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How to Get to Know Someone When on a Date

Friday, March 18th, 2011

Trying to really get to know someone when you go out on a date is not always the easiest thing to do. People put their guard up, they are careful about what they will reveal about themselves, and most date situations are not really all that inviting for a long and meaningful conversation. After all, you are probably going to be a little on the nervous side and so is the one you are out on a date with. Is there any way that you can really get to know someone when you go out on a date with them?

Well, if you try to do the traditional dinner thing, then it’s probably going to end up seeming more like an interview than it will a real date. And that kind of environment doesn’t really warm someone up. Maybe that’s why so many people regard dating with a sense of disdain, because they just want to really get to know someone without all of the formalities and the games that people play.

Here’s how to get to know someone on a date that can make it easier to see the REAL them:

1. Choose to meet up in a much different venue than a restaurant or a movie theater.

Personally, I am not a big fan of doing the dinner at a restaurant thing for a first or second or even third date. And choosing to go to the movies just means that you are going to end up staring up at the big screen, waiting for the big climax to happen, but you really are not going to get to know each other, are you? Taking a walk in a park, meeting up somewhere where you can sit down and be relaxed and have good conversation, those are all going to help you to get to know someone a lot better on a date.

2. Let go of the interviewer method of trying to get to know someone.

It’s only natural that this happens. After all, this is how we are taught to try and get to know someone. But, when you grill the person you are out on a date with instead of having a much more relaxed and natural flow, you really don’t get to know the real them. They answer the questions in a way that they think they are supposed to answer. And you also don’t get the chance to build real attraction with that person. How good can the sparks fly when you are talking about their boring work life?

3. Be free and open to reveal little things about yourself.

People like to reciprocate things, and when you are open and free to reveal little things about yourself, this can help to move them to do the same. Take the initiative to do this, because almost everyone will respond by doing the same. Let’s say that you reveal something silly that you did in college that shows a lot about your real personality, they will feel like they should do the same. This helps to get the conversation going and allows it to feel right to open up about things that they normally wouldn’t on a date.

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How to Be More Confident When on a Date

Thursday, March 17th, 2011

When it comes to having a successful date and making the kind of impression on a woman that you want to make, there is no question that you really want to be confident. Not only is confidence an alluring trait to possess, but it feels really terrible when you are lacking confidence when you are out on a date with someone. Dating in of itself can be a nerve racking experience, but when the confident you seems to be missing in action, it can make it even more nerve racking.

There are a lot of little things that you can do that will help you to gain some confidence when on a date with a woman, and some will help you out more so than others. One of the things that you always want to keep in mind is that dating should be enjoyable and when it’s not… then you kind of know that you are not doing it right. So, you really do need to be at your peak in terms of feeling comfortable and good about yourself when out on a date with a woman.

Here are some things that you can do to get yourself geared up when you have a date with a woman:

1. Listen to music before hand that gets you pumped up and feeling good about yourself.

Music can be a good and almost instant way of recharging yourself and making yourself feel good. If you are driving alone to meet a woman, turn up the volume in your car and get that music pumping. Who cares if someone else thinks it is cheesy to do something like this. You want to get out of your car and meet that woman feeling as good as you possibly can. That’s all that really matters.

2. Wear your best, but also most relaxed outfit that you can when going out with a woman.

You want to look your best, because that will help to trigger you to feel good about yourself. At the same time, you don’t want to wear anything that makes you feel really uncomfortable. A good personal example of this for me, is that no matter how stylish they might be right now… I just don’t feel comfortable wearing skinny jeans. So, I don’t. Whatever it is that makes you feel comfortable and still look good, that is what you should be wearing.

3. Go out and buy yourself a really good smelling cologne, because that will also help to give you a confidence boost and women like it.

Smelling good can easily make you feel a little more geared up and feeling good, so this is an area where you really don’t want to be too cheap. Plus, women dig a guy who smells good, in fact, it will usually end up being one of the first compliments that they give you. A good bottle of cologne can usually be had for about $ 50- $ 75 and it will last for a while, so don’t be afraid to spend the money.

