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Ways to Meet Women – 5 Ways to Open Up Your Chances of Meeting Women

Tuesday, September 20th, 2011

There are lots of things that guys who are struggling with their dating life complain about, and one of those things is meeting women. It’s kind of hard to even imagine yourself doing well with women if it seems like you cannot even get to the point where you are actually meeting new women. You can learn all of the techniques and tricks for building attraction with a woman that you want, but if you don’t have any women to try them out on… how can you expect to have any kind of luck?

Of course, it’s not always as easy as just saying to yourself, “Hey, I need to meet someone.” There are so many variables that can come into play for that, it’s kind of ridiculous to think that you can just snap your fingers and make immediate changes. For that reason, I thought I would explore 5 ways that any guy can meet women so that you can get some idea of how to expand and open up your chances.

Here are 5 ways to meet women that you should take advantage of:

1) Join local groups that are based around hobbies and activities.

I used to scoff at this suggestion, probably because it just did not sound sexy enough. However, there is something to be said for doing this. When you meet local groups that are based around hobbies and activities, not only is there a very good chance that there will be some women there, you also get the chance of expanding your overall social circle which can lead to many more opportunities down the road. And if you do happen to meet a single woman while you are there, you already know that you will have something in common with her.

2) Join a local gym or fitness center.

This kind of coincides with the suggestion I made above, however, there are some added bonuses to focusing on joining gyms and fitness centers. One, if you actually do go on a regular basis is that you will get in shape. That can lead to better self esteem and a better overall look. Two, is that any woman you meet there will be into staying physically fit herself, so you can kind of expect to find some pretty attractive women there as well.

3) Network through Facebook and other social sites on the internet.

Here’s the true power of these kinds of sites. It’s not about trying to run a line on a woman from the comfort of our home. It’s about using it to network, the way that these sites are meant to run. By joining in on conversations that friends of yours are having, you get the chance to possibly mingle with their friends that you may not know, and that can expand your social circle. And the bigger your social circle is… the more likely it is that you will end up meeting a woman who you find appealing and attractive.

4) Move to another town or city if you have no luck where you currently are.

Here’s the truth about some places where people live. The possibilities are limited. If you live in a small town where everyone knows everyone and you just cannot seem to find someone new, maybe it is time to give some though to moving somewhere else. You may not like the idea at first, but in time, you just might find that a change of scenery was all that you needed.

5) Make it a goal to introduce yourself to 1 new woman every day or every week.

So many guys are stuck in their little shells and they wonder why it is that they are not meeting anyone at all. Well, if that is the case for you, challenge yourself. Make a goal to meet or at least introduce yourself to someone new every day or every week. If you really stick to this, then there is no way that after a few months you would not have eventually met a woman you can click with and who is single and available.

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Dating Tips for Men – 3 Myths About Dating Busted

Friday, August 12th, 2011

For some reason, most men grow up believing in a lot of “myths” about dating that really tends to hold them back from having the kind of success with women that they could and should have. There are many reasons for this, one of which is the grip that pop media culture seems to have on us. Another reason is the weird way in which guys will listen to other guys who really don’t know much about what they are talking about, and that usually leads them down the wrong path. Locker room chatter can cause guys to believe that they have no chance at all with women, when the reality is something very different.

Believing in these myths about dating keeps guys from even trying to make any kind of improvement in their dating or social life, and that is a shame. It’s a shame because then they do not get to experience life to the fullest, and they are holding themselves back because of false beliefs more than anything else.

Here are 3 myths about dating that I want to bust open right now:

Dating Myth Number One – Women only want the guys with the huge muscles.

This one is really funny to me, and I know lots of guys that truly believe this. Take a look at your average advertisement targeted to women that uses a male model. Pick up a woman’s magazine and have a look at what you will see. The guy will be fit for sure, but he won’t be the kind of 230 pound gym freak that guys think that women like. Why is this valid? Because advertisers test and test what women respond to and give them what they want. If women really wanted the huge muscular guys and that was what they responded to… that would be what you would see in the ads. You don’t. You see lean, muscular guys more than anything else. And just about any guy can attain that physique if they want.

Dating Myth Number Two – Women want guys that have the best cars.

This is more true if you want to impress other guys than it is if you want to impress women. When I was a little younger, all my friends had much better cars than I did. I mean, much better. Mustangs, Camaros, brand new Acuras. I had a 15 year old Volvo. And I did much better with women than they did. Like a LOT better. It wasn’t the car at all. It was the guy in the car. It was always funny to see my buds with the $ 25,000 car drive home by themselves and me and my $ 1000 hooptie ride home with a couple of women in it along with me of course. Don’t think that you have to possess a certain car to do well with women. It’s not the car, it’s the guy IN the car that matters most.

