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How to Get a Girlfriend – 3 Tips on Attracting a Woman and Keeping Her

Sunday, December 5th, 2010

Wanting to know how to get a girlfriend can drive a guy crazy. Maybe you have tried all of the traditional advice on how to get a girlfriend and it just doesn’t seem to pan out for you. That’s probably because that kind of advice is based more on what sounds good than it is on what actually works out in the real world. Most of that kind of advice is based on trying to play up to the image of being a Prince Charming in a woman’s eyes and that really is not the most realistic approach.

Here are 3 tips on how to get a girlfriend that will help you attract a woman and keep her:

1. Never make a woman out to be your entire world when you first meet her.

As much as you might like her and think that she is wonderful, you can’t immediately make her out to be your entire world. That’s just not really natural. I mean, if you are the kind of guy that has a great life and has selection when it comes to meeting and dating women, would you fall in love after the first five minutes? Probably not. And that is the attitude that you need to convey, that you do have a life and that you do have selection when it comes to meeting and dating women. Of course, you don’t just want to fake it, so make that become a priority in your life and make it real to have that attitude.

2. Don’t be the kind of guy who gets jealous at the first signs of another guy checking her out.

Can you say INSECURE? Well, that is exactly what will be ringing through her ears if she picks up on jealousy coming from you, especially if it is in one of those situations where it does not really mean anything at all. For example, let’s say that you are talking to a woman and hitting it off just great. Then, another guy kind of gets close and says something to her as a way to flirt with her. If you get jealous and insecure in that moment, you are going to lose points. Handle it in a cool and confident way, and she will be impressed with you.

3. Go out and have fun looking for a girlfriend.

The whole experience of meeting and dating women is supposed to be fun, right? Well, when most guys are stressed out and really frustrated with the whole idea of getting a girlfriend, it stops being fun. And guess what? It starts getting harder and harder for them. You have to let go of the idea that it is so important, and relax and concentrate on having fun while looking for a girlfriend.

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How to Date Beautiful Women – 3 Secrets to Getting a Date With a Woman Out of Your League

Friday, September 17th, 2010

You know,  I kind of hate it when a guy refers to a woman as being out of his “league.”  Reason being,  I have learned that you will have a LOT more success with women when you start to believe that no woman is out of your league.  You have to be confident enough in yourself to believe that no woman is on a pedestal,  and no woman is really out of your reach.  Well,  let me check that… if you are desiring Hollywood beauties… that might be an exception.

Here are 3 secrets to attracting and dating beautiful women that any average guy can use:

1.  Women respond to what they see.

Now,  I don’t mean this in the sense that it applies to a guy.  When a guy responds to what he sees,  he focuses on the physical things.  When women respond to what they see,  it has a lot more to do with what kind of image you are projecting of yourself.  Make yourself look like a guy that is undeserving of her attention,  and that is how she will end up seeing you.  Make yourself seem like a catch,  a guy that she would be foolish to let get away,  and that is what she will see in you as well.

2.  Women love guys that can hold their own in a conversation.

If you are around a beautiful woman,  and you are stuttering nervously,  trying hard to find the right thing to say,  you are not going to get anywhere at all.  However,  if you are more than capable of some clever back and forth banter with her,  and you can do more than just agree with whatever she says,  then you can make quite the impression.  Being a guy that can really hold a charged conversation with a woman will get you pretty far in the dating game.

3.  Beautiful women already know they are beautiful,  don’t tell her 10x an hour.

Look,  it’s nice to tell her she looks good and mean it.  It will make her feel good.  But the more times you do,  the less genuine each compliment seems to look.  It starts to either look like you are searching for anything you can say to win her affection,  or it sounds like you feel like you don’t deserve her.  And she just might end up feeling the same way.  Make your compliment meaningful and be done with it.

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How to Attract Women – You Are The PRIZE!

Saturday, August 7th, 2010

Usually when a guy looks at a woman that he finds attractive,  he immediately starts to associate her with being some kind of a “prize” that he wants to win.  You may have heard in romance movies a line where the guy will describe his girlfriend as being a gift that he has to cherish or something to that effect.  Well,  that sounds sweet and everything,  but if that is the attitude that you take when trying to attract a woman… You are going to have a tough time and be in for a rude awakening.

When attracting a woman,  you have to start to think of yourself as being the prize and not the other way around.  Let me give a brief explanation as to why this is.

When you think of a woman as being the prize,  your behavior around her is going to follow suit.  You are going to spend all of your time and your energy trying hard to “win” her,  and neglect to spend any time at all attracting her using natural methods of attraction.

Here’s how to start thinking of yourself as being the prize and not the other way around:

1.  The way that you think has to change.

You cannot be so grateful to be in the presence of a woman that you are willing to do anything that you can think of to try and make her like you.  If you get caught up thinking like this,  your wallet will empty,  your ego will get fractured,  and you will still end up going home alone for the night.  You have to start to think of it being the other way around and that the woman should be grateful for meeting you.  This line of thinking will instantly change the way that you behave and give you a much needed shot of confidence. 

