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First Date Sex- Can YOU Make Her Want to Have Sex on The First Date?

Sunday, March 28th, 2010

If you were to just walk up to a woman and ask her if she is the type to have sex on the first date, what do you think her response would be? No? You got it. Most women will tell you right off the bat that sex on a first date is NOT going to happen. If you think that means that it is totally out of the question and that you CANNOT have sex on a first date with a woman, think AGAIN!

Women are practically trained to make this kind of response, but that does not mean that she will not have sex on the first date if everything goes just right. And by going just right, I’m not talking about walking up with a dozen roses and courting her like it was straight out of a movie. Even in the real world, you can still end up having sex on the first date, as long as you play your cards right!

Here are some tips on how to make her want to have sex on the first date with YOU:

1. You have to create a sensual mood.

If you want to ensure that you are going to set yourself up for some first date sex, then you have to create a sensual mood for the night. Create an atmosphere where you can be alone with her without a lot of interruptions. A quite booth in the corner of a restaurant can be all that you need to start things off just right with her. Whatever you do, keep in mind that the mood of the evening is one of the biggest determining factors of whether or not she will end up in YOUR bed.

2. Don’t make all of the conversation sexual.

When you have her close to you and you are deep in conversation with her, it’s okay to throw in some sexual undertones to the back and forth banter, but, you do not want to come on too strong with the sex talk. If she thinks that the only thing on your mind is getting her back to your place and in your bedroom, you may not like the end result. Women are pretty protective of their image, and if she thinks that all you are trying to do is tag another notch above your bedpost, she will hit the ground running.

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3. Share some intimate experience with her.

Whether it’s a conversation about something intimate, or a physical act like dancing, you want to share some intimate experience with her before you try and get intimate in the way that YOU really want to. When you have already shared a little intimacy in one form, it’s only natural that you will share it in the physical form as well.

4. Show her how you kiss.

Kissing is a natural prelude to sex, so you want to show her what you got in the kissing department. Don’t wait for the moment when you want to lead her into your bedroom for you to go for the first kiss. Instead, kiss her earlier in the evening, get it out the way, and then make your move to take the kissing a little further as the night goes on.

5. Start with the foreplay.

Don’t just rush into intercourse, take it slower and start with the foreplay with her. Run your hands up and down her legs nice and slowly and kiss her on the neck and down her chest. When you show her that the evening is all about her, she won’t feel like you are just out to get a little action. She will feel that the two of you are sharing something more genuine and special.

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First Date Tips- 10 Ways To Make Her NEVER Forget Her First Date With You

Sunday, March 28th, 2010

The first date is both the best AND the worst for you. You are excited. You finally get the chance to take out the woman that you’ve had your eyes on for quite some time now.

You’re also thinking about all of the things that could possibly go wrong. Enter in the nerves and the jitters. If you want to make that first date with a woman something special, then you will want to read through this post.

Here are 10 ways to make her NEVER forget her first date with YOU:

1. Make sure you smell your best. Smells often get associate with memories and if you want the memory of a first date with a woman to stand out, then you have to smell good. Dashing on a bit of cologne, not too much, will give you that little bit of an edge that you want and need.

2. Keep your eyes focused on her. If you want to give a woman that ‘dreamy’ feeling when she is out with you, then you want to keep your eyes focused on her. Sure, you can allow them to dart away here and there, but for the most part, you want to use the eyes to create a connection with her.

3. Dress to impress. If you want to impress a woman on a first date, then you have to look the part. Being able to show her that you can look GOOD when you take her out will definitely impress her. Besides, why would you want to look scruffy, anyway? You don’t have to become obsessed with your appearance, just keep it simple, but clean and you will do fine.

4. Keep her engaged in the conversation. If you want to have a date with a woman go off without a hitch, then you have to be able to get an engaging conversation flowing with her. Don’t make the mistake of trying to dominate the conversation, or else, you will end up losing her along the way.

5. Take her somewhere unique, somewhere she has never been before. Going out and exploring new places is something that creates a bond really quickly and can lead to a great story that you can tell and retell about your first date. Everyone has already done the movie and dinner thing before, so do something DIFFERENT.

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6. Point out a little ‘flaw’ in her and tease her about it. No one is perfect, not even the woman that you think is so beautiful. When you spot a little flaw or quirk that she has, have a little fun and tease her. Not only will this make you seem like the playful kind of flirt that women love to be around, it will also let her know that you are not some sappy guy that is just going to suck up to her to get her to like you.

7. Get her talking about herself. If you want to make sure that you end up getting a second date with her, get her to open up about herself and get her talking. Just don’t get her talking about boring things. Get her talking about things that you can easily lead into a little joking, a little laughter. Don’t treat it like an inquisition. Treat it like you want to get to know the things about her that are not so obvious to everyone else.

8. Dance with her. Even if you are not the kind of guy that regularly goes out dancing, dance with her anyway. Dancing naturally leads to thoughts of sex, which is ALWAYS a good thing. Plus, you get to have a smooth transition from just talking to touching a woman. If you don’t get her to dance with you, you are passing up an EASY opportunity to get physical with a woman.

9. Walk her to the door. You have to be able to walk a woman to her door, if you want to make the date a memorable one. Just dropping her off in your car is not going to make the kind of impression that you want. And, you never know, she just might let you in and not let you leave until the next morning.

10. Kiss her. If you don’t move in for the kiss, don’t expect the sparks to fly too much. You have to have the confidence to make your move at the end of the night. You want to make sure that you do not end up getting classified as just a ‘friend.’ Kissing a woman is a MUST if you want to make that first date lead to many more.

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