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Sucking Up to a Woman Versus Simply Complimenting a Woman

Monday, October 10th, 2011

You’ve been told time and time again that sucking up to a woman is one of the cardinal sins of seduction.

You know that when you suck up to a woman, you are subconsciously placing yourself beneath her, and as long as you place yourself beneath her… she will never be beneath you.

Still, you aren’t quite sure where the ‘line’ is, what constitutes the difference between sucking up to a woman and simply complimenting her.

When you are unsure of a simple, yet complex thing like this… it can make you go mad.

It can make you get stuck in a never ending loop inside your head where you are trying hard to figure out if you said the right thing or the wrong thing.

Let’s close that loop once and for all.

Let’s make a line where we identify the distinction between sucking up and complimenting a woman.

Here’s an example of a simple compliment:

“Your hair looks nice like that. Kind of reminds me of Audrey Hepburn, I think.”

Here’s an example of sucking up to a woman:

“Oh my God, you look so beautiful. I can’t take my eyes off of you. You are gorgeous. Absolutely gorgeous. Better looking than any model I have ever seen. Just wow!”

In the compliment, you are merely stating what you think. You think her hair looks nice. And it seems genuine because you are giving a comparison to someone who is usually regarded as being beautiful, but you are not overdoing it.

I think the difference is obvious in the sucking up example.

In that example, the guy would be going overboard with it. It goes from being a pretty high compliment to just over the top. It goes from slightly believable to just downright unbelievable.

The reason why the compliment works, is because of the fact that it comes off as being believable. Not only that, if her mind is going a million miles a minute trying to process the compliment, it has all sorts of implications, without being very verbose.

It gives her a boost, while still leaving a LOT to the imagination, her imagination.

When you suck up to a woman, it seems false and phony. It leaves nothing to her imagination.

Here’s another comparison of complimenting a woman versus sucking up to her…

Compliment:

“You must stay pretty active, you’re in good shape.”

Sucking Up:

“Wow, you’re body is so sexy. I mean, it’s like perfect. You have the sexiest body on the planet.”

Again, the compliment is a lot more toned down, it is a little less direct (good for the imagination, as well as mystery) and it actually seems pretty genuine.

The suck up seems like a guy who’s desperate to score some points or score some sex.

The compliment sets things up where she is not quite sure what it is you are implying. You might just mean that she really looks like she works out. Or you might be saying in a subtle way that you think she is sexy.

The compliment will go a much longer way to building up a woman’s attraction because of the fact that it seems genuine, works up a little mystery, it still flatters her a bit… and it does not make you seem like you are just desperate for “points” or for sex.

Here is what else it does for you.

When a woman gets a compliment, where there is still an air of mystery to it, she will ask her friends what they think it means. She will talk about it for days.

That whole time that she is asking her friends and thinking about it for days… YOU are on her mind.

Even if she does not realize it, that whole process of her asking her friends and thinking about what it all means, it is building up her attraction to you.

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Why Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid – 4 Reasons Why Nice Guys Get Nada

Sunday, October 9th, 2011

Ever notice how it is always the nice guys who end up at home alone on a Friday night surfing through the web, hoping to stumble on to a woman who just totally gets them? Well, it may not be that bad, but the nice guys surely are the ones who tend to get played the most, while it always seems like it is the bad boys who get laid the most. There are lots of reasons why nice guys don’t get laid, but I came up with four really common issues that nice guy have that make them resort to a box of tissues and a raunchy website instead of a nice, warm female body on the weekend. (Click Here: How to Seduce a Woman)

Why Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid Reason Number One - They Ignore That Women Have a Sexual Side

If you get offended the moment a friend of yours refers to a woman in a slightly sexual way… then I can pretty much bet the house that you are not getting that much action in the sack. Want to know how I know this? Because it is always the nice guy who tries to sanitize a woman’s natural sexual side. They try to act like it is not there, like she is the one in a million woman who never thinks of sex, but will somehow give in to him just because he is so nice and so pure.

Reality… women DO have a sexual side and you better pay attention to it, because if you don’t… there is always someone else out there who WILL. And if she finds that guy before you get a chance to turn things around and finally realize that you cannot ignore her sexual side… then you are never, ever going to get it.

Why Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid Reason Number Two - They Apologize to a Woman for Being a Guy

As guys, we naturally have some quirks and some behaviors that are all too male. This is what makes us men, well, that and the testicles that are in between our legs. And yet, the nice guy will apologize to a woman for nothing more than… being a man.

You don’t apologize for being a MAN… you should be PROUD of it!

So, you did something stereotypically male. Why in the world would you go and apologize for that? Like, a nice guy will tell a woman she looks hot… get embarrassed by the fact that he said that… and then apologize for it. That’s not something worth apologizing for. Apologize for leaving the toilet seat up so that when she got up late at night to tinkle, she got a little wet on her rear. That’s worth apologizing for. But for being a man and telling her, Hey… you look hot tonight? No apologies there.