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Dating Tips for Men Over 40- Secrets of Dating Younger Women

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

So, you are over 40 now, but you don’t really feel like it. Deep inside, you still feel like you have a bit of that twenty five year old still lingering. You don’t want to date women your age. Not right now. You want to date women a little younger than you, you want to date a woman with some pep and some vigor. Now, some might say that you should grow up and set your sights on a woman your age, but really, do you want to be that guy that lives an average lifestyle?

My guess is that you don’t and you don’t really care about what other people have to say. You want to have some fun dating at your age, and that does not mean that you just have to set your sights on women over 40, you can still attract women younger than you. I mean, there are a lot of guys that seem to have no problems attracting and dating younger women, right?

What are some secrets of dating younger women that you should know:

1) Most younger women do have an attraction for older men.

It’s just the way that it is, men want to chase after a younger woman and younger women want to be around a slightly older guy. This is good for you. As long as you play into this natural tendency, you should be able to do well. Most of the time, a woman in her twenties won’t really mind too much if you are over 40, as long as you can still keep up with her from time to time.

2) The better shape you are in, the easier it will be to date younger women.

One thing that you need to know. Younger women are getting more and more into staying in shape and having a lot of energy. You want to make sure that you can keep up and the better shape you are in, the younger she will assume you are. Get involved in a weekly exercise routine, hit the weights, stay away from the fatty snacks. You want to come across like a guy in the PRIME of his life, and you should make sure that your body says that you are.

3) To attract younger women, you really need to be good at reading her body language.

This is really true for ALL dating situations. Fact is, if you are going to be able to attract a woman and make her feel like it is meant to be that she is with you, then you want to be able to read her body language and know how to respond to her. When you can read a woman pretty accurately, it’s easy to look like you just always know what the right thing to do is, and that can be pretty enticing to a woman.

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How to Get Women Interested in You – 4 Reasons Why You May Not Be Getting Attention From Women

Monday, March 7th, 2011

Sometimes, you just have to own up to the fact that you might be doing a few things wrong when it comes to meeting and attracting women. I mean, if you are not getting the kind of attention that you really desire from women, you have to be honest with yourself if you want things to change. It’s easy to take on the mentality that the whole dating thing is stacked up against you or that all women want is to end up with the jerks, but that is not going to make much of a difference in your life. It’s not going to get you any dates this weekend.

Here are four common reasons why you might not be getting the kind of female attention you desire:

1. You are not coming across as having strong alpha male traits.

We’ve all heard that women are definitely more likely to go for the kind of guy who comes across like an alpha male, so if you are not getting the kind of female attention, you want, then you might need to work on giving off that kind of a vibe. You don’t have to come off like a jerk to be seen as an alpha male to a woman, but you do need to show her that you are confident and can be a leader when need be.

2. You are not flirting with women the way they respond to.

A lot of the time, guys pick up on how to flirt with a woman from what they see and it’s not always the best or most effective way to flirt. Women almost always pay attention to a guy who knows how to flirt in a way that is exciting and fun to her. Guys that just try and throw a woman a bunch of compliments, don’t get quite the amount of female attention that the ones who know how to be fun and exciting do.

3. You are not showing women that you have a unique personality.

It’s hard to get women to notice you when you come across like almost every other guy that they meet. I mean, if she is meeting several guys that are pretty much just like you, what is going to get her to really notice you? You need to be able to show a woman that you have a unique personality so that there is a reason why you stand out to her.

4. You have a hard time making conversation with women.

This is really common and it can easily be overcome. Many times, a guy will get used to talking to his buddies, so when he comes across a woman he really wants to impress, he doesn’t quite know what to say. Either he will try too hard to say things to impress her, or her will just go on and on about topics that end up boring her to tears. Or, even worse, he won’t say much at all and there is a lot of dead silence. You need to be able to talk to women if you want to get noticed in a GOOD way.

