How to Attract Women and Not Have to Spend a Fortune

Posted on September 6, 2010 by Chris Tyler

Most guys seem to end up with the impression that they need to have a lot of money that they can blow in order to really attract women. They start to add up all of the costs of traditional dating, and next thing you know, they end up a little discouraged when they realize it can end up costing a small fortune just to try and get a woman to fall for them. To that I say… NONSENSE! Of course, it helps to have some spendable money. Just like it would help if you owned a Mercedes convertible or a Ferrari, but it is not a necessity., by any stretch of the imagination.

I can remember a time not too long ago when my financial situation was a LOT tighter than what it is now. I drove a 15 year old Volvo and barely had more than a little bit of cash after the bills were paid. Yet, I was still able to have no problems at all lining up dates for the weekend, and I had friends that were quite the opposite. They had nicer cars, much more spendable cash, and they had very few dates at all.

So, don’t think that it is impossible, because it is NOT. Like Slick Rick, the old school rapper once said, “Even in a Yugo I can take their woman from them.”

Here are some tips on how to attract women and NOT spend a fortune:

1. Buy clothes that are timeless.

A friend of mine spends a fortune every year on new clothes, because he thinks that he has to be one of the “trendy” guys in the club. So, when one year’s clothes are no longer in style, he has to go out and buy the new ones that are. Right now, he basically dresses like he belongs on The Jersey Shore, and when that fad passes, he will have to spend hundreds of dollars more to “update” his wardrobe. If you buy clothes that are pretty timeless, then you don’t have to worry about that, do you?

2. Be creative when you take a girl out on a date.

Near where I live there are quite a few State parks, and these places are great to take a woman. They all have beautiful scenery, they all lead to the Hudson River and have great views, and best of all, they don’t cost a thing to go there. Even women that don’t seem like they would enjoy the great outdoors seem to love these kinds of dates, and you can spend a couple of hours without spending a dollar on her.

3. Get HER to pay for YOU.

Women hate to hear this kind of thing, but let me tell you, it works all of the time. Especially when you are dating a woman that is “modern,” she will gladly pay for some of the dates. A couple of my buddies used to think this was impossible, till they saw it happen. There are many times when, if the woman offers to pay for something, I let her. It gives her the feeling of equality, the feeling of independence, and she doesn’t feel like you are trying to “buy” her affection.

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How to Seduce a Woman Into Wanting You – 3 Tricks That Will Make Her Desire You

Posted on September 6, 2010 by Chris Tyler

Knowing how to seduce a woman into wanting you just sounds like one of those, yeah right, kind of dreams for most guys. Yet, there are some men out there that seem to be able to do exactly that. And, the funny thing is, they don’t have a famous name, they don’t have a six or seven figure income, and women still seem to fall for them… every time!

Ever wondered what the secret was to make a woman desire you?

Probably, you have been led to believe that this just is not something that you can manage to make happen, or that you have to be deceptive to seduce a woman into wanting you. And that really could not be FURTHER from the truth.

Here are 3 tricks that will make a woman DESIRE you:

1. Master the art of push and pull seduction.

Women get turned on when their emotions are kind of on a roller coaster, make no mistake about it. If you can make her feel the highs and the lows, she will find herself thinking about you. And they will not be able to control where those thoughts go as long as you do it right. What most men do, is they know how to push, they know how to pursue, but they cannot pull away. Too much pushing and she will be the one that ends up pulling away from you.

2. Become a guy that just does worry about getting a woman into bed.

It sounds like the OPPOSITE of what you would want to do, but the thing is, when you worry about getting her into bed, you are going to make that apparent to her. And when it becomes apparent to a woman, it starts to look and smell a lot like desperation. Think of it this way, if you were a guy that had his choice and selection when it came to women, would you worry about it so much? Act as if you do, and women will be drawn to you.

3. Learn how to turn a woman on the right way.

If you ask most single women, most guys that they end up dating are pretty bad when it comes to turning her on. Most men rush through things, and ignore the true areas that make her feel turned on. One of which, is her emotions. The more you know how to trigger her emotions, the more she is going to end up getting turned on by you, and that spells DESIRE.