Why Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid Reason Number Three - They Watch Lifetime Television

Television for women. Nice guys will actually watch this stuff, think that they are getting an inside peak at what women really want… and then wonder why all of that stuff they try does not work. You can’t engulf yourself in all things feminine and then wonder why women don’t want to jump your bones. If she is a straight female… then chances are… she wants a GUY!

Hey, even if you don’t watch Lifetime television, if you are a nice guy and you are not getting laid… then there is a good chance that you are giving off too much of a feminine vibe to women. Of course, that does not mean that you are all dolled up or anything like that… but you are probably acting a lot more like her gay male confidant than you are the hunky guy that she gossips about with that gay male confidant.

Why Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid Reason Number Four - They Think That Getting a Kiss on the Cheek is a “Close”

Closing is not a bad thing. It does not make you the spawn of Satan to want to end up in bed with a woman. Feel it. Own it. Admit to it.

If you want to get rid of the empty bed Friday nights, if you want to stop getting all emotional when you hear Daughtry on the radio… then you need to learn how to close a woman. And you also need to admit that a close ain’t a close unless it is a CLOSE and she is getting out of HER CLOTHES!

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How to Approach Women – Has THIS Ever Happened to You?

Thursday, October 6th, 2011

As guys, we all know that the approach on a woman is one of the biggest hurdles that you can clear when it comes to getting your dating life handled. Actually, if you cannot make the approach, is more like being stuck in the starting gates, and instead of you getting in and enjoying the race, you are watching everyone else leave you in the dust. And there’s no way that you are going to get to the finish line if you can’t even get out the gates, right?

So, if you are having a hard time with approaching women, then this is something that you need to take care of as soon as possible, or else you are going to get left behind and watch all the other guys end up with the women you want to be with. That’s even worse than not being able to finish a silly little race. Not being able to get dates with women because you cannot make the approach is one sure fire way to guarantee that you are going to be spending some lonely nights with your eyes glued to your computer screen.

There are so many little variables that you need to get just right when you approach a woman that it can be more than just a little intimidating. You want to make sure that she doesn’t think that you are some weirdo or some loser and you want to make sure that you are not making things worse for yourself by looking goofy as you walk on over to her.

HAS THIS EVER HAPPENED TO YOU?

You spot a woman and you can’t seem to shake your eyes off of her one bit. She’s breathtaking and in the lighting of the club, she looks absolutely seductive. You stand there, eyes gazing at her, taking in every bit of her from the top down to the bottom. And the funniest thing happens. She’s looking over at you and you can swear that she wants you to come over to her.

You glance back behind you, just to try and play it cool like you really were not just eye balling her from across the room. And your eyes, almost like they cannot help themselves go right back to checking her out. Inside your head, you are trying to ‘pep’ yourself up into getting the courage to leave your cozy little nest next to the bar and walk on over to her.

Your heart’s beating fast and you finally get yourself amped up enough to do it.

So, you start walking over to her, trying to navigate your way through the crowd as they dance to some obnoxious techno pop mix playing through the P.A. system and she’s looking right back at you. You are excited, already anticipating what might happen if you don’t blow it and you get a chance to hook up with her. She looks away as you get close to her and suddenly… the vibe changes.

All of the confidence that you felt, that high that you were riding is gone now. It’s been replaced with a familiar feeling of angst and anxiety as you realize that she’s not giving you the clear sign that you were hoping for. You get within a couple of feet of her, and you barely get out the words, “Hey.”

She looks back at you and gives you a look almost of contempt. Now you are frozen. The only thing that comes to mind is to ask her to dance to that obnoxious techno pop that you loathe so much and her response is, “No, I’m just waiting for a friend of mine. Oh… I think I see her.”

She takes off and gets herself lost in the crowd. Was she really going to meet up with a friend? Did you really misread her from across the room?

You want to believe that she really is off somewhere in the crowd with her friend and that she really did have to go meet her right then. But, you know the truth. Somewhere in those few moments that you made your approach… you lost her. When you were standing in your cozy little nest at the bar and she was standing across the room… she wanted you.

What happened in those precious few moments?

It’s amazing how quickly attraction can be lost and how hard it can see to gain it. And unfortunately, situations like this happen all of the time to average guys, nice guys, and even experienced guys. And it does not matter who you are… it can make you feel like you might as well never approach another woman again. At least, not until you get it figured out.

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How to Talk to Women – Why Your Conversation FAILS to Create Attraction

Friday, September 23rd, 2011

Conversation is one thing that everyone is supposed to be good at, right? I mean, we start talking when we are toddlers and we pretty much have it mastered by the time we are in our teens, so when you are an adult an find that it is HARD to talk to women, it can seem incredibly troubling to you. If you get tongue tied, if you start conversations that seem to go nowhere and you realize that it is causing you trouble with women, then please keep on reading.

