Guys who are struggling to get dates with women usually end up in one of two categories. Either they don’t try hard enough, or they try too hard to get women to like them. Most guys seem to end up in of these two groups if they are not getting the attention that they want from women. Luckily, no matter which group you may be in, you can find your way out and start seeing some drastically different results right away.
All guys know what it is like to really want or desire a woman. Whether it is the bikini clad model in yet another swimsuit magazine, the cute waitress at the coffee shop, or the ‘friend’ you have been fantasizing about for years… all guys know what it is like to really want and desire to be with a certain woman. Yet, not every guy knows what it is like to have a woman seriously desire them. At least, not a woman that they would want to feel that way.
A lot of guys wonder, what does it really mean to be an alpha male? And depending on who you ask, you are going to end up getting a LOT of different answers to this. Some guys think it is all about being dominant, being able to push others around, and to kind of be a jerk to be honest. Other men just aren’t quite sure of what an alpha male really is. An alpha male, in my opinion is not a dominant guy in the sense that he pushes people around, but instead he learns how to be a leader of men, and of women as well.
You’ve probably already heard it before. That in order to approach a woman and get a positive response from her, you need to be confident. Well, that is definitely true to some extent. You don’t want to approach a woman when you are obviously lacking confidence in yourself. But, is confidence alone the magic bullet that it is made out to be?
You feel like you have gotten your confidence up to the point where you should have no problems at all walking up to a woman and making a lasting impression on her. You’ve memorized a few lines that are supposed to be proven and you even have a few routines to fall back on just in case one does not work, you have others to bring into the mix. So, you head out for the night, pretty amped up about your chances of being able to sweet talk and seduce a woman into bed with you. And then it happens.