What Women Want in a Man – Powerful Ways To Turn on a Woman Without Saying a Word

Posted on August 7, 2010 by Chris Tyler

Women have perplexed men just like you for ages. Men have been searching for what women want in a man for a long time, and most guys still have not come up with any good answers. If you assume that what a woman wants is a rich guy with huge muscles and an expensive sports car, then you probably want to explore a little deeper what truly moves a woman and makes her feel attraction for a man.

You have been taught for a long time all of these broad assumptions about what woman want, and unfortunately, most of it has been dead wrong. See, we all grow up watching fairy tale stories about romance and we are taught that we have to kind of be a woman’s personal prince charming in order to really make her want you.

Well then, what would explain why it seems like guys that act like total jerks seem to have no problems attracting women?

I mean, they are far from the prince charming type, and yet it seems that women are drawn to them. Now, that might get you thinking that in order to attract a woman, you have to become that jerk and that’s not really the case.

Did you realize that most of the elements of attraction do not require that you even speak a word with a woman?

Seriously.

Some men seem to be able to ‘figure’ this out all on their own, and they end up being the ones that have no problems at all picking out which woman that they want to take out on a date.

Yes, they really do ‘pick out’ which woman they want, not the other way around.

Here are some powerful ways to turn on a woman without saying a word that will help you become the kind of guy that can choose which woman you want to date:

1. Your body language has to be congruent with the image that you want to project to her.

If you want to have a woman see you as being the natural alpha male, then your body language has to match. Words can only say so much, and what women really look for is the way that you move your body. If you are too tense and rigid looking, then she will probably assume that you are no fun and you are a little too uptight for her tastes. And if you droop your shoulders and kind of keep your eyes down to the floor, then she is probably going to assume that you are a pushover with little to no self esteem.

2. You have to be able to keep a natural smile on your face.

Women don’t want to be approached by some tough guy that is just going to stand there looking tough. By the same token, though, they also don’t want to be approached by some wimp that is going to spend the entire night asking her if she is okay or if she needs anything. You want to keep a natural smile on your face when you approach a woman, one that is almost kind of playful, so that you signal that not only are you comfortable, but you also have a fun side to you.

3. Do not twitch or act all fidgety with a woman.

It’s kind of funny, but this is really a big turnoff to most women. If you act all fidgety or your body twitches a lot, you are sending her all of the wrong signals. You are probably coming across as being either awkward or nervous, or, you might even be sending her the message that she cannot trust you. And if these are the kinds of messages that you are sending a woman, then you are not going to end up getting anywhere at all with her. You want to appear relaxed and calm, like you would if there was no “pressure” at all.

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How to Seduce a Woman Without Using Words

Posted on August 7, 2010 by Chris Tyler

Most people really do not realize how important body language is when it comes to both attracting and seducing a woman. Guys are always looking for the perfect line, the perfect routine, and they really end up missing out on one of the most IMPORTANT aspects of seduction and attraction, and that is– body language.

When a man walks into a room, women start to take notice of certain things. And they do not always do this consciously, a lot of this takes place on a subconscious level.

If you want to become the kind of guy that women respond to with sexual attraction, then you cannot afford to look past the power of using body language to create that feeling.

Some body language experts estimate that body language is as much as 93% of ALL communication, so you can imagine the effect that would happen if you completely ignored the way that you hold yourself.

Here are some tips on how to seduce a woman without using words:

1. When you walk into a room, you want to appear like you OWN it.

But how do you do this? Well, for one, you want to make sure that your posture is both relaxed and erect at the same time. You don’t want to appear like you lack self esteem by looking down to the floor, letting your shoulders droop, or any other kind of body language that will give off the impression that you are a fish out of water. Own that room and let everyone know it. Women will be able to spot this, and they WILL be intrigued by you.

2. As you approach a woman, you need to be able to maintain that posture and give her a little seductive eye contact.

I cannot tell you how powerful the eyes can be when you want to sexually attract a woman. Before I ever learned just how powerful this was, I would kind of wonder what I should be doing with my eyes. They need to be soft, but still appear to masculine. They need to be inviting and mysterious. Women will tell you that a man’s eyes can be one of the most POWERFUL factors of attraction, and when you start to get good at giving her those bedroom eyes, you will definitely see that things DO get easier for you.