Dating Myth Number Three – Only losers go on online dating sites.

Luckily, this is one myth that is slowly starting to crack open. For most guys, the only places that they try and meet women are the usual bars and clubs. Well, do you think a lot of attractive, college educated professional women go out to get bombed on the weekend? Some do, most do not. So, where do THEY go? Many times, they try out the online dating scene. If you want to attract a good looking woman with a full time job, her own life, and a woman who can handle her responsibilities, online dating can be GREAT.

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Dating Tips for Guys – How to INSTANTLY Get Better At Attracting Women and Getting Dates

Monday, June 20th, 2011

You’ve got nothing to be ashamed of or feel self conscious about if you are looking to improve your results with women. If more guys actually took the time to learn what works and what doesn’t… there wouldn’t be so many hapless guys sitting at home alone. They would actually be out having a good time and doing what they dream about. Problem for most men is… they would rather sit at home by themselves than to admit that maybe, just maybe, they could use a few pointers to improve their game.

Well, for that reason alone, congratulate yourself just for taking the time to search out some possible solutions. Like I said, you are taking a step that most guys will not, and for that… you will be REWARDED. I honestly don’t know any guy who has taken the time to learn what really attracts women and has not seen improvement in their results, which obviously means more dates and more fun. It may not happen overnight, but what does?

Anyways, here are a few tips that will INSTANTLY put you on the track to attract more women and get more dates:

1. Own up for your lack of success.

This is a big thing to do. Why? Because when most guys fail to get the girl… they blame the woman. They say something to the effect of “she doesn’t know a good thing when she sees it” or some other rationalization. Problem with that is… it does NOTHING at all to help you get better with women. All it does is act like a cozy warm blanket for your feelings and your ego. Do you really need a warm and cozy blanket for your feelings? Or do you need to get more positive reactions from the women you want to date?

2. Put a stop to doing things that make it harder to attract women.

What do I mean by this? Well, let’s say that your average Friday night consists of shooting pool with a couple of guys in a place that has not had a desirable woman walk into it in ten years, lol. Stop going there and wasting your Friday nights. Start going to places where the odds are in your favor and you KNOW that there are going to be desirable women. I would much rather hit up a popular nightclub even if it made me feel a little “uncomfortable” at first than to spend my time somewhere where I know that I am not going to meet a good looking woman.

3. Don’t take advice from guys who are not actually getting results.

Would you take business advice from a guy stocking shelves in a grocery store? Probably not, at least… not if you actually wanted to start up a real business, right? Well, why would you follow the advice of guys that just do not get women? I can remember being younger and following the advice of guys that really did not do any better than I did. The moment I stopped listening to them… things got MUCH better.

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Dating Tips for Guys – Dressing For Success With Women

Friday, June 10th, 2011

If you are a single guy and you want to improve your success at getting dates with women, then you probably have thought about how you look or more specifically, the way that you dress and wonder if that might increase your odds of getting dates. I don’t think that it should come as any surprise that people DO make judgements based on the way that other people look, it’s one of those ‘dirty little secrets’ that we all know is true. The real question is, how much does your success with women depend on the way that you dress?

I’m going to have to give my favorite, ambiguous answer here and just say that it depends. It depends because not every woman thinks the same look is attractive. Now, most of the dating advice for men style columns and articles all support the idea that you need to dress really trendy, kind of metrosexual, and they usually hint that if you don’t dress like this, then you will not do well with women.

Well, that is not exactly true. See, not all women are attracted to that metrosexual look. Not all women want to date a guy that uses more product in their hair than they do. Not all women want to date a guy who wears jeans that are skinnier than hers. See, to think that there is just one look that will get you dates with women, it’s a pretty narrow way to look at it.

Both men and women build up what they consider to be an ideal image of the kind of person that they want to date. And not everyone’s ideal image is quite the same. Some women do want that trendy, metrosexual look on a guy. They want the guys that they date to look that way. Some women don’t. Some prefer the blue collar, jeans and a t-shirt kind of guy. Some want the guy that looks like he just stepped off of a Harley.

What matters MOST is that your style reflects and amplifies YOUR personality:

Let’s say that you are the typical blue jeans and a t-shirt blue collar guy. And because you hear that women want that metrosexual look, you change up your appearance. So, you go out, you start talking to some women and it looks like it works. It looks that way, because since you are dressed that way… you attract women that like that look.

Here’s where the rub comes in though. Now, you are with a woman who wants you to be one way… while deep down inside you are a completely different guy. How long do you think you can pull that one off? Probably not too long before you start to grow tired of having to fake it so that she is attracted to you. Of course, it reinforces that idea that you need to dress that way, because by dressing that way… that is the kind of woman you attract.

