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Dating Advice for Men – Rejection From Women Happens, Don’t Let It Happen to YOU!

Friday, April 29th, 2011

I don’t know about YOU, but I absolutely hate the idea of getting rejected by women. I mean, we all know that it’s going to happen from time to time, but for some guys… it happens way too often! If you don’t want to get rejected by women, if you want to learn how to make women want YOU, then you need to keep on reading. I know that you probably think that you could not possibly have the ability to make women desire you… but you will be surprised at how easy it can be and you don’t even have to make that many drastic changes at all.

When you take a quick look at some of the guys that seem to do well with women, it’s easy to end up getting the wrong impression. It’s easy to get caught up in thinking that you need to look a certain way, drive a certain kind of car, or have been born with that naturally charismatic flair that some men have. If you keep on thinking that this is what you need to attract women… then the dating game is always going to seem unfair to you.

What if there was a way that you could stack the odds in YOUR favor and eliminate the possibility of rejection by a landslide?

I know, you are thinking that this is a stretch to say the least. However, there are distinct reasons for why a woman will reject a man, and if you know what they are and how to avoid them… then you really DO stack the odds in your favor. Will you eliminate the possibility of getting rejected by a woman 100 percent?

Not likely.

Can you cut it down so that you can confidently approach a woman and not feel like she is going to shoot you down?

You bet.

- One of the most common reasons why a woman will reject a guy is not necessarily because he isn’t her type or because she does not find him attractive in some way, many times it is simply because of the WAY that he approached her. Like, if you are in a bar and you walk up behind her and tap her on the shoulder and when she turns around… you are standing there with your hands in your pockets and an almost frightened look on your face. That’s the kind of approach that will basically set you up to get rejected almost every single time.

- Another common reason for why a woman will reject a guy is because he does not know how to talk to her. Of course, he knows how to talk, he can open his mouth and put together a few words. What I mean is that when he talks to her… she gets bored in about 10 seconds and from there… he’s done unless he can find a way to get her attention back. Make this mistake and you will get shot down, if even on the surface she was feeling some attraction towards you.

- A third common reason for why a woman will reject a guy is because he waits for her to lead. This is the plight of the shy guy, one of the major reasons why shy guys have such a hard time dating and meeting women. It’s the natural place of the male to lead the interaction. Isn’t it kind of weird to walk over to a woman and then expect her to lead the conversation? If you want to eliminate rejection… you have to become a leader… a true ALPHA MALE.

Like I said before, it’s not possible to eliminate rejection from women completely. But, you sure can stack the odds in your favor when you know what works and what doesn’t. Of course, there are many more ways that you can eliminate the possibility of getting rejected by a woman and stack the deck in your corner, but I can only put so much into one article.

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How to Overcome Shyness and Social Anxiety

Friday, April 22nd, 2011

Overcoming shyness and social anxiety… why would I make a post about this on GetURGirl.com?

Besides the fact that both shyness and social anxiety can keep you from actually getting out there and meeting people, it can also hurt you when you do meet someone and your shyness or your social anxiety gets in the way of really getting to have fun with each other.

Shyness and social anxiety is more common than you might think. Some of the world’s best pick up artists have admitted that at one time in their lives, they were incredibly shy. For some, it was strictly shyness around women. For others, it was shyness in all aspects of their lives. They did not have the solid group of friends that they wanted to have. They did not have much of a social life at all, to be honest.

I have been there myself and I know from personal experience, it’s no fun to be the shy guy. And I have dated women who were on the shy side and I know that it can definitely get in the way of having as much fun as you would if it just was not an issue.

So, how can you overcome shyness and social anxiety?

1. You have to admit that it is a problem.

This goes for any problem that you might have, any part of your life that you might want to get handled. You have to be able to admit it to yourself, so that you are actually ready to do something about it. Personally, I would come up with excuses all of the time. I would say to myself that I did not need to have many friends, or that I was just not meeting the right people. When I knew deep down inside, it was me. It was my shyness that was holding me back.

2. You have to try and understand what it is that is causing you to be shy.

Now, I don’t mean that you need to do any real deep psychoanalyzing of yourself. Usually you know the answer to this. Just ask yourself, why am I shy and see what the answers that pop into your head are. Maybe it is the fear of being rejected by people. Maybe you were raised in a household where you were expected to be quiet and well behaved and that stunted you a little, socially. Whatever it is you need to be able to connect with it, and realize that it does not have to be that way.

