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Why Gorgeous Women Are Tough to Get

Thursday, March 31st, 2011

Do you believe that gorgeous women are tough to get? If so, then you are not alone. That’s the consensus of most guys, especially those men that consider themselves to be average, everyday kind of guys. You’ve probably seen images of gorgeous women with athletes, high paid business men, actors and musicians. And seeing those kinds of images, it kind of gives you this idea that you need to be one of those guys if you are ever going to have any hope of getting a gorgeous woman to be your girlfriend.

What you probably have also seen, but not really paid that much attention to, is the fact that there are everyday, average guys who have some kind of ability to attract and date gorgeous women. They don’t have a Mercedes, they don’t have a high paid job, and they don’t play sports of any kind. And yet, they seem to do just fine when it comes to getting the attention of really attractive women.

Here’s Why Gorgeous Women Seem to Be So Tough to Get…

The reason why most guys seem to find that gorgeous women end up being so tough to get with has more to do with their perception of the way it is than the way it really is. What I mean by this is, when you think that you have no chance at all just because a woman is gorgeous, then you probably are going to react in a way that makes this become true. You’ll probably avoid eye contact with her, you will probably avoid making any kind of conversation with her, and you will just kind of get this feeling that there is no hope at all that you can ever have a chance with her.

You have to realize that gorgeous women have something going for them that the average woman does not have. They really can pick and choose which men that they go out on dates with, which ones that they will have a relationship with, etc. So, they naturally are going to pick the guys who stand out, the ones that can add to their life in some way, and the ones that actually have the confidence to approach them and not act like they have no business talking to them.

If You Want to Date Gorgeous Women, This Is What You Need to Do…

You have to make yourself known to a beautiful woman if you want to have any chance at all that she will end up being your girlfriend. You have to gather up whatever courage that you might have and approach her without shying away at the last moment. And you also have to really feel that you have just as much chance at getting with her as any other guy does. If you can get this far, and you learn how to read a woman’s signs of attraction, then you can have the opportunity to date beautiful women and they really won’t seem so tough to get with in the end.

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Copyright (c) 2011 Chris Tyler.  All Rights Reserved.

3 Keys to Attracting Beautiful Women

Wednesday, March 30th, 2011

Most men, if they are honest, want to be able to attract beautiful women. There are not too many men out there who are dreaming about attracting really average looking women. I mean, men’s magazines don’t put the most average looking woman on the cover do they? Of course they don’t. No one would buy it if they did. The reason why most guys don’t even bother to attempt to attract beautiful women is… they don’t think that they can! They limit themselves with beliefs that say that they have to look a certain way to get a pretty girl. Or, that they have to make a certain amount of income.

Attracting beautiful women is not something that only privileged men can do, it’s something that just about any guy can do if he sets his mind to it, and does not accept the limiting beliefs that keep him from doing this. If you want to discover how to attract beautiful women, that is where you need to begin. To realize that the only limitations that you have are really the ones that you place on yourself.

Here are 3 keys to attracting beautiful women that will help you break those limiting beliefs and at the same time, help you to get the attention of women you never thought would give you a chance:

1) The first key to attracting beautiful women is to make the realization that it’s your personality that will do more to make or break your chances.

Boring guys don’t have much of a chance to get with a good looking woman unless they have a lot of money or some other status symbol going for them. That does not mean that it takes a lot of money to get with a good looking woman. It only means that if you have nothing else, that will be the only possible way of attracting a woman like that. Now, if you have a personality that is appealing and most people find that you are someone that they want to hang out with, that’s what you can use and it will actually do more for you than having a certain amount of money in the bank. Plus, you get the benefit of knowing that it is YOU that she wants, and not something else.

2) The second key is to know that in order to attract beautiful women, you can never assume that you have no chance at all.

Make the assumption that you have no hope of getting with a woman who is really attractive and guess what? You will prove yourself right. You want to know why? Because when you approach her (if you even get that far), you will approach her as a guy who is desperately hoping that she will pay him some attention. You will come across as a guy with nothing going for him at all, and where is the appeal in that? Instead, when you KNOW that you are not out of her league in any way, you are going to approach her with a completely different mindset, and she will take note of that.

3) The third key to attracting beautiful women is to realize that the beauty is only skin deep.

Just because a woman is really attractive, it does not mean that she is a quality woman to date. Most guys will not try to qualify a good looking woman, because they just want her because of her looks. When you realize that her beauty is only skin deep and that there has to be MORE there for you to be attracted to her, you will start to make it known that she has to qualify herself for you. The tables will turn and she will see you in a way that she does not see other guys who only focus on how good she looks. And that will help to set YOU up as being the kind of guy SHE wants to be with!