Talking to women is one of the most basic and fundamental skills that any man can possess. Unless you have the drop dead good looks and bad boy persona to back them up, you have to be able to hold a conversation that creates attraction and chemistry with a woman. That is going to be your main ‘edge’ and the one thing that you can rely on that takes any woman who is out of your league and brings her right back down to your level.

How to Talk to Women and Create Attraction

Most guys don’t even realize just how bad their conversation skills with women really are until they get that one experience where they are talking to a woman that they REALLY want and they find that they either have nothing to say, or they are just terribly boring when they speak. Chances are, if you find it hard to talk to women, then you have made some mistakes along the way. That’s okay, because mistakes can ALWAYS be corrected.

Mistake Number One When Talking to Women - Not Shutting Up When You Should

Part of the conversation equation actually has less to do with talking, and more to do with listening. No one likes to be involved in a one sided conversation, at least, not when they are not the one who is dominating the diatribe. So, the first mistake that men make is that they do not shut up when they are supposed to. If she is telling you a story, her opinion, or she is just really enthusiastic about something… be a little more quiet and a listen. She’ll dig it.

It’s always funny how you can have a conversation with a woman where honestly, she does most of the talking and you do a whole lot of listening and then at the end of the conversation she says something like, “Wow, it was really nice talking to you.” It happens all of the time when you learn to actually apply this little used technique.

Mistake Number Two When Talking to Women – Not Asking Her Any Questions

Okay, so you don’t want to be like a toddler who asks why after everything she says. On the other hand, you don’t want to just sit there and make it seem like you are not paying any attention at all to what she is saying. Getting her to reveal a LOT about herself is dead easy when you learn to incorporate the question, WHY, and then wait for her reply.

I use this techniques all of the time when I either just don’t feel like doing a lot of talking or I really want to get a sneak peek inside a woman’s mind and see the way that she thinks. For example, finding out that she was a virgin until college and asking her why that was can get her to reveal a lot about the way that she thinks about sex and relationships. And you can use that info to decide when and how to make your move if you want to try and get her into bed with you.

Mistake Number Three - Your Conversation Fails to Create Attraction Because There is No ESCALATION

If you are talking to a woman and you really want to be more than just someone she is having a conversation with, then you need to escalate beyond the small talk. You don’t want to have the same kind of conversation that she would have with just any guy. This is why you need to escalate if you want to create real chemistry and attraction with a woman. Go beyond just talking about basic likes and dislikes and get into some real details about “taboo” subjects.

You might be surprised at how quickly a woman will open up about all kinds of stuff if she feels comfortable talking to you and you kind of GUIDE HER along into talking about the things YOU want to know about. I like to get a woman to talk about sexual things as quickly as possible without it being so quick that it seems like that was all I really wanted to talk about in the first place. From there, you can easily tease and flirt your way into hooking up with her.

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How to Get Her Turned On – Tips to Turbo Charge Your Seduction Skills

Wednesday, September 21st, 2011

How do you get a woman turned on?

Ask most guys this question, and they are going to look at you with confusion and bewilderment, or they are going to give you some kind of cheesy response that sounds like they learned most of their sexual education from adult films and locker room conversations with guys who have about the same amount of inexperience as they do. Any regular guy can become a “stud” as long as he puts in some time learning real tips and techniques to turn on a woman and ignores those things that men often think are effective but do really little to turn on a woman.

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If so, then you really may need to keep reading. You also need to unlearn any ineffective techniques, methods and concepts that will get in the way of learning what really works. You also need to learn how to take things slow. Slow can be a good thing for YOU. Turning on a woman takes some patience and if you are too rushed, that can be a bad thing. And you know what? I’d probably be pretty conservative if I were to estimate that 8 out of 10 guys try to move too fast in trying to get a woman into the bedroom.

How to Get Her Turned On Tip Number One - The Eye Connection

This has always been my favorite little “trick.” It’s been my go to move for quite some time and it hardly ever seems to fail me. And it hardly ever seems to fail anyone that I explain it to and they actually USE IT. The eyes are a way to connect with someone on a “spiritual” level. And in many cultures, sex is a spiritual thing. When you use your eyes to connect with a woman, you can do a lot of the “heavy lifting” of trying to seduce her into bed, without really having to do much at all.

What do you do?

Take a moment where the conversation is kind of winding down. Not winding down like it’s the end of the night and she is going to go home. More like you know that there is going to be a long pause where neither one of you are saying anything. At this point, you want to make a brief, 5 second connection with her, using just your eyes. She’ll connect back if there is any rapport or chemistry between the two of you. After no more than five seconds, look down and away and give a light little chuckle. Then, repeat the eye connection and see if she holds for any longer than 5 seconds. Chances are, if she does, this is a great moment to move in for the kiss.

