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Dating Tips for Guys – How to INSTANTLY Get Better At Attracting Women and Getting Dates

Monday, June 20th, 2011

You’ve got nothing to be ashamed of or feel self conscious about if you are looking to improve your results with women. If more guys actually took the time to learn what works and what doesn’t… there wouldn’t be so many hapless guys sitting at home alone. They would actually be out having a good time and doing what they dream about. Problem for most men is… they would rather sit at home by themselves than to admit that maybe, just maybe, they could use a few pointers to improve their game.

Well, for that reason alone, congratulate yourself just for taking the time to search out some possible solutions. Like I said, you are taking a step that most guys will not, and for that… you will be REWARDED. I honestly don’t know any guy who has taken the time to learn what really attracts women and has not seen improvement in their results, which obviously means more dates and more fun. It may not happen overnight, but what does?

Anyways, here are a few tips that will INSTANTLY put you on the track to attract more women and get more dates:

1. Own up for your lack of success.

This is a big thing to do. Why? Because when most guys fail to get the girl… they blame the woman. They say something to the effect of “she doesn’t know a good thing when she sees it” or some other rationalization. Problem with that is… it does NOTHING at all to help you get better with women. All it does is act like a cozy warm blanket for your feelings and your ego. Do you really need a warm and cozy blanket for your feelings? Or do you need to get more positive reactions from the women you want to date?

2. Put a stop to doing things that make it harder to attract women.

What do I mean by this? Well, let’s say that your average Friday night consists of shooting pool with a couple of guys in a place that has not had a desirable woman walk into it in ten years, lol. Stop going there and wasting your Friday nights. Start going to places where the odds are in your favor and you KNOW that there are going to be desirable women. I would much rather hit up a popular nightclub even if it made me feel a little “uncomfortable” at first than to spend my time somewhere where I know that I am not going to meet a good looking woman.

3. Don’t take advice from guys who are not actually getting results.

Would you take business advice from a guy stocking shelves in a grocery store? Probably not, at least… not if you actually wanted to start up a real business, right? Well, why would you follow the advice of guys that just do not get women? I can remember being younger and following the advice of guys that really did not do any better than I did. The moment I stopped listening to them… things got MUCH better.

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Dating Tips for Divorced Men – You’re Single Again, What Do You Do Now?

Monday, April 11th, 2011

Long after you mark your final signature on the divorce papers, and right after the dust clears and you start to get settled again, you are going to realize that you are single again. That’s right, you are right back where you started, square one, and you are expected to be able to pick up where you left off and meet women. Well, it’s not as easy as you thought it was going to be. Time has taken you away from the singles scene and now you might be left wondering if there is any chance that you will see any kind of success or luck with women.

Getting divorced is not something that anyone plans out. Well, maybe a gold digger would, after all– it’s worth it for them to get hitched and then ditch the relationship. Seriously though, you weren’t planning on being single again, it’s just where you find yourself right now. Does that mean that you should feel bad or feel like maybe you just cannot get it right with women?

Not at all. Divorce is just a final conclusion to a relationship that almost made it, but didn’t quite have what it takes. It does not really matter what went down or if anyone was to blame. What matters is whether or not you are going to get back out there and succeed or if you are going to let your ego get beat down and battered and become a guy who just doesn’t even try to meet or attract women.

If you want to do the latter and give up, then this article is not for you. However, if you are ready to get this part of your life handled and you want to be able to meet women and make them feel attracted towards you, pay close attention.

Here are a few dating tips for divorced men that will help you get back in the game and have a good time getting to meet and attract women successfully:

1. You’ve got to be able to find a way to get over the pain of what the divorce may have done to you before you try and get things started with a new woman.

This is probably something that you have heard many times before, but it’s one of those time tested things that you need to do before you push yourself back out into the dating game. You can be upset for a little while and you can feel like maybe she did you wrong or whatever else you might be feeling, but it’s something that you need to be able to get over. Holding on to all of those feelings will just make it very difficult for you to really relax and have a good time when you get out there and meet women.

2. It’s not a necessary thing for you to advertise yourself as a divorced guy right away.

People are going to have their preconceived ideas about divorce and what that means, but it’s not really something that you need to advertise to the world. Look, there are lots of people who have been divorced, so most women you meet are going to be okay with the fact that you have been married before. Still, only divulge that information when you are ready. There is no specific time table on when you have to tell someone that you are divorced, and you may want to wait until you know that a woman really is into you before you get into that conversation.

3. You should be able to remain confident with your situation if you are going to attract women.

The confidence thing has been told to guys for a long time, but it really does matter. To attract a woman, you need to present yourself as a guy who is worth dating, a guy she wants to be with and wants to accept into her life no matter what your past may be like. If you can do this, then it should not matter one bit if you have had a previous marriage. She should be feeling more than enough attraction towards you that it does not really matter to her anymore.

