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Falling For Your Best Friend – How to Make Her Become MORE Than Just a Friend

Monday, July 26th, 2010

She’s the one that you spend most of your time with. You even think about her when she is not around, and now all of your thoughts seem to be getting more and more romantic. You want more than anything to make her become more than just a friend, you just don’t want to also risk losing her as a friend. Seems like you are kind of stuck in a tough spot, wouldn’t you say?

Now, some people will tell you that the best thing that you can do is to just keep things the way that they are. But, it’s really not all that healthy to have a female friend that you are in love with and keep all of those emotions locked inside.

And then, there are going to be some people that are going to tell you that you should just forget about her and move on. But, that is not going to leave you feeling satisfied.

Is there a way that you can make your best friend become your GIRLFRIEND?

Most men do not realize that they are slipping into the friend zone while it is happening. Then one day, they finally realize that this is exactly what has happened. Of course, the most obvious answer to this situation is to make sure that you never get there in the first place, but you are beyond that point right now.

Here are a couple of tips on how to get started turning your female friend into YOUR girlfriend:

1. She cannot keep seeing you as being that safe, male friend that she can run to when she needs emotional comfort.

If you keep on being that person to her, then she is NEVER going to want to risk doing a single thing that could hurt that dynamic that the two of you have. So, you have to be able to change the way that she sees you and the friendship. The best way to do this, is to slowly become a lot more distant to her. Don’t act cold, just don’t be there nearly as often and don’t let the conversations stray into topics that only friends would talk about.

2. You need to change the way that you behave with her.

Friends act different when they are with each other than they would with someone that they want to date. Friends just have that rapport where they feel like they can be who they are without getting embarrassed about anything. On the other hand, a woman is going to try to look her best and hide her flaws if it is a guy that she wants to date. And you should do the same. When you change your behavior, you are going to force a change in the way that she sees you.

3. You need to take action or just move on.

At some point, you have to face the possibility that she might reject you. If that is too much for you, then you really do need to just move on or suffer in silence until she runs off with some new guy and gets married or something. Anytime that you find yourself wanting to date someone, rejection is a possibility. However, her saying YES is also a possibility, so don’t think that it cannot be a good thing to take action.

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How to Pick Up Women – 5 Essential Secrets of the Successful Pick Up Artist

Tuesday, July 20th, 2010

They are the men that you want to be. They are not celebrities, they don’t get on television, and yet, they have a way with women that just seems to gel. They are the pick up artist, and even though you might deny it at first, a part of you wants to know what their secret is. You want to have just a little bit of what they have, so that you can pick up women without feeling foolish or expecting another rejection.

Can you find out the secrets of how to pick up women like the successful pick up artists do?

In all seriousness, there really is not a whole lot that separates you from them. Most pick up artists did not start out super smooth with women. A lot of them have the same exact interests that you do, and they might even work in a similar profession. Yet, when it comes time to hit the clubs and the bars, they take a different route than you. But, it does not have to be that way…

Here are 5 essential secrets of the successful pick up artist that will uncover how to pick up women:

1. You have to get your confidence up to par.

This is probably the biggest thing that separates the regular Joe from the guys that just seem to be able to smooth talk their way into a woman’s heart. You have to be confident when you are going out, confident when you approach a woman, and confident when you escalate beyond just a simple conversation with a woman.

2. You have to know how to use your body language to project an alpha male attitude.

Without an alpha male attitude, picking up women will seem like it is harder than anything else that you have ever tried to figure out. But, when you can use your body language to show that you have an alpha male attitude, women take notice. Other guys take notice and wish that they were you.

3. You cannot hesitate when you see a lovely lady that you want to make a move on.

There is no time like the present, and you have to act in the moment sometimes, especially when you want to attract women. Picking up women requires that you do NOT sit there and contemplate whether or not you should approach a woman. It requires that you are able to make a move and make her fall for you as soon as possible.

4. You have to be able to talk to a woman and not end up drowning her in a wash of boring dialogue.

There is an art to talking to a woman. You have to make her feel emotions, take a ride up and down on a journey with you as you use your words to start to seduce her. You need to be able to captivate her attention and make sure that she does not lose interest at any point in time.

5. You have to be able to close a woman.

Closing a woman is actually a lot like closing a sale. Just like when you want to make a sale, you want the person to take an action. Well, you also want the woman to take an action. Whether it is a kiss, a phone number, or her walking out with you, there is an action that you want her to take. And you have to guide her to get to that point.