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Dating Tips for Men Over 40- How to Attract Women No Matter What Your Age Is

Monday, March 7th, 2011

Some guys seem to limit themselves when it comes to dating when they get past the age of 40. They assume that they have reached a point in life where they don’t have the luxury of being able to select and choose the women they date. Maybe they even get a little hopeless and decide to stick with the first woman who comes along. The thing of it is, it does not have to be that way for You.

Just because you have reached a certain age, you don’t have to give up on wanting to either find the right woman for you, OR, to just have a little fun playing the field. Most of the limitations are just in your own mind anyway, and you don’t have to allow them to keep you from attracting the kind of women you really desire to be with.

Here are some dating tips for men over age 40 to help you attract women no matter what your age is:

1. If you are going to be serious about having no limits as to whom you can attract, get things in order as quickly as possible.

This is something that should be done at any age, but especially when you get past the age of 40. You want to have real goals and dreams that a woman can attach herself to and feel attracted to you for being someone who is doing things with his life. Get in shape if that is something that you need to do. Go and start getting some fun hobbies that make your life a little more exciting. Whatever can make your life better and yourself a little more attractive to boot, go ahead and do it.

2. No matter what age you are, as a man you need to be able to approach women you don’t know.

The only way to really get around this is to have a never ending supply of blind dates that your friends set you up with, and for most people that is not going to happen. So, you need to be able to confidently approach a woman and know what the right things to say to open a conversation with her and then guide that conversation to a point where it can lead to something more.

3. Set your sights on only the women you really want to date.

This is something that you really need to do. You need to sit down and really think about what kind of women you want to attract into your life. Do you want to just have a good time or do you want to settle into a long term relationship? Knowing what you want will help make it easier for you to actually go out and get it. And women love to be around a man who knows what he wants and does something about it.

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Tips for Dating After Divorce – 4 Things You Need to Know

Monday, February 28th, 2011

Dating after a divorce can seem kind of intimidating. Not only have you been ‘off the market’ for a little while, but you probably have some baggage that you are carrying along with you. Because of this, most men are kind of shy about dating after they get divorced. Thing is, the longer you wait and the more you avoid it, the harder it is going to become for you to get out there and have a good time dating again.

Here are 4 things that you need to know if you are dating again after a divorce:

1. There are a lot of women that you are going to meet that are in the same position as you are.

This is something that you always want to keep in mind, especially if you are a little self conscious about the fact that your marriage ended. Nowadays, it’s not uncommon once you get past your twenties to end up meeting a lot of women who are in the same position that you are in. So, don’t think that you have to be too secretive about the fact that you are back out there after getting divorced.

2. How you approach a woman makes a huge difference in how she responds to you.

If it has been a while since you have been out there and approaching women, then this is an area that you might want to work on. The approach sets everything up and if your approach is not up to snuff, don’t expect fantastic results in the way that she responds to you. It’s not that hard to get the approach right, but you definitely want to get it right.

3. Don’t dump all of your baggage on a woman right away.

You might have a sad story about the way that your marriage ended and you might have a lot of mixed feelings about things, but you really do not want to dump them on a woman right away. There’s nothing worse for a woman to go on a date with a guy and have it turn into a ‘therapy session’ about how his marriage ended.

4. Always flirt with women to get your game back up to snuff.

One of the easiest and most effective things that you can do to help yourself get back in the game is to flirt with women whenever you can. When you are out and about during your day, practice flirting with women, even if it ends up meaning nothing in the end. Get your game back up to snuff so that you can do well when you really want to get back out there.

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How to Get Women to Notice You – 3 Secrets of Serial Daters

Tuesday, December 21st, 2010

Have you ever known a guy who was a serial dater? Meaning, it always seemed like he had a woman to date, no matter the time or the place? There are lots of guys like that out there, but they are still by far in the minority of men. Most guys struggle to get dates, and it almost doesn’t seem fair that some guys, guys that look just like you- have no problems at all getting dates with women. How would you like to know what their secrets are?

Now, you may not want to become a serial dater, you may not be interested in dating lots of women. Still, since most guys struggle to get dates and even just getting attention from women, it’s probably not a bad idea to at least get a handle on what makes it so easy for them.