Do you want to attract women you have to fake it with, or women you can enjoy yourself with?

This really is a question that only YOU can answer. I sure can’t answer it for you. After all, you are the one that has to actually deal with the women that you attract. If you dress in a way that reflects and amplifies YOUR personality, odds are… you will attract a woman that digs that look. She will also probably be a better match for you when it comes to having fun. After all, if you prefer a bike rally and she wants to go to a fashion show, at some point, there is going to be some friction and I don’t mean the good kind.

If you want to dress for success with women, then it has to reflect yourself and the kind of women you want to attract.

That really is the key to choosing how to dress to attract women. Yes, you can pick up a guy’s magazine and see that they suggest that you try and look like a clone of whatever Hollywood actor is hot right now, but is that going to really help you to attract the kind of women you WANT to be with.

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How to Get Dates With Women – Are You Trying TOO Hard?

Thursday, May 26th, 2011

Guys who are struggling to get dates with women usually end up in one of two categories. Either they don’t try hard enough, or they try too hard to get women to like them. Most guys seem to end up in of these two groups if they are not getting the attention that they want from women. Luckily, no matter which group you may be in, you can find your way out and start seeing some drastically different results right away.

Let’s take a look at why it ends up being a fault to try too hard to impress a woman. For one, it sends out the message that you may not really be up to her level, otherwise, why would you have to try so hard to win her over or to impress her? Another thing is that it automatically puts you in the pressure position, because you start off the situation as being the one who needs to qualify yourself to her approval.

Yeah, you probably were taught that trying really hard to win over a woman was a good thing. I can remember back on all of the cheesy sitcoms that I grew up watching, the good guy who tried too hard was always the one who ended up being the guy who got the girl. Problem is, that was television and it does not really work out like that too often in the real world.

What works better than trying too hard and what will actually help you to get dates with women?

Start off any interaction with a woman you like as being on her level and without the desire to try so hard to impress her. Countless times women have stated emphatically that it actually is a turn off when a guy is putting in way too much effort to try and impress them. So, don’t bother going down that road. Not only that, make it a practice to get the woman in a position where she is qualifying herself for YOU.

Think about it like this. If you were a guy who was already doing well with women, would you be trying so hard to get attention from a woman? Probably not. And if you were not trying so hard, wouldn’t women see you just a little bit differently?

Most men will never allow themselves to be on the same level as a woman they really like.

They will always put themselves in a position where they feel like they have to always impress the woman they want in order for her to like them. You can be different. You can be one of the few guys who gets it and understands that he needs to be on the same level as the woman he wants. And when you do this, getting dates with women will be easier than you ever found it to be before.

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Dating Advice for Men – Rejection From Women Happens, Don’t Let It Happen to YOU!

Friday, April 29th, 2011

I don’t know about YOU, but I absolutely hate the idea of getting rejected by women. I mean, we all know that it’s going to happen from time to time, but for some guys… it happens way too often! If you don’t want to get rejected by women, if you want to learn how to make women want YOU, then you need to keep on reading. I know that you probably think that you could not possibly have the ability to make women desire you… but you will be surprised at how easy it can be and you don’t even have to make that many drastic changes at all.

When you take a quick look at some of the guys that seem to do well with women, it’s easy to end up getting the wrong impression. It’s easy to get caught up in thinking that you need to look a certain way, drive a certain kind of car, or have been born with that naturally charismatic flair that some men have. If you keep on thinking that this is what you need to attract women… then the dating game is always going to seem unfair to you.

What if there was a way that you could stack the odds in YOUR favor and eliminate the possibility of rejection by a landslide?

I know, you are thinking that this is a stretch to say the least. However, there are distinct reasons for why a woman will reject a man, and if you know what they are and how to avoid them… then you really DO stack the odds in your favor. Will you eliminate the possibility of getting rejected by a woman 100 percent?

Not likely.

Can you cut it down so that you can confidently approach a woman and not feel like she is going to shoot you down?

You bet.

- One of the most common reasons why a woman will reject a guy is not necessarily because he isn’t her type or because she does not find him attractive in some way, many times it is simply because of the WAY that he approached her. Like, if you are in a bar and you walk up behind her and tap her on the shoulder and when she turns around… you are standing there with your hands in your pockets and an almost frightened look on your face. That’s the kind of approach that will basically set you up to get rejected almost every single time.

- Another common reason for why a woman will reject a guy is because he does not know how to talk to her. Of course, he knows how to talk, he can open his mouth and put together a few words. What I mean is that when he talks to her… she gets bored in about 10 seconds and from there… he’s done unless he can find a way to get her attention back. Make this mistake and you will get shot down, if even on the surface she was feeling some attraction towards you.

