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How to Pick Up Girls- The Art of Approaching Women

Monday, September 27th, 2010

So, you want to learn the art of picking up women, do you?

Well, for one thing… it’s not easy, at least not at first. For most guys out there, the thought of picking up a girl is enough to make them want to piss their pants.

Okay, it might not be that drastic, but the reality is… most guys don’t even really ever try to pick up girls.

Think about it.

When was the last time that you or any of your buddies actually went out with the sole goal of approaching women, getting some phone numbers, and preferably getting dates and maybe some hot, hookup sex?

If you have to think about it… it’s probably safe to say that you don’t do it all that often.

That’s okay, as long as you are willing to make a change. Unless of course, you don’t mind having your hand and a box of tissues become your best friend on the weekend.

Why don’t most guys go out and try to pick up girls?

There are a few common reasons:

1) Fear.

2) Inexperience.

3) Believing that picking up girls is somehow wrong.

Now, there might be more than these three reasons, but these 3 make up the primary reason for probably about 90 percent of guys.

Lets take a look at these three reasons and break them down:

1) Fear comes from the unknown, and it can come from bad experiences in the past.

Anyway that you look at it, fear of approaching women is NOT a good thing. You need to realize that breaking through the fear is where all the good stuff is, and in this case, it means its where the beautiful women are. If you are going to pick up girls, then you need to get past that fear as soon as POSSIBLE.

2) Inexperience comes from… the lack of experience.

The only way to get around this is to go out and get some experience. Look, you have to start somewhere, right? What’s that old saying, “A journey of a thousand miles starts with the first step” right? Same thing applies to picking up women. Take the first step and handle this part of your life and a wide array of beautiful women will become available to YOU.

3) Believing that picking up girls is wrong comes from conditioning.

Now, if this is due to your religious beliefs, then I can’t really say anything to get past that. That is your belief and I respect that. However, for most guys, it comes from what society has told them and led them to believe about picking up women. You get sold the image that pick up artists are all sleazy and that women don’t want to hook up with guys, they want to fall in love.

If that were true, pick up artists would NOT get laid, and women would not go out to clubs wearing next to nothing and batting their pretty little eyes at whatever guy they think is cute. As far as pick up artists being sleazy… some are, I can’t deny that, but that does not mean that you have to be a sleazy guy to pick up women.

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How to Approach Women in Bars and Nightclubs – 3 Tips on How to Make Yourself Stand Out

Saturday, September 25th, 2010

When you are in a crowded, lively place like a bar or a nightclub, one of the hardest things is to get noticed by women. The music is loud, the place is kind of dark, and there are lots of people there. How does a guy like yourself stand out and get noticed by women, and more importantly, come off like the kind of guy that she wants to get to know a little better?

Clubs and bars can be easy spots to meet women, but since they are so easy, there is always going to be a lot of competition from other guys. You can’t change this, it is what it is. So, you have to learn how to play the hand you are dealt, and come off like you are the ONE she should be taking notice of.

Here are 3 tips on how to approach women in bars and nightclubs and make her pay attention to YOU:

1. You have to dress in a way that stands out from the rest.

Like it or not, your appearance IS going to be the first thing that she notices. When you spot a woman from a distance and she sees that you are approaching her, she is going to be taking a quick inventory of you to see what kind of “vibe” she gets from you. If you give her the wrong kind of a vibe, then you are not going to make quite the same impression on her as you would if you gave off the “right” vibe. Dressing in a way that makes you seem friendly and fun, while standing out from the crowd is the best way to give yourself a good first impression on a woman.

2. You need to be the one that kind of guides the conversation, don’t leave it up to her.

Want to see one of the most awkward moments in a bar or a club? It’s when the guy nervously makes his approach, gets up to the woman, and then has nothing to say to her or leaves it up to her to guide the conversation. Be a man, take your role, and be the one that guides the conversation. This will automatically put you in the position of being the alpha male and it will take some of the awkwardness or weirdness off of her.

3. Get in close when you are talking to her, touch her lightly as you talk.

One of the best things about approaching women in bars and nightclubs, is that with all of the loudness, the darkness, and the crowdedness; there are a lot of opportunities to get close to a woman and get that physical intimacy started right away. Don’t shy away from getting close to her, and while you talk to her put your hand lightly on her shoulder or her leg if you are getting the right vibe.