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Dating Secrets for Men – Exposing 3 Myths That Hold You Back

Posted on September 6, 2010 by Chris Tyler

Myths are pretty abundant and so are generalizations that don’t hold much weight when it comes to dating. The bad thing is, most men end up believing them, and it ends up getting in the way of their potential success in dating. So, you might be wondering, what are these myths and how can it benefit you by exposing them?

Well, for starters, you need to really know what you are dealing with, when it comes to dating, And also, a lot of men end up letting so many opportunities to meet, attract, and date beautiful women pass them by because of their beliefs in these dating myths.

Here are 3 myths that will definitely hold you back:

Myth #1- You have to be a perfect gentleman to attract women.

The reason why I say this is a myth is not to promote the idea that you should be a jerk to a woman, but in the fact that most guys think that being a perfect gentleman really means that they have to be “perfect.” Look, you put way too much pressure on yourself if you are trying to be perfect when you are on a date.

You will over think every moment, and spend more time trying to suck up to her then you will creating attraction with a woman. This is when you really need to be your imperfect self just a little and not sweat the small stuff on a date.

Myth #2- She cares about the car you drive.

I had a friend that really thought he had a way with the women. And since we had not seen each other in a while, he thought that I could not step up to his level. Anyways, we went out to go meet women one night, and we had the choice of whose car to drive. He opted for his, because in his words, my car was a pile of junk. It wasn’t too bad, just not as nice as his. So, we get to the club, and I am doing way better than he is.

To try and downplay me in front of this one girl, he makes an offhanded comment about my car. Her reply was, I could care less about what kind of car you drive. For the most part, most of the women that you meet are not going to shoot you down because of the car that you drive. By the way, I ended up going home with a woman that night, and my friend, he had to drive home alone in his “better” car.

Myth # 3- You have to have the right line all of the time.

This is another myth that really adds nothing but unnecessary pressure on a guy. Trying to pull out the most perfect line is basically like setting yourself up for a failure. I think a lot of guys use this myth to explain why they fail with a woman. It couldn’t be for any reason other than not having the right line, could it?

Truth is, the more natural you come off with a woman, the better. True, you need to make a good impression and you want her to continue to see you as having high social value, but if you don’t have the best line at the right time, it does not have to be a deal breaker. I remember one time I used a line that totally bombed, it was supposed to get this woman to laugh and all it got was silence. Still, I brushed it off, and I still wound up getting her number, so obviously it was not the end of the world.

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How to Approach Women Confidently – 4 Ways to Boost Your Confidence With Women

Posted on September 6, 2010 by Chris Tyler

One of the biggest sticking points for any guy is confidence when it comes to approach women,  and even just in dating in general.  If you are not really confident about your ability to approach and attract women,  then you probably are not going to end up trying much,  are you?

You will just rationalize reasons for why you can’t get the girl,  when in reality,  you have no idea unless you actually make the move.

I can relate to not having the confidence to approach women.  There was a time when the only women that I dated were ones that I already knew,  whether it was through friends or work or school.

Then,  I got tossed in the real world,  and found that it was much harder for me to meet and date women.  All of this was because of not having the confidence to approach women that I did not already know.

I have found that this is a pretty common theme amongst men,  and that most guys just never do a thing about it.  They just go along and hope that somehow,  the “right” woman will just float into their life.  And they end up going through LONG periods of time in between relationships.

Here are 4 ways to approach women confidently and boost your overall confidence with women:

1.  Work your way up the ladder.

Now,  I know that this will be about the most politically incorrect thing that I can say,  but let me tell you,  it works wonders.  I call it working your way up the ladder,  and all it means is,  before you go and approach women that are drop dead beautiful,  practice approaching average looking women.  It will enable you to get a little better each time,  and make you feel a lot more comfortable around women.  So,  when you DO move up to the more attractive women,  you are already kind of used to making women find you appealing.

2.  Go it alone if you have to.

This is one of the things that helped me out,  and I think it can help out a lot of guys with the same issue.  It can be hard to approach women when you know that you have a group of your buddies behind you,  laughing,  and acting the fool.  If you want to practice on approaching women,  sometimes it IS better to go it alone.  You don’t feel like you have to report back to your boys,  and if you do get shot down,  there is no one there to tease you about it.  Some guys though,  will feel better when they are with their boys,  so it really is up to you.