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How to Ask a Woman Out on a Date- 3 Tips to Warm Her Up to Say Yes to You

Friday, March 25th, 2011

It’s kind of funny how overwhelming it can be for a man to ask a woman out on a date sometimes.  I’ve known men who no one would ever question their toughness when it came to most things who would fret all about when it came down to asking a woman out on a date,  especially if they were really fond of her.  It’s not uncommon for a man to get nervous or to feel stressed out about asking a woman out on a date,  but it’s something that you have to do if you are going to actually get the chance to date her.

You’ve probably been expected to figure out women and dating the way that most men do- through trial and error and of course,  luck.  Going about it that way is not always the best method,  though.  If you want to ask a woman out on a date and have the best odds that she ends up saying YES to you,  you have to learn how to warm her up.

Here are 3 tips on how to ask a woman out on a date and warm her up to saying YES to you:

1.  She’s not going to say yes if she does not expect to have a good time with you.

If you were a woman and you knew that you could pretty much pick and choose which men you dated,  would you want to go out with someone that you thought would end up being a bore?  Probably not,  right?  Well,  that’s the reality that you have to face when it comes to dating.  You need to make her see that she can and will enjoy herself going out on a date with you.

2.  To get a woman to say yes to you,  you have to get good at flirting with women.

Some guys try to avoid flirting at all costs because they don’t feel comfortable when doing it.  Other guys think that they are experts at flirting with a woman,  when they really don’t end up getting the results that they want.  You have to be honest with yourself,  and you have to really learn how to flirt with a woman if you want to warm her up.  If you need to improve,  then by all means, learn HOW.

3.  You have to make her feel an ESCALATING amount of sexual attraction with you.

Going too strong too soon is almost always a deal breaker.  And not being able to get her to the level of feeling a strong amount of sexual attraction will keep you at the acquaintance or friend level with a woman.  If you want to practically guarantee that she will say yes to you when you ask her out on a date,  then you need to make her feel an escalating amount of sexual attraction.

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Copyright (c) 2011 Chris Tyler.  All Rights Reserved.

Online Dating Tips for Men- 5 Must Know Online Dating Tips

Tuesday, March 22nd, 2011

Some people look at online dating as a last ditch effort to attract someone into their life.  Others look at it as sort of a magic solution,  as if all they have to do is to join an online dating site and they will automatically solve all of their dating problems in one fell swoop.  The funny thing about it is,  dating is pretty much the same whether you do it online or off line.  If you want to be successful with an online dating site,  then you should keep that in mind.

There are lots of online dating sites out there nowadays.  From the bigger names like Match.com,  Eharmony.com and Chemistry.com to the smaller less known sites,  there is a wide variety available.  Years ago,  it really wasn’t this way,  as you had to hope that you would come across someone in a chat room or something.  Still,  there are some tips to help you out with dating online that you must know or you will end up like the many guys who put up a profile and get nothing at all.

Here are 5 must know online dating tips for men:

1.  Different websites attract different kinds of women.

Some online dating websites will cater mostly to people looking for long term relationships,  even marriage.  Some dating sites cater more towards people looking to date casually and some are even geared more for hooking up for sex.  Keep this in mind,  because your approach has to match what the site is offering.  For example,  if you want to get into a long term relationship,  then you probably should not join a site that is designed to hook people up for casual sex.

2.  Sending messages to women telling them how hot or how sexy they are is the worst way to try and make a good impression.

Most women when they join an online dating website will quickly discover that the majority of instant messages or comments that they are going to get all deal with telling them how hot they are.  Well,  if that was the way to go,  then most guys would be hooked up in no time at all and they aren’t.  If you don’t want to make the wrong impression or get ignored,  then don’t fall into the trap of trying to tell her how hot she is or how sexy she looks in her pictures.

3.  Actually read the profile of the women you want to meet online.

Skimming really quickly through their profile is not the way to go.  You want to actually read what she has to say about herself,  so that when you do communicate with her,  you come across as the rare guy who actually knows a little bit about her.  You want to use these bits of information to start up conversations that are going to lead somewhere.

4.  Put up pictures of yourself having fun and enjoying life.

To really get attention of the higher quality women,  most of the pictures that you put up of yourself should reflect the fact that you have fun and know how to enjoy life.  When most people want to meet someone on one of these sites,  the last person they want to meet is someone who is just a boring,  stay at home kind of guy.  You want to show a woman through your pictures that she will have a good time with you.

