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How to Approach Women – Has THIS Ever Happened to You?

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

As guys,  we all know that the approach on a woman is one of the biggest hurdles that you can clear when it comes to getting your dating life handled.  Actually,  if you cannot make the approach,  is more like being stuck in the starting gates,  and instead of you getting in and enjoying the race,  you are watching everyone else leave you in the dust.  And there’s no way that you are going to get to the finish line if you can’t even get out the gates,  right?

So,  if you are having a hard time with approaching women,  then this is something that you need to take care of as soon as possible,  or else you are going to get left behind and watch all the other guys end up with the women you want to be with.  That’s even worse than not being able to finish a silly little race.  Not being able to get dates with women because you cannot make the approach is one sure fire way to guarantee that you are going to be spending some lonely nights with your eyes glued to your computer screen.

There are so many little variables that you need to get just right when you approach a woman that it can be more than just a little intimidating.  You want to make sure that she doesn’t think that you are some weirdo or some loser and you want to make sure that you are not making things worse for yourself by looking goofy as you walk on over to her.

HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU?

You spot a woman and you can’t seem to shake your eyes off of her one bit.  She’s breathtaking and in the lighting of the club,  she looks absolutely seductive.  You stand there, eyes gazing at her,  taking in every bit of her from the top down to the bottom.  And the funniest thing happens.  She’s looking over at you and you can swear that she wants you to come over to her.

You glance back behind you,  just to try and play it cool like you really were not just eye balling her from across the room.  And your eyes,  almost like they cannot help themselves go right back to checking her out.  Inside your head,  you are trying to ‘pep’ yourself up into getting the courage to leave your cozy little nest next to the bar and walk on over to her.

Your heart’s beating fast and you finally get yourself amped up enough to do it.

So,  you start walking over to her,  trying to navigate your way through the crowd as they dance to some obnoxious techno pop mix playing through the P.A. system and she’s looking right back at you.  You are excited,  already anticipating what might happen if you don’t blow it and you get a chance to hook up with her.  She looks away as you get close to her and suddenly… the vibe changes.

All of the confidence that you felt,  that high that you were riding is gone now.  It’s been replaced with a familiar feeling of angst and anxiety as you realize that she’s not giving you the clear sign that you were hoping for.  You get within a couple of feet of her,  and you barely get out the words,  “Hey.”

She looks back at you and gives you a look almost of contempt.  Now you are frozen.  The only thing that comes to mind is to ask her to dance to that obnoxious techno pop that you loathe so much and her response is,  “No,  I’m just waiting for a friend of mine.  Oh… I think I see her.”

She takes off and gets herself lost in the crowd.  Was she really going to meet up with a friend?  Did you really misread her from across the room?

You want to believe that she really is off somewhere in the crowd with her friend and that she really did have to go meet her right then.  But,  you know the truth.  Somewhere in those few moments that you made your approach… you lost her.  When you were standing in your cozy little nest at the bar and she was standing across the room… she wanted you.

What happened in those precious few moments?

It’s amazing how quickly attraction can be lost and how hard it can see to gain it.  And unfortunately,  situations like this happen all of the time to average guys,  nice guys,  and even experienced guys.  And it does not matter who you are… it can make you feel like you might as well never approach another woman again.  At least,  not until you get it figured out.

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How to Attract a Girlfriend – Tips to Help You Get a Girlfriend Fast

Tuesday, December 21st, 2010

Sometimes, you just get that feeling that you have been single for far too long, and that you want to attract a girlfriend as soon as possible. When that urge hits, it can actually be kind of frustrating, especially if you are not getting the kind of attention and responses from women that you desire. Some guys will let that discourage them and make them feel like maybe they just have to sit back and wait for it to happen.

That’s a choice that only you can make, but if you really want to be able to get a girlfriend fast, then you really cannot just sit around and wait. You have to do something, you have to take some kind of action, or else you will just keep on getting the same reactions that you have been getting.