- A third common reason for why a woman will reject a guy is because he waits for her to lead. This is the plight of the shy guy, one of the major reasons why shy guys have such a hard time dating and meeting women. It’s the natural place of the male to lead the interaction. Isn’t it kind of weird to walk over to a woman and then expect her to lead the conversation? If you want to eliminate rejection… you have to become a leader… a true ALPHA MALE.

Like I said before, it’s not possible to eliminate rejection from women completely. But, you sure can stack the odds in your favor when you know what works and what doesn’t. Of course, there are many more ways that you can eliminate the possibility of getting rejected by a woman and stack the deck in your corner, but I can only put so much into one article.

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How to Get Women – Why You Can Never Really ‘Get’ Women

Wednesday, April 20th, 2011

Sometimes, a little lesson that we get taught when we are younger tends to help guide us in our lives later on. I can remember very fondly a girlfriend I had when I was about 18 who told me that I could never really ‘get’ her. This little phrase at the time seemed silly to me, but hey, what do you know when you are 18 years old, right? A few years later and I can reflect back on a little phrase like that and see the real wisdom in it. Are you lost as to what I mean?

I’ll explain.

When guys find themselves challenged in their personal dating lives, a real common expression is that they don’t really ‘get’ women and they want to learn how to do this. Of course, in this context, getting women has less to do with getting dates, and more to do with understanding *every* aspect of a woman’s mind. And therein lies the real riddle to this.

You can never totally ‘get’ a woman.

Guys that have been happily married for 30, 40 years still get surprised by their wives all of the time. They ask her a question, thinking that they know what the answer will be… and she gives them one that totally takes them by surprise. And this is the way it really is when it comes to male/female relationships. Try as you might, you will never totally grasp all aspects of a woman’s mind.

How does this help you in terms of dating and attracting women?

Tons, really. See, one of the things that most men end up getting mixed up about is, they aren’t supposed to totally be able to predict what a woman will do, what she will say or how she will think about things. So, you have to be able to ‘roll with the punches’ and deal with it when she throws you for a loop.

If you can’t do this, you will end up becoming all insecure and confused.

And when you are confused and insecure, your ability to attract women goes down the toilet, really fast. If you assume that there is some way to totally understand a woman inside and out, and that you should be able to predict her every move… think again. That is some of the beauty of learning how to attract women. To learn how to roll with the punches and deal with the little surprises and still be able to keep her attracted to you.

If you can do this, then in no time, you will be able to get as many dates as you want, get second and third dates with women you are really attracted to… and be able to remain confident in almost any situation.

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Why Being Cocky Is Not Attractive to Women

Thursday, April 14th, 2011

Over the last few years, there has been a lot of dating advice given to men that emphasizes that you need to come off as being really, really confident. And that can be a good thing. The problem is, most guys that try to be really, really confident… end up coming off cocky more than anything else. And most women don’t like cocky guys. They don’t want to meet a guy who comes across as being arrogant.

There is a big difference in the results that you get with women when you are confident versus when you are being cocky. Yet, the difference between seeming confident and seeming cocky can actually be pretty small. Having an attitude that you know your are attractive to women is a little different than having an attitude like women should be glad just to spend a few moments in your presence. See that little difference there?

Here’s why women don’t like cocky guys:

1. They make her feel inferior to them.

While a man is supposed to be a leader, an alpha male, he’s not supposed to make a woman feel inferior to him. Do that and you will turn off 90 percent of the women you come across and at best you will have the 10 percent left that have crazy issues going on. There’s no reason to try and make a woman feel inferior, and doing that just proves one thing– that you probably have some security issues going on in your head.

2. Women like to socialize and most people don’t want to be around an arrogant person.

Most women enjoy socializing, whether it is in a bog group of people or just their regular group of friends. And they like to be dating a guy that they can ‘show off’ or at least bring around their friends and have a good time. But, most people don’t really want to socialize with arrogant people, so you will end up turning off her friends, which can end up making her have second thoughts about you.

3. Cocky guys are no fun be with.

The internet seduction community, namely David DeAngelo, gave rise to the idea that combining a little bit of cockiness with humor works well when interacting with women. And it does. Of course, some guys have known that for years, but he really brought that out and coined the term. Problem is, it is the combination of cocky *and* funny that works. Cocky by itself is no fun at all. If you try and do the cocky and funny thing, but you lack the humor in it… then you are not going to get a good reaction, because then you are no fun to be with.

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First Date Advice for Men- Should You Pay?

