Sometimes the allure of working with a woman you think is very attractive can be a little too much. You start to think about her all of the time and you want to become more than just another co worker, a guy she works with. You want to be able to strike up a dating relationship with her. At the same time, though, you don’t want to make things get weird on the job, do you?
Workplace dating is very common, but so often it ends up getting a little messy and then you end up having a situation where you or her has to leave. What if there was a way that you could attract a woman you work with and make sure that things didn’t get weird and you did not get rejected by her? Of course, there are no absolute guarantees, anything can happen. Still, there are things that you can do to make it easy to attract a woman you work with and make it hard to resist you.
Here are 3 tips to attract a female co worker and make her want YOU:
1. You have to set the stage for the sparks to fly.
Unless you want to run the risk of getting rejected by her and feeling awkward at work, then you need to set the stage for there to be some real chemistry between you and her before you try to advance things into a relationship. One of the real problems that men have is their timing, and when they go to ask her out on a date, the timing just is not right and she does not feel the attraction and chemistry that she needs to feel in order to say YES to YOU.
2. You need to be able to get to know her outside of the workplace.
Unless you work at a nightclub or something like that, then the workplace environment probably does not give you enough time to build up things enough with her. Get her to hang out as friends with you and a few other co workers and use that time to build up her attraction. Use conversation as a way to get the sparks flying.
3. Use her body language to determine when the right time to ask her out on a date is.
Like I said before, timing is everything when it comes to getting a woman to say yes to going on a date with you and reading a woman’s body language can be a good way to know when the right moment is. Most men do not have a single clue on how to read a woman’s body language, and this can give you that “inside edge” on getting a date with a woman you work with.
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