Here are 3 secrets of serial daters that will get women to start paying attention to YOU:

1. They know that it’s all in the vibe that you project.

Two guys can walk into a club looking basically the same, wearing the same clothes, and if they hold themselves differently, they are going to get different amounts of attention. The guy that projects the vibe that he is confident, fun to be around, and knows how to have a good time is almost always going to pull more female eyes his way than the guy that looks a little out of place, a little insecure. Project the right vibe and women pay attention.

2. They know that it’s not the clothes that make the man, it’s the way that you wear the clothes.

It’s not nearly as important what kind of clothes you are wearing, it’s whether or not you are wearing them with style. There’s a big difference in just putting on an outfit and putting on a style. Style has pizzaz, it has flavor, it attracts eyes wherever it goes. That’s what you need to do if you want to get women to pay attention to you.

3. They know that when you break it down, it’s a numbers game.

Like I said, you may not be interested in becoming a player, a serial dater, or anything like that. Still, you have to know that it’s a numbers game. When you know that it’s a numbers game, you don’t get hung up on just one woman. And when women can sense that you have that kind of carefree attitude, they love it.

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How to Ask Her Out On a Date – Tips to Help You Get a Date With the Woman You Desire

Saturday, October 9th, 2010

Most guys have been in this kind of a situation before. They have been spending time with a woman, maybe at work or at school, and they know deep down that this is the woman they desire to have as their girlfriend. Problem is, they are having a HARD time working up the nerve to ask her out on a date. Well, you have to admit, that can be a BIG problem, because she is not going to be your girlfriend if you never even get to ask her out on a date, right?

The problem that most guys have in this situation is, they are desperate to get her to go out with them, and they are fearful that she will end up saying no. It’s the classic fear of rejection rearing it’s ugly head, and it will keep YOU from ever experiencing the kind of success with dating that you want to have so badly.

You have to keep in mind that when you ask her out on a date, the way that you go about it will have a HUGE impact on whether she says YES or NO, and also on how she starts to look at you. Ask her out really sheepishly, and she will start to see you as a wimpy, awkward kind of a guy, and that usually does not do much to make her feel really attracted to you.

Here are some tips on how to ask her out on a date that should help you get the YES that you want to hear so badly:

1. The tone of your voice is very important.

Asking a woman out on a date in a high pitched or crackling voice that screams out that you are desperate and nervous and hope that she says yes will practically guarantee that you hear a NO, even if she was starting to feel like she was attracted to you. You need to ask her out on a date in casual, relaxed, and masculine tone if you want to practically guarantee that she responds with a YES.

2. Your body language will entice her or repel her.

When you are standing near a woman and you ask her out on a date, she is going to be checking out the way that you are holding yourself, even if she does not realize it. It’s just an instinctual thing. So, you want to make sure that you are displaying proper body language. You want to have her feel like a desirable male, the kind of guy she would be lucky to have a date with.

3. You need to just go for it.

Hesitating, saying a lot of uhms, and ahs, those are going to break your chances of getting her to say yes. Women respond to men that are unafraid to take action, and if you want to hear her say yes when you ask her out on a date, then you need to get right to it and not wait for the “right” moment. If you do, I can assure you that your mind will just keep telling you that it’s not the right moment and you will NEVER ask her out on a date.

4. Assume she will say YES.

A little trick that successful sales people use to close more sales, is to assume the sale even before it happens. How does that help you when asking a woman out on a date? Well, when you can assume that she will say yes, not only will it reflect in your confidence and the words that you choose to use, but it will also help you to be a little more persistent and women dig that. Let’s say that you ask her out on a Friday and she says that she is busy. If you assume that this is just a brush off, then you won’t persist. However, if you assume that she will say YES, and she says NO to Friday night, you will be a lot more likely to then ask about another night and that might be all that she needs to feel like saying YES to you.

