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How to Talk to Women – Why Your Conversation FAILS to Create Attraction

Friday, September 23rd, 2011

Conversation is one thing that everyone is supposed to be good at,  right?  I mean,  we start talking when we are toddlers and we pretty much have it mastered by the time we are in our teens,  so when you are an adult an find that it is HARD to talk to women,  it can seem incredibly troubling to you.  If you get tongue tied,  if you start conversations that seem to go nowhere and you realize that it is causing you trouble with women,  then please keep on reading.

Talking to women is one of the most basic and fundamental skills that any man can possess.  Unless you have the drop dead good looks and bad boy persona to back them up,  you have to be able to hold a conversation that creates attraction and chemistry with a woman.  That is going to be your main ‘edge’ and the one thing that you can rely on that takes any woman who is out of your league and brings her right back down to your level.

How to Talk to Women and Create Attraction

Most guys don’t even realize just how bad their conversation skills with women really are until they get that one experience where they are talking to a woman that they REALLY want and they find that they either have nothing to say,  or they are just terribly boring when they speak.  Chances are,  if you find it hard to talk to women,  then you have made some mistakes along the way.  That’s okay,  because mistakes can ALWAYS be corrected.

Mistake Number One When Talking to Women -  Not Shutting Up When You Should

Part of the conversation equation actually has less to do with talking,  and more to do with listening.  No one likes to be involved in a one sided conversation,  at least,  not when they are not the one who is dominating the diatribe.  So,  the first mistake that men make is that they do not shut up when they are supposed to.  If she is telling you a story,  her opinion,  or she is just really enthusiastic about something… be a little more quiet and a listen.  She’ll dig it.

It’s always funny how you can have a conversation with a woman where honestly,  she does most of the talking and you do a whole lot of listening and then at the end of the conversation she says something like,  “Wow,  it was really nice talking to you.”  It happens all of the time when you learn to actually apply this little used technique.

Mistake Number Two When Talking to Women – Not Asking Her Any Questions

Okay,  so you don’t want to be like a toddler who asks why after everything she says.  On the other hand,  you don’t want to just sit there and make it seem like you are not paying any attention at all to what she is saying.  Getting her to reveal a LOT about herself is dead easy when you learn to incorporate the question,  WHY,  and then wait for her reply.

I use this techniques all of the time when I either just don’t feel like doing a lot of talking or I really want to get a sneak peek inside a woman’s mind and see the way that she thinks.  For example,  finding out that she was a virgin until college and asking her why that was can get her to reveal a lot about the way that she thinks about sex and relationships.  And you can use that info to decide when and how to make your move if you want to try and get her into bed with you.

Mistake Number Three -  Your Conversation Fails to Create Attraction Because There is No ESCALATION

If you are talking to a woman and you really want to be more than just someone she is having a conversation with,  then you need to escalate beyond the small talk.  You don’t want to have the same kind of conversation that she would have with just any guy.  This is why you need to escalate if you want to create real chemistry and attraction with a woman.  Go beyond just talking about basic likes and dislikes and get into some real details about “taboo” subjects.

You might be surprised at how quickly a woman will open up about all kinds of stuff if she feels comfortable talking to you and you kind of GUIDE HER along into talking about the things YOU want to know about.  I like to get a woman to talk about sexual things as quickly as possible without it being so quick that it seems like that was all I really wanted to talk about in the first place.  From there,  you can easily tease and flirt your way into hooking up with her.

Speak to Spark Attraction…

Chris Tyler

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How to Get Her Turned On – Tips to Turbo Charge Your Seduction Skills

Wednesday, September 21st, 2011

How do you get a woman turned on? 

Ask most guys this question,  and they are going to look at you with confusion and bewilderment,  or they are going to give you some kind of cheesy response that sounds like they learned most of their sexual education from adult films and locker room conversations with guys who have about the same amount of inexperience as they do.  Any regular guy can become a “stud” as long as he puts in some time learning real tips and techniques to turn on a woman and ignores those things that men often think are effective but do really little to turn on a woman.

Do you really think that fondling her in an awkward way is the key to getting a woman turned on? 

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If so,  then you really may need to keep reading.  You also need to unlearn any ineffective techniques,  methods and concepts that will get in the way of learning what really works.   You also need to learn how to take things slow.  Slow can be a good thing for YOU.   Turning on a woman takes some patience and if you are too rushed,  that can be a bad thing.  And you know what?  I’d probably be pretty conservative if I were to estimate that 8 out of 10 guys try to move too fast in trying to get a woman into the bedroom.

How to Get Her Turned On Tip Number One -  The Eye Connection

This has always been my favorite little “trick.”  It’s been my go to move for quite some time and it hardly ever seems to fail me.  And it hardly ever seems to fail anyone that I explain it to and they actually USE IT.  The eyes are a way to connect with someone on a “spiritual” level.  And in many cultures,  sex is a spiritual thing.  When you use your eyes to connect with a woman,  you can do a lot of the “heavy lifting” of trying to seduce her into bed,  without really having to do much at all.

