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How to Be An Alpha Male- Positioning Yourself as Her Dream Guy

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

How to Be An Alpha Male

A lot of guys wonder,  what does it really mean to be an alpha male?  And depending on who you ask,  you are going to end up getting a LOT of different answers to this.  Some guys think it is all about being dominant,  being able to push others around,  and to kind of be  a jerk to be honest.  Other men just aren’t quite sure of what an alpha male really is.  An alpha male,  in my opinion is not a dominant guy in the sense that he pushes people around,  but instead he learns how to be a leader of men,  and of women as well.

We all have our own styles,  so there really isn’t a cookie cutter,  follow these exact tips and you will be an alpha male definition.  However,  there is a huge bonus to being the kind of alpha male who relies more on his leadership skills and his confidence than there is in trying to be dominant.

So,  let’s talk about leading.  In this case,  we are going to talk about what it means to lead a woman.  And what we want to do is to lead a woman into seeing YOU as being her DREAM guy,  the kind of guy she thinks about,  can’t resist,  and wants to date.  So,  how do you go about positioning yourself as her dream guy?

LEAD Her To Tell You What She DESIRES…

You can sit there and try to guess what she wants in a guy,  you can try all the mind tricks that you want to try and get a peak into what she really desires,  or you can get her to tell you herself.  How do you do this?

Ask.

Of course you can’t just come right out and say what is your dream guy like?  If you do that,  all you are going to get are the made up answers that sound good,  but are not necessarily what she is attracted to.

What you have to do is to get her to reveal her desires and passions in life,  and from there you can kind of put together what she really responds to in a guy.  For example,  if she is an obviously shy woman,  but she talks about liking exciting things,  then you can kind of figure out that her dream guy would be someone that evokes excitement.

Once you can get her to reveal the little things about herself that reveal what kind of guy she really is attracted to,  and what kind of guy she really will respond to,  you know what features about yourself to highlight.  You don’t have to go around making things up,  you can be genuine,  you just have to position yourself as matching up to what she really desires.

POSITION Yourself to Be Off-Limits to Her…

Once you start to kind of imply that you are the kind of guy she really desires to be with,  then you need to put yourself in the position of being off limits to her.  Everyone enjoys the thrill of the chase when it comes to dating,  and women are no exception to this.  One of the biggest mistakes that guys make is,  they qualify themselves to the woman and they let her know right away that she can have them.

Goodbye chase and goodbye thrills.

Discover how to position yourself so that women want to chase after YOU,  and you will NEVER have to worry about getting dates again…

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Copyright (c) 2011 Chris Tyler.  All Rights Reserved.

Female Attraction Techniques – 3 Techniques That Attract Women Like a Charm

Sunday, December 19th, 2010

Female attraction is one of those things that leaves most guys feeling a little puzzled. Just when you think you have it figured out and know what attracts a woman pretty easily, you start to find out that maybe that’s just not the case. If you want to be able to attract women, then you have to know what it is that really gets women intrigued about a guy. Figure that out, and you will be able to attract a woman and make her think of you as being the kind of guy she wants to be with.

Here are 3 female attraction techniques that attract women like a charm:

1. Approach her with a smile and let her see that you are a guy who doesn’t have to use any kind of lines on her.

Don’t get me wrong, some guys can pull off dropping a line on a woman pretty good, but most don’t. When most guys use a line, it’s pretty clear that he’s trying to pull something that he memorized out of his head. And that won’t get nearly as good of a reaction from a woman as you would want. Approach her with a smile so she feels comfortable with you, and let her see that you are not going to try and pull off any magical lines to win her over.

2. Make her laugh in order to break the ice and build rapport with her.

Just about any guy can end up making a good impression on a woman by trying to make her laugh and using his sense of humor to build up rapport with a woman. You don’t have to be super funny, you just have to be able to get her laughing a little so that she is cool with you being around her, and so that you get the chance to build up some real rapport with her.

3. Use kino escalation to build up her attraction to you very fast.

Introducing physical touch with a woman is a good way to build up a woman’s attraction to you very fast. You don’t have to get too touchy with her, simple things like touching her on her shoulder, or even the small of her back can do enough to make her attraction to you feel a little stronger. It also helps to build up sexual tension with her, which is always a good thing for you.

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Female Attraction Tips – How to Create Massive Sexual Attraction With a Woman

Saturday, November 13th, 2010

If female attraction seems like a mystery to you, then you are in luck. For many guys, the dating game can end up being almost unbearable, especially when it seems like you will never meet and attract the kind of woman you want to be with. Some guys will take that as a hint that they should just quite “dreaming” and start thinking about finding the first woman they can and end up settling down with her.