3. You need to have a system for getting past your shyness.

For myself, I created my own little “system” and all it really consisted of was getting myself to talk to people I normally would not. To start little conversations and not really expect much of anything to come of it. You never know when the next person you reach out to, might be feeling the same way as you, or they may be that ‘connection’ to a larger group of friends that you can make.

4. You can’t beat yourself up when you don’t act the way that you want to.

What I mean by this is, let’s say that you decide that you want to overcome your shyness and so you make a point that the next social situation you are in, you are going to speak up. And for whatever reason, when you do get in that situation, you don’t. It’s easy to get disappointed with yourself and beat yourself up. Don’t do that because all that will do is make you feel bad about yourself and dig deeper into your ‘shell.’

5. Don’t try and be friends with everybody just to get over your shyness.

One mistake that you can make and it can be harmful, is to try and be friends with everybody just to overcome your shyness. And by everybody, I mean everybody. Even though you may want and need to enlarge your social circle, you don’t wan to do so at the expense of your own morals, values, and personal safety. Growing up, I saw shy kids end up running with the wrong crowd just to fit in and it did not turn out well for them. And at an older age, I’ve also seen friends who were on the shy side begin hanging out with people that got them caught up in a lot of ‘negative’ things.

One of the most important aspects is the third point I made, about having a system in place to help you overcome your shyness and social anxiety. It makes it a lot easier when you know exactly what you need to do than to just have that alone feeling that never seems to go away.

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How to Attract Women – Is Texting a Good Way to Attract Women?

Thursday, April 21st, 2011

There’s no doubt about it, texting has becoming an everyday part of most people’s lives now. Even my 60 year old mom knows how to send text messages. Because it has become such an integral part of our lives, especially amongst the under 30 crowd, a lot of guys wonder, is texting a good way to attract women. And there are a lot of guys who swear that this is one of the best ways to attract a woman. So, is it?

Hate to say it, but I disagree with the idea that you can use texting to attract a woman. You can easily use it to catch up and touch base with a woman, you can use it to add a little humor to her day with a funny comment, and you can even brighten up her day by sending her a little uplifting text message every now and again.

But does it really ATTRACT women?

Well, if it attracted women, then that would kind of imply that all you needed to do was get a girl’s cell phone number and start sending her messages. Say that out loud with me now, getting her number and just sending away text messages. Do you really think that this is a good way to gain rapport, build up sexual tension, or attraction?

If it were, then there’s no reason why you couldn’t just blast away messages on any social website and attract women. I mean, it would be the same thing pretty much. And you have to have her phone number to send her a text, so why not just hit the send button and call her up and get REAL interaction with her?

Look, texting is a great little tool to stay in communication with someone, but you have to remember what it really is. Words on a tiny little screen. And half the time, it’s incomplete words. Words on a screen can be interpreted ANY way the person receiving them wants to. So, if it is going to have any effect on attracting her, she’s already got to be feeling SOME attraction for you.

Obviously, there is an exception to this rule. A really lonely woman might just be happy to get a text from a guy, much like she would probably be happy to get a Tweet or a Poke, but if you want to go for quality women… the text is mostly good to keep in touch and for quick little things like… Be there at 8.

Consider this: If a woman receives a text message from a guy she barely knows and it says something like… I miss u, what’s her reaction going to be? A little weirded out, probably.

Now, say she gets the SAME message from a guy she’s been seeing for the last few weeks and she is really attracted to? Same words, completely different context and reaction from her.

So, is texting a good way to attract women?

Not really. It is a good way to keep in touch and send a random one liner here and there to make her laugh, keep her thinking about you, or build UP any attraction that she is ALREADY feeling for you.

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Sex With No Strings Attached – Tips for Men

Wednesday, April 20th, 2011

Sex with no strings attached is one of the ultimate goals that men have when it comes to bedding women, and you know what? Most guys look at it kind of like the Loch Ness monster, meaning, they don’t think it really exists. And in some ways, they would be right. There are always ‘some’ strings attached to sex, there’s no way to get around it. However, you can parlay a situation where the strings are not all that cumbersome, so that it DOES feel like you are just having fun and there are no real strings that come attached with the sex.

The idea that you can have sex without having any implications towards anything else is more of a fantasy than reality. You are dealing with a woman, a human being, and she is going to want to feel like a woman… not like a place for you to just insert your penis and not have any repercussions at all. What you really can have is a consensual, casual sexual relationship without all of the other relationship stuff getting too deep.

