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How to Get Dates With Women – Are You Trying TOO Hard?

Thursday, May 26th, 2011

Guys who are struggling to get dates with women usually end up in one of two categories. Either they don’t try hard enough, or they try too hard to get women to like them. Most guys seem to end up in of these two groups if they are not getting the attention that they want from women. Luckily, no matter which group you may be in, you can find your way out and start seeing some drastically different results right away.

Let’s take a look at why it ends up being a fault to try too hard to impress a woman. For one, it sends out the message that you may not really be up to her level, otherwise, why would you have to try so hard to win her over or to impress her? Another thing is that it automatically puts you in the pressure position, because you start off the situation as being the one who needs to qualify yourself to her approval.

Yeah, you probably were taught that trying really hard to win over a woman was a good thing. I can remember back on all of the cheesy sitcoms that I grew up watching, the good guy who tried too hard was always the one who ended up being the guy who got the girl. Problem is, that was television and it does not really work out like that too often in the real world.

What works better than trying too hard and what will actually help you to get dates with women?

Start off any interaction with a woman you like as being on her level and without the desire to try so hard to impress her. Countless times women have stated emphatically that it actually is a turn off when a guy is putting in way too much effort to try and impress them. So, don’t bother going down that road. Not only that, make it a practice to get the woman in a position where she is qualifying herself for YOU.

Think about it like this. If you were a guy who was already doing well with women, would you be trying so hard to get attention from a woman? Probably not. And if you were not trying so hard, wouldn’t women see you just a little bit differently?

Most men will never allow themselves to be on the same level as a woman they really like.

They will always put themselves in a position where they feel like they have to always impress the woman they want in order for her to like them. You can be different. You can be one of the few guys who gets it and understands that he needs to be on the same level as the woman he wants. And when you do this, getting dates with women will be easier than you ever found it to be before.

Discover how to really trigger a woman’s attraction and you won’t ever wonder how to get dates with women anymore…

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How to Seduce a Woman into Wanting You- It Takes More Than Just a Few Words

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

All guys know what it is like to really want or desire a woman.  Whether it is the bikini clad model in yet another swimsuit magazine,  the cute waitress at the coffee shop,  or the ‘friend’ you have been fantasizing about for years… all guys know what it is like to really want and desire to be with a certain woman.  Yet,  not every guy knows what it is like to have a woman seriously desire them.  At least,  not a woman that they would want to feel that way.

Can You Really Seduce a Woman into Wanting You with Just a Few Words?

A lot of the time you will see articles written that suggest that there are just a few magical words that you can say to a woman and she will instantly desire you.  It sounds so good,  evokes so much mysticism,  and yet… it’s totally false.  It takes more than just saying a few words to a woman to really seduce her into wanting you.

A few words can intrigue a woman,  they can put a smile on her face,  and they can even get her started on the right path to wanting you.  However,  there’s a little more that you need to do than just learn how to deliver a few words and sit back and wait for her to come alive with desire for you.

Most communication experts that you will find will all agree on one thing.  That human communication goes a lot deeper than just the words that you use.  Some will give different numbers to illustrate this point,  but they all agree that words play a small part when it comes to communication.

Does Your Body Give You Away?

Body language is one of the most important and powerful forms of communication,  and when you learn how to master your own body language,  then you can learn how to seduce a woman into really wanting to be with you.  Most men walk around with body language that does anything but make a woman desire them.  They look uncomfortable, awkward,  high strung,  out of place,  etc.

The more comfortable and calm and confident that you seem with your body language,  the more attractive you will appear to a woman.  Not only that,  but many times you will also switch on her curiosity,  simply because you are holding yourself in a way that seems to be so rare.

Anytime you see or hear someone say that you can seduce a woman into wanting you with just a few words,  realize that this is only really true if you have first mastered your body language and the way it communicates to a woman.

Discover what it really takes to seduce a woman and make her want YOU…

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Copyright (c) 2011 Chris Tyler.  All Rights Reserved.

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How to Be An Alpha Male- Positioning Yourself as Her Dream Guy

Tuesday, May 17th, 2011

How to Be An Alpha Male

A lot of guys wonder,  what does it really mean to be an alpha male?  And depending on who you ask,  you are going to end up getting a LOT of different answers to this.  Some guys think it is all about being dominant,  being able to push others around,  and to kind of be  a jerk to be honest.  Other men just aren’t quite sure of what an alpha male really is.  An alpha male,  in my opinion is not a dominant guy in the sense that he pushes people around,  but instead he learns how to be a leader of men,  and of women as well.

We all have our own styles,  so there really isn’t a cookie cutter,  follow these exact tips and you will be an alpha male definition.  However,  there is a huge bonus to being the kind of alpha male who relies more on his leadership skills and his confidence than there is in trying to be dominant.

So,  let’s talk about leading.  In this case,  we are going to talk about what it means to lead a woman.  And what we want to do is to lead a woman into seeing YOU as being her DREAM guy,  the kind of guy she thinks about,  can’t resist,  and wants to date.  So,  how do you go about positioning yourself as her dream guy?

LEAD Her To Tell You What She DESIRES…

You can sit there and try to guess what she wants in a guy,  you can try all the mind tricks that you want to try and get a peak into what she really desires,  or you can get her to tell you herself.  How do you do this?

Ask.

Of course you can’t just come right out and say what is your dream guy like?  If you do that,  all you are going to get are the made up answers that sound good,  but are not necessarily what she is attracted to.