Knowing how to approach women in all situations will literally change your life, as you will be able to meet and attract women wherever you go…

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How to Seduce Women – 3 Seduction Tips That Work Like a Charm

Thursday, September 23rd, 2010

One of the coolest things about knowing how to seduce women, is unlike most other guys out there, you will never look at the dating scene and complain about the lack of opportunity. Seriously, I hear guys all of the time complain about how hard it is as a single guy, and I have to chuckle a bit at that. For me, it has been the complete opposite, like there is not enough time in the day to meet and interact with all of the attractive, available women that are out there.

If you want to be able to have that kind of experience, then you have to discover what makes a woman respond to one guy, and totally ignore the next. When you have that figured out, seducing women becomes almost too easy.

Here are 3 seduction tips that will help you unlock a world of mystery and finally crack the code on how to seduce women:

1. Women are NOT attracted to guys that are just out for the pick up, most of the time.

I had to throw in that little most of the time for a reason. There are some women that do go out just looking to hook up, and that is definitely not a bad thing. It’s just that most of the time, if you approach a woman, and make it pretty obvious that you are just there for the pick up, you are going to get nowhere fast. You might be able to pull a fake number from her, but there’s nothing cool about that.

2. You have to learn how to make connections with women if you want things to lead into the bedroom.

Make a powerful connection with a woman, and you don’t need many tricks up your sleeve to seduce a woman. It will just seem like the natural conclusion to her to want to go to bed with you. Most women have some kind of a stranger fantasy, where they long to go out and meet a guy that just sweeps them off of their feet and leads to a night of passionate sex. You can be that guy when you know how to make connections with women right off the bat.

3. To seduce women, you need to be able to take the initiative.

You know, in a perfect man’s world, women would just come up to you and throw themselves at you. In the reality we live in, the guy is the one that is expected to make the approach, and you need to play the game the right way. Taking the initiative does not just stop at making the approach, however, you also need to take the initiative and lead the entire interaction. Do this, and you will be able to seduce a woman pretty easily and be one of those guys that just seems to get “lucky” all of the time.

When you know how to seduce women, you can get lucky as often as you want…

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Dating Tips for Guys – First Date Tips for Men

Thursday, September 23rd, 2010

Naturally, you are going to feel a little bit of pressure and maybe some nervousness about a first date with a woman. This is going to happen. Sometimes, though, the pressure can be a little too much and you will start to over think things and become a little apprehensive. After all, you don’t want to have a terrible experience, especially not on a first date, because that could mean there is no second date in the future for you.

Here are some first date tips for guys that should alleviate some of that pressure:

1. Be original on the first date.

So many guys will opt for the traditional first date dinner. While that might seem like the best option, it usually is nothing more than an awkward situation where the two people feel as though they have to ask and answer a lot of questions. When you come up with an original first date, it takes away that feeling that the date has to be an “interview” of sorts, and it will also lead to a much better impression on a woman. You won’t seem like just another generic guy to her.

2. Don’t feel as though you have to get to know everything about her all at once.

Speeding through the getting to know her process will just make her feel uncomfortable, and it takes away from that urge to want to see you again. Like I said before, most first dates turn out to be just one big answer and question session, and that does nothing to build an attraction with a woman. And if you are hoping to have more than one date with her, you want to have that attraction build up.

3. Make her get curious about you.

If the conversation does lead into some of the questioning, leave a little out there to be a mystery to her. You don’t want to go on and on about everything there is to know about you and not give her any reason to want to get to know MORE. The more you can provoke her curiosity, the more you can be sure that she will be up for the second date.

4. Don’t let her get away without a kiss.

If you want to have a really good chance at becoming more than just a date, if you want to see her over and over again, then you need to take things to the next level. You have to go in for the kiss. Just do not make it seem contrived, make it seem like a natural thing. If you are afraid to go in for the kiss, then you are going to have a hard time physically attracting her.

Getting the first date can be easy… getting the second date can be a whole other thing.

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How to Create Sexual Tension With a Woman – 3 Keys to Make It INTENSE

Friday, September 17th, 2010

Sexual tension. It’s like a mystery to a lot of guys, they know they need to create sexual tension with a woman, but the thing is, they don’t really know HOW. It’s okay to be a little unsure of what to do right now, but you do need to be able to figure this stuff out if you really want to make a woman feel sexually attracted to you. So, what can you do to make a woman feel sexual tension when she is with you?