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Dating Tips for Guys – First Date Tips for Men

Thursday, September 23rd, 2010

Naturally, you are going to feel a little bit of pressure and maybe some nervousness about a first date with a woman. This is going to happen. Sometimes, though, the pressure can be a little too much and you will start to over think things and become a little apprehensive. After all, you don’t want to have a terrible experience, especially not on a first date, because that could mean there is no second date in the future for you.

Here are some first date tips for guys that should alleviate some of that pressure:

1. Be original on the first date.

So many guys will opt for the traditional first date dinner. While that might seem like the best option, it usually is nothing more than an awkward situation where the two people feel as though they have to ask and answer a lot of questions. When you come up with an original first date, it takes away that feeling that the date has to be an “interview” of sorts, and it will also lead to a much better impression on a woman. You won’t seem like just another generic guy to her.

2. Don’t feel as though you have to get to know everything about her all at once.

Speeding through the getting to know her process will just make her feel uncomfortable, and it takes away from that urge to want to see you again. Like I said before, most first dates turn out to be just one big answer and question session, and that does nothing to build an attraction with a woman. And if you are hoping to have more than one date with her, you want to have that attraction build up.

3. Make her get curious about you.

If the conversation does lead into some of the questioning, leave a little out there to be a mystery to her. You don’t want to go on and on about everything there is to know about you and not give her any reason to want to get to know MORE. The more you can provoke her curiosity, the more you can be sure that she will be up for the second date.

4. Don’t let her get away without a kiss.

If you want to have a really good chance at becoming more than just a date, if you want to see her over and over again, then you need to take things to the next level. You have to go in for the kiss. Just do not make it seem contrived, make it seem like a natural thing. If you are afraid to go in for the kiss, then you are going to have a hard time physically attracting her.

Getting the first date can be easy… getting the second date can be a whole other thing.

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Dating Tips for Men – What to Do About Competition From OTHER Guys

Monday, September 13th, 2010

Chances are, if you are going to date attractive women, then competition from other guys is going to become a part of your reality. It goes with the territory, kind of like celebrities and paparazzi. So, you have to accept that this is going to happen from time to time. Yes, if you enter into a club, a restaurant, a bar, with a good looking girl– other guys are going to be checking her out and some of them are even going to try and hit on her.

So, what do you do in this kind of a situation?

Well, some guys will automatically decide that they do not want to have to deal with this, and they will end up dating only regular looking girls. Of course, that is not much of a solution, is it? I mean, guess what? Even average looking girls are going to get checked out by some guys.

The first thing that you have to REALIZE is, if you are doing things right, then there really is NO competition at all!

I did not understand this when I was younger. I would date a good looking girl, and as soon as we got around some guys, I would automatically feel like they were trying to “steal” her away from me. Now, knowing these guys, they really were trying. The thing is, it would never work as long as I did not let it bother me. The minute that I did let it bother me, was the minute she would start flirting back with THEM!

So, I tried something else. I decided not to let it bother me, to kind of assume that no matter what, she still wanted me. And you know what?

It started to work!

From that point on, I never let myself worry about competition from other guys. And I have never had an experience where another guy has “taken” a woman away from me, no matter how hot she is, and no matter how hard he might try, it’s just not going to happen.

Here are my tips on how to deal with competition from other guys:

1. Don’t even think about it.

Women have some kind of jedi mastermind that lets them pick up on a guy’s insecurity right away. The minute you become insecure and feel like you might lose her to another guy, she picks up on this. She might not say anything about it, but she definitely notices. And if that insecurity keeps getting stronger, the more you will find that she DOES end up flirting with another guy.

2. Don’t get caught up in thinking that you need to put down the other guy.

Not only does this make you seem insecure, but it will also usually end up backfiring on you. Let’s say that one of your guy friends starts hitting on a girl that you are out with, and you immediately start trash talking about him to her. Well, it’s only going to reflect bad on YOU. Why? Because she will kind of evaluate what you are saying, and if she does not agree with it, you start to lose points with her. Let’s say you bring up the fact that he is a total loser. She is going to look at see things about him that don’t make him a loser. Why girls mind’s work like this, I can’t tell ya, I just know that they do.

