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Falling For Your Best Friend – How to Make Her Become MORE Than Just a Friend

Monday, July 26th, 2010

She’s the one that you spend most of your time with. You even think about her when she is not around, and now all of your thoughts seem to be getting more and more romantic. You want more than anything to make her become more than just a friend, you just don’t want to also risk losing her as a friend. Seems like you are kind of stuck in a tough spot, wouldn’t you say?

Now, some people will tell you that the best thing that you can do is to just keep things the way that they are. But, it’s really not all that healthy to have a female friend that you are in love with and keep all of those emotions locked inside.

And then, there are going to be some people that are going to tell you that you should just forget about her and move on. But, that is not going to leave you feeling satisfied.

Is there a way that you can make your best friend become your GIRLFRIEND?

Most men do not realize that they are slipping into the friend zone while it is happening. Then one day, they finally realize that this is exactly what has happened. Of course, the most obvious answer to this situation is to make sure that you never get there in the first place, but you are beyond that point right now.

Here are a couple of tips on how to get started turning your female friend into YOUR girlfriend:

1. She cannot keep seeing you as being that safe, male friend that she can run to when she needs emotional comfort.

If you keep on being that person to her, then she is NEVER going to want to risk doing a single thing that could hurt that dynamic that the two of you have. So, you have to be able to change the way that she sees you and the friendship. The best way to do this, is to slowly become a lot more distant to her. Don’t act cold, just don’t be there nearly as often and don’t let the conversations stray into topics that only friends would talk about.

2. You need to change the way that you behave with her.

Friends act different when they are with each other than they would with someone that they want to date. Friends just have that rapport where they feel like they can be who they are without getting embarrassed about anything. On the other hand, a woman is going to try to look her best and hide her flaws if it is a guy that she wants to date. And you should do the same. When you change your behavior, you are going to force a change in the way that she sees you.

3. You need to take action or just move on.

At some point, you have to face the possibility that she might reject you. If that is too much for you, then you really do need to just move on or suffer in silence until she runs off with some new guy and gets married or something. Anytime that you find yourself wanting to date someone, rejection is a possibility. However, her saying YES is also a possibility, so don’t think that it cannot be a good thing to take action.

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Friend to Girlfriend – Will She EVER Be More Than Just a Friend to YOU?

Tuesday, March 30th, 2010

It’s a pretty common situation that almost all men have gotten themselves into once or twice before. You fall in love with your female friend.

Maybe from the very start, you knew that you were attracted to her and you wanted her. And maybe you though that starting out as friends first would be the key to making her fall in love.

After all, that’s what so many people say, right?

That you should start off as friends first with a woman.

Want to know why that is WRONG?

Sure, there are some instances here and there where that does work, but in all honesty, they are far and few in between.

And all men know deep down that they have had at least one of those female friends that they really had a crush on.

When you start off as being just friends with a woman, you want to know what she does?

She puts up an invisible wall, one that you will almost never have a chance of being able to penetrate. One one side of that wall is YOU, the guy that she is just friends with.

On the other side, are all of the other guys, the ones that actually have more of a chance of dating her and sleeping with her than you do.

Doesn’t seem fair, does it?

Well, guess what? It’s not, but that’s just the way that it is.

If you want to make that female friend of yours EVER see you as the kind of man that she would get physical with, if you ever want to have the chance of getting her into your bed, then you have to do one thing.

You have to get her to think about you in a totally different way.

You cannot just expect that you can go out and buy her one of those sappy cards and some flowers and she will change her mind. Attraction just doesn’t happen like that.

You have to make her see you in a whole new light. And for most guys that means that you will have to disappear for a while.

No more going out for coffee on a Friday, just to hear about what guy she is going out with on Saturday night.

No more changing the oil in her car with the hopes that she will suddenly rip your shirt off and rock your world.

You have to change her perspective on who YOU are, otherwise, it’s NOT going to happen!

Friend to Girlfriend Secrets

Sunday, January 31st, 2010

Time and time again, the question seems to come up from men that really want to turn around their personal life and finally get the reaction from women that they want. Guys want to know how they can turn a friend to a girlfriend and there is a very common and a very good reason for this. Men almost always find themselves falling into the position of being a friend to a woman that they would much rather date than anything else.

If you want to turn a friend to a girlfriend, then there are some things that you MUST do and some things that you MUST know before you can make this happen.

Of course, the easiest answer would be to not let it ever get to the point where she sees you as a friend and nothing more. Then you don’t have to worry or wonder about how to turn things around. But, usually the guys that really want to know the friend to girlfriend secrets are already there, so there’s not much use into going into that.

So, what are some tips to turn a friend into a girlfriend, once you have already gotten into the friend zone with a woman?

1. YOU have to change the way that she sees you. And the only way that you are going to be able to do this, is to make sure that you are no longer doing the “friend” stuff with her. You don’t want to become her shopping buddy, you don’t want her to run to you to complain about this guy and that guy, and you don’t want to ever hear her tell you that you are like a brother to her.

2. Sometimes you have to go away for awhile. Trying to see here everyday and make her want you as more than a friend is a pretty tough thing to do. If you make yourself scarce for a while, it’s easy to reinvent yourself in a way. When you come back around her, you can change the way that you interact with her and she will almost have to see you differently.

3. You’ve got to cross the line. By this, I mean that you have to be able to risk rejection from her in order to let her know that you are not here to be her buddy. You want more. Sure, it might save some temporary hurt by not risking rejection from her, but in the end, it will probably hurt more to be her friend for years and not be able to tell her how you feel.

4. Act how you would around a woman you desire. That means you need to be flirtatious with her, you need to tease her a bit and you need to be able to create sexual attraction and sexual tension with her. If you don’t then you can be almost guaranteed that the friend zone IS where you will end up.

You can turn a friend to a girlfriend, and there are many little “secrets” to make it happen. You have to discover what they are and how to use them.

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