How to Get Her Turned On Tip Number Two - Better Than Spanish Fly

As long as you followed the first tip, then you should be able to move on to this one. While you are close to each other, sitting down, you want to gently place your hand on the outside of her opposite knee. Slowly move up her leg till you get to about the mid thigh and then move your hand slowly inward so that you are now on her inner thigh. If you make this move while you are kissing, then you may want to see how far up she will let you go.

Why Is It So Important to Move From Knee to Thigh?

I’ve seen a lot of guys make the mistake of going straight to trying to put their hands on the inside thigh, before they really did anything else. At that point, it’s going to feel more like you are pawing at her or trying to cop a cheap feel. BAD MOVE. On the other hand, if you start off at the outer part of her knee, a very “safe” place, and then move up and inward as yo are kissing her, it feels more like a natural progression to her. Instead of feeling like you are just trying to cop a feel, it feels more like you are going with the kiss and going with the moment.

It’s Not Over Just Yet…

Following these two tips just right, you can get pretty hot and heavy with a woman rather quickly. And as long as you are in a private place where sex can occur, then there is a really good chance that this is exactly where the two of you will end up. Now, just because you have gotten to this point, though, don’t expect that she is like putty in your hands. Last minute resistance is VERY real in this situation and you really need to know how to escalate things further.

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Ways to Meet Women – 5 Ways to Open Up Your Chances of Meeting Women

Tuesday, September 20th, 2011

There are lots of things that guys who are struggling with their dating life complain about, and one of those things is meeting women. It’s kind of hard to even imagine yourself doing well with women if it seems like you cannot even get to the point where you are actually meeting new women. You can learn all of the techniques and tricks for building attraction with a woman that you want, but if you don’t have any women to try them out on… how can you expect to have any kind of luck?

Of course, it’s not always as easy as just saying to yourself, “Hey, I need to meet someone.” There are so many variables that can come into play for that, it’s kind of ridiculous to think that you can just snap your fingers and make immediate changes. For that reason, I thought I would explore 5 ways that any guy can meet women so that you can get some idea of how to expand and open up your chances.

Here are 5 ways to meet women that you should take advantage of:

1) Join local groups that are based around hobbies and activities.

I used to scoff at this suggestion, probably because it just did not sound sexy enough. However, there is something to be said for doing this. When you meet local groups that are based around hobbies and activities, not only is there a very good chance that there will be some women there, you also get the chance of expanding your overall social circle which can lead to many more opportunities down the road. And if you do happen to meet a single woman while you are there, you already know that you will have something in common with her.

2) Join a local gym or fitness center.

This kind of coincides with the suggestion I made above, however, there are some added bonuses to focusing on joining gyms and fitness centers. One, if you actually do go on a regular basis is that you will get in shape. That can lead to better self esteem and a better overall look. Two, is that any woman you meet there will be into staying physically fit herself, so you can kind of expect to find some pretty attractive women there as well.

3) Network through Facebook and other social sites on the internet.

Here’s the true power of these kinds of sites. It’s not about trying to run a line on a woman from the comfort of our home. It’s about using it to network, the way that these sites are meant to run. By joining in on conversations that friends of yours are having, you get the chance to possibly mingle with their friends that you may not know, and that can expand your social circle. And the bigger your social circle is… the more likely it is that you will end up meeting a woman who you find appealing and attractive.

4) Move to another town or city if you have no luck where you currently are.

Here’s the truth about some places where people live. The possibilities are limited. If you live in a small town where everyone knows everyone and you just cannot seem to find someone new, maybe it is time to give some though to moving somewhere else. You may not like the idea at first, but in time, you just might find that a change of scenery was all that you needed.

5) Make it a goal to introduce yourself to 1 new woman every day or every week.

So many guys are stuck in their little shells and they wonder why it is that they are not meeting anyone at all. Well, if that is the case for you, challenge yourself. Make a goal to meet or at least introduce yourself to someone new every day or every week. If you really stick to this, then there is no way that after a few months you would not have eventually met a woman you can click with and who is single and available.

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Dating Tips for Men – 3 Myths About Dating Busted

Friday, August 12th, 2011

For some reason, most men grow up believing in a lot of “myths” about dating that really tends to hold them back from having the kind of success with women that they could and should have. There are many reasons for this, one of which is the grip that pop media culture seems to have on us. Another reason is the weird way in which guys will listen to other guys who really don’t know much about what they are talking about, and that usually leads them down the wrong path. Locker room chatter can cause guys to believe that they have no chance at all with women, when the reality is something very different.

Believing in these myths about dating keeps guys from even trying to make any kind of improvement in their dating or social life, and that is a shame. It’s a shame because then they do not get to experience life to the fullest, and they are holding themselves back because of false beliefs more than anything else.