3. Do YOUR thing right, and you don’t have to worry about it.

Unless she has some serious issues that make her bounce from guy to guy, the only chance that you really have of losing her is if you let the attraction that she feels for you start to die out. Like I said, I no longer worry about it, and it does not affect me in any way. Now, I have been out with a beautiful woman before and had guys try and flirt with her. And you want to know what they usually do? The put the guy down! They will say something like, ”OMG, did you see him try to hit on me? What a jerk.” Let her come to her own conclusion, don’t try to force feed it to her.

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What Women Want in a Man – Powerful Ways To Turn on a Woman Without Saying a Word

Saturday, August 7th, 2010

Women have perplexed men just like you for ages. Men have been searching for what women want in a man for a long time, and most guys still have not come up with any good answers. If you assume that what a woman wants is a rich guy with huge muscles and an expensive sports car, then you probably want to explore a little deeper what truly moves a woman and makes her feel attraction for a man.

You have been taught for a long time all of these broad assumptions about what woman want, and unfortunately, most of it has been dead wrong. See, we all grow up watching fairy tale stories about romance and we are taught that we have to kind of be a woman’s personal prince charming in order to really make her want you.

Well then, what would explain why it seems like guys that act like total jerks seem to have no problems attracting women?

I mean, they are far from the prince charming type, and yet it seems that women are drawn to them. Now, that might get you thinking that in order to attract a woman, you have to become that jerk and that’s not really the case.

Did you realize that most of the elements of attraction do not require that you even speak a word with a woman?

Seriously.

Some men seem to be able to ‘figure’ this out all on their own, and they end up being the ones that have no problems at all picking out which woman that they want to take out on a date.

Yes, they really do ‘pick out’ which woman they want, not the other way around.

Here are some powerful ways to turn on a woman without saying a word that will help you become the kind of guy that can choose which woman you want to date:

1. Your body language has to be congruent with the image that you want to project to her.

If you want to have a woman see you as being the natural alpha male, then your body language has to match. Words can only say so much, and what women really look for is the way that you move your body. If you are too tense and rigid looking, then she will probably assume that you are no fun and you are a little too uptight for her tastes. And if you droop your shoulders and kind of keep your eyes down to the floor, then she is probably going to assume that you are a pushover with little to no self esteem.

2. You have to be able to keep a natural smile on your face.

Women don’t want to be approached by some tough guy that is just going to stand there looking tough. By the same token, though, they also don’t want to be approached by some wimp that is going to spend the entire night asking her if she is okay or if she needs anything. You want to keep a natural smile on your face when you approach a woman, one that is almost kind of playful, so that you signal that not only are you comfortable, but you also have a fun side to you.

3. Do not twitch or act all fidgety with a woman.

It’s kind of funny, but this is really a big turnoff to most women. If you act all fidgety or your body twitches a lot, you are sending her all of the wrong signals. You are probably coming across as being either awkward or nervous, or, you might even be sending her the message that she cannot trust you. And if these are the kinds of messages that you are sending a woman, then you are not going to end up getting anywhere at all with her. You want to appear relaxed and calm, like you would if there was no “pressure” at all.

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Falling For Your Best Friend – How to Make Her Become MORE Than Just a Friend

Monday, July 26th, 2010

She’s the one that you spend most of your time with. You even think about her when she is not around, and now all of your thoughts seem to be getting more and more romantic. You want more than anything to make her become more than just a friend, you just don’t want to also risk losing her as a friend. Seems like you are kind of stuck in a tough spot, wouldn’t you say?

Now, some people will tell you that the best thing that you can do is to just keep things the way that they are. But, it’s really not all that healthy to have a female friend that you are in love with and keep all of those emotions locked inside.

And then, there are going to be some people that are going to tell you that you should just forget about her and move on. But, that is not going to leave you feeling satisfied.

Is there a way that you can make your best friend become your GIRLFRIEND?