What do you do?

Take a moment where the conversation is kind of winding down.  Not winding down like it’s the end of the night and she is going to go home.  More like you know that there is going to be a long pause where neither one of you are saying anything.  At this point,  you want to make a brief,  5 second connection with her,  using just your eyes.  She’ll connect back if there is any rapport or chemistry between the two of you.  After no more than five seconds,  look down and away and give a light little chuckle.  Then,  repeat the eye connection and see if she holds for any longer than 5 seconds.    Chances are,  if she does,  this is a great moment to move in for the kiss.

How to Get Her Turned On Tip Number Two -  Better Than Spanish Fly

As long as you followed the first tip,  then you should be able to move on to this one.  While you are close to each other,  sitting down,  you want to gently place your hand on the outside of her opposite knee.  Slowly move up her leg till you get to about the mid thigh and then move your hand slowly inward so that you are now on her inner thigh.  If you make this move while you are kissing,  then you may want to see how far up she will let you go.

Why Is It So Important to Move From Knee to Thigh?

I’ve seen a lot of guys make the mistake of going straight to trying to put their hands on the inside thigh,  before they really did anything else.  At that point,  it’s going to feel more like you are pawing at her or trying to cop a cheap feel.  BAD MOVE.  On the other hand,  if you start off at the outer part of her knee,  a very “safe” place,  and then move up and inward as yo are kissing her,  it feels more like a natural progression to her.  Instead of feeling like you are just trying to cop a feel,  it feels more like you are going with the kiss and going with the moment.

It’s Not Over Just Yet…

Following these two tips just right,  you can get pretty hot and heavy with a woman rather quickly.  And as long as you are in a private place where sex can occur,  then there is a really good chance that this is exactly where the two of you will end up.  Now,  just because you have gotten to this point,  though,  don’t expect that she is like putty in your hands.  Last minute resistance is VERY real in this situation and you really need to know how to escalate things further.

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To Your Success,

Chris Tyler

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Ways to Meet Women – 5 Ways to Open Up Your Chances of Meeting Women

Tuesday, September 20th, 2011

There are lots of things that guys who are struggling with their dating life complain about,  and one of those things is meeting women.  It’s kind of hard to even imagine yourself doing well with women if it seems like you cannot even get to the point where you are actually meeting new women.  You can learn all of the techniques and tricks for building attraction with a woman that you want,  but if you don’t have any women to try them out on…  how can you expect to have any kind of luck?

Of course,  it’s not always as easy as just saying to yourself,  “Hey,  I need to meet someone.”  There are so many variables that can come into play for that,  it’s kind of ridiculous to think that you can just snap your fingers and make immediate changes.  For that reason,  I thought I would explore 5 ways that any guy can meet women so that you can get some idea of how to expand and open up your chances.

Here are 5 ways to meet women that you should take advantage of:

1)  Join local groups that are based around hobbies and activities.

I used to scoff at this suggestion,  probably because it just did not sound sexy enough.  However,  there is something to be said for doing this.  When you meet local groups that are based around hobbies and activities,  not only is there a very good chance that there will be some women there,  you also get the chance of expanding your overall social circle which can lead to many more opportunities down the road.  And if you do happen to meet a single woman while you are there,  you already know that you will have something in common with her.

2)  Join a local gym or fitness center.

This kind of coincides with the suggestion I made above,  however,  there are some added bonuses to focusing on joining gyms and fitness centers.  One,  if you actually do go on a regular basis is that you will get in shape.  That can lead to better self esteem and a better overall look.  Two,  is that any woman you meet there will be into staying physically fit herself,  so you can kind of expect to find some pretty attractive women there as well.

3)  Network through Facebook and other social sites on the internet.

Here’s the true power of these kinds of sites.  It’s not about trying to run a line on a woman from the comfort of our home.  It’s about using it to network,  the way that these sites are meant to run.  By joining in on conversations that friends of yours are having,  you get the chance to possibly mingle with their friends that you may not know,  and that can expand your social circle.  And the bigger your social circle is… the more likely it is that you will end up meeting a woman who you find appealing and attractive.

4)  Move to another town or city if you have no luck where you currently are.

Here’s the truth about some places where people live.  The possibilities are limited.  If you live in a small town where everyone knows everyone and you just cannot seem to find someone new,  maybe it is time to give some though to moving somewhere else.  You may not like the idea at first,  but in time,  you just might find that a change of scenery was all that you needed.

5)  Make it a goal to introduce yourself to 1 new woman every day or every week.

So many guys are stuck in their little shells and they wonder why it is that they are not meeting anyone at all.  Well,  if that is the case for you,  challenge yourself.  Make a goal to meet or at least introduce yourself to someone new every day or every week.  If you really stick to this,  then there is no way that after a few months you would not have eventually met a woman you can click with and who is single and available.

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