Ever notice how it is always the nice guys who end up at home alone on a Friday night surfing through the web, hoping to stumble on to a woman who just totally gets them? Well, it may not be that bad, but the nice guys surely are the ones who tend to get played the most, while it always seems like it is the bad boys who get laid the most. There are lots of reasons why nice guys don’t get laid, but I came up with four really common issues that nice guy have that make them resort to a box of tissues and a raunchy website instead of a nice, warm female body on the weekend. (Click Here: How to Seduce a Woman)
Why Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid Reason Number One - They Ignore That Women Have a Sexual Side
If you get offended the moment a friend of yours refers to a woman in a slightly sexual way… then I can pretty much bet the house that you are not getting that much action in the sack. Want to know how I know this? Because it is always the nice guy who tries to sanitize a woman’s natural sexual side. They try to act like it is not there, like she is the one in a million woman who never thinks of sex, but will somehow give in to him just because he is so nice and so pure.
Reality… women DO have a sexual side and you better pay attention to it, because if you don’t… there is always someone else out there who WILL. And if she finds that guy before you get a chance to turn things around and finally realize that you cannot ignore her sexual side… then you are never, ever going to get it.
Why Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid Reason Number Two - They Apologize to a Woman for Being a Guy
As guys, we naturally have some quirks and some behaviors that are all too male. This is what makes us men, well, that and the testicles that are in between our legs. And yet, the nice guy will apologize to a woman for nothing more than… being a man.
You don’t apologize for being a MAN… you should be PROUD of it!
So, you did something stereotypically male. Why in the world would you go and apologize for that? Like, a nice guy will tell a woman she looks hot… get embarrassed by the fact that he said that… and then apologize for it. That’s not something worth apologizing for. Apologize for leaving the toilet seat up so that when she got up late at night to tinkle, she got a little wet on her rear. That’s worth apologizing for. But for being a man and telling her, Hey… you look hot tonight? No apologies there.
Why Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid Reason Number Three - They Watch Lifetime Television
Television for women. Nice guys will actually watch this stuff, think that they are getting an inside peak at what women really want… and then wonder why all of that stuff they try does not work. You can’t engulf yourself in all things feminine and then wonder why women don’t want to jump your bones. If she is a straight female… then chances are… she wants a GUY!
Hey, even if you don’t watch Lifetime television, if you are a nice guy and you are not getting laid… then there is a good chance that you are giving off too much of a feminine vibe to women. Of course, that does not mean that you are all dolled up or anything like that… but you are probably acting a lot more like her gay male confidant than you are the hunky guy that she gossips about with that gay male confidant.
Why Nice Guys Don’t Get Laid Reason Number Four - They Think That Getting a Kiss on the Cheek is a “Close”
Closing is not a bad thing. It does not make you the spawn of Satan to want to end up in bed with a woman. Feel it. Own it. Admit to it.
If you want to get rid of the empty bed Friday nights, if you want to stop getting all emotional when you hear Daughtry on the radio… then you need to learn how to close a woman. And you also need to admit that a close ain’t a close unless it is a CLOSE and she is getting out of HER CLOTHES!
You need to get this first: How to Seduce a Woman and learn what you are doing wrong and what you should be doing right!
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