Wednesday, April 13th, 2011

Right now, I am kind of surfing through the web and watching some cheesy comedy on television. Through my little web searches and the movie that I am watching, I’ve seen the topic of whether or not a guy should pay on the first date or not come up. And just like with anything else, there’s a lot of people preaching some really rigid guidelines that they think *have* to be followed.

You have the old school, traditional crowd that trumpets that the guy should always pay, because, well– that’s the way it always has been done. Then you got the new school, just got laid for the first time last week crowd of internet seduction ‘gurus’ all saying that you should never pay because then that makes you look like a wuss, the antithesis of an alpha male.

So, which group is right, the ones who want things to be done they way they always have been done… or the new crowd, fresh off of their first lay, thinking that every little thing you do will work against you from getting a chance to score?

Truth be told, in my opinion… there is no right answer.

I’ve done both and gotten laid off of both many times. So, the real answer is WHY you feel like you need to pay, I guess.

If you feel like you need to pay because you are the guy, then maybe you shouldn’t.

And if you feel like you should never pay because that is not the ‘alpha male’ thing to do… then maybe you should.

Guys who are really naturals don’t debate shit like this. They don’t have time to worry about whether or not reaching for the bill will get them laid or not.

They are too busy working on OTHER things that make more of an impact.

Do you think that a woman is not going to want to sleep with you because you did not pay the bill if every other signal she is giving you is saying that she IS going to sleep with you?

Do you think that a woman will sleep with you, even if there is NO attraction or chemistry just because you showed her your dominance by not footing the bill?

Debates like this will continue to go on. And you will always have one crowd saying one thing and providing their ‘proof,’ and you will have the other crowd doing the same thing.

Meanwhile, the real naturals with women will be off getting laid, shooting hoops, playing pool… just living their life without all of the little worries.

Which do you prefer?

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She’s Just Not That Into You- Or Is She?

Monday, April 11th, 2011

When it comes to dating, there are a lot of “rules” out there that people live by as if they were set in stone, applied to every person and every situation, and could never be broken. The sad thing about this is… guys that don’t have a lot of experience and success with women will believe that they are true all of the time. And that will make it that much harder for them to ever have any success at all with women.

One thing that you will come to understand once you have started to meet and date a diverse group of women (1 at a time, of course), is that there really are no “rules,” there are merely guidelines that you can use. If you are too rigid with trying to adhere to some standard of rules that some dating ‘expert’ came up with to sell a book, you are going to end up getting the shaft when you did not have to.

An example of this, is the supposed signs that *all* women give when they are not interested in a guy. While it is true that there are some broad signs that usually mean one thing or another… they are by no means set in stone. A woman from one walk of like will not always react and respond the same way a woman from another walk of life will.

Here are some more examples of what I mean about the supposed signs that a woman is not that into you… and how they can be interpreted the WRONG way:

1) They say that if a woman does not make enough eye contact then she has no interest at all.

Well, it sounds true and it seems like it would be… until you meet a woman from a culture where the women are conditioned not to make eye contact with men. Then, you are playing by a new set of rules. It does not even have to always apply to a new culture, though. If a woman is used to being ‘dominated’ by the men in her life… then she may not give a lot of eye contact. Or, if she is painfully shy, she might also shy away from giving a lot of eye contact to a guy she likes. She may even try to hide it altogether, while stealing glances at him when he is not looking.

2) They say that if a woman is not calling you back right away, then she has no interest at all.

What they don’t say is that this is not always true if the woman has a really hectic life going or she keeps herself really busy. I’ll give you a personal example of mine. A couple of years ago I ended up meeting a woman in a local bar who was working full time AND going to school full time. That night that I met her, it was the first time she had been out in a couple of months. Well, it took two weeks for her to call back after that night, but she DID call. And we DID date. So, what happened? Well, she had a week of studying and then a week of tests at school. And she also had to work overtime at work as well. Had I listened to the ‘rules’ I would have just assumed that she was not interested and missed out on getting to date her.

3) They say that if she talks about other guys when you are with her, then she could not be interested in you.

To debunk this ‘rule,’ all I have to do is bring up a friend of mine, who is a woman. She has a way of testing guys that she likes. And how does she do that? She brings up OTHER guys into the conversation to get their reaction. She wants to see if they are going to act all squirmy and jealous. And sometimes she wants to see what they are really like. For example she might say to a guy that she knows a guy named Chris (me) who hates country music. Point is, she likes it, and she wants to see what the guy’s response is going to be. Just because she mentions another guy… it does not mean that she is not interested. It could be just her way of testing YOU because SHE DOES like YOU!

4) They say that you always have to wait 3 days before calling up a woman you’ve just met.