5.  Dating online is not any different in the fact that you should be the one who makes the approach.

Throwing up a profile does not guarantee that all of a sudden,  women are going to be contacting you left and right.  You have to be the one who makes the approach,  and you have to do it in a way that makes her want to get to know you.  Start off with some observation about what she has described about herself and let that lead into more conversation.  Tease her a little if you can.

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Copyright (c) 2011 Chris Tyler.  All Rights Reserved.

How to Attract a Woman You Work With- 3 Tips To Attract a Female Co-Worker

Monday, March 21st, 2011

Sometimes the allure of working with a woman you think is very attractive can be a little too much.  You start to think about her all of the time and you want to become more than just another co worker,  a guy she works with.  You want to be able to strike up a dating relationship with her.  At the same time,  though,  you don’t want to make things get weird on the job,  do you?

Workplace dating is very common,  but so often it ends up getting a little messy and then you end up having a situation where you or her has to leave.  What if there was a way that you could attract a woman you work with and make sure that things didn’t get weird and you did not get rejected by her?  Of course,  there are no absolute guarantees,  anything can happen.  Still,  there are things that you can do to make it easy to attract a woman you work with and make it hard to resist you.

Here are 3 tips to attract a female co worker and make her want YOU:

1.  You have to set the stage for the sparks to fly.

Unless you want to run the risk of getting rejected by her and feeling awkward at work,  then you need to set the stage for there to be some real chemistry between you and her before you try to advance things into a relationship.  One of the real problems that men have is their timing,  and when they go to ask her out on a date,  the timing just is not right and she does not feel the attraction and chemistry that she needs to feel in order to say YES to YOU.

2.  You need to be able to get to know her outside of the workplace.

Unless you work at a nightclub or something like that,  then the workplace environment probably does not give you enough time to build up things enough with her.  Get her to hang out as friends with you and a few other co workers and use that time to build up her attraction.  Use conversation as a way to get the sparks flying.

3.  Use her body language to determine when the right time to ask her out on a date is.

Like I said before,  timing is everything when it comes to getting a woman to say yes to going on a date with you and reading a woman’s body language can be a good way to know when the right moment is.  Most men do not have a single clue on how to read a woman’s body language,  and this can give you that “inside edge” on getting a date with a woman you work with.

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Copyright (c) 2011 Chris Tyler.  All Rights Reserved.

How to Approach Women Out in Public- 3 Major Mistakes You Cannot Make

Monday, March 21st, 2011

Approaching a woman out in public is not something that most guys ever really do.  Most of the time when a guy is out in public and he sees a woman he likes,  he just kind of stands back and takes her in and wishes that he could actually get himself to walk up to her and say something,  anything that will make her feel some kind of attraction towards him.  What if you could actually be that guy that knows exactly how to approach a woman out in public and make her feel that kind of attraction towards you?

Approaching women out in public is not the same as walking up to a woman in a bar or a club.  If you are out on the street and you try to make the same kind of approach that yoou would at your favorite night spot,  chances are… she’s not going to be flattered by you at all.  You need to be a little bit more subtle and approach a woman in a way that does not seem like you are just trying to pick her up on the street.

Here are 3 major mistakes you cannot make if you want to know how to approach women out in public:

1.  Never sneak up on a woman if you want to speak to her.

Chances are,  if you sneak up on a woman when you are out and about,  you are going to creep her out.  Women are on their guard for that creepy kind of guy and that’s exactly what it will look like if you are sneaking up on her.  So,  don’t walk up from behind,  make sure that she sees you and doesn’t feel as though you are creeping up on her.

2.  Don’t drop a quick line on her and expect her to want to talk to you.

Dropping some cheesy line in a club sometimes does work because after all,  some women are out there to meet guys.  But,  if you drop a cheesy line on a woman at a store or on the street,  what do you think her impression of you is going to be?  Probably not what you want it to be,  that’s for sure.

3.  Don’t make a woman feel like you are just talking to her to get a number.

This is really true for most approach situations,  but especially out in public.  If she thinks that all you are doing is talking to her to get a number,  don’t expect to get one and if you do,  don’t expect it to be a real number to call her on.  Instead,  you want to get the number in a more natural way,  when the conversation is so good with her that she wants to continue on.

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Copyright (c) 2011 Chris Tyler.  All Rights Reserved.

How to Get to Know Someone When on a Date

Friday, March 18th, 2011

Trying to really get to know someone when you go out on a date is not always the easiest thing to do. People put their guard up, they are careful about what they will reveal about themselves, and most date situations are not really all that inviting for a long and meaningful conversation. After all, you are probably going to be a little on the nervous side and so is the one you are out on a date with. Is there any way that you can really get to know someone when you go out on a date with them?