Before you take that plunge, you might want to find out how easy it can be to create sexual attraction with any woman you desire, and then you can have what most guys only dream about. You can have choice and selection in the women that you date.

See, most guys wait until they are “selected” by the right woman, meaning they will try as hard as they can to make a woman like them and just rely on the hope that she does. If you can’t see the flaw in that, let me show you. You are making it seem like a woman has complete control over you and it really does not have to be that way at all.

Here are a few female attraction tips to create sexual attraction with any woman you desire:

1. Women are not sexually attracted to guys that just go along with whatever they say.

This is probably the most worn out tactic that guys will use to try and convince a woman that they are the perfect guy for her. They agree with anything that she says, and they will do whatever she wants, even when it is something that they don’t care to do. Ever see a guy go shopping with a woman he’s not even dating but hopes to be? It’s kind of sad really, because all she sees is a shopping buddy and all he sees is the perfect woman.

2. If you desire to make a woman want you, then you need to learn how to play the hard to get game.

Women are naturally gifted at doing this, and for most guys, it takes a lot for them to consciously play hard to get. You have to though once in a while, because people are just not as attracted to someone that they know that they can get without any work at all. Making yourself seem hard to get automatically makes you seem “valuable” to a woman, and that sparks that fire of sexual attraction inside of her.

3. If you really want to create sexual attraction with a woman, then you need to learn how to turn her on and make it hard for her to resist you.

It’s tough to convince most nice guys of this, but women *want* to be turned on by a guy. Sure, you might see her as being pure and all of that, but truth is, she’s a woman and she’s human. So, if you want to fire her up and make her want you as more than just a friend, then you need to turn her on with both words and the way that you touch her.

Discover the secrets of how to turn her on in more ways than one and she will NEVER think of you as being just a friend…

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Copyright © 2010 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved.

Female Attraction Secrets – 4 Tips to Attract Her, Keep Her, And Make Her Never Want to Leave You!

Sunday, July 4th, 2010

Most men have a pretty hard time discerning the differences between female attraction and the way that guys are attracted to women. Even guys that tend to think of themselves of being “good” at meeting women tend to get it wrong in the end. See, the way that you look at a woman and find yourself attracted to her, is NOT the way that she is going to look at a guy and find herself feeling attraction.

You should be well aware that men are much more inclined to focus on the physical body of a woman than a woman is going to be focused on the body of a man. That is not to say that it does not have any factor of attraction, or that a woman will not look at a guy with a set of guns for arms and not get attracted.

What you need to know is that there is a lot more to it, to attract a woman, and any guy can pull it off, even if you don’t have the abs of granite or the arms that look like guns.

Here are 4 tips to attract her, keep her, and make her never want to leave you:

1. A man needs to be able to show a woman that he is not insecure and seeking her approval and validation. Ever been around a female friend that had one of those guys that was always trying to suck up to her? Ever hear how they talk about guys like that when they leave? It makes most women feel a little sad for a guy like that, but it DOES NOT make them feel attraction. You cannot expect to win her over by making her feel like she has to give you a chance because you keep on sucking up to her.

2. Women want to find a man that can make them ENJOY life. So, the guy with the carefree attitude that is all about joking around, not being too tense, and just having a good time will almost always attract more female attention than a guy that is wound too tight. You need to be able to ease up and let loose in the presence of a woman, or else, she might start looking for a guy that CAN make her feel that way.

3. If you do not know how to make her feel sexually attracted, then you need to LEARN. Seriously, there is a fine line between male/female friendship and something more, and that line is the amount of sexual attraction that is there. If she is pretty or has a good body, then you already know that YOU are going to feel sexually attracted to her,. But, you will only be her friend unless she feels it for YOU.

4. Approaching women is an art that you need to experience. One of the easiest ways to break a dry spell when it comes to your sex life or dating women, is to just go out and start approaching women that you find attractive. Of course, you have to have a certain kind of approach, or else, all you are going to get is the classic chick move where she finds a way to get away from you.

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Copyright © 2010 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved.

What Women Want From Men – 5 Tips to Become Much More Attractive to Women

Monday, June 14th, 2010

It’s kind of every man’s challenge, isn’t it? You have to clearly know what a woman wants in a man if you are going to set about wooing her and making her feel attracted to you. Of course, if you are bewildered about this from the start, then it does not seem like things are going to go well for you. Is there some way that you can unlock what women want from men and BECOME that guy?