Here are 3 myths about dating that I want to bust open right now:

Dating Myth Number One – Women only want the guys with the huge muscles.

This one is really funny to me, and I know lots of guys that truly believe this. Take a look at your average advertisement targeted to women that uses a male model. Pick up a woman’s magazine and have a look at what you will see. The guy will be fit for sure, but he won’t be the kind of 230 pound gym freak that guys think that women like. Why is this valid? Because advertisers test and test what women respond to and give them what they want. If women really wanted the huge muscular guys and that was what they responded to… that would be what you would see in the ads. You don’t. You see lean, muscular guys more than anything else. And just about any guy can attain that physique if they want.

Dating Myth Number Two – Women want guys that have the best cars.

This is more true if you want to impress other guys than it is if you want to impress women. When I was a little younger, all my friends had much better cars than I did. I mean, much better. Mustangs, Camaros, brand new Acuras. I had a 15 year old Volvo. And I did much better with women than they did. Like a LOT better. It wasn’t the car at all. It was the guy in the car. It was always funny to see my buds with the $ 25,000 car drive home by themselves and me and my $ 1000 hooptie ride home with a couple of women in it along with me of course. Don’t think that you have to possess a certain car to do well with women. It’s not the car, it’s the guy IN the car that matters most.

Dating Myth Number Three – Only losers go on online dating sites.

Luckily, this is one myth that is slowly starting to crack open. For most guys, the only places that they try and meet women are the usual bars and clubs. Well, do you think a lot of attractive, college educated professional women go out to get bombed on the weekend? Some do, most do not. So, where do THEY go? Many times, they try out the online dating scene. If you want to attract a good looking woman with a full time job, her own life, and a woman who can handle her responsibilities, online dating can be GREAT.

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Dating Tips for Guys – How to INSTANTLY Get Better At Attracting Women and Getting Dates

Monday, June 20th, 2011

You’ve got nothing to be ashamed of or feel self conscious about if you are looking to improve your results with women. If more guys actually took the time to learn what works and what doesn’t… there wouldn’t be so many hapless guys sitting at home alone. They would actually be out having a good time and doing what they dream about. Problem for most men is… they would rather sit at home by themselves than to admit that maybe, just maybe, they could use a few pointers to improve their game.

Well, for that reason alone, congratulate yourself just for taking the time to search out some possible solutions. Like I said, you are taking a step that most guys will not, and for that… you will be REWARDED. I honestly don’t know any guy who has taken the time to learn what really attracts women and has not seen improvement in their results, which obviously means more dates and more fun. It may not happen overnight, but what does?

Anyways, here are a few tips that will INSTANTLY put you on the track to attract more women and get more dates:

1. Own up for your lack of success.

This is a big thing to do. Why? Because when most guys fail to get the girl… they blame the woman. They say something to the effect of “she doesn’t know a good thing when she sees it” or some other rationalization. Problem with that is… it does NOTHING at all to help you get better with women. All it does is act like a cozy warm blanket for your feelings and your ego. Do you really need a warm and cozy blanket for your feelings? Or do you need to get more positive reactions from the women you want to date?

2. Put a stop to doing things that make it harder to attract women.

What do I mean by this? Well, let’s say that your average Friday night consists of shooting pool with a couple of guys in a place that has not had a desirable woman walk into it in ten years, lol. Stop going there and wasting your Friday nights. Start going to places where the odds are in your favor and you KNOW that there are going to be desirable women. I would much rather hit up a popular nightclub even if it made me feel a little “uncomfortable” at first than to spend my time somewhere where I know that I am not going to meet a good looking woman.

3. Don’t take advice from guys who are not actually getting results.

Would you take business advice from a guy stocking shelves in a grocery store? Probably not, at least… not if you actually wanted to start up a real business, right? Well, why would you follow the advice of guys that just do not get women? I can remember being younger and following the advice of guys that really did not do any better than I did. The moment I stopped listening to them… things got MUCH better.

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How to Approach Women – Are You Comfortable With Rejection?

Friday, June 17th, 2011

Whenever I get asked by a close friend or buddy of mine to give them some pointers or advice on how to approach women, one of the first questions I will ask is… “Are you comfortable with rejection?” Now, when I ask a question like that, I usually already know what the response is going to be. And I also usually get met with a puzzled look on their face. The reason why I ask this question is, because most men that do not have much success with approaching women are not comfortable with rejection. The converse is also true, though. Most men who are pretty successful at approaching women ARE comfortable with rejection.

Some years back, I made a quantum leap in my results that I got with approaching women. I went from being the guy who would take a look at the super hot woman from across the room, think about approaching her, and then talk myself out of it. The reason for this was simple. At that time, I was NOT comfortable with rejection. I hated it, and to be honest, I kind of feared it.