What you have to do is to get her to reveal her desires and passions in life,  and from there you can kind of put together what she really responds to in a guy.  For example,  if she is an obviously shy woman,  but she talks about liking exciting things,  then you can kind of figure out that her dream guy would be someone that evokes excitement.

Once you can get her to reveal the little things about herself that reveal what kind of guy she really is attracted to,  and what kind of guy she really will respond to,  you know what features about yourself to highlight.  You don’t have to go around making things up,  you can be genuine,  you just have to position yourself as matching up to what she really desires.

POSITION Yourself to Be Off-Limits to Her…

Once you start to kind of imply that you are the kind of guy she really desires to be with,  then you need to put yourself in the position of being off limits to her.  Everyone enjoys the thrill of the chase when it comes to dating,  and women are no exception to this.  One of the biggest mistakes that guys make is,  they qualify themselves to the woman and they let her know right away that she can have them.

Goodbye chase and goodbye thrills.

Discover how to position yourself so that women want to chase after YOU,  and you will NEVER have to worry about getting dates again…

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Copyright (c) 2011 Chris Tyler.  All Rights Reserved.

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How to Approach Women – Confidence Is Not Enough

Sunday, May 15th, 2011

You’ve probably already heard it before. That in order to approach a woman and get a positive response from her, you need to be confident. Well, that is definitely true to some extent. You don’t want to approach a woman when you are obviously lacking confidence in yourself. But, is confidence alone the magic bullet that it is made out to be?

When I was a little younger, I knew a guy who had all of the confidence in the world. No matter where we went, he had no problems at all walking up to women and starting conversations. It was like he never even gave it a second thought. So, you would probably think that he did pretty well with women, right? Especially since they always say that confidence is the make or break factor when it comes to approaching women. Well, he may have had the confidence to approach women, but I can tell you… he hardly ever even got so much as a phone number, much less anything more than that.

Confidence is just the beginning…

If you are counting on confidence alone as being the one and only factor in your success with women, expect to see a lot of hit or miss results. Meaning, don’t be surprised when you find out that you have to approach quite a few women just to get one phone number or one date. Just being sure of yourself is not enough to get dates with women, at least not the really attractive ones, the ones that you want to date.

Do you need to be confident?

Absolutely. However, what are you going to do after you approach a woman? How are you going to make her go from just meeting you to wanting to be with you? The friend that I was talking about certainly never lacked confidence in himself. What he did lack was the conversational skills that build attraction with a woman.

See, he would approach women, start talking to them, and immediately drone on and on about topics that were more or less boring to the woman. So, while he had no problems when it came to making the approach, he certainly did have problems in getting anywhere at all with the women he would open.

You need to know how to talk to women…

This is one of the best skills that any man can develop and it does not just help you out when it comes to building attraction with women. Being able to start conversations with people you don’t already know and have them actually enjoy talking to you can open up new doors. It can get you a better job, it can get your phone numbers and dates with women.

When you know how to talk to women and leave them hanging on your EVERY word, getting dates becomes EASY…

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Copyright © 2011 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved.

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How to Seduce Women – Does This Happen to You?

Tuesday, May 10th, 2011

You feel like you have gotten your confidence up to the point where you should have no problems at all walking up to a woman and making a lasting impression on her. You’ve memorized a few lines that are supposed to be proven and you even have a few routines to fall back on just in case one does not work, you have others to bring into the mix. So, you head out for the night, pretty amped up about your chances of being able to sweet talk and seduce a woman into bed with you. And then it happens.

The proven lines that are supposed to work on any woman you approach don’t seem to have much of an effect at all. The routines that are supposed to be original and effective are causing women to walk away from you, not wanting to have any more to do with you at all. Now, your confidence which had been stronger than ever is free falling and you don’t know how to bring it back or what to do from there. All you can think of is that it’s just going to be another night where you end up going home alone.

What happened?

Well, for starters, most proven lines that you read on the internet are anything but proven. Many times, they are just thought up by some guy writing out things that he *thinks* will be effective on all women. Or, if they did ‘work’ all it actually got him was a little bit of flirting, maybe a phone number but nothing more than that. And most routines that guys learn with the hopes of seducing women will not work on most women. And even if they did, they are used by enough guys that any woman you try them on probably has already seen it and heard it before.

What should you be doing instead?

Instead of being focused on pick up lines to seduce a woman or using routines that are supposed to be effective, why not instead learn how to use natural techniques to create rapport with a woman. When you come across as being totally natural, you are a lot less likely to look like just another guy hitting the clubs and bars looking to get lucky. You come across as a guy who just knows how to talk to women, a guy who women want to gravitate towards.

The game changes and you need to change with it.

A few years ago, there were a lot of lines and routines that you could have copied that would have been somewhat effective because most of the women you would have come across would not have seen or heard them before. Then, the internet exploded and those original lines and routines got passed around. Guys started using them left and right and women got wise to this.

Naturals don’t have to worry about being busted.

When you naturally build up the skills to pick up and seduce women, you don’t have to worry about being busted for using a line that lots of guys use. You don’t have to worry about using a routine that is straight out of a movie and get a lot of heat for it. You can just have an effect on women that causes them to feel naturally attracted to you and escalate that attraction to where she wants to have a little fun with you.

Are you ready to discover how to seduce women using *natural* techniques that work like a charm?

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