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How to Ask a Woman Out on a Date- 3 Tips to Warm Her Up to Say Yes to You

Friday, March 25th, 2011

It’s kind of funny how overwhelming it can be for a man to ask a woman out on a date sometimes. I’ve known men who no one would ever question their toughness when it came to most things who would fret all about when it came down to asking a woman out on a date, especially if they were really fond of her. It’s not uncommon for a man to get nervous or to feel stressed out about asking a woman out on a date, but it’s something that you have to do if you are going to actually get the chance to date her.

You’ve probably been expected to figure out women and dating the way that most men do- through trial and error and of course, luck. Going about it that way is not always the best method, though. If you want to ask a woman out on a date and have the best odds that she ends up saying YES to you, you have to learn how to warm her up.

Here are 3 tips on how to ask a woman out on a date and warm her up to saying YES to you:

1. She’s not going to say yes if she does not expect to have a good time with you.

If you were a woman and you knew that you could pretty much pick and choose which men you dated, would you want to go out with someone that you thought would end up being a bore? Probably not, right? Well, that’s the reality that you have to face when it comes to dating. You need to make her see that she can and will enjoy herself going out on a date with you.

2. To get a woman to say yes to you, you have to get good at flirting with women.

Some guys try to avoid flirting at all costs because they don’t feel comfortable when doing it. Other guys think that they are experts at flirting with a woman, when they really don’t end up getting the results that they want. You have to be honest with yourself, and you have to really learn how to flirt with a woman if you want to warm her up. If you need to improve, then by all means, learn HOW.

3. You have to make her feel an ESCALATING amount of sexual attraction with you.

Going too strong too soon is almost always a deal breaker. And not being able to get her to the level of feeling a strong amount of sexual attraction will keep you at the acquaintance or friend level with a woman. If you want to practically guarantee that she will say yes to you when you ask her out on a date, then you need to make her feel an escalating amount of sexual attraction.

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How to Get to Know Someone When on a Date

Friday, March 18th, 2011

Trying to really get to know someone when you go out on a date is not always the easiest thing to do. People put their guard up, they are careful about what they will reveal about themselves, and most date situations are not really all that inviting for a long and meaningful conversation. After all, you are probably going to be a little on the nervous side and so is the one you are out on a date with. Is there any way that you can really get to know someone when you go out on a date with them?

Well, if you try to do the traditional dinner thing, then it’s probably going to end up seeming more like an interview than it will a real date. And that kind of environment doesn’t really warm someone up. Maybe that’s why so many people regard dating with a sense of disdain, because they just want to really get to know someone without all of the formalities and the games that people play.

Here’s how to get to know someone on a date that can make it easier to see the REAL them:

1. Choose to meet up in a much different venue than a restaurant or a movie theater.

Personally, I am not a big fan of doing the dinner at a restaurant thing for a first or second or even third date. And choosing to go to the movies just means that you are going to end up staring up at the big screen, waiting for the big climax to happen, but you really are not going to get to know each other, are you? Taking a walk in a park, meeting up somewhere where you can sit down and be relaxed and have good conversation, those are all going to help you to get to know someone a lot better on a date.

2. Let go of the interviewer method of trying to get to know someone.

It’s only natural that this happens. After all, this is how we are taught to try and get to know someone. But, when you grill the person you are out on a date with instead of having a much more relaxed and natural flow, you really don’t get to know the real them. They answer the questions in a way that they think they are supposed to answer. And you also don’t get the chance to build real attraction with that person. How good can the sparks fly when you are talking about their boring work life?

3. Be free and open to reveal little things about yourself.

People like to reciprocate things, and when you are open and free to reveal little things about yourself, this can help to move them to do the same. Take the initiative to do this, because almost everyone will respond by doing the same. Let’s say that you reveal something silly that you did in college that shows a lot about your real personality, they will feel like they should do the same. This helps to get the conversation going and allows it to feel right to open up about things that they normally wouldn’t on a date.

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Tips for Dating After Divorce – 4 Things You Need to Know

Monday, February 28th, 2011

Dating after a divorce can seem kind of intimidating. Not only have you been ‘off the market’ for a little while, but you probably have some baggage that you are carrying along with you. Because of this, most men are kind of shy about dating after they get divorced. Thing is, the longer you wait and the more you avoid it, the harder it is going to become for you to get out there and have a good time dating again.

Here are 4 things that you need to know if you are dating again after a divorce:

1. There are a lot of women that you are going to meet that are in the same position as you are.

This is something that you always want to keep in mind, especially if you are a little self conscious about the fact that your marriage ended. Nowadays, it’s not uncommon once you get past your twenties to end up meeting a lot of women who are in the same position that you are in. So, don’t think that you have to be too secretive about the fact that you are back out there after getting divorced.