Oh, how wrong this one can be! They almost all use the movie “Swingers” as the example for what not to do, and I cannot disagree with that. However, sticking to a strict three day rule can be detrimental to your success with a woman.

Here’s an example: You meet a woman one night and she does not have time to hang out anymore, but the attraction and chemistry is DEFINITELY there! So, you get her number and the next day is a Saturday and you really want to see if the sparks are for real or not. However, you listen to that silly 3 day rule. What you don’t know is that she has nothing at all to do that Saturday and she wants YOU to call her. She waits and waits and then Sunday goes by and suddenly, she loses all of that attraction that she felt for you! Sometimes, you have to strike while the iron is HOT! If you don’t and she gets lost in the drag of another work week… she may just lose interest in you completely.

Sometimes, you have to be a bad boy and break all of the rules… including the ones put forward by the so called dating experts. Sometimes, they are wrong. And sometimes, you can end up having a pretty good time breaking those rules!

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10 Signs That Show Your Relationship Is Over

Friday, April 1st, 2011

While we all want to have a really good relationship last, sometimes it just does not pan out that way. Things may start off really good in the beginning, only to come to that forlorn conclusion that the relationship just isn’t working out. Usually it does not happen in an instant. There are almost always some signs that the relationship is over, even before you actually break up.

When you can recognize that these signs are present in your relationship, you have two decisions that you can make. You can either just recognize that maybe it’s time to give up on the relationship, or, you can decide to try and repair it if that is possible. Most relationships, even when they seem like they are done, can be salvaged as long as you recognize it in time and get to work on fixing what is broken.

Here are 10 signs that your relationship is over so that you can either fix things or move on:

1) It stops becoming a forgone conclusion that the weekend means date night for the two of you.

Without going out together and doing things as a couple, you can pretty much guarantee that the relationship is either going to come to an end or become one of those mechanical situations where you just go through the motions. In the beginning, when a relationship is going along just fine, it usually is a foregone conclusion that the weekend means that the two of you are going to be spending time together. You look forward to it. When that goes, it usually is a clear sign that there is some trouble up ahead.

2) There is no conversation between the two of you when you are eating together.

Anyone can spot a couple who is still madly in love with each other or at least amicable enough that they enjoy each other’s company just by spying on them when they eat together. When everything is well and the fire and passion is still there, conversation usually follows. When all you see is two people sitting silently together as they eat, that usually is a sign that some of the sparks have dissipated from the relationship.

3) There is no more romancing of each other at all anymore.

Of course, some of the romancing dies a little the longer you have been with someone, but if it dies out completely, then that may be a sign that things might indeed be over. Even if it only happens every now and again, some of that wooing needs to be there on both sides of the coin if the relationship is truly going to last. If there is none, then you may want to take a deeper look at things.

4) You spend more and more time away from each other and it does not bother you one bit.

It’s only natural that you are not going to spend every moment of every waking day with each other, but when you spend more and more time away from each other and it does not bother you at all… that can be a bad sign in the relationship. When it gets to be too much, that is when couples begin to grow away from each other and it can end up meaning the end of a relationship, cheating, or arguing going on. Anyway you look at it, it’s definitely not the best of signs.

5) You start sensing that maybe your partner is seeing someone else.

Time and time again, that gut feeling tends to be pretty accurate when it comes to finding out that the other person may be cheating. So, if you are getting that gut feeling that your partner just might be cheating on you, then you may want to pay attention to what it is telling you. Cheating does not always mean that a relationship cannot be repaired or saved, but it definitely does mean that there is a possibility.

6) YOU start thinking about what it would be like to be with someone else.

Even if you are not the kind of person who would ever want to cheat on someone, it can happen that you end up thinking about what it might be like to be with someone else. Whether or not you end up crossing the line and actually do find someone else to be with, it is not a good sign at all. It usually means that something is lacking in the relationship and if you don’t figure it out… it may be the end after all.

7) You realize that as much as you like the person you are with… you don’t want to marry them.

It is entirely possible to be attracted to someone, to even love them and not want to marry them. And if the other person is at a point in their life where they want to get married, then staying with them can be a bad thing. You may end up hurting them more by not owning up to how you feel. Hey, it happens, and as long as you know that this is how you feel, then maybe it is time to see if there is someone else out there for you.

You clash too much with their family and their friends.

For some people, this is not a make or break situation, but for many others it can be, If the person you are in a relationship with spends a lot of time with their family and their friends and you clash with them, then that can be an indication of things to come. Too much clashing and you may need to come to the realization that things just are not going to work out for the long term.

9) There is too much physical distance between the two of you.

