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How to Seduce Women – Does This Happen to You?

Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

You feel like you have gotten your confidence up to the point where you should have no problems at all walking up to a woman and making a lasting impression on her. You’ve memorized a few lines that are supposed to be proven and you even have a few routines to fall back on just in case one does not work, you have others to bring into the mix. So, you head out for the night, pretty amped up about your chances of being able to sweet talk and seduce a woman into bed with you. And then it happens.

The proven lines that are supposed to work on any woman you approach don’t seem to have much of an effect at all. The routines that are supposed to be original and effective are causing women to walk away from you, not wanting to have any more to do with you at all. Now, your confidence which had been stronger than ever is free falling and you don’t know how to bring it back or what to do from there. All you can think of is that it’s just going to be another night where you end up going home alone.

What happened?

Well, for starters, most proven lines that you read on the internet are anything but proven. Many times, they are just thought up by some guy writing out things that he *thinks* will be effective on all women. Or, if they did ‘work’ all it actually got him was a little bit of flirting, maybe a phone number but nothing more than that. And most routines that guys learn with the hopes of seducing women will not work on most women. And even if they did, they are used by enough guys that any woman you try them on probably has already seen it and heard it before.

What should you be doing instead?

Instead of being focused on pick up lines to seduce a woman or using routines that are supposed to be effective, why not instead learn how to use natural techniques to create rapport with a woman. When you come across as being totally natural, you are a lot less likely to look like just another guy hitting the clubs and bars looking to get lucky. You come across as a guy who just knows how to talk to women, a guy who women want to gravitate towards.

The game changes and you need to change with it.

A few years ago, there were a lot of lines and routines that you could have copied that would have been somewhat effective because most of the women you would have come across would not have seen or heard them before. Then, the internet exploded and those original lines and routines got passed around. Guys started using them left and right and women got wise to this.

Naturals don’t have to worry about being busted.

When you naturally build up the skills to pick up and seduce women, you don’t have to worry about being busted for using a line that lots of guys use. You don’t have to worry about using a routine that is straight out of a movie and get a lot of heat for it. You can just have an effect on women that causes them to feel naturally attracted to you and escalate that attraction to where she wants to have a little fun with you.

Are you ready to discover how to seduce women using *natural* techniques that work like a charm?

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How to Create Sexual Tension With a Woman – How to Position Yourself As Unattainable to a Woman

Wednesday, October 20th, 2010

To create sexual tension with a woman is not an easy task for most men. Just suggesting that you create sexual tension with a woman to make her want you will probably leave you with more questions than answers. If you want to really create sexual chemistry, this is something that you need to know how to do. After reading this article, you should have a much better idea as to what you need to do to make a woman want you.

Here’s how to create sexual tension with a woman:

Position yourself as being unattainable, but be playful about it.

People, not just women, want what they cannot have. What most guys do when they feel attracted to a woman, is they make it very obvious that she can have them at any time that she wants. And what this does is, it kills any possibility of their being sexual tension there. Part of what creates that feeling, is a little bit of nervousness and wondering in her mind about how you feel about her And when she knows that she can have you whenever she wants, that feeling gets dashed, and so does the tension.

Regardless of all the politically correct advice about dating and relationships, you have to be aware that there is a little bit of a game to be played. Call it the human mating game. A woman needs to feel as though you might be unattainable to her, so it gives her a reason to work for your attention and your approval. To do this, you need to be able to make her feel like she is not quite sure that she can have you. You have to make yourself seem unattainable to her. The catch is, you also need to be playful with it.

Here’s an example of what I mean:

You are flirting back and forth with her and then you say something like, “I could never date a girl like you, you are TOO high maintenance for me.” Say it with a playful smile. Most likely, she will try to change your mind, and she will say something like, “No, I’m not.” What she is doing is, she is qualifying herself for you, and that is a good thing.

What she is feeling if you do this the right way is, she’s not quite sure if you are playing around or if you are being serious. And when she tries to change your mind and “qualify” herself for you, she is letting you know in a subtle, and maybe not so subtle way, that she is into you.

Put her on edge and give her mixed signals.

Once a woman shows that she is trying to “qualify” herself for you, then you need to keep on with the game, and give her mixed signals. If she says that she is really not that high maintenance, show a little more interest in her, and then take it back by saying something like, ” I don’t know. I think you are and you just are saying that you aren’t.”

What you end up doing here is you turn up the sexual tension by making her feel like she has won your approval, and then you put her right back on edge by taking it back a little. Now, she has to keep on trying to “convince” you that she is a woman you could date.

You have to know how to create sexual tension with a woman if you want to get past just flirting and friendship.

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How to Flirt With Women – 5 Flirting Tips EVERY Man Should Know About

Tuesday, August 3rd, 2010

The flirting game can be fun, frustrating, and everything in between. When you are “in the zone” and everything just keeps on going the way that you want when you are flirting with a woman, you don’t want it to ever end. And when the opposite happens, when it seems like nothing, no flirting technique seems to be breaking through, you can’t wait for things to end.

Truth is, if you want to have a good time with women, then you have to become good at flirting. Guys that ignore this fact are the ones that don’t understand why some guys that are just like them, seem to be able to have no problems at all attracting a woman.

Here are 5 flirting tips every man should know about:

1. Flirting with a woman is NOT sucking up to her.

I have to say, that this could be the most important tip that you can get about flirting. If you equate flirting with sucking up to her, get used to ending up alone and without a girlfriend. Or, if it does work out for you, get used to being the guy that holds her purse while she goes out and spends your money at the mall. Seriously, sucking up to a woman is just that. It’s sucking up and it does not make her feel attraction, it just lets her know that you will basically do ANYTHING that she wants just in the hopes that she will like you.