3.  Talk to any woman that you can,  be a talker.

When you are checking out at the store,  or ordering food from your waitress,  get a conversation started.  You may not end up dating her,  and you might not even want to.  all it does is give you more and more opportunities to speak to women.  And the more times you get POSITIVE feedback,  the more confident you will grow.  Make your waitress smile and laugh,  and it will start to become “normal” for you to talk to women that you don’t know.

4.  Realize that when you approach a woman,  she might be as nervous as you are.

Though most women are used to being approached by guys by a certain age,  that does not mean that she will not be a little nervous about it.  Keep that in mind,  and you will realize that you don’t have to be PERFECT to end up getting her number.  I can’t tell you how many times that I swore I messed up,  only to end up dating the girl that I thought I messed up on.

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How to Get a Girlfriend Quickly – 3 Tips to Get a Girlfriend NOW

Posted on September 1, 2010 by Chris Tyler

Fall is about to hit upon us,  and that is a great time to have a woman in your life that you can spend time with.  I mean,  it’s not much fun going on a haunted hay ride by yourself,  or with a group of guys,  is it?  College guys are headed back to school,  and ready to meet some new college girls.  And regular working guys are probably tired of having another summer pass by without having a woman in their life.

One of the biggest problems that most single guys have,  no matter the age or their situation,  is they have a hard time meeting women.  And I find that kind of funny,  because there are SOO many single women out there.  I know what it feels like,  because there was a time in my life when it felt like it was just impossible to meet women.  Luckily,  YOU can change all of that and realize that there is an abundance of attractive,  single women out there that want to meet a guy like YOU.

Here are 3 tips on how to get a girlfriend quickly that will help you attract a woman right now:

1.  Open up your social circle.

If you are like most guys,  then your social circle probably is not all that large.  Guys seem to be more comfortable hanging out with the same group of buddies that they always have,  and this can be a limitation on the women that you meet.  The more you open up your social circle,  the more likely it is that you will find an abundance of women really are out there.  This used to be my problem.  I had a cool group of guy friends,  but they knew about as many women as I did,  and that meant that most of the time,  it was the same group of people that I always ended up hanging out with.  As soon as I expanded my social circle,  all of a sudden,  there were a lot more women in my life.

2.  Go out more.

The more places that you go out, the more likely it is that you are going to meet women.  Whether it is a club,  a bar,  a party,  or even just hitting up the local hot spots,  you are going to raise the odds that you DO end up meeting an attractive woman that you end up “clicking” with.  Don’t sit at home and complain that there are not enough women out there.  The only thing that will make you actually meet more women is getting out of the house and going places where the women are.

3.  Become a talkative guy around women.

I don’t mean that you should be one of those guys that nervously rambles on.  That would not make you appear more attractive.  But,  a lot of guys kind of get self conscious and shut down the conversation when they are around women.  You don’t want to be one of those guys.  You want to be able to start conversations with women wherever you go.  You  never know when the next conversation with a woman could be the one that ends up landing you the girl of your dreams.

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How to Approach Women in Bars, Clubs, and Anywhere Else You Might Go

Posted on September 1, 2010 by Chris Tyler

How to Approach Women in Bars, How to Approach Women Anywhere,How to Approach Women in Clubs

The approach is definitely something that most guys allow to get the best of them.  And when you are a little too hesitant to approach women,  you are going to put  a lot of restrictions on yourself.  After all,  how are you going to meet new women if you cannot go over and make the approach?  You’re not,  unless you somehow get lucky and they all just are magically drawn to you,  and the odds of that happening are not really that good.

The most common places for guys to go and hopefully approach women are bars and clubs.  Truth is,  you should work on getting used to approaching women anywhere,  because there are so many more opportunities outside of these places.  And most of the time,  women are going to be a lot less hesitant when you approach them outside of a club.

Just the other day,  I was at a miniature golf course,  just having fun with some friends,  and as luck would have it,  a group of college girls ended up right behind us.  Of course,  I did not let that opportunity slide by,  and by the time we reached the 18th hole,  they were playing with us and ended up going out for drinks later that night.