As much as we like to think that love can overcome any challenge, sometimes it just doesn’t. If there is a lot of distance between you and the one you are with, that can be quite a challenge to have to deal with. And if there are not many opportunities for the two of you to see each other, that can be a sign that the relationship just is not meant to be.

10) You get a feeling that you just cannot shake that the relationship is DEAD.

Sometimes, those feelings that we get about our relationships are intuitive and if you are getting one that you cannot shake off that the relationship is dead, then it just might be. There isn’t always an overwhelming reason or a clear sign that a relationship has bit the dust. Sometimes, it IS just a feeling that you get and you need to listen to that feeling.

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Dating on Facebook

Friday, April 1st, 2011

The idea of being able to date women on Facebook is something that a lot of men have pondered. Facebook now claims to have something in the neighborhood of 500 million members, so it’s a pretty big pool of potential women you may want to date. The problem is, most guys attempts at getting dates off of Facebook are pretty ineffective and lame at best. You are not going to have a lot of success getting women to pay attention to you if all you are doing is sending out random friend requests to hot women and telling them just how hot you think they are.

If it were that easy, every single guy out there would be hooking up off of this site and no one would have any problems of getting a date. You have to look at sites like Facebook as just another potential way to meet and get to know a woman, and build up some kind of chemistry to the point where she wants to meet up with you offline. If you are thinking that there is some magic way to get women to just suddenly bum rush your Facebook profile and barrage you with attention, think again.

Here are some tips for dating on Facebook that can make things a little easier for you:

1) When setting up your profile, be careful not to say things or put up pictures that give off the wrong impression of you.

This is not just true for dating, it’s true for just about anything. Even potential employers now look at whether or not you have a Facebook page and if they see anything suspect, it may cost you a job. But since we are talking about dating here, you want to be careful that you are not putting up anything that will make you seem less attractive to most women out there. You want to give off the best first impression possible, and in this case, the first impression is going to be your profile and the photos that you choose to put up of yourself.

2) No woman wants to get inundated with requests that start off telling her how sexy or hot she is.

Of course, there may be some exceptions to this rule, but for the most part, you want to make a genuine connection with a woman, not just toss her some compliment about her looks or her body. You don’t want to make a woman think that you are just on a site like Facebook to get laid, because most of the time, that will be an instant turn off.

3) Remember that Facebook is just a portal of sorts to meet people, not a place to run cheesy lines and gimmicky routines to pick up women.

If you want to be successful at getting dates off of a site where people are just there to connect with friends and like minded people, then you want to use it only as a way to meet a woman and get to know her a little through communicating with her now and again. If you spend most of your time on there trying to run cheesy lines and gimmicky routines, pretty soon you will get a reputation for that and you will not getting any kind of attention from women worth mentioning. Besides, the whole point is to get to meet up in person, not to sit there and message her back and forth.

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Why Gorgeous Women Are Tough to Get

Thursday, March 31st, 2011

Do you believe that gorgeous women are tough to get? If so, then you are not alone. That’s the consensus of most guys, especially those men that consider themselves to be average, everyday kind of guys. You’ve probably seen images of gorgeous women with athletes, high paid business men, actors and musicians. And seeing those kinds of images, it kind of gives you this idea that you need to be one of those guys if you are ever going to have any hope of getting a gorgeous woman to be your girlfriend.

What you probably have also seen, but not really paid that much attention to, is the fact that there are everyday, average guys who have some kind of ability to attract and date gorgeous women. They don’t have a Mercedes, they don’t have a high paid job, and they don’t play sports of any kind. And yet, they seem to do just fine when it comes to getting the attention of really attractive women.

Here’s Why Gorgeous Women Seem to Be So Tough to Get…

The reason why most guys seem to find that gorgeous women end up being so tough to get with has more to do with their perception of the way it is than the way it really is. What I mean by this is, when you think that you have no chance at all just because a woman is gorgeous, then you probably are going to react in a way that makes this become true. You’ll probably avoid eye contact with her, you will probably avoid making any kind of conversation with her, and you will just kind of get this feeling that there is no hope at all that you can ever have a chance with her.

You have to realize that gorgeous women have something going for them that the average woman does not have. They really can pick and choose which men that they go out on dates with, which ones that they will have a relationship with, etc. So, they naturally are going to pick the guys who stand out, the ones that can add to their life in some way, and the ones that actually have the confidence to approach them and not act like they have no business talking to them.

If You Want to Date Gorgeous Women, This Is What You Need to Do…

You have to make yourself known to a beautiful woman if you want to have any chance at all that she will end up being your girlfriend. You have to gather up whatever courage that you might have and approach her without shying away at the last moment. And you also have to really feel that you have just as much chance at getting with her as any other guy does. If you can get this far, and you learn how to read a woman’s signs of attraction, then you can have the opportunity to date beautiful women and they really won’t seem so tough to get with in the end.

