To create sexual tension with a woman is not an easy task for most men. Just suggesting that you create sexual tension with a woman to make her want you will probably leave you with more questions than answers. If you want to really create sexual chemistry, this is something that you need to know how to do. After reading this article, you should have a much better idea as to what you need to do to make a woman want you.
To create sexual tension with a woman is not an easy task for most men. Just suggesting that you create sexual tension with a woman to make her want you will probably leave you with more questions than answers. If you want to really create sexual chemistry, this is something that you need to know how to do. After reading this article, you should have a much better idea as to what you need to do to make a woman want you.
Here’s how to create sexual tension with a woman:
Position yourself as being unattainable, but be playful about it.
People, not just women, want what they cannot have. What most guys do when they feel attracted to a woman, is they make it very obvious that she can have them at any time that she wants. And what this does is, it kills any possibility of their being sexual tension there. Part of what creates that feeling, is a little bit of nervousness and wondering in her mind about how you feel about her And when she knows that she can have you whenever she wants, that feeling gets dashed, and so does the tension.
Regardless of all the politically correct advice about dating and relationships, you have to be aware that there is a little bit of a game to be played. Call it the human mating game. A woman needs to feel as though you might be unattainable to her, so it gives her a reason to work for your attention and your approval. To do this, you need to be able to make her feel like she is not quite sure that she can have you. You have to make yourself seem unattainable to her. The catch is, you also need to be playful with it.
Here’s an example of what I mean:
You are flirting back and forth with her and then you say something like, “I could never date a girl like you, you are TOO high maintenance for me.” Say it with a playful smile. Most likely, she will try to change your mind, and she will say something like, “No, I’m not.” What she is doing is, she is qualifying herself for you, and that is a good thing.
What she is feeling if you do this the right way is, she’s not quite sure if you are playing around or if you are being serious. And when she tries to change your mind and “qualify” herself for you, she is letting you know in a subtle, and maybe not so subtle way, that she is into you.
Put her on edge and give her mixed signals.
Once a woman shows that she is trying to “qualify” herself for you, then you need to keep on with the game, and give her mixed signals. If she says that she is really not that high maintenance, show a little more interest in her, and then take it back by saying something like, ” I don’t know. I think you are and you just are saying that you aren’t.”
What you end up doing here is you turn up the sexual tension by making her feel like she has won your approval, and then you put her right back on edge by taking it back a little. Now, she has to keep on trying to “convince” you that she is a woman you could date.
You have to know how to create sexual tension with a woman if you want to get past just flirting and friendship.
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