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Dating Tips for Men Over 40- Secrets of Dating Younger Women

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

So, you are over 40 now, but you don’t really feel like it. Deep inside, you still feel like you have a bit of that twenty five year old still lingering. You don’t want to date women your age. Not right now. You want to date women a little younger than you, you want to date a woman with some pep and some vigor. Now, some might say that you should grow up and set your sights on a woman your age, but really, do you want to be that guy that lives an average lifestyle?

My guess is that you don’t and you don’t really care about what other people have to say. You want to have some fun dating at your age, and that does not mean that you just have to set your sights on women over 40, you can still attract women younger than you. I mean, there are a lot of guys that seem to have no problems attracting and dating younger women, right?

What are some secrets of dating younger women that you should know:

1) Most younger women do have an attraction for older men.

It’s just the way that it is, men want to chase after a younger woman and younger women want to be around a slightly older guy. This is good for you. As long as you play into this natural tendency, you should be able to do well. Most of the time, a woman in her twenties won’t really mind too much if you are over 40, as long as you can still keep up with her from time to time.

2) The better shape you are in, the easier it will be to date younger women.

One thing that you need to know. Younger women are getting more and more into staying in shape and having a lot of energy. You want to make sure that you can keep up and the better shape you are in, the younger she will assume you are. Get involved in a weekly exercise routine, hit the weights, stay away from the fatty snacks. You want to come across like a guy in the PRIME of his life, and you should make sure that your body says that you are.

3) To attract younger women, you really need to be good at reading her body language.

This is really true for ALL dating situations. Fact is, if you are going to be able to attract a woman and make her feel like it is meant to be that she is with you, then you want to be able to read her body language and know how to respond to her. When you can read a woman pretty accurately, it’s easy to look like you just always know what the right thing to do is, and that can be pretty enticing to a woman.

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Dating Tips for Men Over 40- How to Attract Women No Matter What Your Age Is

Monday, March 7th, 2011

Some guys seem to limit themselves when it comes to dating when they get past the age of 40. They assume that they have reached a point in life where they don’t have the luxury of being able to select and choose the women they date. Maybe they even get a little hopeless and decide to stick with the first woman who comes along. The thing of it is, it does not have to be that way for You.

Just because you have reached a certain age, you don’t have to give up on wanting to either find the right woman for you, OR, to just have a little fun playing the field. Most of the limitations are just in your own mind anyway, and you don’t have to allow them to keep you from attracting the kind of women you really desire to be with.

Here are some dating tips for men over age 40 to help you attract women no matter what your age is:

1. If you are going to be serious about having no limits as to whom you can attract, get things in order as quickly as possible.

This is something that should be done at any age, but especially when you get past the age of 40. You want to have real goals and dreams that a woman can attach herself to and feel attracted to you for being someone who is doing things with his life. Get in shape if that is something that you need to do. Go and start getting some fun hobbies that make your life a little more exciting. Whatever can make your life better and yourself a little more attractive to boot, go ahead and do it.

2. No matter what age you are, as a man you need to be able to approach women you don’t know.

The only way to really get around this is to have a never ending supply of blind dates that your friends set you up with, and for most people that is not going to happen. So, you need to be able to confidently approach a woman and know what the right things to say to open a conversation with her and then guide that conversation to a point where it can lead to something more.

3. Set your sights on only the women you really want to date.

This is something that you really need to do. You need to sit down and really think about what kind of women you want to attract into your life. Do you want to just have a good time or do you want to settle into a long term relationship? Knowing what you want will help make it easier for you to actually go out and get it. And women love to be around a man who knows what he wants and does something about it.

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Dating Tips for Men – What to Do About Competition From OTHER Guys

Monday, September 13th, 2010

Chances are, if you are going to date attractive women, then competition from other guys is going to become a part of your reality. It goes with the territory, kind of like celebrities and paparazzi. So, you have to accept that this is going to happen from time to time. Yes, if you enter into a club, a restaurant, a bar, with a good looking girl– other guys are going to be checking her out and some of them are even going to try and hit on her.