Problem is… that hatred of rejection and that fear of it… held me back from actually seizing opportunities to go and talk to beautiful women. I could approach an average woman without much problem, but the super attractive ones? Not so much. Then one day, I just FORCED myself. And it was uncomfortable at first but I found out something that most men just do not get.

Approaching a beautiful woman was not all that different from approaching an average looking one. I mean, it really is basically the same thing, it’s just one looks hotter than the other. I know, that’s pretty superficial of me, but hey, I’m a guy what can I say, lol.

You HAVE To Become Comfortable With Rejection…

In all honesty, your odds of getting rejected by an average looking woman versus a really good looking woman are almost the same. Sure, you might do a little better with the average ones, but when it comes right down to it… it’s not that big of a difference. So, the first thing that you really need to do is… become comfortable with rejection.

It’s not going to end your world. It might sting for a bit, but once you get past that initial sting, it’s not really all that bad. It can help you to learn for the next time. And the beautiful thing about it is, once you are okay with it, it just tends to happen less and less. Don’t ask me why… it just DOES.

Every guy I know that does really well with women has no problem with getting rejected. It does not tank their self esteem and it does not keep them from moving on to the next one. And that is the attitude that you need to have if you really want to know how to approach women. Think of it like this… when was the last time the Yankees went an entire season undefeated?

Answer: NEVER!

So, don’t think that you have to be perfect or that there is some way to completely eliminate rejection, because just like the Yankees have to lose even when they dominate a season… you will get rejected from time to time even when you do incredibly well with women.

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How to Turn On a Woman Sexually – She Doesn’t Get Turned on The Same Way You Do!

Wednesday, June 15th, 2011

Turning on a woman sexually is something that all straight men want to be able to do. And sometimes we trick ourselves into believing that we know how to do this without ever really thinking too deeply on it. The problem with that is, it’s not always true. See, most guys learn what they know about turning on a woman from the worst sources. They learn from buddies who know about as much as they do. They learn from movies that are set up to appeal to what guys want to see… not to what really works to turn on a woman.

So, the uncomfortable reality is… most men are not as skilled at turning on a woman sexually as they like to think they are. And what is the reality of not being able to turn on a woman sexually? I think you know the answer to this one. You either won’t get nearly as much action as you want or you might end up losing a woman you are dating just because she is not getting the pleasure and satisfaction that she desires from you.

Either way… You LOSE!

Here’s a little advice on how to turn a woman on sexually:

1. She does not get turned on by the same things that get you going.

If you take away one tidbit from this article, this should be it. Women don’t get turned on by all of the same stuff that men do. So, if you approach trying to turn her on and you do it using techniques and methods that get you going, there is a really good chance that it’s NOT doing the trick. You want to really be able to get that chiseled into your mind and make sure that it stays there.

2. The environment plays a big role for her.

One really stark difference that applies to almost all women you are going to meet is… the environment does play a huge role in whether she gets turned on or not. If she is in an environment that she does not quite feel comfortable in, then chances are, it’s not going to be a good place to try and get her turned on. For this, you have to get a good feel for her personality, because not every woman likes the same environment. Some are more adventurous than others.

3. Conversation leads to stimulation.

Both men and women can get really turned on by conversation, but for women, it takes a little more than it does for a guy. A woman could just flat out say the words… “I want you” and that would probably be more than enough to get you turned on, right? Well, for most women, you need more than three words. You need to be descriptive and creative. You need to kind of set up an image in her mind, something that she can feel and see.

The more you know about how to turn on a woman, the easier it is to seduce a woman into bed and make HER want YOU…

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How to Get a Girlfriend – Demonstrating Higher Value to Get a Girlfriend

Friday, June 10th, 2011

One of the core concepts behind any effective dating advice is for a guy to start demonstrating higher value in order to attract women. Now, this concept does take on many forms, as some guys take it to mean that they need to always present themselves as being of higher value than the woman that they want to attract. However, there is another route that you can take with this, which is very simple and very effective. And that is to instead demonstrate higher value than most of the men that she comes across.

See, a lot of men make the mistake of trying too hard to be perceived as being higher value than a woman and when they do this, they come across more like an arrogant jerk than they do a desirable male. It’s actually quite easy to end up that way, because if you are constantly trying to show that you are out of her league, eventually you are going to cross over into being arrogant.

Here’s why it is much better, more effective and more natural to instead focus on being of higher value than other men that she meets:

For a little frame of reference, keep in mind that I am mostly talking about really good looking women, the kind that have no trouble at all getting male attention. Okay, so if you are a good looking woman, and most of the men that you meet end up trying hard to impress you, are quick to do you favors and such, what are you probably going to be thinking?