Here are some tips on sex with no strings attached that can help you make it become more than just a dream:

1. You have to know, before you do anything at all, that the woman is going to want something in return.

Like I said, the idea that you can have sex without any kind of strings involved really does not exist. At most, you might get a one night stand that way, but there is some kind of ongoing relationship if you continue having sex with a woman. That is something that you have to keep in mind, because if you treat a woman like you are just looking for a warm place to get off, eventually she is going to deny you what you want and then you are going to be left with nothing more than a box of tissues sitting next to your laptop.

2. She has to be a sexually liberated woman, which are rare, or else things will get messy.

Regardless of what you may hear or what you may want to believe, truly sexually liberated women are pretty rare. These are the women that you can have a really casual sexual relationship with and not have to run into her catching feelings and wanting something more. Choosing to try and sex with no strings attached relationship with any other kind of woman will almost always turn out messier than you imagine.

3. You have to be able to handle the no strings attached thing yourself.

Not as many guys can handle having sex with a woman on an ongoing basis and not catching feelings themselves. This is especially true if she is good looking and fun to be with. Many times a guy will think that he can do this, just because he is a guy, and next thing you know– he’s falling for her. That is not such a bad thing if she is feeling the same way, but if she isn’t– you can end up getting really hurt by the whole thing.

You know, any way that you want to look at it, if you are going to have an ongoing relationship of any kind with a woman– there are going to be some strings attached to it. Luckily, if you choose the right woman, and you can handle an ongoing casual sexual relationship yourself, then you CAN make it happen and have a whole lot of fun doing it. You always have to remember that it’s never about using a woman, it’s about having an incredible experience that you can share with her.

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How to Get Women – Why You Can Never Really ‘Get’ Women

Wednesday, April 20th, 2011

Sometimes, a little lesson that we get taught when we are younger tends to help guide us in our lives later on. I can remember very fondly a girlfriend I had when I was about 18 who told me that I could never really ‘get’ her. This little phrase at the time seemed silly to me, but hey, what do you know when you are 18 years old, right? A few years later and I can reflect back on a little phrase like that and see the real wisdom in it. Are you lost as to what I mean?

I’ll explain.

When guys find themselves challenged in their personal dating lives, a real common expression is that they don’t really ‘get’ women and they want to learn how to do this. Of course, in this context, getting women has less to do with getting dates, and more to do with understanding *every* aspect of a woman’s mind. And therein lies the real riddle to this.

You can never totally ‘get’ a woman.

Guys that have been happily married for 30, 40 years still get surprised by their wives all of the time. They ask her a question, thinking that they know what the answer will be… and she gives them one that totally takes them by surprise. And this is the way it really is when it comes to male/female relationships. Try as you might, you will never totally grasp all aspects of a woman’s mind.

How does this help you in terms of dating and attracting women?

Tons, really. See, one of the things that most men end up getting mixed up about is, they aren’t supposed to totally be able to predict what a woman will do, what she will say or how she will think about things. So, you have to be able to ‘roll with the punches’ and deal with it when she throws you for a loop.

If you can’t do this, you will end up becoming all insecure and confused.

And when you are confused and insecure, your ability to attract women goes down the toilet, really fast. If you assume that there is some way to totally understand a woman inside and out, and that you should be able to predict her every move… think again. That is some of the beauty of learning how to attract women. To learn how to roll with the punches and deal with the little surprises and still be able to keep her attracted to you.

If you can do this, then in no time, you will be able to get as many dates as you want, get second and third dates with women you are really attracted to… and be able to remain confident in almost any situation.

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Why Being Cocky Is Not Attractive to Women

Thursday, April 14th, 2011

Over the last few years, there has been a lot of dating advice given to men that emphasizes that you need to come off as being really, really confident. And that can be a good thing. The problem is, most guys that try to be really, really confident… end up coming off cocky more than anything else. And most women don’t like cocky guys. They don’t want to meet a guy who comes across as being arrogant.

There is a big difference in the results that you get with women when you are confident versus when you are being cocky. Yet, the difference between seeming confident and seeming cocky can actually be pretty small. Having an attitude that you know your are attractive to women is a little different than having an attitude like women should be glad just to spend a few moments in your presence. See that little difference there?