2.  You need to stop worrying about what she is going to think of you.

If you are caught up in worrying about what a woman thinks of you,  then you are going to end up getting caught right back in the cycle where she is the prize and you are the jester that is there to put on a show for her.  It does not matter really what she thinks of you.  Come from a mindset of abundance and realize that there are plenty of fish in the sea,  and that you can attract another woman if things don’t work out with this one. 

3.  You need to be able to SHOW HER that she is entering YOUR world. 

How do you do this?  You don’t care about what she thinks of you,  and you take her out to places where you feel comfortable.  When she is in your environment,  there is a “power” shift.  She will feel like she has to be the one that wins you over and pleases you.  This is how you really begin the shift from thinking of her as the prize into yourself as being the prize.

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Why Women Will ALWAYS Have the Upper Hand…Unless YOU Do Something About It!

Friday, July 9th, 2010

When it comes to dating,  I think that all men are pretty much in agreement that men will always be at the disadvantage when compared to women.  Well,  to correct myself,  I should actually say…almost always.  And most men seem to accept this as just the way that it is,  and they don’t think that they can do anything about it.  The trouble with this line of thinking is,  you give up ALL POWER and don’t have any control,  selection,  or choice when it comes to dating.

And it does not have to be that way.  Before I tell you how you can change things for yourself,  I want to dig in a little deeper about the current state of dating and why men usually ARE at a disadvantage.

Just down the street from where I live,  there is a nice little bar/nightclub that a lot of really good looking college girls and young professional women all like to hang out on a Friday or Saturday night.  The music is always just the right volume,  they have really good food,  and even a nice little dance floor.  Now,  I can go into this bar and pick out just about any group of 3 or 4 women sitting together,  all single,  all desirable in their own way.  And I would confidently place a bet that each one of them has at least 25 numbers of guys that are “friends” in their cell phones.

As guys,  you and I both know that 90 percent of these guy friends would all sleep with the woman if given the chance.  Now,  contrast that with your average guy of the same age.  Chances are,  he might not even have 25 female’s numbers in his phone.  Even if he did,  the majority of them would NOT sleep with him if given the chance.  These guys all know what it is to be stuck in the friend zone,  and so do YOU.

Now,  you are seeing that women clearly have an upper hand.  They have choice,  they have selection,  and most importantly;  they all have their own little following of male friends that will spend money on them with the hope that maybe one day they will get the chance to sleep with them.

So,  how can you turn that around?

1.  You have to become the one that is IN CONTROL.

Now,  before you get this a little twisted,  this is not about becoming dominant over women.  That’s a juvenile desire,  and one that will not give you any real chance of becoming the kind of guy that young,  attractive,  independent minded women want to be with.  Remember,  if you had choice,  you would want to get the best female possible.  To gain *control,*  you have to understand how the game works.  You have to accept the fact that being a woman’s best friend is not going to get you into her bedroom.

2.  You have to be able to give the ILLUSION that you ARE highly desired.

Why do I emphasize the word illusion?  Because,  unless you are a George Clooney clone or a Brad Pitt look alike,  then chances are,  there are not a whole lot of women that are sweating the moment that they see you.  But,  you can give off the impression that you ARE highly desired.  When I was younger,  probably about 23,  I did an experiment.  For several weeks in a row,  I made sure that when I went out,  I always had at least three women with me that were definitely considered hot.  And the difference in the amount of attention that I received from OTHER women,  was eye opening.  Just looking like I was the kind of guy that was very successful with women made other women want to come and talk to me.  I did not even have to be the one that did the approach.  They did it for ME.

3.  Sex has to become a part of your language.

What I mean by this is,  do not dance around the subject of sex or things that SOUND sexual.  If you have ever seen the kind of language that is used in one of those romance novels that sell so well,  you will see that the words themselves are very sexual.  And even when they are being used in context other than the actual act of sex,  they still give off that impression.  The more you can make sex a part of your language and use that language when you talk to women,  they will start to feel…aroused when talking to you.

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How to Make a Woman Fall For You – Without All of the Games

Monday, November 23rd, 2009

One of the biggest complaints that both men and women have about dating is that there are too many games to be played. And when you start to see articles on dating, it makes it seem like you HAVE to play games in order to make a woman fall for YOU. The fact is, this could not be FURTHER from the truth. There are ways to attract a woman without having to resort to tactics that make you feel fake and cheap.

So, how can you make a woman fall for you without all of the games?

1. Make it a choice not to play games. The minute you choose not to make games be a part of your dating life, that’s the minute you will no longer have to worry about them. It’s like a cycle. Once one person starts to play, then so does the other. You can stop this cycle by not even starting it. Be genuine about things when it comes to dating women.

2. Learn how to enhance your personality. When you can make your personality shine through, this will inevitably attract women to you. Being able to do this involves you being comfortable with yourself as well as not being afraid to stand out. Both of these are alpha male traits that naturally make a woman fall for a guy.

3. Learn how to flirt with women. When you know how to flirt with a woman, you can make her fall for you with ease. This will make everything easier on you and you won’t have the need to try to even use any games. And she will fall into your arms.

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