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Tips to Make a Woman Fall in Love – Why She Plays Hard to Get and How You Should RESPOND

Monday, July 19th, 2010

Just like you can count on the fact that the sun is going to rise in the morning, you can pretty much count on the fact that a woman is going to play a little hard to get with you, even when she likes you a LOT. For some reason, most men don’t quite grasp the idea that this can be a good thing, and the minute a woman plays hard to get…they give up. Of course, there are times when the woman really is not playing hard to get, but that should be more than obvious.

WHY SHE PLAYS HARD TO GET WITH YOU…

Unlike a man’s experience in the dating world, women don’t really have a hard time getting attention from the opposite sex. If a woman is decent looking, then she is going to get hit on and flirted with at her job, at the store when she is shopping, pretty much any time that she leaves the house. And now that we have social communities online, she does not even have to leave the house to get hit on.

Because she gets pursued so often, she has to separate the winners from the losers, so to speak. She has to see what guys are just fishing to get laid, and which guys are going to stay. Most of the time, she will be able to shake off the ones that just want to get a little bit of action. So, she is going to play hard to get to make this happen.

HOW YOU NEED TO RESPOND WHEN SHE PLAYS HARD TO GET…

Truthfully, I think this can be better explained by showing you what NOT to do. Especially if want to make her fall in love with you.

1. Don’t let the situation unnerve you. This could make her think that you don’t have much experience, are emotionally unstable, or just not the right guy for her. You don’t ever want to let it show that it bothers you when she plays hard to get. Besides, it’s a part of the game, it’s supposed to be FUN. So, treat it that way.

2. Don’t let it make you start acting desperate for her attention. If you do, then no matter how good of a guy you might be, you are going to get thrown in the pool of “losers.” You need to realize that acting desperate for her attention will NEVER make a woman fall in love with you.

3. Don’t let it make you lose confidence in yourself. You should never let your confidence hinge on the approval of a woman anyway,. But, also if you start to lose confidence just because she is playing hard to get, then you are also going to lose HER attraction.

TO MAKE A WOMAN FALL IN LOVE…YOU NEED TO BE ABLE TO MAKE HER FEEL ATTRACTION…

Anything else just is not going to cut it. When a woman feels attraction for YOU as a man, and you know how to handle any little “test” that she might throw at you, she will start to fall in love with you.

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How to Seduce a Woman Into Bed – 5 Tips to Get a Woman in Your Bedroom

Wednesday, July 14th, 2010

Most men, when they are out for the night in a club or a bar are not really trying to meet the woman that they are going to marry. Seriously, if it happens, it happens, but when you are out cruising for women, you are definitely not in a position where you expect to meet your life partner that you are going to grow old and happy with. You want sex. And you want to be able to seduce a woman into bed.

Here are 5 tips to get a woman in YOUR bedroom:

1. Never come off like all you are trying to do is to hook up for sex.

Look, if she is cool with that, you are going to know. But, if you come across like that is all you are looking for, even a woman that is cool with casual sex, is going to suddenly become uncool with it. You have to be a little coy as to what you are really trying to get, and you have to let things build up.

2. Always peacock as best you can without going over the top.

If you don’t know what it means to peacock, all it means is that you are purposely trying to get female attention visually. Some guys will make themselves look like rock stars to get attention, other men will try other things. Whatever your pleasure is, make sure that you do this without going too far. When you go too far, you kind of look like a guy that is trying to get laid.

3. Start off with some casual flirting and escalate into triggering sexual attraction.

If you start off with just some regular casual flirting, most likely she is going to be game, and that will help you to kind of get in there, build rapport, and then trigger sexual attraction with her. The good thing about casually flirting first with a woman, is that you can kind of get a read on her, and also subtly work your way up, which is almost always the BEST option.

4. Talk to her, and get close when you do.

Just keep a check to make sure that you are not crowding her space. If you see her kind of arch her back backwards when you lean in, then that is usually an indication that she does NOT want you to get so close. This is another time when you need to BUILD UP. Getting too close, too soon, will sometimes be your breaking point and make her want to get away from you.

5. Create your own world with her.

What I mean by this is, you want to duck off into some space where it’s just the two of you. For example, one of the clubs that I go to frequently has a terrace with a bench, and if you get a woman out there, well then you pretty much DO feel like it’s just the two of you. Women love this, it gives them that feeling that they have found someone that really takes their breath away.

Follow these 5 tips and you can easily start to become the kind of guy that knows how to seduce a woman into bed and make hooking up seem EASY!