Well, if you try to do the traditional dinner thing, then it’s probably going to end up seeming more like an interview than it will a real date. And that kind of environment doesn’t really warm someone up. Maybe that’s why so many people regard dating with a sense of disdain, because they just want to really get to know someone without all of the formalities and the games that people play.

Here’s how to get to know someone on a date that can make it easier to see the REAL them:

1. Choose to meet up in a much different venue than a restaurant or a movie theater.

Personally, I am not a big fan of doing the dinner at a restaurant thing for a first or second or even third date. And choosing to go to the movies just means that you are going to end up staring up at the big screen, waiting for the big climax to happen, but you really are not going to get to know each other, are you? Taking a walk in a park, meeting up somewhere where you can sit down and be relaxed and have good conversation, those are all going to help you to get to know someone a lot better on a date.

2. Let go of the interviewer method of trying to get to know someone.

It’s only natural that this happens. After all, this is how we are taught to try and get to know someone. But, when you grill the person you are out on a date with instead of having a much more relaxed and natural flow, you really don’t get to know the real them. They answer the questions in a way that they think they are supposed to answer. And you also don’t get the chance to build real attraction with that person. How good can the sparks fly when you are talking about their boring work life?

3. Be free and open to reveal little things about yourself.

People like to reciprocate things, and when you are open and free to reveal little things about yourself, this can help to move them to do the same. Take the initiative to do this, because almost everyone will respond by doing the same. Let’s say that you reveal something silly that you did in college that shows a lot about your real personality, they will feel like they should do the same. This helps to get the conversation going and allows it to feel right to open up about things that they normally wouldn’t on a date.

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Copyright © 2011 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved

How to Be More Confident When on a Date

Thursday, March 17th, 2011

When it comes to having a successful date and making the kind of impression on a woman that you want to make, there is no question that you really want to be confident. Not only is confidence an alluring trait to possess, but it feels really terrible when you are lacking confidence when you are out on a date with someone. Dating in of itself can be a nerve racking experience, but when the confident you seems to be missing in action, it can make it even more nerve racking.

There are a lot of little things that you can do that will help you to gain some confidence when on a date with a woman, and some will help you out more so than others. One of the things that you always want to keep in mind is that dating should be enjoyable and when it’s not… then you kind of know that you are not doing it right. So, you really do need to be at your peak in terms of feeling comfortable and good about yourself when out on a date with a woman.

Here are some things that you can do to get yourself geared up when you have a date with a woman:

1. Listen to music before hand that gets you pumped up and feeling good about yourself.

Music can be a good and almost instant way of recharging yourself and making yourself feel good. If you are driving alone to meet a woman, turn up the volume in your car and get that music pumping. Who cares if someone else thinks it is cheesy to do something like this. You want to get out of your car and meet that woman feeling as good as you possibly can. That’s all that really matters.

2. Wear your best, but also most relaxed outfit that you can when going out with a woman.

You want to look your best, because that will help to trigger you to feel good about yourself. At the same time, you don’t want to wear anything that makes you feel really uncomfortable. A good personal example of this for me, is that no matter how stylish they might be right now… I just don’t feel comfortable wearing skinny jeans. So, I don’t. Whatever it is that makes you feel comfortable and still look good, that is what you should be wearing.

3. Go out and buy yourself a really good smelling cologne, because that will also help to give you a confidence boost and women like it.

Smelling good can easily make you feel a little more geared up and feeling good, so this is an area where you really don’t want to be too cheap. Plus, women dig a guy who smells good, in fact, it will usually end up being one of the first compliments that they give you. A good bottle of cologne can usually be had for about $ 50- $ 75 and it will last for a while, so don’t be afraid to spend the money.

Want to get more *advanced* techniques and tips on how to attract women and be the kind of guy women want to date?

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Copyright © 2011 Chris Tyler All Rights Reserved.

Dating Younger Women – How to Meet College Girls

Thursday, March 17th, 2011

Sometimes, no matter what your age is in terms of numbers, you just don’t feel that old at all. And if you don’t feel that old at all, then you may not really be interested in dating a woman your own age. You may want to have the fun experience of dating a younger woman. Now, some might say that this is something that you need to forget about, that you can’t really attract or date a younger woman, but that is not really the way that it has to be. Hey, you can even decide that you want to attract and meet college girls.