3. You need to have OPEN body language.

One thing that really sends a woman for a loop, is when you have your body language OPEN towards her, but YOU act a little distant. It giver her that little mixed signal that makes her wonder. She knows that she is attracted to you, but then she starts to wonder if YOU really are feeling any kind of attraction. It’s powerful, effective, and it takes some time to master, but when you do– you can seduce almost any woman that you DESIRE.

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How to Get a Girlfriend – Tips to Make a Woman Want to Know What It’s Like to Date YOU

Posted on August 7, 2010 by Chris Tyler

Every single, straight guy out there wants to be able to have a girlfriend. And the sad truth is, that most guys end up either hopelessly single, or they fall for the first woman that they can find. They don’t feel like they deserve the possibility of attracting the kind of woman that they REALLY desire. They don’t feel like they have the know how to make a woman want to know what it is like to date them.

Well, you can be the exception to the rule and be one of those guys that gets clued in to what will make a woman want to date you, even when she seems to be WAY out of your league. If you think that it is impossible to do this, then you NEED to keep READING this article. 

Here are some tips on how to get a girlfriend that will help you get the women that you DREAM about dating:

1. Work on developing a SOLID inner game.

This is still the most overlooked aspect of dating, and until you really handle your inner game, your outer game is always going to fall short of your expectations. Being able to develop a solid inner confidence and see yourself as the kind of guy that women want to date is a necessary trait that you must have. You have to BELIEVE that women want you, and then you will start to actually see your reality show evidence of this. It might sound a little bit out there, but you will believe it when you start to see how women respond to you. 

2. Find out what women really respond to. 

There is a big difference between what sounds good and what really is. See, it sounds good to say that women want a sensitive guy that will handle their every need, but when you look at what a woman responds to, you start to see a much different picture. The classic and traditional dating advice is sweet sounding fluff, but in the dating world, you need to work with techniques that women actually respond to. 

3. Get out and APPROACH women whenever and wherever you can. 

You need to get excited about the idea of being able to attract a girlfriend. Seriously, you need to be able to go out and find out where the women are and start to approach them. Getting comfortable with making the approach does take some time and experience, and you need to be able to get it out of the way as soon as you possibly can. Don’t be one of those guys that sits at home 24/7, and then complains about how hard it is to get a girlfriend. Be a DOER and make it HAPPEN!

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How to Attract Women – You Are The PRIZE!

Posted on August 7, 2010 by Chris Tyler

Usually when a guy looks at a woman that he finds attractive,  he immediately starts to associate her with being some kind of a “prize” that he wants to win.  You may have heard in romance movies a line where the guy will describe his girlfriend as being a gift that he has to cherish or something to that effect.  Well,  that sounds sweet and everything,  but if that is the attitude that you take when trying to attract a woman… You are going to have a tough time and be in for a rude awakening.

When attracting a woman,  you have to start to think of yourself as being the prize and not the other way around.  Let me give a brief explanation as to why this is.

When you think of a woman as being the prize,  your behavior around her is going to follow suit.  You are going to spend all of your time and your energy trying hard to “win” her,  and neglect to spend any time at all attracting her using natural methods of attraction.

Here’s how to start thinking of yourself as being the prize and not the other way around:

1.  The way that you think has to change.

You cannot be so grateful to be in the presence of a woman that you are willing to do anything that you can think of to try and make her like you.  If you get caught up thinking like this,  your wallet will empty,  your ego will get fractured,  and you will still end up going home alone for the night.  You have to start to think of it being the other way around and that the woman should be grateful for meeting you.  This line of thinking will instantly change the way that you behave and give you a much needed shot of confidence. 

2.  You need to stop worrying about what she is going to think of you.

If you are caught up in worrying about what a woman thinks of you,  then you are going to end up getting caught right back in the cycle where she is the prize and you are the jester that is there to put on a show for her.  It does not matter really what she thinks of you.  Come from a mindset of abundance and realize that there are plenty of fish in the sea,  and that you can attract another woman if things don’t work out with this one. 

3.  You need to be able to SHOW HER that she is entering YOUR world. 

How do you do this?  You don’t care about what she thinks of you,  and you take her out to places where you feel comfortable.  When she is in your environment,  there is a “power” shift.  She will feel like she has to be the one that wins you over and pleases you.  This is how you really begin the shift from thinking of her as the prize into yourself as being the prize.