2. How you approach a woman makes a huge difference in how she responds to you.

If it has been a while since you have been out there and approaching women, then this is an area that you might want to work on. The approach sets everything up and if your approach is not up to snuff, don’t expect fantastic results in the way that she responds to you. It’s not that hard to get the approach right, but you definitely want to get it right.

3. Don’t dump all of your baggage on a woman right away.

You might have a sad story about the way that your marriage ended and you might have a lot of mixed feelings about things, but you really do not want to dump them on a woman right away. There’s nothing worse for a woman to go on a date with a guy and have it turn into a ‘therapy session’ about how his marriage ended.

4. Always flirt with women to get your game back up to snuff.

One of the easiest and most effective things that you can do to help yourself get back in the game is to flirt with women whenever you can. When you are out and about during your day, practice flirting with women, even if it ends up meaning nothing in the end. Get your game back up to snuff so that you can do well when you really want to get back out there.

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How to Get Women to Notice You – 3 Secrets of Serial Daters

Tuesday, December 21st, 2010

Have you ever known a guy who was a serial dater? Meaning, it always seemed like he had a woman to date, no matter the time or the place? There are lots of guys like that out there, but they are still by far in the minority of men. Most guys struggle to get dates, and it almost doesn’t seem fair that some guys, guys that look just like you- have no problems at all getting dates with women. How would you like to know what their secrets are?

Now, you may not want to become a serial dater, you may not be interested in dating lots of women. Still, since most guys struggle to get dates and even just getting attention from women, it’s probably not a bad idea to at least get a handle on what makes it so easy for them.

Here are 3 secrets of serial daters that will get women to start paying attention to YOU:

1. They know that it’s all in the vibe that you project.

Two guys can walk into a club looking basically the same, wearing the same clothes, and if they hold themselves differently, they are going to get different amounts of attention. The guy that projects the vibe that he is confident, fun to be around, and knows how to have a good time is almost always going to pull more female eyes his way than the guy that looks a little out of place, a little insecure. Project the right vibe and women pay attention.

2. They know that it’s not the clothes that make the man, it’s the way that you wear the clothes.

It’s not nearly as important what kind of clothes you are wearing, it’s whether or not you are wearing them with style. There’s a big difference in just putting on an outfit and putting on a style. Style has pizzaz, it has flavor, it attracts eyes wherever it goes. That’s what you need to do if you want to get women to pay attention to you.

3. They know that when you break it down, it’s a numbers game.

Like I said, you may not be interested in becoming a player, a serial dater, or anything like that. Still, you have to know that it’s a numbers game. When you know that it’s a numbers game, you don’t get hung up on just one woman. And when women can sense that you have that kind of carefree attitude, they love it.

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Dating Tips for Guys – First Date Tips for Men

Thursday, September 23rd, 2010

Naturally, you are going to feel a little bit of pressure and maybe some nervousness about a first date with a woman. This is going to happen. Sometimes, though, the pressure can be a little too much and you will start to over think things and become a little apprehensive. After all, you don’t want to have a terrible experience, especially not on a first date, because that could mean there is no second date in the future for you.

Here are some first date tips for guys that should alleviate some of that pressure:

1. Be original on the first date.

So many guys will opt for the traditional first date dinner. While that might seem like the best option, it usually is nothing more than an awkward situation where the two people feel as though they have to ask and answer a lot of questions. When you come up with an original first date, it takes away that feeling that the date has to be an “interview” of sorts, and it will also lead to a much better impression on a woman. You won’t seem like just another generic guy to her.

2. Don’t feel as though you have to get to know everything about her all at once.

Speeding through the getting to know her process will just make her feel uncomfortable, and it takes away from that urge to want to see you again. Like I said before, most first dates turn out to be just one big answer and question session, and that does nothing to build an attraction with a woman. And if you are hoping to have more than one date with her, you want to have that attraction build up.

3. Make her get curious about you.

If the conversation does lead into some of the questioning, leave a little out there to be a mystery to her. You don’t want to go on and on about everything there is to know about you and not give her any reason to want to get to know MORE. The more you can provoke her curiosity, the more you can be sure that she will be up for the second date.

4. Don’t let her get away without a kiss.

If you want to have a really good chance at becoming more than just a date, if you want to see her over and over again, then you need to take things to the next level. You have to go in for the kiss. Just do not make it seem contrived, make it seem like a natural thing. If you are afraid to go in for the kiss, then you are going to have a hard time physically attracting her.

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Dating Tips for Men – What to Do About Competition From OTHER Guys

Monday, September 13th, 2010

Chances are, if you are going to date attractive women, then competition from other guys is going to become a part of your reality. It goes with the territory, kind of like celebrities and paparazzi. So, you have to accept that this is going to happen from time to time. Yes, if you enter into a club, a restaurant, a bar, with a good looking girl– other guys are going to be checking her out and some of them are even going to try and hit on her.