In many ways, there are no real differences in what you need to do to attract a younger woman. A lot of the things that work to make a younger woman attracted to you are going to be the same things that attract an older woman as well. With that being said, there ARE some subtle but important things that you need to do if you want to start meeting college girls.

Here are a few tips on how to meet college girls if you want to date younger women:

1) You don’t want to do too much to try and hide your age if you want to date younger women.

One of the major things that will appeal to a younger woman is the fact that you are a little older, more distinguished, and even more experienced. That can be a good thing and a definite plus in your corner. Therefore, it’s not something that you really want to do too much to try and hide. Not to mention that a lot of guys when they try to hide their age don’t end up fooling anyone and they end up looking kind of funny. Picture a guy with an awful looking toupee and I think you will know what I mean.

2) A good place to meet college girls is to take your search online.

If you feel like you might look a bit foolish approaching college girls out in public, then you may want to take your search online. One of the good things about using an online dating website to meet younger women is that you don’t have to worry about what it looks like to other people, so you can relax a little more and be yourself. Plus, you get some time to hit it off with her before you try and get a date, which can help to bridge the age gap a little with her.

3) One of the worst ways to meet college girls is to look like the creepy old guy that they all want to avoid.

When you approach college girls, you don’t want to come across like that creepy old guy that is just out to meet a younger woman. If you do come off like this, then you probably are not going to end up dating a younger woman, you are going to end up repelling younger women. You have to approach with a relaxed confidence and feel like you are young enough to be able to realistically get along with them.

Want to get more advanced tips and techniques on how to attract younger women and meet college girls?

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Copyright (c) 2011 Chris Tyler.  All Rights Reserved.

How to Seduce a Female Co Worker- Can it Really Be Done?

Thursday, March 17th, 2011

Chances are,  if you have been in the workplace for any time at all,  then you have probably had at least one crush on a female coworker.  Most of the time,  these crushes will be just harmless little flashes of attraction,  but sometimes,  that attraction seems to linger on.  That can kind of get you thinking,  and it might make you want to know if you can seduce your female coworker.  Maybe you want to have a real relationship with her,  maybe you just want to have a brief fling and release all of that pent up attraction that you feel for her.

Seducing a woman you work with is not out of your reach by any means.  Lots of male and female co workers end up dating,  having flings or even affairs,  so if you want to see if things can happen with her… that’s perfectly understandable.  One word of caution here,  though.  Once you DO get things going with her,  there is no turning back.  So,  if you work in a very small office or you work close together,  you may really want to weigh out the long term effects of trying to seduce the woman you work with.

You don’t want to have things get weird and turn it into a situation where you don’t want to see her,  so you don’t end up going to work,  do you?  If,  after you have weighed it out and you still want to try to seduce a woman you work with,  then pay attention.  It can be done and I have a few basic seduction tips to get you started.

Here are 3 tips to help you seduce a woman you work with:

1)  Most of the time,  you have to start out small,  making subtle moves on her.

One thing that women have that most guys do not,  is the ability to put off having sex with someone if they think that it will lead to a weird situation.  So,  chances are good that she will think of the possibility of work and sex getting all mixed up before you do.  That’s why you want to be a lot more subtle about it,  so that you really get her warmed up to the idea of something happening between you and her.  If you just come right out and tell her that you want to hook up,  chances are she will say NO and that will be the end of it,  even if she does like you because she will be thinking about the possible consequences and implications.

2)  You need to let her know that you can keep things on the hush,  so that she does not become the fodder of work place gossip.

Women are very protective of their social images,  and in the workplace,  this is especially true.  If you give off the impression that you are the kind of guy who will blab his mouth and brag about landing her in bed,  you are not going to get any play from most women.  Start sharing small,  trivial secrets with her,  just to let her see that you are not the type to go running your mouth.  You want to make it easy for her to want to you and to want to go to bed with you,  and she needs to know that you are not going to make it hard on her by running your mouth and letting everyone else know.

3)  She has to become comfortable seeing you outside of the workplace.

Unless you want to play with fire and do things on the job,  then you are going to have to hook up outside of work.  Really,  even though it may seem fun and exciting,  hooking up on the job can cost you that same job if you get caught,  so my recommendation is to hook up outside of work.  Therefore,  you need to be able to make her feel comfortable with seeing you outside of the workplace.  Even something as simple as getting together for a drink after hours,  or grabbing a bite to eat is enough to make her feel comfortable with seeing you outside of the workplace.  From there,  you can learn how to escalate things so that she ends up at your place.

Want to get more *advanced* techniques and tips on how to seduce a woman you work with or any other woman you DESIRE?

