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How to Get Her Turned On – Tips to Turbo Charge Your Seduction Skills

Wednesday, September 21st, 2011

How do you get a woman turned on? 

Ask most guys this question,  and they are going to look at you with confusion and bewilderment,  or they are going to give you some kind of cheesy response that sounds like they learned most of their sexual education from adult films and locker room conversations with guys who have about the same amount of inexperience as they do.  Any regular guy can become a “stud” as long as he puts in some time learning real tips and techniques to turn on a woman and ignores those things that men often think are effective but do really little to turn on a woman.

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If so,  then you really may need to keep reading.  You also need to unlearn any ineffective techniques,  methods and concepts that will get in the way of learning what really works.   You also need to learn how to take things slow.  Slow can be a good thing for YOU.   Turning on a woman takes some patience and if you are too rushed,  that can be a bad thing.  And you know what?  I’d probably be pretty conservative if I were to estimate that 8 out of 10 guys try to move too fast in trying to get a woman into the bedroom.

How to Get Her Turned On Tip Number One -  The Eye Connection

This has always been my favorite little “trick.”  It’s been my go to move for quite some time and it hardly ever seems to fail me.  And it hardly ever seems to fail anyone that I explain it to and they actually USE IT.  The eyes are a way to connect with someone on a “spiritual” level.  And in many cultures,  sex is a spiritual thing.  When you use your eyes to connect with a woman,  you can do a lot of the “heavy lifting” of trying to seduce her into bed,  without really having to do much at all.

What do you do?

Take a moment where the conversation is kind of winding down.  Not winding down like it’s the end of the night and she is going to go home.  More like you know that there is going to be a long pause where neither one of you are saying anything.  At this point,  you want to make a brief,  5 second connection with her,  using just your eyes.  She’ll connect back if there is any rapport or chemistry between the two of you.  After no more than five seconds,  look down and away and give a light little chuckle.  Then,  repeat the eye connection and see if she holds for any longer than 5 seconds.    Chances are,  if she does,  this is a great moment to move in for the kiss.

How to Get Her Turned On Tip Number Two -  Better Than Spanish Fly

As long as you followed the first tip,  then you should be able to move on to this one.  While you are close to each other,  sitting down,  you want to gently place your hand on the outside of her opposite knee.  Slowly move up her leg till you get to about the mid thigh and then move your hand slowly inward so that you are now on her inner thigh.  If you make this move while you are kissing,  then you may want to see how far up she will let you go.

Why Is It So Important to Move From Knee to Thigh?

I’ve seen a lot of guys make the mistake of going straight to trying to put their hands on the inside thigh,  before they really did anything else.  At that point,  it’s going to feel more like you are pawing at her or trying to cop a cheap feel.  BAD MOVE.  On the other hand,  if you start off at the outer part of her knee,  a very “safe” place,  and then move up and inward as yo are kissing her,  it feels more like a natural progression to her.  Instead of feeling like you are just trying to cop a feel,  it feels more like you are going with the kiss and going with the moment.

It’s Not Over Just Yet…

Following these two tips just right,  you can get pretty hot and heavy with a woman rather quickly.  And as long as you are in a private place where sex can occur,  then there is a really good chance that this is exactly where the two of you will end up.  Now,  just because you have gotten to this point,  though,  don’t expect that she is like putty in your hands.  Last minute resistance is VERY real in this situation and you really need to know how to escalate things further.

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How to Turn On a Woman Sexually – She Doesn’t Get Turned on The Same Way You Do!

Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

Turning on a woman sexually is something that all straight men want to be able to do. And sometimes we trick ourselves into believing that we know how to do this without ever really thinking too deeply on it. The problem with that is, it’s not always true. See, most guys learn what they know about turning on a woman from the worst sources. They learn from buddies who know about as much as they do. They learn from movies that are set up to appeal to what guys want to see… not to what really works to turn on a woman.

So, the uncomfortable reality is… most men are not as skilled at turning on a woman sexually as they like to think they are. And what is the reality of not being able to turn on a woman sexually? I think you know the answer to this one. You either won’t get nearly as much action as you want or you might end up losing a woman you are dating just because she is not getting the pleasure and satisfaction that she desires from you.

Either way… You LOSE!

Here’s a little advice on how to turn a woman on sexually:

1. She does not get turned on by the same things that get you going.

If you take away one tidbit from this article, this should be it. Women don’t get turned on by all of the same stuff that men do. So, if you approach trying to turn her on and you do it using techniques and methods that get you going, there is a really good chance that it’s NOT doing the trick. You want to really be able to get that chiseled into your mind and make sure that it stays there.

2. The environment plays a big role for her.

One really stark difference that applies to almost all women you are going to meet is… the environment does play a huge role in whether she gets turned on or not. If she is in an environment that she does not quite feel comfortable in, then chances are, it’s not going to be a good place to try and get her turned on. For this, you have to get a good feel for her personality, because not every woman likes the same environment. Some are more adventurous than others.