Here are 3 keys to building intense sexual tension with a woman:

1. You cannot start off gun ho and in a rush.

You have to think of building up sexual tension as being a marathon and not a sprint. Most guys when they really try to make a woman feel sexually attracted to them, they are gun ho and come out and lose steam in a matter of minutes and sometimes seconds. Not a good thing. It’s much better to build it up, then it is to start out at the top and work your way down. Basically, be patient and don’t try to make it happen in 60 seconds.

2. Tease her in a way that is playful, not harmful.

Teasing is an easy and effective way to create that kind of chemistry and tension with a woman and to be honest, most guys get it completely wrong. Either they don’t do it at all, or when they do it, it actually comes off like they are being harmful or mean. Playful is the way to go. You don’t want to make her feel like you are afraid to tease her, and you also don’t want to make her think of you as just being a jerk. Strike a balance, it’s much better.

3. Use push and pull, learn to walk away from her.

Crowding a woman is what most guys do when they have an interest in her. You know, they do what they can to get close to her, and once they are there, they NEVER want to leave. The problem with this is, it ends up making you look clingy and desperate. You need to use techniques like push and pull and be able to walk away from her at the right moment. You can drive a woman wild if you are the one that walks away from the interaction and she comes chasing after YOU.

If you know all the right strings to pull, then you can easily create sexual tension with a woman and make it hard for her to resist YOU…

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How to Date Beautiful Women – 3 Secrets to Getting a Date With a Woman Out of Your League

Friday, September 17th, 2010

You know, I kind of hate it when a guy refers to a woman as being out of his “league.” Reason being, I have learned that you will have a LOT more success with women when you start to believe that no woman is out of your league. You have to be confident enough in yourself to believe that no woman is on a pedestal, and no woman is really out of your reach. Well, let me check that… if you are desiring Hollywood beauties… that might be an exception.

Here are 3 secrets to attracting and dating beautiful women that any average guy can use:

1. Women respond to what they see.

Now, I don’t mean this in the sense that it applies to a guy. When a guy responds to what he sees, he focuses on the physical things. When women respond to what they see, it has a lot more to do with what kind of image you are projecting of yourself. Make yourself look like a guy that is undeserving of her attention, and that is how she will end up seeing you. Make yourself seem like a catch, a guy that she would be foolish to let get away, and that is what she will see in you as well.

2. Women love guys that can hold their own in a conversation.

If you are around a beautiful woman, and you are stuttering nervously, trying hard to find the right thing to say, you are not going to get anywhere at all. However, if you are more than capable of some clever back and forth banter with her, and you can do more than just agree with whatever she says, then you can make quite the impression. Being a guy that can really hold a charged conversation with a woman will get you pretty far in the dating game.

3. Beautiful women already know they are beautiful, don’t tell her 10x an hour.

Look, it’s nice to tell her she looks good and mean it. It will make her feel good. But the more times you do, the less genuine each compliment seems to look. It starts to either look like you are searching for anything you can say to win her affection, or it sounds like you feel like you don’t deserve her. And she just might end up feeling the same way. Make your compliment meaningful and be done with it.

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How to Get a Girlfriend – Attracting Women Anywhere You Go

Monday, September 13th, 2010

One of the things that I see happening amongst guys that are kind of at their wit’s end about figuring out how to get a girlfriend is, they end up thinking that there is a lack or a scarcity of attractive women that are out there. And I have to say, that my experience has been the complete opposite. And compared to most guys, I have higher standards.

So, what makes the difference?

In the self improvement world, there is a lot of talk about having an attitude of abundance, and having an attitude of scarcity. Those that believe the world to be abundant, seem to have an easier time attracting all of the things that they want in life. And those that seem to think everything is scarce seem to have a hard time.

How does this relate to getting a girlfriend?

Well, when you think that there are not enough women out there, you are going to start to get a little desperate. I mean, a lot of guys have told me, that there just are not a lot of attractive women out there. Like I said, my experience has been the exact opposite of this. And if you believe that there are not many attractive, available women out there, the minute you come into contact with one, you are going to feel like you have to hold on to her.

What happens when you try and hold on to a woman too tightly?