So, what do you do in this kind of a situation?

Well, some guys will automatically decide that they do not want to have to deal with this, and they will end up dating only regular looking girls. Of course, that is not much of a solution, is it? I mean, guess what? Even average looking girls are going to get checked out by some guys.

The first thing that you have to REALIZE is, if you are doing things right, then there really is NO competition at all!

I did not understand this when I was younger. I would date a good looking girl, and as soon as we got around some guys, I would automatically feel like they were trying to “steal” her away from me. Now, knowing these guys, they really were trying. The thing is, it would never work as long as I did not let it bother me. The minute that I did let it bother me, was the minute she would start flirting back with THEM!

So, I tried something else. I decided not to let it bother me, to kind of assume that no matter what, she still wanted me. And you know what?

It started to work!

From that point on, I never let myself worry about competition from other guys. And I have never had an experience where another guy has “taken” a woman away from me, no matter how hot she is, and no matter how hard he might try, it’s just not going to happen.

Here are my tips on how to deal with competition from other guys:

1. Don’t even think about it.

Women have some kind of jedi mastermind that lets them pick up on a guy’s insecurity right away. The minute you become insecure and feel like you might lose her to another guy, she picks up on this. She might not say anything about it, but she definitely notices. And if that insecurity keeps getting stronger, the more you will find that she DOES end up flirting with another guy.

2. Don’t get caught up in thinking that you need to put down the other guy.

Not only does this make you seem insecure, but it will also usually end up backfiring on you. Let’s say that one of your guy friends starts hitting on a girl that you are out with, and you immediately start trash talking about him to her. Well, it’s only going to reflect bad on YOU. Why? Because she will kind of evaluate what you are saying, and if she does not agree with it, you start to lose points with her. Let’s say you bring up the fact that he is a total loser. She is going to look at see things about him that don’t make him a loser. Why girls mind’s work like this, I can’t tell ya, I just know that they do.

3. Do YOUR thing right, and you don’t have to worry about it.

Unless she has some serious issues that make her bounce from guy to guy, the only chance that you really have of losing her is if you let the attraction that she feels for you start to die out. Like I said, I no longer worry about it, and it does not affect me in any way. Now, I have been out with a beautiful woman before and had guys try and flirt with her. And you want to know what they usually do? The put the guy down! They will say something like, ”OMG, did you see him try to hit on me? What a jerk.” Let her come to her own conclusion, don’t try to force feed it to her.

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Dating Tips For Men – How to Make Her Unable to Forget YOU!

Saturday, June 19th, 2010

Let’s face it. When it comes to dating, there is a lot of competition out there. Anytime that you walk in the door of a popular nightclub or bar, there are already going to be a lot of single men there that are trying hard to attract women. And when a really good looking women walks in the place, then all eyes are going to be on her. For some guys, this is very intimidating, and they end up just staring at a woman like that and talk themselves out of ever making an approach.

Then there are some guys that know that a woman like that is the perfect one to approach. I mean, I don’t know about you, but when I go out to meet women, I am not thinking, man I would love to attract an average looking chick. No, I am out there to meet and attract a beautiful woman, one that is sexy and alluring.

What can you do so that you can start attracting women like that?

You have to stop loading up on the cheesy games and methods that every other guy in the place is using to try and woo her, and hit her with some REAL game. You have to make her feel like she is unable to forget YOU!

Here’s how to do this:

Tip 1- Your Approach Has to Be Natural

Most guys actually shoot themselves in the foot by learning pickup lines and other tricks to try and attract women. Yes, if you are 20 and you are looking to hook up with 18 year olds, then you might get by on these tactics. However, if you are looking to hook up with a woman that is over the age of 21, and has a lot going for her, then you need to learn how to use natural game. The other stuff, she’s already heard it before and it does not work on her. You need to make an impression that she is not going to soon forget and using real game will do this.

Tip 2- Keep Your Money Where it Belongs!

Don’t bother trying to buy her $ 10 drinks all night long and think that this going to do the trick. You are just going to end up going home with about $ 50 less in your pocket, no woman, and no phone number. Keep the money in your pocket, and make her see you as a guy that she wants to be with, not a guy that is going to drop money on her for no reason. You don’t get to make a good impression on a woman if you assume that money has to do the talking for you.

Tip 3- Make Your Move or Go HOME!

The whole point of going out to meet and attract women is to hook up in some way. It might be for sex or it might be to start some kind of relationship, and hopefully, a mix of both. You got to make your move on her if you are going to get anywhere beyond just a good flirty conversation with her. Men that stay frigid and don’t make the move are the ones that end up wondering where they went wrong.

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