Well, you probably would be thinking that it’s very nice to get that kind of treatment, but at the same time, you would also be thinking something along the lines of, why is he doing this? It just does not seem natural.

On the other hand, if you were to approach a good looking woman and show her that you are above that kind of behavior, then you will get a much different reaction. You don’t have to worry about trying to make yourself seem out of her league, because you are already showing her that you are not going to just suck up to her to get her attention or to get her approval.

The quickest way to get a girlfriend is to take on the attitude that you are of a higher value than the average guy.

This automatically puts you in another light and ‘forces’ her to take notice of you. Simply because you are not doing what all of the other men she encounters do. You don’t have to be a jerk to her to give her that impression. You don’t have to worry about using any kind of routines. You don’t have to worry all of the time if you are holding yourself right. Because you will be. And that will make you seem more attractive and appealing and get you more attention from women, which of course will lead to way more opportunities to get a girlfriend.

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Dating Tips for Guys – Dressing For Success With Women

Friday, June 10th, 2011

If you are a single guy and you want to improve your success at getting dates with women, then you probably have thought about how you look or more specifically, the way that you dress and wonder if that might increase your odds of getting dates. I don’t think that it should come as any surprise that people DO make judgements based on the way that other people look, it’s one of those ‘dirty little secrets’ that we all know is true. The real question is, how much does your success with women depend on the way that you dress?

I’m going to have to give my favorite, ambiguous answer here and just say that it depends. It depends because not every woman thinks the same look is attractive. Now, most of the dating advice for men style columns and articles all support the idea that you need to dress really trendy, kind of metrosexual, and they usually hint that if you don’t dress like this, then you will not do well with women.

Well, that is not exactly true. See, not all women are attracted to that metrosexual look. Not all women want to date a guy that uses more product in their hair than they do. Not all women want to date a guy who wears jeans that are skinnier than hers. See, to think that there is just one look that will get you dates with women, it’s a pretty narrow way to look at it.

Both men and women build up what they consider to be an ideal image of the kind of person that they want to date. And not everyone’s ideal image is quite the same. Some women do want that trendy, metrosexual look on a guy. They want the guys that they date to look that way. Some women don’t. Some prefer the blue collar, jeans and a t-shirt kind of guy. Some want the guy that looks like he just stepped off of a Harley.

What matters MOST is that your style reflects and amplifies YOUR personality:

Let’s say that you are the typical blue jeans and a t-shirt blue collar guy. And because you hear that women want that metrosexual look, you change up your appearance. So, you go out, you start talking to some women and it looks like it works. It looks that way, because since you are dressed that way… you attract women that like that look.

Here’s where the rub comes in though. Now, you are with a woman who wants you to be one way… while deep down inside you are a completely different guy. How long do you think you can pull that one off? Probably not too long before you start to grow tired of having to fake it so that she is attracted to you. Of course, it reinforces that idea that you need to dress that way, because by dressing that way… that is the kind of woman you attract.

Do you want to attract women you have to fake it with, or women you can enjoy yourself with?

This really is a question that only YOU can answer. I sure can’t answer it for you. After all, you are the one that has to actually deal with the women that you attract. If you dress in a way that reflects and amplifies YOUR personality, odds are… you will attract a woman that digs that look. She will also probably be a better match for you when it comes to having fun. After all, if you prefer a bike rally and she wants to go to a fashion show, at some point, there is going to be some friction and I don’t mean the good kind.

If you want to dress for success with women, then it has to reflect yourself and the kind of women you want to attract.

That really is the key to choosing how to dress to attract women. Yes, you can pick up a guy’s magazine and see that they suggest that you try and look like a clone of whatever Hollywood actor is hot right now, but is that going to really help you to attract the kind of women you WANT to be with.

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How to Get Dates With Women – Are You Trying TOO Hard?

Thursday, May 26th, 2011

Guys who are struggling to get dates with women usually end up in one of two categories. Either they don’t try hard enough, or they try too hard to get women to like them. Most guys seem to end up in of these two groups if they are not getting the attention that they want from women. Luckily, no matter which group you may be in, you can find your way out and start seeing some drastically different results right away.

Let’s take a look at why it ends up being a fault to try too hard to impress a woman. For one, it sends out the message that you may not really be up to her level, otherwise, why would you have to try so hard to win her over or to impress her? Another thing is that it automatically puts you in the pressure position, because you start off the situation as being the one who needs to qualify yourself to her approval.

Yeah, you probably were taught that trying really hard to win over a woman was a good thing. I can remember back on all of the cheesy sitcoms that I grew up watching, the good guy who tried too hard was always the one who ended up being the guy who got the girl. Problem is, that was television and it does not really work out like that too often in the real world.

What works better than trying too hard and what will actually help you to get dates with women?