Here are a few tips on how to attract a girlfriend that should help you out:

1. You have to get a little idea on what it is that attracts women.

Trying to figure out what attracts women can be tough at first, but there are some ‘universal’ qualities that you can focus on that most women do find appealing. Focus on what women respond to more than what they say that they want, because when it comes down to it, most women end up falling for guys that are not exactly a match for what they say that they want.

2. It will always be tough for you to get a girlfriend if you have a hard time talking to women.

You need to at least be able to open a conversation with a woman, and get her talking so that you are not trying to make the entire conversation flow all by yourself. Having the ability to talk to women freely, but also in a way that builds up attraction will make it a LOT easier for you to get the response from women that you are after.

3. You need to be able to approach women that you do not know.

The quickest way to get a girlfriend is to start approaching women that you do not know, so that you are opening up a lot more opportunities. One of the common things that guys who ‘struggle’ with getting a girlfriend is that they are too tentative about approaching with women they do not know. You have to get past this if you want to get dates quickly.

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How to Pick Up Girls- The Art of Approaching Women

Monday, September 27th, 2010

So,  you want to learn the art of picking up women,  do you?

Well,  for one thing… it’s not easy,  at least not at first.  For most guys out there,  the thought of picking up a girl is enough to make them want to piss their pants.

Okay,  it might not be that drastic,  but the reality is… most guys don’t even really ever try to pick up girls.

Think about it.

When was the last time that you or any of your buddies actually went out with the sole goal of approaching women,  getting some phone numbers,  and preferably getting dates and maybe some hot,  hookup sex?

If you have to think about it… it’s probably safe to say that you don’t do it all that often.

That’s okay,  as long as you are willing to make a change.  Unless of course,  you don’t mind having your hand and a box of tissues become your best friend on the weekend.

Why don’t most guys go out and try to pick up girls?

There are a few common reasons:

1) Fear.

2) Inexperience.

3) Believing that picking up girls is somehow wrong.

Now,  there might be more than these three reasons,  but these 3 make up the primary reason for probably about 90 percent of guys.

Lets take a look at these three reasons and break them down:

1)  Fear comes from the unknown,  and it can come from bad experiences in the past.

Anyway that you look at it,  fear of approaching women is NOT a good thing.  You need to realize that breaking through the fear is where all the good stuff is,  and in this case,  it means its where the beautiful women are.  If you are going to pick up girls,  then you need to get past that fear as soon as POSSIBLE.

2)  Inexperience comes from… the lack of experience.

The only way to get around this is to go out and get some experience.  Look,  you have to start somewhere,  right?  What’s that old saying,  “A journey of a thousand miles starts with the first step” right?  Same thing applies to picking up women.  Take the first step and handle this part of your life and a wide array of beautiful women will become available to YOU.

3)  Believing that picking up girls is wrong comes from conditioning.

Now,  if this is due to your religious beliefs,  then I can’t really say anything to get past that.  That is your belief and I respect that.  However,  for most guys,  it comes from what society has told them and led them to believe about picking up women.  You get sold the image that pick up artists are all sleazy and that women don’t want to hook up with guys,  they want to fall in love.

If that were true,  pick up artists would NOT get laid,  and women would not go out to clubs wearing next to nothing and batting their pretty little eyes at whatever guy they think is cute.  As far as pick up artists being sleazy… some are,  I can’t deny that,  but that does not mean that you have to be a sleazy guy to pick up women.

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How to Approach Women Confidently – 4 Ways to Boost Your Confidence With Women

Monday, September 6th, 2010

One of the biggest sticking points for any guy is confidence when it comes to approach women,  and even just in dating in general.  If you are not really confident about your ability to approach and attract women,  then you probably are not going to end up trying much,  are you?

You will just rationalize reasons for why you can’t get the girl,  when in reality,  you have no idea unless you actually make the move.

I can relate to not having the confidence to approach women.  There was a time when the only women that I dated were ones that I already knew,  whether it was through friends or work or school.