Most men do not realize that they are slipping into the friend zone while it is happening. Then one day, they finally realize that this is exactly what has happened. Of course, the most obvious answer to this situation is to make sure that you never get there in the first place, but you are beyond that point right now.

Here are a couple of tips on how to get started turning your female friend into YOUR girlfriend:

1. She cannot keep seeing you as being that safe, male friend that she can run to when she needs emotional comfort.

If you keep on being that person to her, then she is NEVER going to want to risk doing a single thing that could hurt that dynamic that the two of you have. So, you have to be able to change the way that she sees you and the friendship. The best way to do this, is to slowly become a lot more distant to her. Don’t act cold, just don’t be there nearly as often and don’t let the conversations stray into topics that only friends would talk about.

2. You need to change the way that you behave with her.

Friends act different when they are with each other than they would with someone that they want to date. Friends just have that rapport where they feel like they can be who they are without getting embarrassed about anything. On the other hand, a woman is going to try to look her best and hide her flaws if it is a guy that she wants to date. And you should do the same. When you change your behavior, you are going to force a change in the way that she sees you.

3. You need to take action or just move on.

At some point, you have to face the possibility that she might reject you. If that is too much for you, then you really do need to just move on or suffer in silence until she runs off with some new guy and gets married or something. Anytime that you find yourself wanting to date someone, rejection is a possibility. However, her saying YES is also a possibility, so don’t think that it cannot be a good thing to take action.

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Why Women Will ALWAYS Have the Upper Hand…Unless YOU Do Something About It!

Friday, July 9th, 2010

When it comes to dating, I think that all men are pretty much in agreement that men will always be at the disadvantage when compared to women. Well, to correct myself, I should actually say…almost always. And most men seem to accept this as just the way that it is, and they don’t think that they can do anything about it. The trouble with this line of thinking is, you give up ALL POWER and don’t have any control, selection, or choice when it comes to dating.

And it does not have to be that way. Before I tell you how you can change things for yourself, I want to dig in a little deeper about the current state of dating and why men usually ARE at a disadvantage.

Just down the street from where I live, there is a nice little bar/nightclub that a lot of really good looking college girls and young professional women all like to hang out on a Friday or Saturday night. The music is always just the right volume, they have really good food, and even a nice little dance floor. Now, I can go into this bar and pick out just about any group of 3 or 4 women sitting together, all single, all desirable in their own way. And I would confidently place a bet that each one of them has at least 25 numbers of guys that are “friends” in their cell phones.

As guys, you and I both know that 90 percent of these guy friends would all sleep with the woman if given the chance. Now, contrast that with your average guy of the same age. Chances are, he might not even have 25 female’s numbers in his phone. Even if he did, the majority of them would NOT sleep with him if given the chance. These guys all know what it is to be stuck in the friend zone, and so do YOU.

Now, you are seeing that women clearly have an upper hand. They have choice, they have selection, and most importantly; they all have their own little following of male friends that will spend money on them with the hope that maybe one day they will get the chance to sleep with them.

So, how can you turn that around?

1. You have to become the one that is IN CONTROL.

Now, before you get this a little twisted, this is not about becoming dominant over women. That’s a juvenile desire, and one that will not give you any real chance of becoming the kind of guy that young, attractive, independent minded women want to be with. Remember, if you had choice, you would want to get the best female possible. To gain *control,* you have to understand how the game works. You have to accept the fact that being a woman’s best friend is not going to get you into her bedroom.

2. You have to be able to give the ILLUSION that you ARE highly desired.

Why do I emphasize the word illusion? Because, unless you are a George Clooney clone or a Brad Pitt look alike, then chances are, there are not a whole lot of women that are sweating the moment that they see you. But, you can give off the impression that you ARE highly desired. When I was younger, probably about 23, I did an experiment. For several weeks in a row, I made sure that when I went out, I always had at least three women with me that were definitely considered hot. And the difference in the amount of attention that I received from OTHER women, was eye opening. Just looking like I was the kind of guy that was very successful with women made other women want to come and talk to me. I did not even have to be the one that did the approach. They did it for ME.

