Sometimes, you just get that feeling that you have been single for far too long, and that you want to attract a girlfriend as soon as possible. When that urge hits, it can actually be kind of frustrating, especially if you are not getting the kind of attention and responses from women that you desire. Some guys will let that discourage them and make them feel like maybe they just have to sit back and wait for it to happen.
Rejection from women. For some guys, the mere thought of getting rejected by a woman is almost more than they can handle. The catch is, if you really want to be successful with women, you have to be able to deal with it. Yes, the guys that ARE successful with the ladies, they get rejected from time to time. It happens. There is no guy out there that can pull every single woman that he ever wanted.