You tend to be naturally shy around women, especially when the woman is very attractive. It’s funny isn’t it. How a beautiful woman can make you instantly clam up and crawl back into your shell, afraid that she might reject you for some reason or another. What’s even more peculiar is how this is so common amongst guys, yet they won’t even share this feeling with their buddies.
When you are shy around women, it can be hard to work up the nerve to even approach a woman, much less flirt with her. Of course, if you don’t get things moving and start flirting with a woman, then you are not going to ever get the reward of taking her out on a date or having her call you on the phone late at night. You don’t really prefer to watch awful late night shows over talking to a beautiful woman, do you?
No man would. At least no straight, single man would prefer this.
Being shy around women means that you need to gain confidence in some way. And really, there is no better way than learning how female attraction really works, what makes a woman fall for a guy, and knowing that you can possess those qualities and those skills and remove just about any and all fear of rejection that you might feel when you are around a gorgeous, sexy woman.
One of the most important skills that ANY man can possess is knowing how to use body language to flirt with a woman. Most human interaction, most communication between a man and a woman happens without the use of any words at all. Your body language, what it says to her and how she responds will be more important than anything else. When you can use body language flirting with a woman, then you can make her fall in love with you, as she sees that you are the ONE guy that just seems to get her.
And that creates a STRONG sense of attraction with a woman, the kind that she will NOT be able to resist.
Here are some body language flirting tips that you should use on a woman that you adore:
1. First of all, you want your body language to tell her that you are confident.
As long as your body language tells a woman that you have confidence when you around her, she will believe it. See, most body language interpretation happens on a subconscious level. She will be able to notice right away that you move like a man that is confident, even if a part of you is feeling nervous about being around her. You want to make a woman feel like she is secure and safe when she is around you, and confident body language will make her feel this way.
2. You have to be able to work your way close to her.
One of the most powerful ways to attract and flirt with a woman using body language is to get close to her. Not only does this help to escalate things with her, but you can also get a more accurate read on her and what she is feeling. If you are getting close to her and she seems to be pulling away, then you have not created ENOUGH attraction with her yet. She doesn’t feel secure and safe enough being around you and you have to step up your flirting with her a bit. You never want to try to aggressively get close to her, as this will make her feel really uncomfortable around you.
3. Get physical with her in SMALL steps.
Some guys seem to think that being more aggressive with a woman is a way to assert dominance and she will then respect you more and thus, be much more attracted to you. This is true but only to a certain point. If you are too aggressive when you are physically flirting with her, then you can turn from her prince charming into a royal creep very quickly in her eyes. You want to make sure that you take everything in steps, so make small moves to get physical with her. Things like touching her on the small of her back, or on the inside of her knee all work to build attraction with a woman, without taking it too far and too quick.
4. When you make eye contact with her, you want it to seem natural and like there is chemistry with her.
Being able to make meaningful eye contact with a woman and hold her in a gaze can escalate things very quickly. You can give her that feeling of falling on love with you at first sight, as long as you are doing it right. What you never want to make the mistake of doing, is, appearing like you are staring at her. Women don’t like to feel like a man is staring at them. They want to feel like they are being looked at lovingly and with affection instead.
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