Being shy around women can STOP you from ever having an success at all in the dating game. If you are too shy around women, then you will never be able to approach the kind of women that you really want to be with. So, how do you get over being shy around women?
There are many different levels of shyness around women that some guys have. Actually, to some extent ALL guys have a level of shyness around women. For some, the woman has to be an Angelina Jolie type to make them feel shy and for others, just about ANY woman will make them close off and feel uncomfortable.
There’s nothing wrong with being shy around women, unless it gets in the way of you feeling good about yourself and confident enough to be able to approach a woman when you feel attracted to her.
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If you feel like your social life needs a jolt and the shyness around women is TOO much, then I will show you a few tricks to get over this.
There’s one thing that you HAVE TO remember, though. Just reading words on a screen are NOT going to change your life. Taking action on them will.
I’ve encountered guys that say they already know all of the tricks to attract women, yet they end up staying home on the weekend when they would much rather be out with a woman, having fun, and hopefully ending the night with some mind numbing sex.
Here are some tips to get over your shyness with women:
1. You have to get comfortable speaking to women.
One of the problems that shy guys tend to have is that feel like talking to a woman is somehow on some higher level than talking to a guy or talking to a female relative. The mind trick to use is to get yourself to realize that she is NO different at all, and to realize that you probably won’t have a hard time finding at least some common ground to get started with. Once you get the conversation going, it’s not nearly as intimidating as it is to just get yourself to make the move and talk to her.
2. Start interacting with women that you are not attracted to, just to get used to flirting and talking with them.
If you lack much of any experience at all with women, then you have to go and get yourself some. Now, I’m not saying that you have to date or sleep with women that you don’t find attractive. But, you do have to get used to talking and flirting with them. You will most likely find that you don’t feel much of any pressure at all, especially because you already know that you are NOT trying to get with her. The goal is to just get used to being around women and knowing how to talk and flirt with them without feeling like you are under pressure or feeling any intimidation at all.
3. Take baby steps.
If you are really shy with women, then maybe going out tonight and approaching a woman that you would consider to be a ’10′ is just too much. So, take it in baby steps. Go out and approach an average looking woman. Talk to her, flirt with her, maybe get her to dance. Hell, even go for her phone number. Whatever way you want to see it, you cannot expect to just overnight become so comfortable that you can approach a model type and have no hesitations or reservations. It’s just not going to happen like that.
4. Get a group of female friends.
I find that most men that are really too shy with women have either none or only one or two real female friends. So, women almost seem foreign to them. You can easily find a couple of girls to just be friends with and get used to going out with them. Not only will this help you in getting over being shy with women, but it also helps when you go out looking to pick up a woman. If you go out and you have a group of women around you, other women will notice you and they will automatically think that you must be a cool guy that they should get to know. It’s simple social proof, but, it works.
5. Approach as many women as you can, as quickly as you can.
If you want to get over being shy with women really FAST, then you want to approach as many women as you can. We become desensitized to anything the more that we come into contact with it. The same reason why young kids that play violent video games become desensitized to violent acts, can actually help you with women. When you approach as many women as possible, by the tenth or twentieth time, it becomes nothing at all to you.
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