She usually leaves. If you are in a relationship and you hold on too tightly– you are the jealous and possessive type. If you are in a club and you are trying to hold too tightly onto a woman’s attention– you seem desperate and a little too needy for her. And she will usually walk away and hope to find another guy.

You have to get rid of the scarcity mindset that makes you believe that there are not enough women out there.

Do yourself a favor sometime, and just really take a look around. Take a trip to a crowded shopping mall, to a museum filled with people, anywhere that a lot of people are congregating. Look around, and just become AWARE of how many attractive women there are. I have to tell you, sometimes it seems like there are just too many, and not enough time to date them all!

Find new places to meet women.

I got up with a friend of mine not too long ago, and we have kind of gone our separate ways over the years. Well, like most guys, he seemed to be having a tough time meeting women. So, I invited him to go out on a Friday night, and hit the clubs that I usually frequent. This guy’s jaw practically dropped to the floor when he saw how many hot women were in there.

His problem was not that there are not enough attractive women, he was just looking in ALL the wrong places!

Trust me, there are plenty of good looking women out there. If you want to know how to get a girlfriend, then you need to recognize this and learn techniques that are proven to work to attract beautiful women.

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Dating Tips for Men – What to Do About Competition From OTHER Guys

Monday, September 13th, 2010

Chances are, if you are going to date attractive women, then competition from other guys is going to become a part of your reality. It goes with the territory, kind of like celebrities and paparazzi. So, you have to accept that this is going to happen from time to time. Yes, if you enter into a club, a restaurant, a bar, with a good looking girl– other guys are going to be checking her out and some of them are even going to try and hit on her.

So, what do you do in this kind of a situation?

Well, some guys will automatically decide that they do not want to have to deal with this, and they will end up dating only regular looking girls. Of course, that is not much of a solution, is it? I mean, guess what? Even average looking girls are going to get checked out by some guys.

The first thing that you have to REALIZE is, if you are doing things right, then there really is NO competition at all!

I did not understand this when I was younger. I would date a good looking girl, and as soon as we got around some guys, I would automatically feel like they were trying to “steal” her away from me. Now, knowing these guys, they really were trying. The thing is, it would never work as long as I did not let it bother me. The minute that I did let it bother me, was the minute she would start flirting back with THEM!

So, I tried something else. I decided not to let it bother me, to kind of assume that no matter what, she still wanted me. And you know what?

It started to work!

From that point on, I never let myself worry about competition from other guys. And I have never had an experience where another guy has “taken” a woman away from me, no matter how hot she is, and no matter how hard he might try, it’s just not going to happen.

Here are my tips on how to deal with competition from other guys:

1. Don’t even think about it.

Women have some kind of jedi mastermind that lets them pick up on a guy’s insecurity right away. The minute you become insecure and feel like you might lose her to another guy, she picks up on this. She might not say anything about it, but she definitely notices. And if that insecurity keeps getting stronger, the more you will find that she DOES end up flirting with another guy.

2. Don’t get caught up in thinking that you need to put down the other guy.

Not only does this make you seem insecure, but it will also usually end up backfiring on you. Let’s say that one of your guy friends starts hitting on a girl that you are out with, and you immediately start trash talking about him to her. Well, it’s only going to reflect bad on YOU. Why? Because she will kind of evaluate what you are saying, and if she does not agree with it, you start to lose points with her. Let’s say you bring up the fact that he is a total loser. She is going to look at see things about him that don’t make him a loser. Why girls mind’s work like this, I can’t tell ya, I just know that they do.

3. Do YOUR thing right, and you don’t have to worry about it.

Unless she has some serious issues that make her bounce from guy to guy, the only chance that you really have of losing her is if you let the attraction that she feels for you start to die out. Like I said, I no longer worry about it, and it does not affect me in any way. Now, I have been out with a beautiful woman before and had guys try and flirt with her. And you want to know what they usually do? The put the guy down! They will say something like, ”OMG, did you see him try to hit on me? What a jerk.” Let her come to her own conclusion, don’t try to force feed it to her.

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How to Attract Women and Not Have to Spend a Fortune

Monday, September 6th, 2010

Most guys seem to end up with the impression that they need to have a lot of money that they can blow in order to really attract women. They start to add up all of the costs of traditional dating, and next thing you know, they end up a little discouraged when they realize it can end up costing a small fortune just to try and get a woman to fall for them. To that I say… NONSENSE! Of course, it helps to have some spendable money. Just like it would help if you owned a Mercedes convertible or a Ferrari, but it is not a necessity., by any stretch of the imagination.