3. Conversation leads to stimulation.

Both men and women can get really turned on by conversation, but for women, it takes a little more than it does for a guy. A woman could just flat out say the words… “I want you” and that would probably be more than enough to get you turned on, right? Well, for most women, you need more than three words. You need to be descriptive and creative. You need to kind of set up an image in her mind, something that she can feel and see.

The more you know about how to turn on a woman, the easier it is to seduce a woman into bed and make HER want YOU…

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Sex With No Strings Attached – Tips for Men

Wednesday, April 20th, 2011

Sex with no strings attached is one of the ultimate goals that men have when it comes to bedding women, and you know what? Most guys look at it kind of like the Loch Ness monster, meaning, they don’t think it really exists. And in some ways, they would be right. There are always ‘some’ strings attached to sex, there’s no way to get around it. However, you can parlay a situation where the strings are not all that cumbersome, so that it DOES feel like you are just having fun and there are no real strings that come attached with the sex.

The idea that you can have sex without having any implications towards anything else is more of a fantasy than reality. You are dealing with a woman, a human being, and she is going to want to feel like a woman… not like a place for you to just insert your penis and not have any repercussions at all. What you really can have is a consensual, casual sexual relationship without all of the other relationship stuff getting too deep.

Here are some tips on sex with no strings attached that can help you make it become more than just a dream:

1. You have to know, before you do anything at all, that the woman is going to want something in return.

Like I said, the idea that you can have sex without any kind of strings involved really does not exist. At most, you might get a one night stand that way, but there is some kind of ongoing relationship if you continue having sex with a woman. That is something that you have to keep in mind, because if you treat a woman like you are just looking for a warm place to get off, eventually she is going to deny you what you want and then you are going to be left with nothing more than a box of tissues sitting next to your laptop.

2. She has to be a sexually liberated woman, which are rare, or else things will get messy.

Regardless of what you may hear or what you may want to believe, truly sexually liberated women are pretty rare. These are the women that you can have a really casual sexual relationship with and not have to run into her catching feelings and wanting something more. Choosing to try and sex with no strings attached relationship with any other kind of woman will almost always turn out messier than you imagine.

3. You have to be able to handle the no strings attached thing yourself.

Not as many guys can handle having sex with a woman on an ongoing basis and not catching feelings themselves. This is especially true if she is good looking and fun to be with. Many times a guy will think that he can do this, just because he is a guy, and next thing you know– he’s falling for her. That is not such a bad thing if she is feeling the same way, but if she isn’t– you can end up getting really hurt by the whole thing.

You know, any way that you want to look at it, if you are going to have an ongoing relationship of any kind with a woman– there are going to be some strings attached to it. Luckily, if you choose the right woman, and you can handle an ongoing casual sexual relationship yourself, then you CAN make it happen and have a whole lot of fun doing it. You always have to remember that it’s never about using a woman, it’s about having an incredible experience that you can share with her.

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Questions Everyone Wants to Know About Sex

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

When it comes to the subject of sex, there are always lots of questions that tend to come up, some more so than others. While this article is definitely directed at men, women can still pick up some insight. Sex is one of those things that usually doesn’t get talked about enough, mostly due to all of the social taboos about it. Still, even the Puritans in colonial America were getting their groove on, so why it does not get discussed more, I don’t really know.

Let’s get right into it and answer some common questions about sex that everyone wants to know:

1. Does a man have to be hung like a horse to please a woman?

Short answer (no pun intended): No. You don’t have to worry if you are not packing a king size penis or just an average one, you don’t have to be gigantic to please a woman. In fact, you can even be on the small side and still do better than a guy who is hung like a horse. Why?

Well for one, guys that are well endowed tend to rely solely on their size, so they never learn any real technique. I can remember having a discussion with a few women who all had experiences with guys who were very big and they all said the same thing: it hurt! Most guys think of sex with a woman as being them plowing in and out and in and out and if you are too big, that can eventually hurt a woman. Not only that, but plowing in and out like a porno movie is about the most ineffective way to make a woman have an orgasm.

If you really want to please a woman, your size does not matter as much as your technique AND the way you feel. I know, those commercials for size enhancement pills will make you believe otherwise, but remember they want your dough and that’s about it. And yes, amongst guys having a big penis may make you feel a little more manly, but chances are… the guys with the bigger penises have women who wish they would actually learn how to make love instead of acting as if they were in a porno flick.

2. Does sex between friends make things get messy?

Most of the time when a man and a woman try and do the friends with benefits thing, it DOES get a little messy. One person will almost always end up having feelings and becoming attached to the other person and then that is when the fun ends and the drama begins. Unless you are willing to risk a friendship for a little bit of sex, most of the time you want to avoid this.

