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How to Get Women to Talk to You – 3 Tips to Get Her Talking

Saturday, November 27th, 2010

One of the worst experiences any guy can have is to approach a woman and try to get her talking and get absolutely nothing at all. Can you hear the crickets chirping? Anytime that you approach a woman, it’s kind of on you to get the conversation started and if you don’t do your job, lots of times you will end up being met with virtual silence.

This is one of the reasons why some guys will shy away from the thought of even approaching a woman, because they experience trying to start a conversation with a woman and getting nothing at all and that is something that they do not want to experience ever again. That does not have to happen to you. You can learn how to get women to talk to you.

Here are 3 tips to get her talking:

1. Your opener can make you or break you in this situation.

A woman that you have just approached does not have much to go on when you first walk up to her. So, that opener that you use to start a conversation, that is going to play a big role in whether or not she starts talking to you. Most of the time, if it seems like you are strolling over to her just for a pick up and that is exactly the kind of line that you drop on her… expect to hear those crickets chirping. Instead, use something relative to the situation. Not only does that “smell” less like a classic pick up move, but she would have to be rude not to talk back to you in some way.

2. Your appearance is going to play a big role in whether or not she feels comfortable talking to you.

Like it or not, people DO judge a book by its cover, especially when they don’t have much else to go on. Who cares if it is politically correct, it’s just the way that it is. If you approach a woman with a hard look on your face, kind of trying to pull off the tough guy look, and that kind of a guy “scares” her, do you really think that she is going to talk to you? Probably not and even if she does, it’s just going to be enough for her to think of an excuse to get away from you. Soften up your appearance a little, look like a guy who is approachable and friendly, and you will have a much easier time getting women to talk to you.

3. Stay away from controversial subjects and don’t get drawn into a debate.

This is not a good approach, especially if you really don’t know her at all and you are just walking up to her in a bar or a club or any other public place. Controversy and debates can stimulate sexual tension in the right context, but the first time that you meet a woman, or in the wrong venue and it will have a bad effect on what you are trying to accomplish. You need to keep the conversation light and fun, hey, even humorous more than anything else. This is especially true when you have just made a cold approach on a woman.

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Body Language Flirting With a Woman

Sunday, March 7th, 2010

You tend to be naturally shy around women, especially when the woman is very attractive. It’s funny isn’t it. How a beautiful woman can make you instantly clam up and crawl back into your shell, afraid that she might reject you for some reason or another. What’s even more peculiar is how this is so common amongst guys, yet they won’t even share this feeling with their buddies.

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When you are shy around women, it can be hard to work up the nerve to even approach a woman, much less flirt with her. Of course, if you don’t get things moving and start flirting with a woman, then you are not going to ever get the reward of taking her out on a date or having her call you on the phone late at night. You don’t really prefer to watch awful late night shows over talking to a beautiful woman, do you?

No man would. At least no straight, single man would prefer this.

Being shy around women means that you need to gain confidence in some way. And really, there is no better way than learning how female attraction really works, what makes a woman fall for a guy, and knowing that you can possess those qualities and those skills and remove just about any and all fear of rejection that you might feel when you are around a gorgeous, sexy woman.

One of the most important skills that ANY man can possess is knowing how to use body language to flirt with a woman. Most human interaction, most communication between a man and a woman happens without the use of any words at all. Your body language, what it says to her and how she responds will be more important than anything else. When you can use body language flirting with a woman, then you can make her fall in love with you, as she sees that you are the ONE guy that just seems to get her.

And that creates a STRONG sense of attraction with a woman, the kind that she will NOT be able to resist.

Here are some body language flirting tips that you should use on a woman that you adore:

1. First of all, you want your body language to tell her that you are confident.

As long as your body language tells a woman that you have confidence when you around her, she will believe it. See, most body language interpretation happens on a subconscious level. She will be able to notice right away that you move like a man that is confident, even if a part of you is feeling nervous about being around her. You want to make a woman feel like she is secure and safe when she is around you, and confident body language will make her feel this way.

2. You have to be able to work your way close to her.

One of the most powerful ways to attract and flirt with a woman using body language is to get close to her. Not only does this help to escalate things with her, but you can also get a more accurate read on her and what she is feeling. If you are getting close to her and she seems to be pulling away, then you have not created ENOUGH attraction with her yet. She doesn’t feel secure and safe enough being around you and you have to step up your flirting with her a bit. You never want to try to aggressively get close to her, as this will make her feel really uncomfortable around you.

3. Get physical with her in SMALL steps.

Some guys seem to think that being more aggressive with a woman is a way to assert dominance and she will then respect you more and thus, be much more attracted to you. This is true but only to a certain point. If you are too aggressive when you are physically flirting with her, then you can turn from her prince charming into a royal creep very quickly in her eyes. You want to make sure that you take everything in steps, so make small moves to get physical with her. Things like touching her on the small of her back, or on the inside of her knee all work to build attraction with a woman, without taking it too far and too quick.

4. When you make eye contact with her, you want it to seem natural and like there is chemistry with her.

Being able to make meaningful eye contact with a woman and hold her in a gaze can escalate things very quickly. You can give her that feeling of falling on love with you at first sight, as long as you are doing it right. What you never want to make the mistake of doing, is, appearing like you are staring at her. Women don’t like to feel like a man is staring at them. They want to feel like they are being looked at lovingly and with affection instead.

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Why Most Men Fail to Attract Beautiful Women

Friday, October 30th, 2009

Look, fellas, it’s no secret that most guys do NOT end up with the kind of beautiful women that they really want to date. Instead, they hope that they can find a woman that will have them.

As a result, they lose a lot of choice and selection when it comes to dating and women. And many just end up alone and frustrated with their dating lives, unsure of what they can or should do to make changes. That all can end for you as soon as you realize why most men fail to attract beautiful women.

So, what are the reasons why most guys never get the girl they desire?

Most guys try to play the role of a nice guy. In fact, they go above and beyond this routine. They try to be the perfect man and as a result, they end up defeating themselves from the beginning. Look, we all know that there are no perfect guys out there. We all have our own little imperfections. Trying to act as though you are that perfect prince charming is not the key to attracting a woman. You have to be REAL about things.

You have to be willing to take chances.

Another area where most men fail to attract women is that they NEVER take any chances. If you are too worried about playing it safe, you are not going to have the same success with women if you were willing to go out on a limb and take chances once in a while. It’s not the wallflower that attracts the woman, it’s the guy that is willing to walk up and approach a woman that has the chance to make her fall for him. You have to be able to get up the nerve to approach women and take chances once in a while.

You have to know what a woman wants.

In order to be able to create real and genuine attraction with a woman, you have to know what it is that women want and also what they respond to. If you ignore these things, you are not going to be able to attract women. And you will not be able to make them see you as anything more than a friend. You have to be able to intrigue her and make her think about you in more than just a platonic way.

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