Here are 5 simple and yet very effective tips on what women want from men that will make you become much more attractive:

1. What women want is a man that has REAL confidence. Now, we are definitely not talking about that weak fake it till you make it brand of confidence here. No, most women can smell their way through that in an INSTANT. What you need to develop is unshakeable confidence that is real and genuine and that alone will make a huge impact on the impression that a woman has of you.

2. She wants a man that is not just going to use her for sex. Sure, sex can definitely be a part of the equation, why wouldn’t it be? But, even when it is mostly about sex, she does not want to feel like that is what she is being used for. So, you have to know how to make a woman feel like she is special and that you are not after some one night fling, even if that is all that it ends up being. It’s the difference between her feeling like she just had a magical encounter and feeling CHEAP in the morning.

3. She wants to find a man that is in control of his life. There are not many women out there that are just dreaming of finding a man that can barely get through the day. You don’t have to be ultra successful to attract a woman, but you DO have to seem like you know what’s what. Guys that have their lives in control are much more likely to be the kind of man that she wants to spend her time with.

4. A woman wants to find a man that can THRILL her. You are not going to attract women easily if you come across as being a boring kind of guy. There is not much fun in that, is there? Spice up your life and you will be able to attract a lot more women to you. Not only that, but you get the benefits as well, so it is truly a win-win scenario for you.

5. Women want a man that makes them feel sexually attractive. The biggest difference in whether you will be just a friend or an acquaintance to a woman is whether or not you make HER feel like she is sexually attractive. Women that lose this feeling from their guy are the ones that are much more likely to break up with their man or end up having an affair. So, do your best to make HER feel sexually attractive and that will make YOU much more appealing to her.

Now that you know these 5 things that women want from men, are you ready to learn how to use the *right* techniques to attract women and make them find YOU irresistible?

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Copyright © 2010 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved.

Female Psychology Secrets to Attract Women

Thursday, March 25th, 2010

If you are like most men, then you have undoubtedly come across couples that just do not seem to make sense to you. The woman will be very attractive and sexy, while the guy will seem to be pretty average. What’s worse, is that he does not seem to be wealthy or to possess the muscular body that you would assume would attract beautiful women. So, what is it?

What is the reason why an average guy like this can attract such a beautiful woman?

Female psychology is a powerful thing. And for many guys, the female psychology of attraction can seem like an impossible thing to grasp. One minute they are hot and then cold. You don’t know when to make a move and what the right move is. Almost makes it seem like you will ALWAYS have a hard time attracting women, doesn’t it?

Well, it does not have to be that way. You can finally understand all you need to know about female psychology and what attracts a woman to a certain man. And you can discover how to BE that guy, that guy that other men are jealous of.

Here are some female psychology secrets that you should know about:

1. Women are not attracted by choice as much as they are attracted by instinct.

How many times has a woman been attracted to a man that she KNEW she should not be, and yet, she could not seem to resist that attraction? It happens all of the time, and this is simply because it is NOT a choice, but rather an innate instinct that creates that feeling of attraction. This is important to know, as so many guys will try to CONVINCE a woman to be attracted to them and they do not realize this is a futile thing to do.

2. Sex does not have to be a TABOO subject with women.

Many men will grow up with the idea that sex is a taboo subject with women and as they become adult men, they don’t feel comfortable acting sexual around a woman. You have to create sexual attraction with a woman if you want to be seen as more than just a friend to her. She has to have sexual desire when she sees YOU, otherwise, you will end up in that forbidden category of just a nice guy she is friends with.

3. Flirting with a woman should be FUN, not too serious.

I cringe whenever I see a man act way too serious when he is flirting with a woman. If you want to be able to really elevate and heighten her attraction for YOU, then you have to be fun when you are flirting with her. Don’t stress about what you are going to say and whether or not you are making the right move. Just have fun and be a little care free when you are flirting with a woman. That is what she wants to experience.

Chris Tyler has taught thousands of men how to break the cycle of disappointment and use female psychology secrets to attract women.  Get Your FREE Report showing You how to approach, attract and seduce women using stealth female psychology secrets by clicking here.

Techniques to Attract Women- 4 Keys To Attracting Women

Monday, March 15th, 2010

For some guys,  the ability to attract women is something that seems to elude them.  If you want to discover what techniques to attract women really work,  then you are going to have to make a choice.  You can either learn how to attract women through trial and error,  OR,  you can discover what works to attract women through proven techniques to attract women that have stood the test of time.

Knowing how to use female attraction techniques to YOUR advantage is not underhanded and it is not in anyway saying that you are somehow less of a man.  Let’s face it.  Most guys have no clue when it comes to understanding what techniques to attract women really work,  so it is to YOUR advantage to discover which methods that you should be using.