Start off any interaction with a woman you like as being on her level and without the desire to try so hard to impress her. Countless times women have stated emphatically that it actually is a turn off when a guy is putting in way too much effort to try and impress them. So, don’t bother going down that road. Not only that, make it a practice to get the woman in a position where she is qualifying herself for YOU.

Think about it like this. If you were a guy who was already doing well with women, would you be trying so hard to get attention from a woman? Probably not. And if you were not trying so hard, wouldn’t women see you just a little bit differently?

Most men will never allow themselves to be on the same level as a woman they really like.

They will always put themselves in a position where they feel like they have to always impress the woman they want in order for her to like them. You can be different. You can be one of the few guys who gets it and understands that he needs to be on the same level as the woman he wants. And when you do this, getting dates with women will be easier than you ever found it to be before.

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How to Seduce a Woman into Wanting You- It Takes More Than Just a Few Words

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

All guys know what it is like to really want or desire a woman. Whether it is the bikini clad model in yet another swimsuit magazine, the cute waitress at the coffee shop, or the ‘friend’ you have been fantasizing about for years… all guys know what it is like to really want and desire to be with a certain woman. Yet, not every guy knows what it is like to have a woman seriously desire them. At least, not a woman that they would want to feel that way.

Can You Really Seduce a Woman into Wanting You with Just a Few Words?

A lot of the time you will see articles written that suggest that there are just a few magical words that you can say to a woman and she will instantly desire you. It sounds so good, evokes so much mysticism, and yet… it’s totally false. It takes more than just saying a few words to a woman to really seduce her into wanting you.

A few words can intrigue a woman, they can put a smile on her face, and they can even get her started on the right path to wanting you. However, there’s a little more that you need to do than just learn how to deliver a few words and sit back and wait for her to come alive with desire for you.

Most communication experts that you will find will all agree on one thing. That human communication goes a lot deeper than just the words that you use. Some will give different numbers to illustrate this point, but they all agree that words play a small part when it comes to communication.

Does Your Body Give You Away?

Body language is one of the most important and powerful forms of communication, and when you learn how to master your own body language, then you can learn how to seduce a woman into really wanting to be with you. Most men walk around with body language that does anything but make a woman desire them. They look uncomfortable, awkward, high strung, out of place, etc.

The more comfortable and calm and confident that you seem with your body language, the more attractive you will appear to a woman. Not only that, but many times you will also switch on her curiosity, simply because you are holding yourself in a way that seems to be so rare.

Anytime you see or hear someone say that you can seduce a woman into wanting you with just a few words, realize that this is only really true if you have first mastered your body language and the way it communicates to a woman.

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How to Be An Alpha Male- Positioning Yourself as Her Dream Guy

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

How to Be An Alpha Male

A lot of guys wonder, what does it really mean to be an alpha male? And depending on who you ask, you are going to end up getting a LOT of different answers to this. Some guys think it is all about being dominant, being able to push others around, and to kind of be a jerk to be honest. Other men just aren’t quite sure of what an alpha male really is. An alpha male, in my opinion is not a dominant guy in the sense that he pushes people around, but instead he learns how to be a leader of men, and of women as well.

We all have our own styles, so there really isn’t a cookie cutter, follow these exact tips and you will be an alpha male definition. However, there is a huge bonus to being the kind of alpha male who relies more on his leadership skills and his confidence than there is in trying to be dominant.

So, let’s talk about leading. In this case, we are going to talk about what it means to lead a woman. And what we want to do is to lead a woman into seeing YOU as being her DREAM guy, the kind of guy she thinks about, can’t resist, and wants to date. So, how do you go about positioning yourself as her dream guy?

LEAD Her To Tell You What She DESIRES…

You can sit there and try to guess what she wants in a guy, you can try all the mind tricks that you want to try and get a peak into what she really desires, or you can get her to tell you herself. How do you do this?

Ask.

Of course you can’t just come right out and say what is your dream guy like? If you do that, all you are going to get are the made up answers that sound good, but are not necessarily what she is attracted to.

What you have to do is to get her to reveal her desires and passions in life, and from there you can kind of put together what she really responds to in a guy. For example, if she is an obviously shy woman, but she talks about liking exciting things, then you can kind of figure out that her dream guy would be someone that evokes excitement.

Once you can get her to reveal the little things about herself that reveal what kind of guy she really is attracted to, and what kind of guy she really will respond to, you know what features about yourself to highlight. You don’t have to go around making things up, you can be genuine, you just have to position yourself as matching up to what she really desires.

POSITION Yourself to Be Off-Limits to Her…

Once you start to kind of imply that you are the kind of guy she really desires to be with, then you need to put yourself in the position of being off limits to her. Everyone enjoys the thrill of the chase when it comes to dating, and women are no exception to this. One of the biggest mistakes that guys make is, they qualify themselves to the woman and they let her know right away that she can have them.

Goodbye chase and goodbye thrills.

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