Point is,  you need to be able to make the approach anywhere that you might go if you want to become really successful with women.

Here are 3 tips on how to approach women in bars,  clubs,  and anywhere else you might go:

1.  You need to relax and not take it so seriously.

I see a lot of this in guys that have a hard time approaching women.  They make it out to be this big deal,  like approaching a girl is some kind of big event.  You need to relax and not be so taken aback by the idea of walking up to a woman and starting a conversation with her.  Most of the time,  the worst that will happen is that you talk for a little bit and end up with nothing but that experience.  That’s usually about the worst of what will happen.  No big deal there,  is it?

2.  You need to make women laugh when you talk to them.

It’s the easiest thing to do to automatically make them feel comfortable with you approaching and talking to them.  Especially in non bar and club situations.  Crack a little joke and get something started.  When you can make a woman laugh,  she no longer really thinks of you as being some guy that she does not know.  She thinks of you as being the cool guy that made her crack a smile.

3.  You need to be able to “up the ante.”

If you want to have the interaction be MORE than just a simple conversation,  then you need to up the ante.  What I mean is,  you need to keep the conversation flowing with her,  build attraction,  and then have a reason to ask for her number or to hang out with her.  When I was at the golf course,  I ended up making a bet that it would be guys versus girls and whoever won,  would buy the other group drinks.  You see what I did there?  No matter what,  if we won or lost, we still would end up having drinks with them.  Luckily,  we won, and they DID pay for the drinks.

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How to Attract Women To You – 3 Tips to Make You Appear More Attractive to Women

Posted on August 30, 2010 by Chris Tyler

A lot of times,  we like to think that people do not judge each other based on appearances,  but the reality is,  it happens all of the time.  People are just wired to do this,  and it is not necessarily a bad thing.  You have to keep that in mind when you want to know how to attract women,  because to think that your appearance does not matter at all,  well,  that’s just a little naive to say the least.

It’s not a deal breaker,  all of the time,  but if you give off the wrong vibe to a woman when she first notices you–  you are definitely going to have to “work” a little harder to make her feel attracted to you.  Some guys end up becoming a little too concerned about their appearance to a woman,  and that is the opposite end of the spectrum,  but still something that you want to avoid.

Here are 3 tips on how to attract women to you by appearing more attractive:

1.  Make sure that you are well groomed whenever you step out the door.

Unless she is one those leftover grunge chicks from the 1990′s,  a woman probably is not going to dig the idea of getting with a messy,  sloppy kind of guy.  So,  you want to make sure that you are not stepping out into the world looking like a bum.  Some of the best opportunities that you will get to meet women will happen when they are kind of unexpected,  and you don’t want to get caught out there looking like a total mess.

2.  Make sure that your body language is congruent with the image that you want to project.

If you want to have women look at you like a confident, alpha male that knows what he wants out of life and is going to get it,  then the body language has to match that message.  Walking around with your head down or your shoulders slumped kind of defies that image and will send off the exact opposite signal to a woman.

3.  Smile and look like life is GOOD for you.

This doesn’t even have to just apply to attracting women,  when you smile and look like you are enjoying life,  people like to see that.  You will attract a lot more positive attention from women,  from co workers,  your boss,  anyone that is around you.  So,  make yourself feel good and appear attractive to women by looking like you enjoy your life.  Oh yeah,  and start enjoying your life if you are not already.

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Dating Tips For Men – 3 Qualities Women Want to Find in a Man

Posted on August 30, 2010 by Chris Tyler

One thing that I like to do from time to time, is to join a group of single women at a club or a bar, and kind of pick their brain when it comes to dating and relationships. I like to think of it as “market research” in a way.

I have to tell you, some of the things that women will say about dating might SHOCK you.

I also want to point out that even just a few years ago, I would have never been the kind of guy to just target a group of single women and just get them to open up and talk about dating and relationships.

What most guys seem to think about women is completely and totally off base. They think that women want be treated like little princesses and want to meet a guy with a great secure job, and honestly, most women are not really putting these things too high on their priority list.

Now, I will say that none of these are absolutes. Yes, you are going to come across some women that basically expect to be treated like a queen, and you are going to find women that tend to focus on finding a guy with that secure job and that is more important than anything else.

