Ex Girlfriend Sex – Can You Have Sex With Your Ex – Girlfriend?
Okay, every guy has had this fantasy before at least once in his life. At least once, probably many times more, you have thought about whether or not you could get your ex-girlfriend back in bed with you. Maybe it was the crazy girl that having a relationship with was out of the question, but the sex was out of this world. Or, maybe it was one of those long ago loves, where the sex was passionate and intimate and better than with any other woman you have been with since.
Whatever the reasons are, we have all had dreams about laying the girl that got away. You might not even really want to have a serious relationship with her, you just want to be able to get her out of her clothes and under your sheets.
So, can you have sex with your ex-girlfriend?
Before you even make an attempt to make this happen, you have to realize that you are probably not going to be able to just call her up out of the blue and woo her with your clever diatribe and expect that she is just going to come rushing over to have sex with you.
Maybe in a dream world or in a bad porno movie that would happen, but not in the real world.
If you are going to seriously try and woo your ex-girlfriend back into your bedroom, then you have to have a plan to make it happen. And you have to be okay with the idea that it just might not be in the cards for you to get to lay her again.
Here’s a few tips to try and make your ex-girlfriend want to have sex with you again.
1. Call her up just to get her talking.
Depending on how long it has been since you have last had contact with your ex-girlfriend, a simple phone call just to get her talking is probably all that you should start with. How weird would it be for you to call her up after a while and try and jump into the dirty talk right off of the bat? Seducing your ex-girlfriend is going to take some time, and although it can happen fast when you get the ball rolling, you will sabotage your chances of getting her in bed if you try and move too fast with her.
2. While you are talking to her, toss in just a couple of flirtations here and there.
Like I said, you don’t want to come on too strong with your ex-girlfriend and make her quick to end the conversation with you. So, feel free to throw in a little flirting with her, but don’t make it seem like you called her up just to try and get her to have sex with you. You also don’t want to have a conversation without ANY flirting at all, otherwise it will just seem like two old friends catching up, and there is nothing sexy about that at all. Make sure that YOU are the one that cuts the phone call a little short.
3. Start a mini routine of phone calls.
After the first phone call, you don’t want to go through a long period of time before you talk to her again. Wait a couple of days and call her again and this time, try to get her to hang on for a little while longer. This will make it seem like the two of you are ‘clicking’ again, and she will more than likely think about you, even when you are not on the phone with her. If she has a page on Myspace or Facebook, get on her friends list.
4. Now that you have an increase in the amount of calls and times that you interact with her, plan to meet up in person.
Whatever you do, don’t call it a date. Just get her to come out and hang out with you, preferably just you and her. Of course, this is when you ARE going to start making some real moves on her, but if you refer to it as a date before you get her to come out, she is more likely to find herself ‘busy’ when you want to meet up with her. While you are out with her, treat her like you would a woman that you are out on a date with. Of course, if you usually end up getting nothing at the end of your dates, then you may want to switch up how you behave a little.
5. Get her back to YOUR place.
Since you have already been together before and you are not some guy that she has just met, she’s more than likely going to be open to the idea of going back to your place. Maybe you just suggest a more quiet place to chit chat, or you want to show her some things that you know would interest her. Whatever your reasons are, be casual and aloof about what you REALLY want to happen.
6. Do I have to say any MORE?
If you have gotten this far, and you have her back at your place, then I hope you already know what to do to get her into your bedroom. Just keep in mind that you still have to woo her a bit, even when she is on your couch. You want to seduce her, to make the experience seem almost IRRESISTIBLE to her. When you can make her feel like this and steps 1-5 have already panned out for you, then you should be good as long as you don’t make any last minute mistakes.
7. Don’t try to make it a relationship, at least not right away.
Hopefully you will have been successful and she will be laying in your bed come morning. If she is, then you want to keep in mind that you don’t want to try and turn this into a relationship. Maybe you and her will get back together, but if not, don’t try and force it to happen. Just appreciate the fact that you got to fulfill that fantasy and you should have a pretty large SMILE on your face. Hopefully, she will TOO!
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