Here’s why women don’t like cocky guys:

1. They make her feel inferior to them.

While a man is supposed to be a leader, an alpha male, he’s not supposed to make a woman feel inferior to him. Do that and you will turn off 90 percent of the women you come across and at best you will have the 10 percent left that have crazy issues going on. There’s no reason to try and make a woman feel inferior, and doing that just proves one thing– that you probably have some security issues going on in your head.

2. Women like to socialize and most people don’t want to be around an arrogant person.

Most women enjoy socializing, whether it is in a bog group of people or just their regular group of friends. And they like to be dating a guy that they can ‘show off’ or at least bring around their friends and have a good time. But, most people don’t really want to socialize with arrogant people, so you will end up turning off her friends, which can end up making her have second thoughts about you.

3. Cocky guys are no fun be with.

The internet seduction community, namely David DeAngelo, gave rise to the idea that combining a little bit of cockiness with humor works well when interacting with women. And it does. Of course, some guys have known that for years, but he really brought that out and coined the term. Problem is, it is the combination of cocky *and* funny that works. Cocky by itself is no fun at all. If you try and do the cocky and funny thing, but you lack the humor in it… then you are not going to get a good reaction, because then you are no fun to be with.

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First Date Advice for Men- Should You Pay?

Wednesday, April 13th, 2011

Right now, I am kind of surfing through the web and watching some cheesy comedy on television. Through my little web searches and the movie that I am watching, I’ve seen the topic of whether or not a guy should pay on the first date or not come up. And just like with anything else, there’s a lot of people preaching some really rigid guidelines that they think *have* to be followed.

You have the old school, traditional crowd that trumpets that the guy should always pay, because, well– that’s the way it always has been done. Then you got the new school, just got laid for the first time last week crowd of internet seduction ‘gurus’ all saying that you should never pay because then that makes you look like a wuss, the antithesis of an alpha male.

So, which group is right, the ones who want things to be done they way they always have been done… or the new crowd, fresh off of their first lay, thinking that every little thing you do will work against you from getting a chance to score?

Truth be told, in my opinion… there is no right answer.

I’ve done both and gotten laid off of both many times. So, the real answer is WHY you feel like you need to pay, I guess.

If you feel like you need to pay because you are the guy, then maybe you shouldn’t.

And if you feel like you should never pay because that is not the ‘alpha male’ thing to do… then maybe you should.

Guys who are really naturals don’t debate shit like this. They don’t have time to worry about whether or not reaching for the bill will get them laid or not.

They are too busy working on OTHER things that make more of an impact.

Do you think that a woman is not going to want to sleep with you because you did not pay the bill if every other signal she is giving you is saying that she IS going to sleep with you?

Do you think that a woman will sleep with you, even if there is NO attraction or chemistry just because you showed her your dominance by not footing the bill?

Debates like this will continue to go on. And you will always have one crowd saying one thing and providing their ‘proof,’ and you will have the other crowd doing the same thing.

Meanwhile, the real naturals with women will be off getting laid, shooting hoops, playing pool… just living their life without all of the little worries.

Which do you prefer?

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How to Pick Up Women Online- Is It The Same As Anywhere Else?

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

This is going to be short and sweet. I get asked from time to time about the whole idea of using pick up techniques with women that you may meet online. Questions about whether or not the same routines and techniques will work or not. Questions about whether or not it is even worth it to try and pick up women online.

My simple answer for this is… most of the same rules apply, but there are a few key differences.

Let me explain.

The similarities are that you still need to make a woman feel a lot of rapport and attraction with you. She needs to feel comfortable talking to you, while at the same time feeling enough tension that it’s not like you are her gay best friend.

However, one BIG difference is that if you are on a site like Facebook or even Twitter and you are trying to use that as your pick up venue, then you CANNOT try and use the same kinds of routines and techniques that you would use on a dating site or out at a singles bar.

Dating sites and singles bars... you already know for a fact that the woman you are talking with is looking for a guy. Maybe she wants a hook up, a boyfriend, a future husband, whatever. You know that she wants to meet a guy.

If you are on a site like Twitter or Facebook or any other site that is not specifically designed for dating… then she may or may not be looking for a guy.

She might already have one, she might be doing the single and not caring about dating thing, she might like women herself, who knows?

So, you want to make sure that you come on more subtle and build up a little more gradually. Work more on creating the rapport, the connection with her at first before you take it to the next level.

There’s nothing wrong with picking up women online, and it can be done pretty successfully… you just have to realize that not every woman is looking for that… and if you come on too strong right away before there is any real rapport… she may quickly find her exit.