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Copyright (c) 2011 Chris Tyler.  All Rights Reserved.

How to Seduce a Woman on Facebook- 3 Must Know Secrets

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

When a guy asks how to seduce a woman on Facebook ™,  most of the time what he is looking to do is to be able to send a woman a few messages that get her so hot she just wants to hook up with him in a heartbeat.  The problem with that kind of thinking is that it goes against what seduction really is,  which is creating a situation and a feeling that makes a woman very responsive to you sexually.  You are going to have a hard time doing that just by sending her some messages and trying to comment on her photos or something.

The way to use Facebook to seduce a woman is to connect with women,  build up enough rapport that you can meet up offline,  and THEN you can really work on making the situation right where you can lead her into seduction.  If you are trying to just randomly friend women on Facebook and then send them some kind of subliminal messages to get her hot and make her want to leave her house and come over to yours,  your success is going to be really random and on the low side at best.

Here are 3 must know secrets of using Facebook to seduce a woman:

1)  Facebook is a social networking site,  so use it to network.

You know,  back in the day,  you could go on to a site like MySpace ™ and kind of have a little fun sending out random friend requests to hot women and they would accept it most of the time and you could even get a little conversation going.  That was about 5 years ago.  Today,  the novelty of these sites to meet random people has pretty much worn off,  so if you are just randomly requesting hot women with the hopes of getting hooked up… it ain’t gonna happen.  Now,  if you work your list of friends and friend their friends (that was a mouthful),  you will have a lot more success in getting them accepted.  Plus,  you already have a lead into a conversation,  as you kind of already know the same people.

2)  You won’t get her that hot over the computer,  so work on building rapport + attraction with her.

Look,  women don’t really get all hot and horny reading a couple of lines of text that tell her how hot she is and what you want to do with her.  That idea may sell memberships on websites designed to attract horny guys who want to meet horny women,  but it’s not going to get you laid off of Facebook or any other social networking site.  Instead,  you want to work on building enough rapport plus attraction so that you can lead into meeting up with her in the real world.

3)  When you meet up with her,  don’t make it seem like you are just trying to get some.

If she thinks that the only reason why you went through that whole process of building rapport and attraction was just to get laid off of Facebook,  you are not going to get any sex.  What you need to do is to look at it like you are just hanging out to have a good time and then work on slowly progressing things to get intimate with her.  When you do this,  it looks like you two met up,  clicked,  and naturally hooked up.  She won’t think that you were just trolling Facebook trying to get laid.

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How to Attract Women Online- 5 Tips to Get More Hits to Your Profile

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

So,  you want to know how to attract women online, huh?  When it comes to dating online,  there are a lot of similarities to the offline world.  In the offline world,  all a decent looking woman has to do is step into a bar and she can be assured that she will get a decent amount of attention.  Guys get none unless they are willing to really put themselves out there and be proactive about it.  Well,  it’s the same when it comes to dating online.  A woman can set up a profile and put a picture of herself on there and get hit after hit from desperate guys looking to meet a woman.  A guy can put his picture and profile up and get nothing, nada, zilch.

Just like the offline world,  you have to be proactive when it comes to getting hits to your profile.  For most men,  you are going to be lucky if you get one message a week from a potentially interested woman.  Most women can get several per day.  It doesn’t seem fair,  does it?

Well,  who cares about what’s fair,  you want to get attention from women,  right?

Here are 5 tips on how to attract women online and get more hits to your profile:

1)  You need to make sure that you choose the right site for You.

Not every online dating site attracts the same crowd.  Some of them tend to get more people looking for really serious relationships that can lead to marriage and some of them tend to attract people just looking for a fling or a hook up.  You have to know what you want and see what each site has to offer.  Check to see if there is a free trial period or something so that you can get a feel for what the crowd is like.  This is important because to attract women to your profile,  you have to know what they are looking for.  More importantly to be satisfied,  YOU need to know what you are looking for as well.

2)  Choose your photos that you put up there wisely.

Like it or not,  women are going to get an opinion of you just based on what kind of photos you have up on your profile.  If you have a lot of photos of yourself partying like a frat boy and most of the women on the site seem to be looking for a long term,  stable relationship… don’t expect to attract to much interest.  Likewise,  if you are on a site where most of the women seem to want something more casual,  you might not want to toss up photos that make it look like you are too serious about life.

3)  Take some time to really think about what image you want to project before you set up your description of yourself.