3. Sex has to become a part of your language.

What I mean by this is, do not dance around the subject of sex or things that SOUND sexual. If you have ever seen the kind of language that is used in one of those romance novels that sell so well, you will see that the words themselves are very sexual. And even when they are being used in context other than the actual act of sex, they still give off that impression. The more you can make sex a part of your language and use that language when you talk to women, they will start to feel…aroused when talking to you.

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Dating Tips For Men – How to Make Her Unable to Forget YOU!

Saturday, June 19th, 2010

Let’s face it. When it comes to dating, there is a lot of competition out there. Anytime that you walk in the door of a popular nightclub or bar, there are already going to be a lot of single men there that are trying hard to attract women. And when a really good looking women walks in the place, then all eyes are going to be on her. For some guys, this is very intimidating, and they end up just staring at a woman like that and talk themselves out of ever making an approach.

Then there are some guys that know that a woman like that is the perfect one to approach. I mean, I don’t know about you, but when I go out to meet women, I am not thinking, man I would love to attract an average looking chick. No, I am out there to meet and attract a beautiful woman, one that is sexy and alluring.

What can you do so that you can start attracting women like that?

You have to stop loading up on the cheesy games and methods that every other guy in the place is using to try and woo her, and hit her with some REAL game. You have to make her feel like she is unable to forget YOU!

Here’s how to do this:

Tip 1- Your Approach Has to Be Natural

Most guys actually shoot themselves in the foot by learning pickup lines and other tricks to try and attract women. Yes, if you are 20 and you are looking to hook up with 18 year olds, then you might get by on these tactics. However, if you are looking to hook up with a woman that is over the age of 21, and has a lot going for her, then you need to learn how to use natural game. The other stuff, she’s already heard it before and it does not work on her. You need to make an impression that she is not going to soon forget and using real game will do this.

Tip 2- Keep Your Money Where it Belongs!

Don’t bother trying to buy her $ 10 drinks all night long and think that this going to do the trick. You are just going to end up going home with about $ 50 less in your pocket, no woman, and no phone number. Keep the money in your pocket, and make her see you as a guy that she wants to be with, not a guy that is going to drop money on her for no reason. You don’t get to make a good impression on a woman if you assume that money has to do the talking for you.

Tip 3- Make Your Move or Go HOME!

The whole point of going out to meet and attract women is to hook up in some way. It might be for sex or it might be to start some kind of relationship, and hopefully, a mix of both. You got to make your move on her if you are going to get anywhere beyond just a good flirty conversation with her. Men that stay frigid and don’t make the move are the ones that end up wondering where they went wrong.

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How to Attract Female Attention – Get Girls to Notice YOU!

Saturday, May 29th, 2010

Deep down inside, every man gets a kick out of the idea of being able to attract female attention. You don’t want to always be the guy that goes unnoticed by women, you want to know how to make women pay attention to you. There are lots of different ideas and theories that you can go on to attract female attention, but you want to know what really works. To get girls to notice you does not have to be some off the mark dream, you can really make it happen!

Here are some tips on how to attract female attention:

1. Present yourself like a TRUE alpha male. You know what limits most guys when they try and act like an alpha male? They end up acting like an immature jerk. Being an alpha male is not about being the kind of guy that starts pushing around other guys, it’s about presenting yourself with confidence and all of the traits of a leader. If you get the hang of it, women will definitely start to pay attention to YOU!

2. Know how to make eye contact with a woman. This is one of the more subtle tricks that you can use to attract female attention and it DOES work out quite well. When you use eye contact attraction with a woman, you are going to get a response that goes deeper than most. She will feel something on an instinctual level and that kind of attraction is something that she won’t be able to resist!

3. Become a conversation starter with women. A lot of men end up kind of waiting for the women to start talking to them, but if you want to get her to really notice you and think of you as a man she would love to go out with, then YOU have to make the move. When you are able to start a conversation with a woman on the fly, and you can grab and hold her attention, then you know that she will be paying attention to you in a GOOD way.

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