I can remember a time not too long ago when my financial situation was a LOT tighter than what it is now. I drove a 15 year old Volvo and barely had more than a little bit of cash after the bills were paid. Yet, I was still able to have no problems at all lining up dates for the weekend, and I had friends that were quite the opposite. They had nicer cars, much more spendable cash, and they had very few dates at all.

So, don’t think that it is impossible, because it is NOT. Like Slick Rick, the old school rapper once said, “Even in a Yugo I can take their woman from them.”

Here are some tips on how to attract women and NOT spend a fortune:

1. Buy clothes that are timeless.

A friend of mine spends a fortune every year on new clothes, because he thinks that he has to be one of the “trendy” guys in the club. So, when one year’s clothes are no longer in style, he has to go out and buy the new ones that are. Right now, he basically dresses like he belongs on The Jersey Shore, and when that fad passes, he will have to spend hundreds of dollars more to “update” his wardrobe. If you buy clothes that are pretty timeless, then you don’t have to worry about that, do you?

2. Be creative when you take a girl out on a date.

Near where I live there are quite a few State parks, and these places are great to take a woman. They all have beautiful scenery, they all lead to the Hudson River and have great views, and best of all, they don’t cost a thing to go there. Even women that don’t seem like they would enjoy the great outdoors seem to love these kinds of dates, and you can spend a couple of hours without spending a dollar on her.

3. Get HER to pay for YOU.

Women hate to hear this kind of thing, but let me tell you, it works all of the time. Especially when you are dating a woman that is “modern,” she will gladly pay for some of the dates. A couple of my buddies used to think this was impossible, till they saw it happen. There are many times when, if the woman offers to pay for something, I let her. It gives her the feeling of equality, the feeling of independence, and she doesn’t feel like you are trying to “buy” her affection.

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How to Seduce a Woman Into Wanting You – 3 Tricks That Will Make Her Desire You

Monday, September 6th, 2010

Knowing how to seduce a woman into wanting you just sounds like one of those, yeah right, kind of dreams for most guys. Yet, there are some men out there that seem to be able to do exactly that. And, the funny thing is, they don’t have a famous name, they don’t have a six or seven figure income, and women still seem to fall for them… every time!

Ever wondered what the secret was to make a woman desire you?

Probably, you have been led to believe that this just is not something that you can manage to make happen, or that you have to be deceptive to seduce a woman into wanting you. And that really could not be FURTHER from the truth.

Here are 3 tricks that will make a woman DESIRE you:

1. Master the art of push and pull seduction.

Women get turned on when their emotions are kind of on a roller coaster, make no mistake about it. If you can make her feel the highs and the lows, she will find herself thinking about you. And they will not be able to control where those thoughts go as long as you do it right. What most men do, is they know how to push, they know how to pursue, but they cannot pull away. Too much pushing and she will be the one that ends up pulling away from you.

2. Become a guy that just does worry about getting a woman into bed.

It sounds like the OPPOSITE of what you would want to do, but the thing is, when you worry about getting her into bed, you are going to make that apparent to her. And when it becomes apparent to a woman, it starts to look and smell a lot like desperation. Think of it this way, if you were a guy that had his choice and selection when it came to women, would you worry about it so much? Act as if you do, and women will be drawn to you.

3. Learn how to turn a woman on the right way.

If you ask most single women, most guys that they end up dating are pretty bad when it comes to turning her on. Most men rush through things, and ignore the true areas that make her feel turned on. One of which, is her emotions. The more you know how to trigger her emotions, the more she is going to end up getting turned on by you, and that spells DESIRE.

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How to Approach Women Confidently – 4 Ways to Boost Your Confidence With Women

Monday, September 6th, 2010

One of the biggest sticking points for any guy is confidence when it comes to approach women, and even just in dating in general. If you are not really confident about your ability to approach and attract women, then you probably are not going to end up trying much, are you?

You will just rationalize reasons for why you can’t get the girl, when in reality, you have no idea unless you actually make the move.

I can relate to not having the confidence to approach women. There was a time when the only women that I dated were ones that I already knew, whether it was through friends or work or school.