Traditionally, it is usually assumed that the woman will be the one who gets attached, but that is not always the case. Lots of guys have secret crushes on their female friends and when they begin to have sex together, that crush grows into a really deep attraction and next thing he knows it, he’s thinking about her all the time and gets jealous if she looks at another guy.

3. Do women think about sex as much as men do?

In my experience, the answer is some do and some don’t. There has long been this idea pushed forward, mostly by prudish people that women don’t think about sex as much as guys do and that kind of blanket statement is definitely not always true. There are some women who have an insatiable appetite for sex and like it just as much as any guy. Some even get into watching adult films themselves.

Of course, there are some that do not. If you are with a woman who seems like she is not into sex at all, then you may want to dig a little deeper. You have to really get to know the woman you are with and see if she really is not all that into sex or if she is just waiting for the right guy to bring out the wild side in her. Just remember that you can be that guy and no, you don’t need an oversized package to make it happen.

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Ex Girlfriend Sex – Can You Have Sex With Your Ex – Girlfriend?

Saturday, April 17th, 2010

Okay, every guy has had this fantasy before at least once in his life. At least once, probably many times more, you have thought about whether or not you could get your ex-girlfriend back in bed with you. Maybe it was the crazy girl that having a relationship with was out of the question, but the sex was out of this world. Or, maybe it was one of those long ago loves, where the sex was passionate and intimate and better than with any other woman you have been with since.

Whatever the reasons are, we have all had dreams about laying the girl that got away. You might not even really want to have a serious relationship with her, you just want to be able to get her out of her clothes and under your sheets.

So, can you have sex with your ex-girlfriend?

Before you even make an attempt to make this happen, you have to realize that you are probably not going to be able to just call her up out of the blue and woo her with your clever diatribe and expect that she is just going to come rushing over to have sex with you.

Maybe in a dream world or in a bad porno movie that would happen, but not in the real world.

If you are going to seriously try and woo your ex-girlfriend back into your bedroom, then you have to have a plan to make it happen. And you have to be okay with the idea that it just might not be in the cards for you to get to lay her again.

Here’s a few tips to try and make your ex-girlfriend want to have sex with you again.

1. Call her up just to get her talking.

Depending on how long it has been since you have last had contact with your ex-girlfriend, a simple phone call just to get her talking is probably all that you should start with. How weird would it be for you to call her up after a while and try and jump into the dirty talk right off of the bat? Seducing your ex-girlfriend is going to take some time, and although it can happen fast when you get the ball rolling, you will sabotage your chances of getting her in bed if you try and move too fast with her.

2. While you are talking to her, toss in just a couple of flirtations here and there.

Like I said, you don’t want to come on too strong with your ex-girlfriend and make her quick to end the conversation with you. So, feel free to throw in a little flirting with her, but don’t make it seem like you called her up just to try and get her to have sex with you. You also don’t want to have a conversation without ANY flirting at all, otherwise it will just seem like two old friends catching up, and there is nothing sexy about that at all. Make sure that YOU are the one that cuts the phone call a little short.

3. Start a mini routine of phone calls.

After the first phone call, you don’t want to go through a long period of time before you talk to her again. Wait a couple of days and call her again and this time, try to get her to hang on for a little while longer. This will make it seem like the two of you are ‘clicking’ again, and she will more than likely think about you, even when you are not on the phone with her. If she has a page on Myspace or Facebook, get on her friends list.

4. Now that you have an increase in the amount of calls and times that you interact with her, plan to meet up in person.

Whatever you do, don’t call it a date. Just get her to come out and hang out with you, preferably just you and her. Of course, this is when you ARE going to start making some real moves on her, but if you refer to it as a date before you get her to come out, she is more likely to find herself ‘busy’ when you want to meet up with her. While you are out with her, treat her like you would a woman that you are out on a date with. Of course, if you usually end up getting nothing at the end of your dates, then you may want to switch up how you behave a little.

5. Get her back to YOUR place.

Since you have already been together before and you are not some guy that she has just met, she’s more than likely going to be open to the idea of going back to your place. Maybe you just suggest a more quiet place to chit chat, or you want to show her some things that you know would interest her. Whatever your reasons are, be casual and aloof about what you REALLY want to happen.

6. Do I have to say any MORE?

If you have gotten this far, and you have her back at your place, then I hope you already know what to do to get her into your bedroom. Just keep in mind that you still have to woo her a bit, even when she is on your couch. You want to seduce her, to make the experience seem almost IRRESISTIBLE to her. When you can make her feel like this and steps 1-5 have already panned out for you, then you should be good as long as you don’t make any last minute mistakes.

7. Don’t try to make it a relationship, at least not right away.

Hopefully you will have been successful and she will be laying in your bed come morning. If she is, then you want to keep in mind that you don’t want to try and turn this into a relationship. Maybe you and her will get back together, but if not, don’t try and force it to happen. Just appreciate the fact that you got to fulfill that fantasy and you should have a pretty large SMILE on your face. Hopefully, she will TOO!

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