But, the broad majority of single women that I come across, do not bring these things up that much. And even when they do, it usually comes after a long list of other things.

Here are the top three topics or really qualities that the broad majority of women seem to rate highly in men that they would be interested in dating:

1. A sense of humor.

This one might surprise a lot of guys, not because you don’t think that a woman wants a guy that can make her laugh, but on how important this one quality is. And if you really look at it and think about it, it makes a lot of sense. Women are open to a lot more dating opportunities than guys are.

You might not care so much about whether or not a woman makes you laugh, especially if she has a good body, but a woman knows that she can attract guys. That’s not the issue. The issue is, can she attract a guy that is fun to be around. And a guy that has a playful sense of humor is going to be a lot more fun for her to be around.

2. A sense of style.

Take a look at some of the high profile guys that are successful with women. Guys that are pro athletes, entertainers, and actors. Most of them have a very unique style about them. Now, take a look at most guys that you see at the mall or just around town. Most of them look pretty much the same as one another, not many of them have their own signature look.

Well, when a guy has that signature look, his own style that makes him stand out in a crowd, women take notice. I was at a club one time with 4 young women, and there was this guy there that to me, looked kind of foolish. But to tell you the truth, he did stand out. And I pointed this guy out to these girls and asked them if they liked that look. All 4 of them nodded their heads and said that they did. I asked why, and the basic thought was just simply, that he had his own style. And they were all impressed with that.

3. A sense of confidence.

I know, you hear it till you are blue in the face. Women dig a guy with confidence. Well, the reason why you hear it till you are blue in the face is because it is true. Think about it like this. A woman does look at a man as kind of a “protector” of sorts, it doesn’t matter how modern of a woman she is, she is still going to look at him through those eyes.

Now, picture that same woman looking at a guy that does not have the confidence to be himself or to speak up when needed. Is she going to feel that same protection from him? No, she is going to disconnect from that feeling, and when that happens, the attraction also usually seems to go out the window.

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How to Get a Girlfriend Fast – 3 Tips That Will Help You Attract Your Fantasy Female

Posted on August 28, 2010 by Chris Tyler

If you are like most guys, then you probably want to know how to attract a girlfriend. But, you don’t want to attract some plain Jane type. You want to attract your fantasy woman, one who is sexy and fun to be around. One that will make your head spin and your friend’s jaws drop to the floor when they see who you gave on your arm. Now, you might automatically start to think that this is just wishful thinking, but it does not have to be.

When a guy is wanting to attract a girlfriend, he more than likely is feeling like he NEEDS to have a little female attention and affection in his life. You don’t want to have your weekends always filled with warm beer and cold pizza, and a stack of DVD’s when you could be out enjoying the night life with a beautiful woman.

You also probably want to get a girlfriend to make yourself FEEL BETTER. This is a common trap that most guys fall into. They think that they will be able to attract a woman and that is what will make their life complete.

Problem is, a woman that is a fantasy kind of girl KNOWS that she can attract just about any guy that she wants to, and if you come across as though you need a woman to make yourself feel better… she is going to get a little turned off by you.

So, here are a 3 tips that will help you to get a girlfriend and make sure that you end up with a fantasy girl:

1. Build a social network that you can tap into.

Nowadays, most people hear the word social network and they think of websites, but you need to have the real social network of people that you can call and hang out with. Think about it, when a woman is really attractive, she has a higher social value than most other women. People (especially men), want to have her around. So, she can pretty much choose the guys that she dates and so, she is going to choose a guy that also has some social value. Plus, when you have a social network that you can tap into, you can end up meeting a lot of women that way as well.

2. Make your life ENJOYABLE.

The more enjoyable that your life is, the more attractive it and you will be to other people, including beautiful women. She will want to be a part of your life. Most “bachelors” have a really boring life. They go to work, then hit the couch, or maybe hang out with some guys for a while. They don’t have a life that makes a woman want to be a part of it. The more enjoyable YOUR life is, the more women will become interested in YOU.

3. Be a TEASE to women.

Guys that are already attractive to women and know it, do not act desperate or needy for female attention. So, they have no problems teasing a woman, and you know what? Women love that stuff. For real. the more you can tease a woman playfully, the more you set yourself apart from all the other men that she comes across, and this will help you to appear a lot more attractive to a woman.