In a sense, it’s the same as meeting women in the outside world outside of bars and clubs.

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Questions Everyone Wants to Know About Sex

Tuesday, April 12th, 2011

When it comes to the subject of sex, there are always lots of questions that tend to come up, some more so than others. While this article is definitely directed at men, women can still pick up some insight. Sex is one of those things that usually doesn’t get talked about enough, mostly due to all of the social taboos about it. Still, even the Puritans in colonial America were getting their groove on, so why it does not get discussed more, I don’t really know.

Let’s get right into it and answer some common questions about sex that everyone wants to know:

1. Does a man have to be hung like a horse to please a woman?

Short answer (no pun intended): No. You don’t have to worry if you are not packing a king size penis or just an average one, you don’t have to be gigantic to please a woman. In fact, you can even be on the small side and still do better than a guy who is hung like a horse. Why?

Well for one, guys that are well endowed tend to rely solely on their size, so they never learn any real technique. I can remember having a discussion with a few women who all had experiences with guys who were very big and they all said the same thing: it hurt! Most guys think of sex with a woman as being them plowing in and out and in and out and if you are too big, that can eventually hurt a woman. Not only that, but plowing in and out like a porno movie is about the most ineffective way to make a woman have an orgasm.

If you really want to please a woman, your size does not matter as much as your technique AND the way you feel. I know, those commercials for size enhancement pills will make you believe otherwise, but remember they want your dough and that’s about it. And yes, amongst guys having a big penis may make you feel a little more manly, but chances are… the guys with the bigger penises have women who wish they would actually learn how to make love instead of acting as if they were in a porno flick.

2. Does sex between friends make things get messy?

Most of the time when a man and a woman try and do the friends with benefits thing, it DOES get a little messy. One person will almost always end up having feelings and becoming attached to the other person and then that is when the fun ends and the drama begins. Unless you are willing to risk a friendship for a little bit of sex, most of the time you want to avoid this.

Traditionally, it is usually assumed that the woman will be the one who gets attached, but that is not always the case. Lots of guys have secret crushes on their female friends and when they begin to have sex together, that crush grows into a really deep attraction and next thing he knows it, he’s thinking about her all the time and gets jealous if she looks at another guy.

3. Do women think about sex as much as men do?

In my experience, the answer is some do and some don’t. There has long been this idea pushed forward, mostly by prudish people that women don’t think about sex as much as guys do and that kind of blanket statement is definitely not always true. There are some women who have an insatiable appetite for sex and like it just as much as any guy. Some even get into watching adult films themselves.

Of course, there are some that do not. If you are with a woman who seems like she is not into sex at all, then you may want to dig a little deeper. You have to really get to know the woman you are with and see if she really is not all that into sex or if she is just waiting for the right guy to bring out the wild side in her. Just remember that you can be that guy and no, you don’t need an oversized package to make it happen.

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She’s Just Not That Into You- Or Is She?

Monday, April 11th, 2011

When it comes to dating, there are a lot of “rules” out there that people live by as if they were set in stone, applied to every person and every situation, and could never be broken. The sad thing about this is… guys that don’t have a lot of experience and success with women will believe that they are true all of the time. And that will make it that much harder for them to ever have any success at all with women.

One thing that you will come to understand once you have started to meet and date a diverse group of women (1 at a time, of course), is that there really are no “rules,” there are merely guidelines that you can use. If you are too rigid with trying to adhere to some standard of rules that some dating ‘expert’ came up with to sell a book, you are going to end up getting the shaft when you did not have to.

An example of this, is the supposed signs that *all* women give when they are not interested in a guy. While it is true that there are some broad signs that usually mean one thing or another… they are by no means set in stone. A woman from one walk of like will not always react and respond the same way a woman from another walk of life will.

Here are some more examples of what I mean about the supposed signs that a woman is not that into you… and how they can be interpreted the WRONG way:

1) They say that if a woman does not make enough eye contact then she has no interest at all.

Well, it sounds true and it seems like it would be… until you meet a woman from a culture where the women are conditioned not to make eye contact with men. Then, you are playing by a new set of rules. It does not even have to always apply to a new culture, though. If a woman is used to being ‘dominated’ by the men in her life… then she may not give a lot of eye contact. Or, if she is painfully shy, she might also shy away from giving a lot of eye contact to a guy she likes. She may even try to hide it altogether, while stealing glances at him when he is not looking.

2) They say that if a woman is not calling you back right away, then she has no interest at all.