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Instant Female Attraction – How to Make a Woman Want YOU As Soon As You Meet Her

Posted on August 6, 2010 by Chris Tyler

We’ve all heard about instant attraction,  but most guys have no clue on how to really make a woman feel that way.  Just think about how much more fun and enjoyable your dating and social life would be if you had the skills,  the tools,  and the techniques to make a woman feel like she wants YOU as soon as you meet her.  How much better would you FEEL about yourself?

Probably a LOT better.  Most guys are going to shrug that off and decide that they just don’t have the “talent” to make a woman feel that way.  Yet,  there are still a lot of men out there that really are no different than you are,  except for the fact that they KNOW how to create instant attraction with a woman.  And as a result of knowing how to do this,  they are able to date just about any woman that they want to! 

Here are some tips on how to make a woman want you as soon as you meet her: 

1.  You have to make eye contact with a woman.  

The eyes have been described as being windows to the soul.  Well,  guess what?  Lots of women believe that whole heartedly.  If you want to make her get that instant feeling of attraction,  then you have to be able to hold eye contact with a woman.  Of course,  it has to be done the RIGHT way,  though.  See,  if you are staring into her eyes the wrong way,  it can make a woman feel awkward,  or it can make her feel a little like you are the kind of creep that she tries to stay away from.  You have to be able to hold eye contact with a woman,  but in a way that makes her feel attraction,  chemistry,  and familiarity.

2.  Don’t wait for a certain amount of time to pass until you start to joke with her.

Laughter,  humor,  it’s one of the most attractive qualities that women around the world are into.  If a woman meets a pretty average looking guy, but he can make her laugh all night long,  she is not likely to just outright reject him.  In fact,  laughter and a sense of humor is one of those things that almost all women end up looking for in a man.  So,  show her that you got it,  from the moment that you meet her.  Don’t wait until you get to know her better.  Start firing away with the jokes.

3.  Go for the physical contact as soon as possible. 

This is another sure fire way to get some instant sparks flowing between you and her.  Don’t be a groper though,  no woman wants to have a guy just walk up to her and start feeling her up!  Light,  physical contact that slowly progresses into more is what you want to go for.  When you add in the physical contact along with the humor and the eye contact,  then you have a winning formula for creating attraction with a woman,  instantly!

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Seduction of a Woman – How to Seduce Women That Are Better Looking Than You Are!

Posted on August 6, 2010 by Chris Tyler

Most guys that want to know how to seduce women are really not in it to go out and seduce the first really plain and unattractive woman that they can find.  No,  you want to be able to seduce beautiful women,  women that are MUCH better looking than YOU are.  Well,  there is nothing wrong with that,  is there?  I mean,  you don’t look through a men’s magazine and say to yourself,  man,  where are the average looking girls? 

However,  most guys put up an instant barrier between themselves and attractive women.  They think that they have to look like a movie star,  or that they have to wear the trendiest clothes,  and drive a cool car.  Well,  all of those things are good and really can make things easier,  there is no doubt about it. 

They are not NECESSARY,  though.  Unless the women that you want to go to bed with really are straight gold diggers,  these are not necessary things that you must possess before you can make a woman want to go to bed with you. 

Here are some tips on how to seduce a woman that is much better looking than you are: 

1.  It all starts with the way that YOU see yourself.  

Seriously,  if you see yourself as the kind of guy that women gravitate towards,  you know what happens?  They really do start to notice you.  They can’t help it,  it’s the way that nature designed it.  They are wired to be attracted to men that have confidence,  that know that they are “worthy” of any woman that they want.  You have to have the right mindset to get women into bed. 

2.  You cannot be friends with a woman and hope that one day she will add in the benefits. 

I am sure that there are a few instances where this really does happen,  but on the whole,  the friends thing is not conducive to being able to one day get her in bed.  Most women will NEVER sleep with a man that they think of as being just a friend,  unless one day they get tired of being single and decide to settle down with that one guy that was always there.  But,  that really has nothing to do with seducing a woman,  does it?  Don’t be her friend,  be her LOVER instead! 

3.  Discover the techniques that work like a charm to create sexual tension with a woman.  

You have to be able to create sexual tension with a woman if you want to end up getting her in your bed.  (Or maybe hers.)  Guys that think that they have to be super sweet and like a complete gentleman almost always go home alone,  all because they fail to create enough sexual tension so that the woman does not want you to leave.  You have to be able to make her feel INTENSE feelings of arousal,  if you want to end up sleeping with her.

