’t even have to just apply to attracting women, when you smile and look like you are enjoying life, people like to see that. You will attract a lot more positive attention from women, from co workers, your boss, anyone that is around you. So, make yourself feel good and appear attractive to women by looking like you enjoy your life. Oh yeah, and start enjoying your life if you are not already.

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