You want to know more about the seduction of a woman because you want to know what it is like to hear a woman scream out your name. There is one thing that you are going to have to keep in mind and that is this – it is NOT just about getting laid. That is the one thing that you absolutely have to pound into your head, because if you go around acting like the only thing that you are after is a cheap lay, most women are going to be totally turned off by you. Of course, you DO want to get laid, that is a given. That will happen if you know how to approach a woman the right way and make her feel intense DESIRE and ATTRACTION for you.
When it comes to seduction, most guys are just way too timid for their own good. The moment they think that a woman is going to walk away from them, they are ready to cave in and do anything and everything that she wants. They don’t even bother to make any moves at all. They don’t even try to seduce the woman they want, they just try to gain her approval. After reading this article, hopefully you will understand what you have to do if you want to seduce a woman so that she is so hot for you, you will eventually hear her scream your name in pleasure.
These 5 hot seduction tips will help you make that happen:
1) You are not supposed to be a follower, you are supposed to be a leader.
As the man, you are supposed to lead and this has nothing to do with adopting an antiquated view on male/female relations. It has EVERYTHING to do with the fact that naturally, this is what women respond to. Think of it kind of the way that it is when you are dancing with a woman. You are the one that leads and it is in her nature to just follow you, right? That is the alpha male mindset that you need to have if you are going to be successful at seduction. You have to accept the fact that it is your role to be a leader and not a follower in any way.
2) Your eyes need to make her think of you and her being in the bedroom.
We have all heard the term, bedroom eyes, but have you every really give this any real thought? The eyes are a window to another person’s soul (at least, that is what they say and what many women believe), and as such – you have to know how to use your eyes in a seductive manner. They have to suggest to her that there is a sexual energy and sexual chemistry between you and her that just cannot be denied. When you have a woman locked in that sensual gaze, it is only natural that you and her are going to wind up intimately getting to know one another.
3) You have to flirt with her, but that is just one step.
You should never look at flirting with a woman as the only thing that you need to do if you want to seduce her. Of course, you should also realize that if you want to be able to seduce a woman, then you better be able to flirt with her. Brushing up on your flirting skills is an absolute must if you are going to be able to seduce a woman. You also have to learn to go beyond just flirting, because the average good looking woman gets MANY opportunities to flirt with men on a daily basis. She does not go to bed with all of those guys, so what makes you think you are going to be that guy? You will be if you know how to go beyond just flirting with a woman.
4) Talk dirty to her without getting nasty.
There is a fine line between dirty talk that is downright hot and seductive to a woman and dirty talk that seems nasty and perverted. That is a line that you can’t cross if you want to be able to seduce a woman. Talking dirty to a woman is an almost guaranteed way to make her scream your name out loud, but only if you do it right and in the appropriate context. The things that you would say into her ear when you are in bed with her are not the same things that you should say when you have just approached her in a bar or a night club.
5) You have to be able to pleasure her in the bedroom until SHE is satisfied.
When you do get a woman into your bedroom and the seduction is ON, you have to be able to rise to the occasion and you have to make sure that she is getting her pleasure if you want to hear her screaming your name out loud. If you are only focused on yourself and you totally ignore her needs and her wants and the things that make her feel good in the bedroom, you can’t expect to get a second or third go around with her.
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