What they don’t say is that this is not always true if the woman has a really hectic life going or she keeps herself really busy. I’ll give you a personal example of mine. A couple of years ago I ended up meeting a woman in a local bar who was working full time AND going to school full time. That night that I met her, it was the first time she had been out in a couple of months. Well, it took two weeks for her to call back after that night, but she DID call. And we DID date. So, what happened? Well, she had a week of studying and then a week of tests at school. And she also had to work overtime at work as well. Had I listened to the ‘rules’ I would have just assumed that she was not interested and missed out on getting to date her.

3) They say that if she talks about other guys when you are with her, then she could not be interested in you.

To debunk this ‘rule,’ all I have to do is bring up a friend of mine, who is a woman. She has a way of testing guys that she likes. And how does she do that? She brings up OTHER guys into the conversation to get their reaction. She wants to see if they are going to act all squirmy and jealous. And sometimes she wants to see what they are really like. For example she might say to a guy that she knows a guy named Chris (me) who hates country music. Point is, she likes it, and she wants to see what the guy’s response is going to be. Just because she mentions another guy… it does not mean that she is not interested. It could be just her way of testing YOU because SHE DOES like YOU!

4) They say that you always have to wait 3 days before calling up a woman you’ve just met.

Oh, how wrong this one can be! They almost all use the movie “Swingers” as the example for what not to do, and I cannot disagree with that. However, sticking to a strict three day rule can be detrimental to your success with a woman.

Here’s an example: You meet a woman one night and she does not have time to hang out anymore, but the attraction and chemistry is DEFINITELY there! So, you get her number and the next day is a Saturday and you really want to see if the sparks are for real or not. However, you listen to that silly 3 day rule. What you don’t know is that she has nothing at all to do that Saturday and she wants YOU to call her. She waits and waits and then Sunday goes by and suddenly, she loses all of that attraction that she felt for you! Sometimes, you have to strike while the iron is HOT! If you don’t and she gets lost in the drag of another work week… she may just lose interest in you completely.

Sometimes, you have to be a bad boy and break all of the rules… including the ones put forward by the so called dating experts. Sometimes, they are wrong. And sometimes, you can end up having a pretty good time breaking those rules!

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Dating Tips for Divorced Men – You’re Single Again, What Do You Do Now?

Monday, April 11th, 2011

Long after you mark your final signature on the divorce papers, and right after the dust clears and you start to get settled again, you are going to realize that you are single again. That’s right, you are right back where you started, square one, and you are expected to be able to pick up where you left off and meet women. Well, it’s not as easy as you thought it was going to be. Time has taken you away from the singles scene and now you might be left wondering if there is any chance that you will see any kind of success or luck with women.

Getting divorced is not something that anyone plans out. Well, maybe a gold digger would, after all– it’s worth it for them to get hitched and then ditch the relationship. Seriously though, you weren’t planning on being single again, it’s just where you find yourself right now. Does that mean that you should feel bad or feel like maybe you just cannot get it right with women?

Not at all. Divorce is just a final conclusion to a relationship that almost made it, but didn’t quite have what it takes. It does not really matter what went down or if anyone was to blame. What matters is whether or not you are going to get back out there and succeed or if you are going to let your ego get beat down and battered and become a guy who just doesn’t even try to meet or attract women.

If you want to do the latter and give up, then this article is not for you. However, if you are ready to get this part of your life handled and you want to be able to meet women and make them feel attracted towards you, pay close attention.

Here are a few dating tips for divorced men that will help you get back in the game and have a good time getting to meet and attract women successfully:

1. You’ve got to be able to find a way to get over the pain of what the divorce may have done to you before you try and get things started with a new woman.

This is probably something that you have heard many times before, but it’s one of those time tested things that you need to do before you push yourself back out into the dating game. You can be upset for a little while and you can feel like maybe she did you wrong or whatever else you might be feeling, but it’s something that you need to be able to get over. Holding on to all of those feelings will just make it very difficult for you to really relax and have a good time when you get out there and meet women.

2. It’s not a necessary thing for you to advertise yourself as a divorced guy right away.

People are going to have their preconceived ideas about divorce and what that means, but it’s not really something that you need to advertise to the world. Look, there are lots of people who have been divorced, so most women you meet are going to be okay with the fact that you have been married before. Still, only divulge that information when you are ready. There is no specific time table on when you have to tell someone that you are divorced, and you may want to wait until you know that a woman really is into you before you get into that conversation.