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How to Ask a Woman Out on a Date- 3 Tips to Warm Her Up to Say Yes to You

Friday, March 25th, 2011

It’s kind of funny how overwhelming it can be for a man to ask a woman out on a date sometimes. I’ve known men who no one would ever question their toughness when it came to most things who would fret all about when it came down to asking a woman out on a date, especially if they were really fond of her. It’s not uncommon for a man to get nervous or to feel stressed out about asking a woman out on a date, but it’s something that you have to do if you are going to actually get the chance to date her.

You’ve probably been expected to figure out women and dating the way that most men do- through trial and error and of course, luck. Going about it that way is not always the best method, though. If you want to ask a woman out on a date and have the best odds that she ends up saying YES to you, you have to learn how to warm her up.

Here are 3 tips on how to ask a woman out on a date and warm her up to saying YES to you:

1. She’s not going to say yes if she does not expect to have a good time with you.

If you were a woman and you knew that you could pretty much pick and choose which men you dated, would you want to go out with someone that you thought would end up being a bore? Probably not, right? Well, that’s the reality that you have to face when it comes to dating. You need to make her see that she can and will enjoy herself going out on a date with you.

2. To get a woman to say yes to you, you have to get good at flirting with women.

Some guys try to avoid flirting at all costs because they don’t feel comfortable when doing it. Other guys think that they are experts at flirting with a woman, when they really don’t end up getting the results that they want. You have to be honest with yourself, and you have to really learn how to flirt with a woman if you want to warm her up. If you need to improve, then by all means, learn HOW.

3. You have to make her feel an ESCALATING amount of sexual attraction with you.

Going too strong too soon is almost always a deal breaker. And not being able to get her to the level of feeling a strong amount of sexual attraction will keep you at the acquaintance or friend level with a woman. If you want to practically guarantee that she will say yes to you when you ask her out on a date, then you need to make her feel an escalating amount of sexual attraction.

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Online Dating Tips for Men- 5 Must Know Online Dating Tips

Tuesday, March 22nd, 2011

Some people look at online dating as a last ditch effort to attract someone into their life. Others look at it as sort of a magic solution, as if all they have to do is to join an online dating site and they will automatically solve all of their dating problems in one fell swoop. The funny thing about it is, dating is pretty much the same whether you do it online or off line. If you want to be successful with an online dating site, then you should keep that in mind.

There are lots of online dating sites out there nowadays. From the bigger names like Match.com, Eharmony.com and Chemistry.com to the smaller less known sites, there is a wide variety available. Years ago, it really wasn’t this way, as you had to hope that you would come across someone in a chat room or something. Still, there are some tips to help you out with dating online that you must know or you will end up like the many guys who put up a profile and get nothing at all.

Here are 5 must know online dating tips for men:

1. Different websites attract different kinds of women.

Some online dating websites will cater mostly to people looking for long term relationships, even marriage. Some dating sites cater more towards people looking to date casually and some are even geared more for hooking up for sex. Keep this in mind, because your approach has to match what the site is offering. For example, if you want to get into a long term relationship, then you probably should not join a site that is designed to hook people up for casual sex.

2. Sending messages to women telling them how hot or how sexy they are is the worst way to try and make a good impression.

Most women when they join an online dating website will quickly discover that the majority of instant messages or comments that they are going to get all deal with telling them how hot they are. Well, if that was the way to go, then most guys would be hooked up in no time at all and they aren’t. If you don’t want to make the wrong impression or get ignored, then don’t fall into the trap of trying to tell her how hot she is or how sexy she looks in her pictures.

3. Actually read the profile of the women you want to meet online.

Skimming really quickly through their profile is not the way to go. You want to actually read what she has to say about herself, so that when you do communicate with her, you come across as the rare guy who actually knows a little bit about her. You want to use these bits of information to start up conversations that are going to lead somewhere.

4. Put up pictures of yourself having fun and enjoying life.

To really get attention of the higher quality women, most of the pictures that you put up of yourself should reflect the fact that you have fun and know how to enjoy life. When most people want to meet someone on one of these sites, the last person they want to meet is someone who is just a boring, stay at home kind of guy. You want to show a woman through your pictures that she will have a good time with you.

5. Dating online is not any different in the fact that you should be the one who makes the approach.

Throwing up a profile does not guarantee that all of a sudden, women are going to be contacting you left and right. You have to be the one who makes the approach, and you have to do it in a way that makes her want to get to know you. Start off with some observation about what she has described about herself and let that lead into more conversation. Tease her a little if you can.

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