If you are like most guys out there, then you probably DO have a hard time telling the difference between the way that you are attracted to women and the way that female attraction works. You might know that there IS a difference, but you don’t really understand what that difference is. Don’t worry, a lot of guys do get this wrong, even some who proclaim themselves to be ‘good with women.” The way that you feel attracted to a woman when you take one look at her is not exactly the way that she feels attracted to You. If she does feel any attraction, that is.
You know that when you look at a woman, one of the first things that you are going to pay attention to is her physical body. We can try to sanitize that all we want to, but deep down - you know that it is true. In fact, most of our attraction comes from how she looks. With women, that’s a little bit different. Not that they don’t look at a guy’s physical characteristics, it’s just that they naturally place a little less emphasis on it than we do.
It’s GOOD that it works like that, or else you’d have to hit the gym and develop the arms that look like guns and the perfect set of washboard abs. Luckily, you don’t have to. You can and it will help you out a bit, but it’s really not that necessary. What you DO have to do is understand the little things that make a woman feel like she is totally hooked on you. Do that, and you should be good to go, even if you don’t have the best looks.
Here are 4 tips that will help you understand female attraction a little bit better so that you can attract her and keep her:
1. As a man, you need to be able to show a woman that you don’t need to have her constant validation and approval.
If you have ever had the experience of being with one of your female friends, and a guy came up to “flirt” with them and immediately started to seek out her approval, then you know what happens next. The woman immediately gets a little bit turned off by him. You don’t want that to happen to you. So, show her that you don’t need to have constant validation and approval from her.
2. You need to show her that you are the kind of guy who can just enjoy life and make her feel like she can do the same when she is with you.
When you are the kind of guy who can be totally at ease, carefree and you don’t have to always be in serious mode all of the time, you’ll find that more and more women seem to want to be near you. You really do need to show that you are this kind of guy if you want to do really well with women. That’s not to say that you can’t be serious about some things. Just show her that you are not going to be high strung all of the time and that if she rolls with you, she’ll always feel like she is having a GOOD time.
3. You have to understand that she NEEDS to feel sexually attracted to you.
This is the thing that a lot of men just don’t seem to get. You can be fun to be around, totally nice to her, and she still won’t want to date you if she doesn’t feel massive amounts of sexual attraction towards you. Most guys don’t know how to make a woman feel that way. You HAVE TO if you want to ever be more than just friends to a woman.
4. You need to be able to approach a woman without having to be pushed into it.
Guys who go for what they want in life, tend to end up getting what they want in life. If you are in a club or a bar and you see a woman you are totally attracted to, then you need to be able to move in her direction. You can’t be one of those guys that needs to be pushed into making the approach. You just have to be able to go ahead and DO IT.
When you know exactly what to do to make a woman feel attracted to you and keep that attraction, you’ll never worry about your love life again.
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