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How Do I Get Back With My Girlfriend – 3 Common Questions You Might Have

Wednesday, July 14th, 2010

How do I get back with my girlfriend?

This is a question that crosses the lips of a lot of men that are reeling from the aftershocks of a relationship breaking up. Trust me, I know how it feels. Every guy has at least one ex girlfriend in their past that they longed for at some point in time, and it can feel lonely and frustrating when you don’t know what to do to make her come back to you.

The key is to not give up, because the moment that you do, and you accept that you are not going to be able to figure out what will make her come back, well, you have already created the outcome. You need to be positive and optimistic about getting her back. Just remember that you won her over once before, so logically, it should be able to happen again.

Here are 3 common questions that you might have about getting back with your girlfriend:

1. Should you try to be her friend?

This is one of those things that people will advise you to do, and I have to say, in most situations it will end up being the deal breaker. Once you have conditioned your ex girlfriend to see you as just being a friend, she is going to do what all women do and place you in the NO SEX category. So, you can say good bye to the thought of being able to get her back in your bedroom and you can probably kiss dating goodbye, unless you want to be the guy that she goes to the movies with the night before she has a big date with some new guy.

2. Should you try and use friends and family to help you out?

Another common piece of advice is that you should use people around her to kind of talk you up and sell her on the idea of getting back with her. Well, it might sound okay at first, but let’s take a look at what USUALLY happens. Usually, the women is going to just shrug it off, and if people keep on pushing her on the idea, then she is going to build resentment towards both YOU and the person that is trying to help you out. At that point, she will already have her mind made up and you will NOT be a part of her plans.

3. Should you buy a system or a book to get your girlfriend back?

The market is filled with books and systems on relationship advice and most of it tends to win up being the same kind of stuff that you get from one of those syndicated columns in your local newspaper. Meaning, it sounds good, but it rarely works in the real world. There are some systems out there that are designed specifically from the male point of view, and this is what you really need to have a good chance at getting her back.

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How to Attract Women- 5 Traits of An Irresistible Man

Saturday, July 10th, 2010

Admit it.

Fess up.

You want to make women feel like you are irresistible.

It’s okay, there is no politically correct police that are going to take you away for being honest.

Guys, we are wired to want to be attractive to women. We want to be able to have the choice and selection that goes along with being the highly desired alpha male.

We don’t want to be the guy that always gets shoved into the “Let’s be friends” category.

So, what can you do about it?

Well, you can explore these 5 traits of an irresistible man and adapt to make yourself seem like you ARE that guy.

Here we go:

1. A man has to radiate the classic “charm” that women love.

Yes, women love a charming guy. Just think of a guy like Hugh Grant in any of the cheesy romantic comedies that he seems to always be in. Whatever the character is supposed to be, he always emanates a little of that boyish charm that women all over the world seem to find attractive. Work on developing that charm and you can create quite the stir yourself.

2. You have to make a woman feel like she is protected when she is with you.

Don’t think that you have to pull off any of the crazy kind of stuff that you see in an action movie. All a woman really needs to see is that you are not a pushover, not the kind of guy that is going to let her or yourself get walked. Just be sure to tread the line carefully, as you don’t want to end up being a jerk to try and make her feel like you are not a pushover. There is a balance.

3. To be seen as an irresistible guy, she has to see that OTHER women like you.

This is where it gets a little bit tricky. See, most guys are taught that when you are with a woman that you are into, that you should NEVER pay attention to other women. Well, let me tell you something. Letting her see you flirt a little bit with another woman and that other woman flirt back with you is NOT a bad thing. As long as you are not blatant about it, you can actually do a lot of good. You can make her see that other women do find you irresistible, and in turn, so will she.

4. You need to have a sense of style.

But this is what you really need to know. It does not have to be the suave, high fashion kind of thing. There are a lot of women that are actually more attracted to the blue collar type as long as you still have a sense of your OWN style. You don’t have to put on those tight jeans and $ 80 t shirts to come across as having style. You just don’t want to look like every other guy that is out there.

5. You need to be able to make her laugh.

Want to know why this is so important? Because a woman wants to date a man that makes her FEEL better. That is irresistible right there. If you can make her feel better, then she is going to want to spend time with you. And laughter doesn’t cost a dime, and unless she is some uptight chick, then making her laugh probably won’t even be that tough.

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Why Women Will ALWAYS Have the Upper Hand…Unless YOU Do Something About It!