For the most part,  guys are most interested in a woman’s photos and then all of the other stuff is secondary.  And for the most part,  it’s the other way around for a woman.  She’s going to read carefully all of the things that you put up in the spot where you get to describe yourself and your likes/dislikes.  Do you really want to tell her that your favorite movie is Showgirls and that your favorite hangout spot is the local strip club?

4)  Just having a profile up does not mean that you will generate a lot of interest,  so be active on these sites.

Look,  these sites are not magic bullets.  It’s not like you are going to put up your profile tonight and have 10 women hitting you up for dates this weekend.  Women are not the ones who tend to make the first move and nothing really changes when you are online.  You are going to have to be active on these sites and make the move.  And you need to be a little more creative than just sending a message saying that she is hot.

5)  Learn how to sell yourself.

Most people don’t want to look at dating as a way to sell yourself,  but in a sense that is what you are doing.  You are trying to make yourself look as fun and appealing and attractive as you can.  Get confident before you set up your profile and really work on selling yourself without making it a hard sale.  You can’t expect that a woman is just going to come across your online dating profile and just know that you are a great guy.  You have to let her see that and the way to do this is to sell yourself in a way.

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How to Pick Up Women in Bars- 4 No-No’s Of Bar Pick Ups

Wednesday, March 9th, 2011

Time and time again,  the number one spot men will always seem to flock to when they want to pick up women is the bar.  For years,  the bar scene has been practically synonymous with singles mixing and mingling,  wanting to get to know each other and even hook up for the night.  While the bar scene is a great place to meet women,  it’s certainly not a guarantee that you will head to your local nightspot,  grab a beer,  and get a woman’s number or even a fling.

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Sometimes when I am at a bar,  I will scan around and kind of just shake my head as I watch guy after guy making all of the same mistakes as they try their best to pick up women around them.  Half the time,  they don’t even realize that they are not doing as well as they think they are,  and it’s not until the end of the night when they have to head out the door alone that they realize that they did not have any luck that night.

If you want to know how to pick up women in bars,  then you first have to know what things you should not do.  That way,  you will have a much clearer picture on what you should be doing and what really works to pick up women in bars.

Here are 4 No- No’s of picking up women in bars that will keep you from having the kind of success you should be having:

1.  Drinking to excess and then using that liquid courage to give you the balls to approach a woman.

Liquid courage is a funny thing.  It may give you the balls to walk up to that woman you have had your eye on since you walked in,  but it will almost always guarantee that you end up saying or doing something stupid that will make her look at you as a guy she would never hook up with.

Yes,  there are the drunk girls who this is not a problem for them all that much,  but those are also the ones that you will wake up next to the next morning and kind of wish that you had shown a little more discretion.  There’s nothing wrong with having a drink or two and then approaching a woman without being inebriated,  but once that buzz kicks in… your odds of getting her to go home with you usually drop significantly.

2.  Sliding up next to a woman and honestly using the cheesiest pick line you ever heard and believing that it will make her want you.

There’s nothing wrong to drop a cheesy line on a woman if you have a good delivery and it’s obviously just a put on to make her laugh or get her talking,  but if you honestly drop a line like that on her and expect that it is going to make her feel like she just has to be with you,  think again.

Pick up lines are all well and good and I guess that anything that you use to open a conversation can be considered a pick up line,  but when you feel that this is the secret to getting laid,  you need to do some deeper thinking.  Most women you will meet that are worth dating or going to bed with are not going to be impressed and most will be put off if you really think you will win her over with something cheesy.  Like I said,  it’s all good to use one with a good delivery to make her laugh,  but that’s about it.

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3.  Going to a bar with a pack of your guy friends to pick up women.

The minute a group of 4 or 5 guys or more walk into a bar,  all scoping out to see what the women look like,  most of the women there will already be on their guard knowing that these guys are just looking to pick up women.  The problem with having a pack of guys with you is that you are more than likely going to get a lot more resistance from women,  as they are protective of themselves and not only that… it’s just DAMN obvious that you are out to get laid.

The other big problem when 4 or more guys get together with the explicit intention of picking up women is,  they almost always start to compete with each other.  Meaning,  buddies will be cock blocking buddies,  especially if there are only a few really good looking women in the place.  Mix that with some booze and friendships can end up getting kicked to the curb and the worst part is… usually no one gets laid anyway.

4.  Trying to make moves at the very end of the night.

Now,  I’ll be honest, this wasn’t much of a problem when I was under 25 and so were all of the girls that I would approach were as well.  But,  when you get over the age of 25 and closing time is at 4 am,  chances are… you are not going to get a lay if you approach her at 3:30 am.  Unless of course she is just desperate to get laid herself.