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Alpha Male Attraction – How to Make Women See YOU As Being the Alpha Male They Desire

Posted on August 3, 2010 by Chris Tyler

Unless you have been hiding out under a rock, then you probably have heard the term alpha male before. And you probably have also heard that alpha males have a much easier time when it comes to attracting women than most guys seem to have. They are the guys that other men look to as who they want to be, and they are the guys that women DESIRE to be with.

If you feel like you are just a normal everyday guy, though, what can you do to make women see you as an alpha male?

One of the biggest false assumptions is that you have to go out and hit the weights everyday and that you have to basically become the kind of guy that is just out there looking at women as a notch on their belt to be seen as the alpha male.

This could not be FURTHER from the truth.

So, let’s start out and look at a brief and basic description of what an alpha male is.

An alpha male is confident. And it is a real confidence. He is a leader and a man that other people look to when they need direction, answers, and even inspiration. Doesn’t sound like a muscle bound jerk, does it?

Why is this so desirable to a woman?

Because women are WIRED to place a large emphasis on a man’s social status. When a woman sees a guy that is a real deal alpha male, she is going to pay attention to him. She is going to want to speak to him, and spend time with him. And, she is going to feel ATTRACTION for him.

How can YOU make yourself appear to be the alpha male that women desire?

You need to develop a solid “inner” game. You need to develop confidence around women, and you have to know how to give off those leadership qualities that make her immediately associate YOU as being the kind of guy that she wants to be with.

Most men only focus on techniques. They want to learn pick up lines and how to dress to attract women. They don’t go any deeper, and then they wonder WHY they still have a hard time attracting high quality, attractive women. You NEED to build up your inner game if you want to attract a woman and you want to make her see YOU as a man she just has to get to know.

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How to Flirt With Women – 5 Flirting Tips EVERY Man Should Know About

Posted on August 3, 2010 by Chris Tyler

The flirting game can be fun, frustrating, and everything in between. When you are “in the zone” and everything just keeps on going the way that you want when you are flirting with a woman, you don’t want it to ever end. And when the opposite happens, when it seems like nothing, no flirting technique seems to be breaking through, you can’t wait for things to end.

Truth is, if you want to have a good time with women, then you have to become good at flirting. Guys that ignore this fact are the ones that don’t understand why some guys that are just like them, seem to be able to have no problems at all attracting a woman.

Here are 5 flirting tips every man should know about:

1. Flirting with a woman is NOT sucking up to her.

I have to say, that this could be the most important tip that you can get about flirting. If you equate flirting with sucking up to her, get used to ending up alone and without a girlfriend. Or, if it does work out for you, get used to being the guy that holds her purse while she goes out and spends your money at the mall. Seriously, sucking up to a woman is just that. It’s sucking up and it does not make her feel attraction, it just lets her know that you will basically do ANYTHING that she wants just in the hopes that she will like you.

2. Become a closet comedian.

What exactly do I mean by this? Well, I can pretty much assume that you are in no way a professional comedian. However, that does not mean that you cannot make a woman laugh. And laughter is the best way to create a sense of rapport, and cracking jokes will also let her know that you are an easy going guy. She does not want to have a man with a lot of “issues,” she has girlfriends for that. Plus, when you are able to playfully joke on HER, every once in a while, then she knows that you are not the guy that is going to kiss her feet.

3. Find a way to get close to her and use kino to escalate flirting.

Okay, you might be looking at the word, kino, and wondering what that is. Well, it’s just a term that in plain English means physical touch. Using physical touch as a way to escalate from just a little joking and smiling will start to take things to a more intimate level. Women play flirt with guys all of the time and it leads nowhere. When you add in the kino, and you get close to her and start to escalate things, NOW, you have the potential to have more than just a little flirting going on.

4. Get used to using body language flirting as a method to attract a woman.

You know, some experts will range from saying that body language is 70 percent of all communication to as high as 93 percent. Whatever the number is, what really matters is that body language counts and it counts a whole lot. You can say all of the clever things that you want, you can make her laugh a little, and you can even use kino to escalate attraction. However, if your body language is off, and it gives her the wrong vibes, then you probably are not going to get as far with her as you would like to.