Friday, July 9th, 2010

When it comes to dating, I think that all men are pretty much in agreement that men will always be at the disadvantage when compared to women. Well, to correct myself, I should actually say…almost always. And most men seem to accept this as just the way that it is, and they don’t think that they can do anything about it. The trouble with this line of thinking is, you give up ALL POWER and don’t have any control, selection, or choice when it comes to dating.

And it does not have to be that way. Before I tell you how you can change things for yourself, I want to dig in a little deeper about the current state of dating and why men usually ARE at a disadvantage.

Just down the street from where I live, there is a nice little bar/nightclub that a lot of really good looking college girls and young professional women all like to hang out on a Friday or Saturday night. The music is always just the right volume, they have really good food, and even a nice little dance floor. Now, I can go into this bar and pick out just about any group of 3 or 4 women sitting together, all single, all desirable in their own way. And I would confidently place a bet that each one of them has at least 25 numbers of guys that are “friends” in their cell phones.

As guys, you and I both know that 90 percent of these guy friends would all sleep with the woman if given the chance. Now, contrast that with your average guy of the same age. Chances are, he might not even have 25 female’s numbers in his phone. Even if he did, the majority of them would NOT sleep with him if given the chance. These guys all know what it is to be stuck in the friend zone, and so do YOU.

Now, you are seeing that women clearly have an upper hand. They have choice, they have selection, and most importantly; they all have their own little following of male friends that will spend money on them with the hope that maybe one day they will get the chance to sleep with them.

So, how can you turn that around?

1. You have to become the one that is IN CONTROL.

Now, before you get this a little twisted, this is not about becoming dominant over women. That’s a juvenile desire, and one that will not give you any real chance of becoming the kind of guy that young, attractive, independent minded women want to be with. Remember, if you had choice, you would want to get the best female possible. To gain *control,* you have to understand how the game works. You have to accept the fact that being a woman’s best friend is not going to get you into her bedroom.

2. You have to be able to give the ILLUSION that you ARE highly desired.

Why do I emphasize the word illusion? Because, unless you are a George Clooney clone or a Brad Pitt look alike, then chances are, there are not a whole lot of women that are sweating the moment that they see you. But, you can give off the impression that you ARE highly desired. When I was younger, probably about 23, I did an experiment. For several weeks in a row, I made sure that when I went out, I always had at least three women with me that were definitely considered hot. And the difference in the amount of attention that I received from OTHER women, was eye opening. Just looking like I was the kind of guy that was very successful with women made other women want to come and talk to me. I did not even have to be the one that did the approach. They did it for ME.

3. Sex has to become a part of your language.

What I mean by this is, do not dance around the subject of sex or things that SOUND sexual. If you have ever seen the kind of language that is used in one of those romance novels that sell so well, you will see that the words themselves are very sexual. And even when they are being used in context other than the actual act of sex, they still give off that impression. The more you can make sex a part of your language and use that language when you talk to women, they will start to feel…aroused when talking to you.

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Tips on How to Approach Women – 3 Approaching Tips You Need to Know

Monday, July 5th, 2010

Most guys are pretty much out of the loop when it comes to to the subject of approaching women. When you approach a woman and you don’t really know what you are doing, it can be one of the most uncomfortable feelings in the world. And when you feel that way, you are not going to make a good first impression on her, and let me tell you, first impressions count a lot.

So, you DO have to know how to approach women if you are ever going to be able to score a woman’s phone number, a date with her, or something more. But, that does not really do you a lot of good until you really have it down on what works when you approach a woman in a way that is going to leave her feeling impressed by you.

Here are 3 tips on how to approach women that will enable you to do just that:

1. Always smile but not in a way that looks intentional. What I mean by not looking intentional, is that you want to appear like you are just naturally smiling, not like you are doing it for a specific reason. This gives off the impression that you are just a happy guy, the kind of man that most women have no problem starting a conversation with.

2. You have to make your approach quickly without thinking about it too much. Some guys swear by a three second rule, and while I don’t agree that it always has to be that quick, you also don’t want to hem and haw for 20 minutes before you actually go and approach a woman. Especially if she has noticed that you are checking her out, because well, that’s the kind of thing that most women will find to be a little on the creepy side.

3. Your body language has to talk to her before you even make the approach. Body language accounts for anywhere from 70-90 percent of communication depending on which expert you talk to and so, you want to make sure that you do not neglect what your body language is saying to a woman. Keeping your body language OPEN will make a woman a lot more likely to WANT you to come and talk to her.

