No matter what, some guys are going to end up falling for the tricks and routines that are supposed to work to attract women, but just seem to make things worse in the end. You don’t want to be one of these guys. While there are plenty of routines that you can learn and there are plenty of tricks that you can use that may help you get better with women, you don’t have to bother with those things if you discover the fundamentals that you need to know. When you know the basic fundamentals, the keys to attracting a woman become a lot clearer.
1. You don’t want to fall for the Hollywood dream of how attraction happens.
In the movies, it’s always the nice guy who gets the girl in the end. It’s always the guy who “deserves” to be with her who ends up winning her heart at just the right moment. Usually, it happens right before she is going to end up marrying some jerk or something. While that does sell tickets, it doesn’t mean that it is an accurate reflection of what plays out in the real world. If you want to really understand the keys to attracting women - you have to be able to get rid of this fantasy idea of how it should be and work with how it really is.
2. Feeling like you shouldn’t have to do this or you shouldn’t have to do that.
There IS a little bit of a game that you have to play when it comes to dating. You might feel like you shouldn’t have to do some of the things that you have to do to make a woman want you. What you really have to look at though, is the results that you want to be able to get. If you don’t want to end up alone or end up with a woman you have had to “settle” for, then you do have to play the dating game. (Luckily, you can discover how to stack the odds in YOUR favor.)
3. You are afraid to venture outside of your own personal comfort zones.
We all have our own little comfort zones when it comes to meeting women and that is something that you just have to be able to get over. You have to realize that everything that you really want in terms of having a great dating life probably exists outside of that comfort zone.