Here are 4 keys to attracting women that EVERY man must be aware of:

1.  Flirting. Flirting has stood the test of time and is one of the most basic and effective techniques to attract women.  When a guy knows how to flirt with a woman in just the right way,  he can trigger attraction almost on cue,  and make her feel something that she is not used to feeling.  And when you can make a woman feel this way,  you better believe that she will be attracted to YOU.

2.  Eye contact attraction. The eyes have been described by some as being the windows to the soul and this is for good reason.  When you can make eye contact with a woman and she INSTANTLY feels attraction for you,  you can easily have her eating out of the palm of your hand.  Sounds a bit unreal,  doesn’t it?  Eye contact attraction will always be effective because it works on an instinctual level with a woman and you cannot discount how POWERFUL this is.

3.  Social Proof. What is social proof?  It’s when you give the impression that you have tremendous social value to a woman and this is also a very effective technique to attract women.  When a woman sees that you are the kind of man that other people want to be around,  what does she immediately feel?  Like she should be hanging around with YOU too!  And when you are hanging around other attractive women,  the social proof goes through the ROOF!

4.  Kino escalation. Kino may sound like a very technical term,  but the truth is,  it is pretty simple.  Kino just refers to physical touch and using that physical touch to create attraction and intimacy with a woman.  If you do not use kino to escalate attraction with a woman,  there is a VERY good chance that you will NEVER be seen as anything more than just a friendly face to her and not the lover kind.

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Signs of Attraction – 5 Tips on How to Read a Woman’s Body Language

Sunday, March 7th, 2010

Signs of Female Attraction | Is She Attracted to YouWhen you know how to tell if a woman is showing signs of attraction when she sees you, you have an incredible skill that most guys only wish that they possessed. You can now leave the guesswork out of female attraction, which will save you time, money, AND frustration.

As men, we have ALL been in situations with a woman where we thought she was showing signs of attraction, only to find out that we were dead WRONG!

All along the way, you might have been spending money on her, putting a dent in your schedule to spend time with her, and where did it get you?

Nowhere!

You have to know how to look at a woman and know immediately whether or not she is interested in you.

How can you do this?

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You have to know how to read a woman’s body language. You have to know what she is saying when she isn’t saying anything at all. You have to have ninja like skills when you are reading a woman, but luckily, any man can gain this skill.

What will it give you?

Not only will you be able to tell if a woman is showing REAL signs of attraction with you, you will also be able to reduce any anxiety that you might feel around her, and trust me, almost ALL guys feel anxiety around a woman from time to time.

Plus, we have all experienced times where a woman will say one thing, when she really means something else entirely. Now, you will be able to really know what she means, no matter what she says.

Here are 5 tips on how to read a woman’s body language and tell is she is really showing signs of female attraction:

1. You have to notice if there is eye contact with her or not.

When a woman gives you eye contact, you want to pay attention to how long it seems to last and how intense it is. See, a woman can give you a little eye contact and really not feel any attraction at all for you. Or, she might linger her eyes on you and still, there is no chemistry or electricity between the two of you. Most guys would assume wrong and think that just because there is some eye contact, that she is showing clear signs of attraction. You want her gaze to linger on you, but you also want there to be a charge or an energy behind that look.

2. Her posture can give her away.

When you are close to her, does she seem to “close” up or does she seem to open up to you? Does she stand there trying to make herself look as good as possible? A woman’s posture when she is around a man can often say much more than anything that will come out of her mouth. Pay attention to her posture when you are with a woman and see if she is giving away signs of attraction or clues when she is near you.

3. If she tries to make herself appear more attractive, then she might be into you.

A woman will usually try and make herself look a little better when she is around a man that she is really attracted to. She will do little things to adjust her clothes, or fix her hair so that it looks just right. When you are with a woman, you want to check to see if she is trying to make herself look better for you. Also, you want to notice if she just does these things out of habit. Some women do.

4. Where are her hands going?

If a woman is slightly nervous because she likes you, she will quite often try and do something with her hands to keep them “busy.” Or, she might try and move them closer to you, as if asking for you to reach out for them. Both of these things can be a good indication that she is attracted to you. Always be on the lookout to what she is doing with her hands and if she is using them to show signs of attraction with you.

5. You also want to pay attention to the tone of her voice when she is with you.

Does she sound like she is filled with excitement when she is around you? Does she try to sound seductive and sexy when she is talking to you? Both of these are good indicators of interest from a woman and can be a sign that she is definitely attracted to you.