So, what do you do in this kind of a situation?

Well, some guys will automatically decide that they do not want to have to deal with this, and they will end up dating only regular looking girls. Of course, that is not much of a solution, is it? I mean, guess what? Even average looking girls are going to get checked out by some guys.

The first thing that you have to REALIZE is, if you are doing things right, then there really is NO competition at all!

I did not understand this when I was younger. I would date a good looking girl, and as soon as we got around some guys, I would automatically feel like they were trying to “steal” her away from me. Now, knowing these guys, they really were trying. The thing is, it would never work as long as I did not let it bother me. The minute that I did let it bother me, was the minute she would start flirting back with THEM!

So, I tried something else. I decided not to let it bother me, to kind of assume that no matter what, she still wanted me. And you know what?

It started to work!

From that point on, I never let myself worry about competition from other guys. And I have never had an experience where another guy has “taken” a woman away from me, no matter how hot she is, and no matter how hard he might try, it’s just not going to happen.

Here are my tips on how to deal with competition from other guys:

1. Don’t even think about it.

Women have some kind of jedi mastermind that lets them pick up on a guy’s insecurity right away. The minute you become insecure and feel like you might lose her to another guy, she picks up on this. She might not say anything about it, but she definitely notices. And if that insecurity keeps getting stronger, the more you will find that she DOES end up flirting with another guy.

2. Don’t get caught up in thinking that you need to put down the other guy.

Not only does this make you seem insecure, but it will also usually end up backfiring on you. Let’s say that one of your guy friends starts hitting on a girl that you are out with, and you immediately start trash talking about him to her. Well, it’s only going to reflect bad on YOU. Why? Because she will kind of evaluate what you are saying, and if she does not agree with it, you start to lose points with her. Let’s say you bring up the fact that he is a total loser. She is going to look at see things about him that don’t make him a loser. Why girls mind’s work like this, I can’t tell ya, I just know that they do.

3. Do YOUR thing right, and you don’t have to worry about it.

Unless she has some serious issues that make her bounce from guy to guy, the only chance that you really have of losing her is if you let the attraction that she feels for you start to die out. Like I said, I no longer worry about it, and it does not affect me in any way. Now, I have been out with a beautiful woman before and had guys try and flirt with her. And you want to know what they usually do? The put the guy down! They will say something like, ”OMG, did you see him try to hit on me? What a jerk.” Let her come to her own conclusion, don’t try to force feed it to her.

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Why Women Will ALWAYS Have the Upper Hand…Unless YOU Do Something About It!

Friday, July 9th, 2010

When it comes to dating, I think that all men are pretty much in agreement that men will always be at the disadvantage when compared to women. Well, to correct myself, I should actually say…almost always. And most men seem to accept this as just the way that it is, and they don’t think that they can do anything about it. The trouble with this line of thinking is, you give up ALL POWER and don’t have any control, selection, or choice when it comes to dating.

And it does not have to be that way. Before I tell you how you can change things for yourself, I want to dig in a little deeper about the current state of dating and why men usually ARE at a disadvantage.

Just down the street from where I live, there is a nice little bar/nightclub that a lot of really good looking college girls and young professional women all like to hang out on a Friday or Saturday night. The music is always just the right volume, they have really good food, and even a nice little dance floor. Now, I can go into this bar and pick out just about any group of 3 or 4 women sitting together, all single, all desirable in their own way. And I would confidently place a bet that each one of them has at least 25 numbers of guys that are “friends” in their cell phones.

As guys, you and I both know that 90 percent of these guy friends would all sleep with the woman if given the chance. Now, contrast that with your average guy of the same age. Chances are, he might not even have 25 female’s numbers in his phone. Even if he did, the majority of them would NOT sleep with him if given the chance. These guys all know what it is to be stuck in the friend zone, and so do YOU.