2. Become a closet comedian.

What exactly do I mean by this? Well, I can pretty much assume that you are in no way a professional comedian. However, that does not mean that you cannot make a woman laugh. And laughter is the best way to create a sense of rapport, and cracking jokes will also let her know that you are an easy going guy. She does not want to have a man with a lot of “issues,” she has girlfriends for that. Plus, when you are able to playfully joke on HER, every once in a while, then she knows that you are not the guy that is going to kiss her feet.

3. Find a way to get close to her and use kino to escalate flirting.

Okay, you might be looking at the word, kino, and wondering what that is. Well, it’s just a term that in plain English means physical touch. Using physical touch as a way to escalate from just a little joking and smiling will start to take things to a more intimate level. Women play flirt with guys all of the time and it leads nowhere. When you add in the kino, and you get close to her and start to escalate things, NOW, you have the potential to have more than just a little flirting going on.

4. Get used to using body language flirting as a method to attract a woman.

You know, some experts will range from saying that body language is 70 percent of all communication to as high as 93 percent. Whatever the number is, what really matters is that body language counts and it counts a whole lot. You can say all of the clever things that you want, you can make her laugh a little, and you can even use kino to escalate attraction. However, if your body language is off, and it gives her the wrong vibes, then you probably are not going to get as far with her as you would like to.

5. Use flirting as a means to go further with her.

When you are a guy that is just starting out to really consciously handle your dating and your social life, flirting can be a lot of fun, even if that’s all it ends up being. However, if you want to advance to the NEXT level, and start getting intimate with women, and having real relationships, then you need to use flirting as a means to go further. The flirt games should never stop, but you need to be able to transition into making her feel sexual attraction, enough so that she does not want to let YOU get away from HER.

When you have the right flirting techniques, including body language flirting, then you can literally create attraction with ANY woman you want to…

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Techniques to Attract Women- 4 Keys To Attracting Women

Monday, March 15th, 2010

For some guys,  the ability to attract women is something that seems to elude them.  If you want to discover what techniques to attract women really work,  then you are going to have to make a choice.  You can either learn how to attract women through trial and error,  OR,  you can discover what works to attract women through proven techniques to attract women that have stood the test of time.

Knowing how to use female attraction techniques to YOUR advantage is not underhanded and it is not in anyway saying that you are somehow less of a man.  Let’s face it.  Most guys have no clue when it comes to understanding what techniques to attract women really work,  so it is to YOUR advantage to discover which methods that you should be using.

Here are 4 keys to attracting women that EVERY man must be aware of:

1.  Flirting. Flirting has stood the test of time and is one of the most basic and effective techniques to attract women.  When a guy knows how to flirt with a woman in just the right way,  he can trigger attraction almost on cue,  and make her feel something that she is not used to feeling.  And when you can make a woman feel this way,  you better believe that she will be attracted to YOU.

2.  Eye contact attraction. The eyes have been described by some as being the windows to the soul and this is for good reason.  When you can make eye contact with a woman and she INSTANTLY feels attraction for you,  you can easily have her eating out of the palm of your hand.  Sounds a bit unreal,  doesn’t it?  Eye contact attraction will always be effective because it works on an instinctual level with a woman and you cannot discount how POWERFUL this is.

3.  Social Proof. What is social proof?  It’s when you give the impression that you have tremendous social value to a woman and this is also a very effective technique to attract women.  When a woman sees that you are the kind of man that other people want to be around,  what does she immediately feel?  Like she should be hanging around with YOU too!  And when you are hanging around other attractive women,  the social proof goes through the ROOF!

4.  Kino escalation. Kino may sound like a very technical term,  but the truth is,  it is pretty simple.  Kino just refers to physical touch and using that physical touch to create attraction and intimacy with a woman.  If you do not use kino to escalate attraction with a woman,  there is a VERY good chance that you will NEVER be seen as anything more than just a friendly face to her and not the lover kind.

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Tips to Attract Women – Get a Girlfriend FAST!

Monday, March 1st, 2010

When you have it in your head that you want to get a girlfriend, then you probably do not want it to happen at a snail’s pace. You want to be able to get a girlfriend FAST. When you try to get a girlfriend as quickly as possible, it’s easy to end up frustrated and disappointed, when you realize that you are not getting what you really want.

You are not alone for feeling this way, in fact, a lot of guys feel like they get more frustration and disappointment than anything else when they want to get a girlfriend fast. You might be wondering why this is, and if there are some tips to attract women that will help you END all of the frustrations and setbacks.

Before you let your head explode, here are some tips to attract women that should help YOU to get a girlfriend fast:

1. Being able to approach a woman is the first step.Wherever you go and wherever you look, you can usually see that there are PLENTY of women that are all around you. So, you have to be able to get yourself to become comfortable with approaching a woman, IF you want to get any real results.

2. Flirting with women starts with building rapport with her. If you can build rapport with a woman, then you will have a much better chance at getting a girlfriend fast. Far too many guys try and rely on little tricks to flirt with a woman and they do NOT do anything at all to build rapport with a woman.

3. Creating sexual attraction with a woman is a MUST.Think of it like this. A woman might have a lot of guy friends, guys that she can laugh with and have a good time in their company. So, what makes the difference between those guy friends and one that she is ready to date, is sexual attraction. You have to make her feel sexually attracted to YOU.

Discover how YOU can get a girlfriend FAST…

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