When you know how to read a woman’s body language and correctly identify signs of attraction from her, then you can take away almost all of the guesswork when it comes to dating and female attraction.

This will put the game in your hands, right where you want it to be and make you one of those guys that just seems to naturally have a way with women.

And who could want anything more than that?

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Note:  Be careful of trying too hard to analyze a woman’s every move.  There are so many nuances to reading a woman’s body language,  and if you are only going on what you observe,  you can easily interpret things the wrong way.  Also,  be weary of pseudoscience on body language.  Just because someone has watched a couple of episodes of “Lie to Me,”  does not necessarily mean that they know all about body language or a woman’s signs of attraction.

How to Make Yourself Appealing to a Woman

Sunday, December 13th, 2009

Trying to appeal to a woman can leave a man tired and worn down. It’s almost like you have to run around in circles trying to grasp what it is that appeals to a woman and how to make her feel attracted to you. Countless men before you have had the experience of falling hard for a woman, only to realize that she did not feel the same way. And they tried with all their might to make her feel this way, only to fail at doing so.

The good news is that you can have quite the opposite experience. You can learn how to appeal to a woman and make her find YOU irresistible in the process.

So, what should you do to make yourself more appealing to a woman?

1. STOP trying so hard. I know this sounds a bit counter to what you want to happen, but when you try to hard to appeal to a woman, you reek of desperation and this will not make her find you any more desirable. You have to present yourself as a man that does not hinge everything on whether or not a woman wants him. You have to show that you are able to live life without the need of a woman’s approval of YOU.

2. Instead of running around, find out what really works. You can waste away countless hours and opportunities with a woman, stuck on doing the wrong things. Or, you can decide to get down to business and find out what really works to appeal to a woman. And one of the most important lessons that you can learn is that you have to possess an alpha male attitude.

Don’t bother with wasting away your efforts trying to appeal to a woman. Stop trying so hard and develop an alpha male attitude and you will find that things turn around very quickly and you WILL begin to appeal to women.

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Keys to Attracting Women – Why Most Guys Just Don’t Get it

Saturday, December 12th, 2009

There are some guys out there, that no matter what they hear, they will always do the WRONG things. And they will fall for the gimmicks and the tricks and wonder why they are not doing any better at attracting women. You don’t want to get “boxed” into this kind of situation. If you want to succeed with women, if you want to know the keys to attracting women, then you HAVE to be able to have an open mind. And you have to learn what really works and what is nothing more than false hope.

Here are a few reasons why so many guys fail to learn the keys to attracting women:

1. Believing that it will all play out like the movies. In the cinema, the quiet, shy guy who’s in love with the girl, always seems to win her heart at the last possible moment. Sometimes, she’s about to marry another guy and then suddenly, she realizes that all along she’s been in love with the nice guy, her friend. Well, in the REAL world, that nice guy, that friend, gets to watch her walk down the aisle with that other guy.

2. Refusing to play the game. Look, even though you may not like it, you have to get out there and play the dating game with women. You have to meet women, do the flirting thing and figure out what makes a woman attracted to a man and how to be that kind of guy. You need some experience and to get this, you have to play the game.

3. Not going outside the comfort zones with women. To really understand how to attract a woman and the keys to attracting women, you have to get outside of your comfort zones. Trust me, in time, you will be able to approach and attract any woman you want without breaking a sweat.

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Why Women Reject Men

Monday, November 23rd, 2009

When you get rejected by a woman, it’s easy o find yourself question why this happened and what you could do differently. A lot of guys have their “theories” on why women reject men, but most of them are really pretty out of touch with the reality of female attraction and do not explain the real reason why women reject men. Simply put, a woman will most likely reject when she does NOT feel attraction for YOU.

Here are some common reasons why this may happen:

 

1. Acting too clingy or needy. If you come across as the kind of guy that is going to have to be with her 24/7 and that you do not have a life or interests of your own, you are probably going to face rejection from a woman. You have to be able to show that you DO have your own life and interests and that you have something of value to give to her. Otherwise, it’s pretty much a foregone conclusion that you will get rejected.

2. Using the wrong techniques to try and attract a woman. With the spawn of the internet, there is an abundance of BAD information and strategies to attract a woman. And if you try and use these methods, you will most likely fail to succeed with a woman. Remember, that most techniques SUCK when applied to the real world. They may sound good on paper or on a computer screen, but they will fail to make your more successful with women.

3. Being TOO serious. A lot of guys will try and give off the serious look and think this will attract a woman. However, this is usually a turn off. You want the woman to associate you with having a good time and too serious of a look does nothing at all to give her this impression.

These are not the only reasons why women reject men, but they are fairly common.

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