Ask most guys this question, and they are going to look at you with confusion and bewilderment, or they are going to give you some kind of cheesy response that sounds like they learned most of their sexual education from adult films and locker room conversations with guys who have about the same amount of inexperience as they do.
Turning on a woman sexually is something that all straight men want to be able to do. And sometimes we trick ourselves into believing that we know how to do this without ever really thinking too deeply on it. The problem with that is, it’s not always true. See, most guys learn what they know about turning on a woman from the worst sources. They learn from buddies who know about as much as they do. They learn from movies that are set up to appeal to what guys want to see… not to what really works to turn on a woman.
Sex with no strings attached is one of the ultimate goals that men have when it comes to bedding women, and you know what? Most guys look at it kind of like the Loch Ness monster, meaning, they don’t think it really exists. And in some ways, they would be right. There are always ‘some’ strings attached to sex, there’s no way to get around it. However, you can parlay a situation where the strings are not all that cumbersome, so that it DOES feel like you are just having fun and there are no real strings that come attached with the sex.
When it comes to the subject of sex, there are always lots of questions that tend to come up, some more so than others. While this article is definitely directed at men, women can still pick up some insight. Sex is one of those things that usually doesn’t get talked about enough, mostly due to all of the social taboos about it. Still, even the Puritans in colonial America were getting their groove on, so why it does not get discussed more, I don’t really know.
Okay, every guy has had this fantasy before at least once in his life. At least once, probably many times more, you have thought about whether or not you could get your ex-girlfriend back in bed with you. Maybe it was the crazy girl that having a relationship with was out of the question, but the sex was out of this world. Or, maybe it was one of those long ago loves, where the sex was passionate and intimate and better than with any other woman you have been with since.