Then, I got tossed in the real world, and found that it was much harder for me to meet and date women. All of this was because of not having the confidence to approach women that I did not already know.

I have found that this is a pretty common theme amongst men, and that most guys just never do a thing about it. They just go along and hope that somehow, the “right” woman will just float into their life. And they end up going through LONG periods of time in between relationships.

Here are 4 ways to approach women confidently and boost your overall confidence with women:

1. Work your way up the ladder.

Now, I know that this will be about the most politically incorrect thing that I can say, but let me tell you, it works wonders. I call it working your way up the ladder, and all it means is, before you go and approach women that are drop dead beautiful, practice approaching average looking women. It will enable you to get a little better each time, and make you feel a lot more comfortable around women. So, when you DO move up to the more attractive women, you are already kind of used to making women find you appealing.

2. Go it alone if you have to.

This is one of the things that helped me out, and I think it can help out a lot of guys with the same issue. It can be hard to approach women when you know that you have a group of your buddies behind you, laughing, and acting the fool. If you want to practice on approaching women, sometimes it IS better to go it alone. You don’t feel like you have to report back to your boys, and if you do get shot down, there is no one there to tease you about it. Some guys though, will feel better when they are with their boys, so it really is up to you.

3. Talk to any woman that you can, be a talker.

When you are checking out at the store, or ordering food from your waitress, get a conversation started. You may not end up dating her, and you might not even want to. all it does is give you more and more opportunities to speak to women. And the more times you get POSITIVE feedback, the more confident you will grow. Make your waitress smile and laugh, and it will start to become “normal” for you to talk to women that you don’t know.

4. Realize that when you approach a woman, she might be as nervous as you are.

Though most women are used to being approached by guys by a certain age, that does not mean that she will not be a little nervous about it. Keep that in mind, and you will realize that you don’t have to be PERFECT to end up getting her number. I can’t tell you how many times that I swore I messed up, only to end up dating the girl that I thought I messed up on.

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How to Approach Women in Bars, Clubs, and Anywhere Else You Might Go

Wednesday, September 1st, 2010

The approach is definitely something that most guys allow to get the best of them. And when you are a little too hesitant to approach women, you are going to put a lot of restrictions on yourself. After all, how are you going to meet new women if you cannot go over and make the approach? You’re not, unless you somehow get lucky and they all just are magically drawn to you, and the odds of that happening are not really that good.

The most common places for guys to go and hopefully approach women are bars and clubs. Truth is, you should work on getting used to approaching women anywhere, because there are so many more opportunities outside of these places. And most of the time, women are going to be a lot less hesitant when you approach them outside of a club.

Just the other day, I was at a miniature golf course, just having fun with some friends, and as luck would have it, a group of college girls ended up right behind us. Of course, I did not let that opportunity slide by, and by the time we reached the 18th hole, they were playing with us and ended up going out for drinks later that night.

Point is, you need to be able to make the approach anywhere that you might go if you want to become really successful with women.

Here are 3 tips on how to approach women in bars, clubs, and anywhere else you might go:

1. You need to relax and not take it so seriously.

I see a lot of this in guys that have a hard time approaching women. They make it out to be this big deal, like approaching a girl is some kind of big event. You need to relax and not be so taken aback by the idea of walking up to a woman and starting a conversation with her. Most of the time, the worst that will happen is that you talk for a little bit and end up with nothing but that experience. That’s usually about the worst of what will happen. No big deal there, is it?

2. You need to make women laugh when you talk to them.

It’s the easiest thing to do to automatically make them feel comfortable with you approaching and talking to them. Especially in non bar and club situations. Crack a little joke and get something started. When you can make a woman laugh, she no longer really thinks of you as being some guy that she does not know. She thinks of you as being the cool guy that made her crack a smile.

3. You need to be able to “up the ante.”

If you want to have the interaction be MORE than just a simple conversation, then you need to up the ante. What I mean is, you need to keep the conversation flowing with her, build attraction, and then have a reason to ask for her number or to hang out with her. When I was at the golf course, I ended up making a bet that it would be guys versus girls and whoever won, would buy the other group drinks. You see what I did there? No matter what, if we won or lost, we still would end up having drinks with them. Luckily, we won, and they DID pay for the drinks.

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