Then,  I got tossed in the real world,  and found that it was much harder for me to meet and date women.  All of this was because of not having the confidence to approach women that I did not already know.

I have found that this is a pretty common theme amongst men,  and that most guys just never do a thing about it.  They just go along and hope that somehow,  the “right” woman will just float into their life.  And they end up going through LONG periods of time in between relationships.

Here are 4 ways to approach women confidently and boost your overall confidence with women:

1.  Work your way up the ladder.

Now,  I know that this will be about the most politically incorrect thing that I can say,  but let me tell you,  it works wonders.  I call it working your way up the ladder,  and all it means is,  before you go and approach women that are drop dead beautiful,  practice approaching average looking women.  It will enable you to get a little better each time,  and make you feel a lot more comfortable around women.  So,  when you DO move up to the more attractive women,  you are already kind of used to making women find you appealing.

2.  Go it alone if you have to.

This is one of the things that helped me out,  and I think it can help out a lot of guys with the same issue.  It can be hard to approach women when you know that you have a group of your buddies behind you,  laughing,  and acting the fool.  If you want to practice on approaching women,  sometimes it IS better to go it alone.  You don’t feel like you have to report back to your boys,  and if you do get shot down,  there is no one there to tease you about it.  Some guys though,  will feel better when they are with their boys,  so it really is up to you.

3.  Talk to any woman that you can,  be a talker.

When you are checking out at the store,  or ordering food from your waitress,  get a conversation started.  You may not end up dating her,  and you might not even want to.  all it does is give you more and more opportunities to speak to women.  And the more times you get POSITIVE feedback,  the more confident you will grow.  Make your waitress smile and laugh,  and it will start to become “normal” for you to talk to women that you don’t know.

4.  Realize that when you approach a woman,  she might be as nervous as you are.

Though most women are used to being approached by guys by a certain age,  that does not mean that she will not be a little nervous about it.  Keep that in mind,  and you will realize that you don’t have to be PERFECT to end up getting her number.  I can’t tell you how many times that I swore I messed up,  only to end up dating the girl that I thought I messed up on.

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How to Approach Women – 4 Keys to Approaching Beautiful Women

Tuesday, May 4th, 2010

You have to admit that it can be a little intimidating and unnerving to think about approaching beautiful women. If you want to know how to approach women without fear and hesitation holding you back, there are some tricks that you can use to make it easier on yourself. You are not going to be very successful attracting women if you cannot approach beautiful women, so, you have to get this part of your life handled ASAP.

One of the hang ups that a LOT of men seem to have, and it is quite common, is to have the fear of rejection from a woman. And this fear will keep you from even bothering to walk up and approach a woman if you feel the slightest bit of nerves creep in on you.

Here are 4 keys to approaching beautiful women that should help you master this part of your life:

1. Breathe normal. When people get nervous, men and women, their breathing changes. And this kind of sets off a chain of events throughout their body and then, that’s when the nerves really hit. When you feel like this, you will not approach beautiful women for anything. By allowing yourself to just breathe normal, you will eliminate that chain of events and make it feel a lot more comfortable to approach a woman.

2. Walk like an alpha male. How does an alpha male walk? With relaxed, upright posture and a smooth stride. Walk too fast and you seem too eager or even a little nervous. If you let your shoulders slump and your eyes hit the floor, you look like the kind of guy that lets life run over him. None of these things will make you seem attractive to the woman that you are going to approach.

3. Look around. Don’t just stare at the woman that you are approaching. That does not look normal and like she is not that big of a deal. Look around, just do it casually. Give her the impression that you may or may not be approaching her. Basically, keep her guessing. You want to add an element of surprise to this, and when she sees that you cannot take your eyes off of her, there will be NO surprise at all.

4. Have an opener and not a line. Most guys that defend the use of pickup lines all say that hey, you need to open a conversation with a woman. Of course, this is true. However, there is a big difference between opening a conversation with a woman and dropping some generic line on her. Both will get a conversation started, but one will impress her, while the other makes her want to roll her eyes.

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