I’ve seen this happen a lot,  even to friends of mine.  They spend most of the night thinking about approaching a woman and thinking about it some more.  Then,  when they realize that it’s getting close to closing time and they have had about 6 beers,  they want to make the move.  By that time,  all of the really good looking women have either hooked up or are ready to go home and aren’t open to anything else,  and all that is left is the women you could have gotten in the first 30 minutes.

It’s always fun to go to a bar and get a chance to pick up a woman,  and in some towns,  it’s about the only place you can go to late at night.  Just be sure that you do it right and you don’t end up making these 4 mistakes.

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Dating Tips for Men Over 40- Secrets of Dating Younger Women

Tuesday, March 8th, 2011

So,  you are over 40 now,  but you don’t really feel like it.  Deep inside,  you still feel like you have a bit of that twenty five year old still lingering.  You don’t want to date women your age.  Not right now.  You want to date women a little younger than you,  you want to date a woman with some pep and some vigor.  Now,  some might say that you should grow up and set your sights on a woman your age,  but really,  do you want to be that guy that lives an average lifestyle?

My guess is that you don’t and you don’t really care about what other people have to say.  You want to have some fun dating at your age,  and that does not mean that you just have to set your sights on women over 40,  you can still attract women younger than you.  I mean,  there are a lot of guys that seem to have no problems attracting and dating younger women,  right?

What are some secrets of dating younger women that you should know:

1)  Most younger women do have an attraction for older men.

It’s just the way that it is, men want to chase after a younger woman and younger women want to be around a slightly older guy.  This is good for you.  As long as you play into this natural tendency,  you should be able to do well.  Most of the time,  a woman in her twenties won’t really mind too much if you are over 40,  as long as you can still keep up with her from time to time.

2)  The better shape you are in,  the easier it will be to date younger women.

One thing that you need to know.  Younger women are getting more and more into staying in shape and having a lot of energy.  You want to make sure that you can keep up and the better shape you are in,  the younger she will assume you are.  Get involved in a weekly exercise routine,  hit the weights,  stay away from the fatty snacks.  You want to come across like a guy in the PRIME of his life,  and you should make sure that your body says that you are.

3)  To attract younger women,  you really need to be good at reading her body language.

This is really true for ALL dating situations.  Fact is,  if you are going to be able to attract a woman and make her feel like it is meant to be that she is with you,  then you want to be able to read her body language and know how to respond to her.  When you can read a woman pretty accurately,  it’s easy to look like you just always know what the right thing to do is,  and that can be pretty enticing to a woman.

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How to Get Women Interested in You – 4 Reasons Why You May Not Be Getting Attention From Women

Monday, March 7th, 2011

Sometimes, you just have to own up to the fact that you might be doing a few things wrong when it comes to meeting and attracting women. I mean, if you are not getting the kind of attention that you really desire from women, you have to be honest with yourself if you want things to change. It’s easy to take on the mentality that the whole dating thing is stacked up against you or that all women want is to end up with the jerks, but that is not going to make much of a difference in your life. It’s not going to get you any dates this weekend.

Here are four common reasons why you might not be getting the kind of female attention you desire:

1. You are not coming across as having strong alpha male traits.

We’ve all heard that women are definitely more likely to go for the kind of guy who comes across like an alpha male, so if you are not getting the kind of female attention, you want, then you might need to work on giving off that kind of a vibe. You don’t have to come off like a jerk to be seen as an alpha male to a woman, but you do need to show her that you are confident and can be a leader when need be.

2. You are not flirting with women the way they respond to.

A lot of the time, guys pick up on how to flirt with a woman from what they see and it’s not always the best or most effective way to flirt. Women almost always pay attention to a guy who knows how to flirt in a way that is exciting and fun to her. Guys that just try and throw a woman a bunch of compliments, don’t get quite the amount of female attention that the ones who know how to be fun and exciting do.

3. You are not showing women that you have a unique personality.

It’s hard to get women to notice you when you come across like almost every other guy that they meet. I mean, if she is meeting several guys that are pretty much just like you, what is going to get her to really notice you? You need to be able to show a woman that you have a unique personality so that there is a reason why you stand out to her.

4. You have a hard time making conversation with women.

This is really common and it can easily be overcome. Many times, a guy will get used to talking to his buddies, so when he comes across a woman he really wants to impress, he doesn’t quite know what to say. Either he will try too hard to say things to impress her, or her will just go on and on about topics that end up boring her to tears. Or, even worse, he won’t say much at all and there is a lot of dead silence. You need to be able to talk to women if you want to get noticed in a GOOD way.

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