3. You should be able to remain confident with your situation if you are going to attract women.

The confidence thing has been told to guys for a long time, but it really does matter. To attract a woman, you need to present yourself as a guy who is worth dating, a guy she wants to be with and wants to accept into her life no matter what your past may be like. If you can do this, then it should not matter one bit if you have had a previous marriage. She should be feeling more than enough attraction towards you that it does not really matter to her anymore.

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How to Attract Women Without Even Trying- Yes, It’s POSSIBLE

Wednesday, April 6th, 2011

Doesn’t it sound like kind of a dream world? Just imagine that you had the ability to attract women without even trying. You would be able to become ruler of your own destiny, the kind of guy who lives life to the fullest. You wouldn’t be sitting around, worried about your love life or whether or not you were going to be able to get a girlfriend. You would know that it WOULD happen, that it was not even something that you had to think about.

I know, it probably DOES seem like just a dream, a fantasy world that you cannot even contemplate being YOUR REALITY. However, you may want to open up your mind to the possibility that it can be that way, and that you don’t have to be like all of the other single guys out there. While they sit around and think about their lack of success with women and why it turns out that way… you can be hitting the town, having fun with women, and just living it up the way that you were meant to.

Yes, it IS possible.

No, most guys will never know that this is the way that they COULD live. The reason is, they will never search for this possibility because they don’t think it exists. It’s funny when you think about it just how much guys really do stress out over girls. You would think that men would be able to come to the conclusion that all of the traditional ways of attracting women are not all that efficient, but most of them will never break free from that mold of thinking.

If YOU are going to attract women without even trying, that is the first step that you need to take.

Look, it’s really not going to happen at all if you continue to think that the traditional advice that you have received on dating and attracting women is the holy grail of what really works. Some holy grail. Most guys end up getting the shaft from the women that they desire, and if they are LUCKY, they end up with a consolation prize… a woman that they can deal with, but they don’t really desire with any passion at all.

To attract women without even trying, you need to adopt a new MINDSET.

Having the mindset that you need to court a woman like you were in a real life Shakespearean play is going to end up sending you to the poor house with a broken heart quickly. You are going to end up buying her things to try and ‘prove’ your love or adoration for her, and most of the time… you will end up being just a really nice guy. You are not going to end up in her bedroom or with her as your girlfriend.

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10 Signs That Show Your Relationship Is Over

Friday, April 1st, 2011

While we all want to have a really good relationship last, sometimes it just does not pan out that way. Things may start off really good in the beginning, only to come to that forlorn conclusion that the relationship just isn’t working out. Usually it does not happen in an instant. There are almost always some signs that the relationship is over, even before you actually break up.

When you can recognize that these signs are present in your relationship, you have two decisions that you can make. You can either just recognize that maybe it’s time to give up on the relationship, or, you can decide to try and repair it if that is possible. Most relationships, even when they seem like they are done, can be salvaged as long as you recognize it in time and get to work on fixing what is broken.

Here are 10 signs that your relationship is over so that you can either fix things or move on:

1) It stops becoming a forgone conclusion that the weekend means date night for the two of you.

Without going out together and doing things as a couple, you can pretty much guarantee that the relationship is either going to come to an end or become one of those mechanical situations where you just go through the motions. In the beginning, when a relationship is going along just fine, it usually is a foregone conclusion that the weekend means that the two of you are going to be spending time together. You look forward to it. When that goes, it usually is a clear sign that there is some trouble up ahead.

2) There is no conversation between the two of you when you are eating together.

Anyone can spot a couple who is still madly in love with each other or at least amicable enough that they enjoy each other’s company just by spying on them when they eat together. When everything is well and the fire and passion is still there, conversation usually follows. When all you see is two people sitting silently together as they eat, that usually is a sign that some of the sparks have dissipated from the relationship.

3) There is no more romancing of each other at all anymore.

Of course, some of the romancing dies a little the longer you have been with someone, but if it dies out completely, then that may be a sign that things might indeed be over. Even if it only happens every now and again, some of that wooing needs to be there on both sides of the coin if the relationship is truly going to last. If there is none, then you may want to take a deeper look at things.

4) You spend more and more time away from each other and it does not bother you one bit.

It’s only natural that you are not going to spend every moment of every waking day with each other, but when you spend more and more time away from each other and it does not bother you at all… that can be a bad sign in the relationship. When it gets to be too much, that is when couples begin to grow away from each other and it can end up meaning the end of a relationship, cheating, or arguing going on. Anyway you look at it, it’s definitely not the best of signs.

