If I had a dollar for every time that I heard someone say that all you need is confidence to be able to successfully approach a woman, I’d be a rich man. And if I actually believed that confidence was all that you needed – I would also be a lonely man as well. Why is that? Because confidence is NOT enough to make successful approaches. If that was all that you needed… there would be a lot more guys getting dates with the women that they wanted to get dates with.
It’s true that confidence helps. It’s true that having confidence is what will actually get you to walk up to a woman and try to get her talking to you. However, it is not true that just having confidence is enough to make her want to date you. There are a lot of confident guys out there who still struggle with getting dates.
There is a reason for that.
Confidence is just ONE PIECE of the puzzle. It’s not the whole thing. You have to also be able to make her feel connected to you. You have to also make her feel as though she is ATTRACTED to you.
What really makes a good approach?
It’s when you can walk up to a woman… make her feel an initial attraction to you … and then BUILD upon that initial attraction so that she WANTS to spend time with you. See that… there is more than one piece to the puzzle.
Confidence gets you to take action.
It doesn’t necessarily get you to take the RIGHT action, though.
Next time you hear someone say that all you need is confidence to successfully approach a woman, know that they are only telling part of the story. It may be the only part of the story that they know and they might not have a lot of successful approaches under their belt.
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