5. Use flirting as a means to go further with her.

When you are a guy that is just starting out to really consciously handle your dating and your social life, flirting can be a lot of fun, even if that’s all it ends up being. However, if you want to advance to the NEXT level, and start getting intimate with women, and having real relationships, then you need to use flirting as a means to go further. The flirt games should never stop, but you need to be able to transition into making her feel sexual attraction, enough so that she does not want to let YOU get away from HER.

When you have the right flirting techniques, including body language flirting, then you can literally create attraction with ANY woman you want to…

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Falling For Your Best Friend – How to Make Her Become MORE Than Just a Friend

Posted on July 26, 2010 by Chris Tyler

She’s the one that you spend most of your time with. You even think about her when she is not around, and now all of your thoughts seem to be getting more and more romantic. You want more than anything to make her become more than just a friend, you just don’t want to also risk losing her as a friend. Seems like you are kind of stuck in a tough spot, wouldn’t you say?

Now, some people will tell you that the best thing that you can do is to just keep things the way that they are. But, it’s really not all that healthy to have a female friend that you are in love with and keep all of those emotions locked inside.

And then, there are going to be some people that are going to tell you that you should just forget about her and move on. But, that is not going to leave you feeling satisfied.

Is there a way that you can make your best friend become your GIRLFRIEND?

Most men do not realize that they are slipping into the friend zone while it is happening. Then one day, they finally realize that this is exactly what has happened. Of course, the most obvious answer to this situation is to make sure that you never get there in the first place, but you are beyond that point right now.

Here are a couple of tips on how to get started turning your female friend into YOUR girlfriend:

1. She cannot keep seeing you as being that safe, male friend that she can run to when she needs emotional comfort.

If you keep on being that person to her, then she is NEVER going to want to risk doing a single thing that could hurt that dynamic that the two of you have. So, you have to be able to change the way that she sees you and the friendship. The best way to do this, is to slowly become a lot more distant to her. Don’t act cold, just don’t be there nearly as often and don’t let the conversations stray into topics that only friends would talk about.

2. You need to change the way that you behave with her.

Friends act different when they are with each other than they would with someone that they want to date. Friends just have that rapport where they feel like they can be who they are without getting embarrassed about anything. On the other hand, a woman is going to try to look her best and hide her flaws if it is a guy that she wants to date. And you should do the same. When you change your behavior, you are going to force a change in the way that she sees you.

3. You need to take action or just move on.

At some point, you have to face the possibility that she might reject you. If that is too much for you, then you really do need to just move on or suffer in silence until she runs off with some new guy and gets married or something. Anytime that you find yourself wanting to date someone, rejection is a possibility. However, her saying YES is also a possibility, so don’t think that it cannot be a good thing to take action.

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Dating Advice for Single Guys- 3 Things that Will BOOST Your Success in the Dating Scene

Posted on July 26, 2010 by Chris Tyler

As a single guy, the dating world can be a roller coaster ride. Sometimes it seems like women come easy, and sometimes it seems like they just are nowhere to be found. Well, you DO know where to find them, it’s just that they don’t seem like they are that interested in you. Do you want to know how to change that and boost your success in the dating world?

Dating advice for single guys can be confusing. You get one school of thought that says that you need to be a woman’s everything and that is what will make her want to be with you. And then you get the exact opposite that says that you should be a total jerk and this is what will attract women.

What is a guy to believe?

Well, it is kind of a balance there that you need to have. You cannot be the classic doormat and let a woman walk all over you. However, you also do not want to come off like a complete jerk just to try and get some play from a woman.

Here are 3 things that will boost your success in the dating scene:

1. You need to have variety in your life.

If you want to be successful with women, then you need to be able to look at all types of women and be able to open yourself up to possibility. Don’t just focus all of your attention on one women, not from the start. You need to be able to see what else is out there and gain the experience with women that will help you to become a lot more successful.

2. You need to be able to get your gear together.

While the way that you look is not everything, unless you are in LA and you are chasing after really superficial women, you do want to pay some attention to your appearance. When you have your gear together, not only will you feel good, but you will also look good as well. And both of these things put together will make you look a lot more attractive to any single women that you might come across.

3. You need to learn to put your wallet AWAY.

Guys make this mistake all of the time. One of the fist things that they will usually try to do is buy a woman a drink. And if they are not in a bar but somewhere else, they will still try to find a way to buy her something. Well, all that does is set you up to be one of those guys that has to pay for her attention and affection. Talk about a turnoff, but it also basically sets you up to become a doormat. Put your wallet away and discover how to build REAL attraction with her, instead.

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