5) You start sensing that maybe your partner is seeing someone else.

Time and time again, that gut feeling tends to be pretty accurate when it comes to finding out that the other person may be cheating. So, if you are getting that gut feeling that your partner just might be cheating on you, then you may want to pay attention to what it is telling you. Cheating does not always mean that a relationship cannot be repaired or saved, but it definitely does mean that there is a possibility.

6) YOU start thinking about what it would be like to be with someone else.

Even if you are not the kind of person who would ever want to cheat on someone, it can happen that you end up thinking about what it might be like to be with someone else. Whether or not you end up crossing the line and actually do find someone else to be with, it is not a good sign at all. It usually means that something is lacking in the relationship and if you don’t figure it out… it may be the end after all.

7) You realize that as much as you like the person you are with… you don’t want to marry them.

It is entirely possible to be attracted to someone, to even love them and not want to marry them. And if the other person is at a point in their life where they want to get married, then staying with them can be a bad thing. You may end up hurting them more by not owning up to how you feel. Hey, it happens, and as long as you know that this is how you feel, then maybe it is time to see if there is someone else out there for you.

You clash too much with their family and their friends.

For some people, this is not a make or break situation, but for many others it can be, If the person you are in a relationship with spends a lot of time with their family and their friends and you clash with them, then that can be an indication of things to come. Too much clashing and you may need to come to the realization that things just are not going to work out for the long term.

9) There is too much physical distance between the two of you.

As much as we like to think that love can overcome any challenge, sometimes it just doesn’t. If there is a lot of distance between you and the one you are with, that can be quite a challenge to have to deal with. And if there are not many opportunities for the two of you to see each other, that can be a sign that the relationship just is not meant to be.

10) You get a feeling that you just cannot shake that the relationship is DEAD.

Sometimes, those feelings that we get about our relationships are intuitive and if you are getting one that you cannot shake off that the relationship is dead, then it just might be. There isn’t always an overwhelming reason or a clear sign that a relationship has bit the dust. Sometimes, it IS just a feeling that you get and you need to listen to that feeling.

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Dating on Facebook

Friday, April 1st, 2011

The idea of being able to date women on Facebook is something that a lot of men have pondered. Facebook now claims to have something in the neighborhood of 500 million members, so it’s a pretty big pool of potential women you may want to date. The problem is, most guys attempts at getting dates off of Facebook are pretty ineffective and lame at best. You are not going to have a lot of success getting women to pay attention to you if all you are doing is sending out random friend requests to hot women and telling them just how hot you think they are.

If it were that easy, every single guy out there would be hooking up off of this site and no one would have any problems of getting a date. You have to look at sites like Facebook as just another potential way to meet and get to know a woman, and build up some kind of chemistry to the point where she wants to meet up with you offline. If you are thinking that there is some magic way to get women to just suddenly bum rush your Facebook profile and barrage you with attention, think again.

Here are some tips for dating on Facebook that can make things a little easier for you:

1) When setting up your profile, be careful not to say things or put up pictures that give off the wrong impression of you.

This is not just true for dating, it’s true for just about anything. Even potential employers now look at whether or not you have a Facebook page and if they see anything suspect, it may cost you a job. But since we are talking about dating here, you want to be careful that you are not putting up anything that will make you seem less attractive to most women out there. You want to give off the best first impression possible, and in this case, the first impression is going to be your profile and the photos that you choose to put up of yourself.

2) No woman wants to get inundated with requests that start off telling her how sexy or hot she is.

Of course, there may be some exceptions to this rule, but for the most part, you want to make a genuine connection with a woman, not just toss her some compliment about her looks or her body. You don’t want to make a woman think that you are just on a site like Facebook to get laid, because most of the time, that will be an instant turn off.

3) Remember that Facebook is just a portal of sorts to meet people, not a place to run cheesy lines and gimmicky routines to pick up women.

If you want to be successful at getting dates off of a site where people are just there to connect with friends and like minded people, then you want to use it only as a way to meet a woman and get to know her a little through communicating with her now and again. If you spend most of your time on there trying to run cheesy lines and gimmicky routines, pretty soon you will get a reputation for that and you will not getting any kind of attention from women worth mentioning. Besides, the whole point is to get to meet up in person, not to sit there and message her back and forth.

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