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How to Attract Your Ex-Girlfriend Back to YOU – 4 Classic Mistakes That You Cannot Make

Sunday, July 4th, 2010

Even when a relationship is going good without a hitch, most guys feel like they are kind of out of touch for exactly what a woman wants. I mean, you have heard it before being discussed amongst your buddies that women are pretty tricky to figure out. Well, if that was not bad enough, trying to figure out what your ex girlfriend wants so that you can get back with her is even harder.

It’s a pretty well drawn conclusion then, that you probably ARE making some classic mistakes that are going to have a negative impact on how she sees you. And if the impact is too large, then getting back with her is going to be harder than just about anything you can imagine.

I don’t want to make you feel discouraged, I just want to make sure that you really have a good view on what is happening and how you can make it a LOT easier to get her to come back to you.

Here are 4 of the more classic and common mistakes that men make when trying to get back a girlfriend:

1. Rushing her into making a decision.

Now, I will admit that I used to be guilty of doing things like this and it always ended up coming back to haunt me. See, when you try and put a timeline on your ex girlfriend, she is going to make the decision that seems best to her at that moment. And sorry to say, that the best decision at that moment, is for her to move on without you. Don’t even bother trying to rush her into making a decision. Otherwise, you WILL end up wondering why she is no longer wanting to even speak with you.

2. Becoming more of a hassle than you are worth.

I don’t mean to say this to take you down a notch or anything like that. But, if you start contacting her all of the time and trying to get her to spend time with you, eventually, she is going to feel like you are not worth the hassle of even dealing with. So, she will find a way to be busy when you call or she will just flat out tell you to get lost. No one wants to be hassled, let alone by someone that wants to be in a relationship with them.

3. Getting scared that she is going to find someone else.

Why is this a mistake? Because when you are deeply afraid that she is going to find someone else, you ARE going to make some really bad decisions. You are going to feel like you have to win her back right away, and that is going to end up coming off as you looking like a desperate man. Ask any woman that you can find, they will all say the same thing. A desperate man is nothing that they desire to be with. So, don’t get your head all filled up with the idea that she is going to find someone else.

4. Not coming up with a plan of action QUICKLY.

Every minute that passes that you sit there trying to figure out what to do to get her back, you are getting closer and closer to losing her for good. Now, I know that this kind of conflicts with what I just said in the third tip, but you DO have to be aware that things do not last forever. So, you need to find a solution to this, and that solution is to have a plan of action that you can follow step by step and that will help YOU to get her back as fast as you can.

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Female Attraction Secrets – 4 Tips to Attract Her, Keep Her, And Make Her Never Want to Leave You!

Sunday, July 4th, 2010

Most men have a pretty hard time discerning the differences between female attraction and the way that guys are attracted to women. Even guys that tend to think of themselves of being “good” at meeting women tend to get it wrong in the end. See, the way that you look at a woman and find yourself attracted to her, is NOT the way that she is going to look at a guy and find herself feeling attraction.

You should be well aware that men are much more inclined to focus on the physical body of a woman than a woman is going to be focused on the body of a man. That is not to say that it does not have any factor of attraction, or that a woman will not look at a guy with a set of guns for arms and not get attracted.

What you need to know is that there is a lot more to it, to attract a woman, and any guy can pull it off, even if you don’t have the abs of granite or the arms that look like guns.

Here are 4 tips to attract her, keep her, and make her never want to leave you:

1. A man needs to be able to show a woman that he is not insecure and seeking her approval and validation. Ever been around a female friend that had one of those guys that was always trying to suck up to her? Ever hear how they talk about guys like that when they leave? It makes most women feel a little sad for a guy like that, but it DOES NOT make them feel attraction. You cannot expect to win her over by making her feel like she has to give you a chance because you keep on sucking up to her.

2. Women want to find a man that can make them ENJOY life. So, the guy with the carefree attitude that is all about joking around, not being too tense, and just having a good time will almost always attract more female attention than a guy that is wound too tight. You need to be able to ease up and let loose in the presence of a woman, or else, she might start looking for a guy that CAN make her feel that way.

3. If you do not know how to make her feel sexually attracted, then you need to LEARN. Seriously, there is a fine line between male/female friendship and something more, and that line is the amount of sexual attraction that is there. If she is pretty or has a good body, then you already know that YOU are going to feel sexually attracted to her,. But, you will only be her friend unless she feels it for YOU.

4. Approaching women is an art that you need to experience. One of the easiest ways to break a dry spell when it comes to your sex life or dating women, is to just go out and start approaching women that you find attractive. Of course, you have to have a certain kind of approach, or else, all you are going to get is the classic chick move where she finds a way to get away from you.

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