Now, you are seeing that women clearly have an upper hand. They have choice, they have selection, and most importantly; they all have their own little following of male friends that will spend money on them with the hope that maybe one day they will get the chance to sleep with them.

So, how can you turn that around?

1. You have to become the one that is IN CONTROL.

Now, before you get this a little twisted, this is not about becoming dominant over women. That’s a juvenile desire, and one that will not give you any real chance of becoming the kind of guy that young, attractive, independent minded women want to be with. Remember, if you had choice, you would want to get the best female possible. To gain *control,* you have to understand how the game works. You have to accept the fact that being a woman’s best friend is not going to get you into her bedroom.

2. You have to be able to give the ILLUSION that you ARE highly desired.

Why do I emphasize the word illusion? Because, unless you are a George Clooney clone or a Brad Pitt look alike, then chances are, there are not a whole lot of women that are sweating the moment that they see you. But, you can give off the impression that you ARE highly desired. When I was younger, probably about 23, I did an experiment. For several weeks in a row, I made sure that when I went out, I always had at least three women with me that were definitely considered hot. And the difference in the amount of attention that I received from OTHER women, was eye opening. Just looking like I was the kind of guy that was very successful with women made other women want to come and talk to me. I did not even have to be the one that did the approach. They did it for ME.

3. Sex has to become a part of your language.

What I mean by this is, do not dance around the subject of sex or things that SOUND sexual. If you have ever seen the kind of language that is used in one of those romance novels that sell so well, you will see that the words themselves are very sexual. And even when they are being used in context other than the actual act of sex, they still give off that impression. The more you can make sex a part of your language and use that language when you talk to women, they will start to feel…aroused when talking to you.

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Dating Tips For Men – How to Make Her Unable to Forget YOU!

Saturday, June 19th, 2010

Let’s face it. When it comes to dating, there is a lot of competition out there. Anytime that you walk in the door of a popular nightclub or bar, there are already going to be a lot of single men there that are trying hard to attract women. And when a really good looking women walks in the place, then all eyes are going to be on her. For some guys, this is very intimidating, and they end up just staring at a woman like that and talk themselves out of ever making an approach.

Then there are some guys that know that a woman like that is the perfect one to approach. I mean, I don’t know about you, but when I go out to meet women, I am not thinking, man I would love to attract an average looking chick. No, I am out there to meet and attract a beautiful woman, one that is sexy and alluring.

What can you do so that you can start attracting women like that?

You have to stop loading up on the cheesy games and methods that every other guy in the place is using to try and woo her, and hit her with some REAL game. You have to make her feel like she is unable to forget YOU!

Here’s how to do this:

Tip 1- Your Approach Has to Be Natural

Most guys actually shoot themselves in the foot by learning pickup lines and other tricks to try and attract women. Yes, if you are 20 and you are looking to hook up with 18 year olds, then you might get by on these tactics. However, if you are looking to hook up with a woman that is over the age of 21, and has a lot going for her, then you need to learn how to use natural game. The other stuff, she’s already heard it before and it does not work on her. You need to make an impression that she is not going to soon forget and using real game will do this.

Tip 2- Keep Your Money Where it Belongs!

Don’t bother trying to buy her $ 10 drinks all night long and think that this going to do the trick. You are just going to end up going home with about $ 50 less in your pocket, no woman, and no phone number. Keep the money in your pocket, and make her see you as a guy that she wants to be with, not a guy that is going to drop money on her for no reason. You don’t get to make a good impression on a woman if you assume that money has to do the talking for you.

Tip 3- Make Your Move or Go HOME!

The whole point of going out to meet and attract women is to hook up in some way. It might be for sex or it might be to start some kind of relationship, and hopefully, a mix of both. You got to make your move on her if you are going to get anywhere beyond just a good flirty conversation with her. Men that stay frigid and don’t make the move are the ones that end up wondering where they went wrong.

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