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How to Overcome Shyness Around Women – 5 Tips on Being Able to Confidently Talk to Women

Posted on August 27, 2010 by Chris Tyler

There are definitely varying degrees of shyness that men will exhibit with women. Some guys have no problems at all approaching and talking to women, and others are utterly terrified of even approaching a woman that they do not already know, or one that they do not know very well. And a lot of guys are really somewhere in the middle.

Sometimes they can confidently start a conversation with a woman, and then there are other times when they just cannot seem to make it happen.

I am going to kind of “target” this article at guys that are really uncomfortable when talking to women, and depending on where you find yourself, you may be able to pick up a few things here and there, even if you are more in the middle, so to speak.

First of all, I would like you to think of where the fear comes from. Was there EVER a time in your life that you did not have any fear about talking to women, or was it always that way?

I know for myself, that there have been times when it seemed like I could approach any woman that I wanted to and I did not even think twice about it, and there have been just as many times when I felt as though I could not even start a conversation with a butt ugly chick.

Obviously in those situations, where the woman is not attractive, it is not a situation where you are intimidated by her looks.

For many guys, the fear comes from the “unkown.”

What do I mean by this?

At many different points in your life, I can assume that the majority of your social circle, or your social network has consisted of mostly other men. Don’t count female family members, and I bet that the majority of the time, your social circle has mostly been other guys.

So, right there, you kind of have a disconnection from women, and you probably are not really sure what to talk about, and you have no real reference points in your mind that shows you that you can easily start a conversation with a woman.

Now, I can also bet that there have been times when your social circle did have at least a couple of females in there. Maybe it was in high school or college. During those times, I will also bet that you found it at least a little bit easier to talk to women.

Why?

Because you had those reference points in your mind, you have examples and memories of conversations with women, and that was enough to tell you that you DID know how to talk to women, at least on some level.

The reason why I am digging into this area, is because most men that have a REALLY hard time talking to women… don’t talk to women that often.

And that is the source of a lot of the fear and the awkwardness, it’s the inexperience.

So, here are 5 tips on how to overcome shyness with women and be able to confidently talk to women:


1. Become friends with at least one female.

And I do mean friends and nothing more. You want to introduce some females into your life and your social circle. The change that you can make just by doing this alone can be profound. One guy that I worked with took this one bit of advice and kind of ran with it. He wound up making friends with quite a few women, and suddenly he saw that he could talk to women, no problems at all.

He built new references and experiences in his mind, ones that he could pull from at any time, and realize that he DID have the skills to talk to any woman that he wanted. The result? He started dating more women in one year than he had in the previous 5 years.

2. Approach at least one woman per week that you do not know and start a conversation, no matter how small.

Eventually, if you really want to get this area of your life “mastered,” then I suggest that you up it to one woman per day. The point of doing this is not to get a date or a phone number, at least not at first. It’s about overcoming the “shock” of approaching women that you do not know, and starting a conversation with her.

Soon, whatever fears that you might have will start to subside, and you will realize that it can actually be kind of easy to start a conversation with a woman, even when you don’t know her at all.

3. Now that you have started to get female friends and started to talk to women that you do not know, start to build up for something more.

Once you have a female friend, and hopefully more than just one in your network, and you have started to approach women that you do not know and get a conversation going, it’s time to UP the ante. You now want to start at least getting some phone numbers from women.

When you approach a woman that you do not know and the conversation seems to be fun and maybe even a little flirty, ask her for her phone number. Sure, she might say NO, and she might just move on after that. The point is to get used to asking for her number so that way, the shock of doing that will just wear off.

4. After the first one or two or maybe even three women, you have probably gotten at least one phone number, and now, you want to get comfortable making plans or dates.

Obviously, you are not approaching women just to have a stash of phone numbers, right? The whole point in getting the phone number is to work up to a date with her, and of course, maybe even more than that. So, you want to get used to talking to her on the phone, at least enough to make plans.

Depending on your personality, a short conversation may be better and more effective than a longer one. The more silent pauses there are, the more it will seem like she would be bored on a date with you. So, if that is your personality, make it short, touch base with her, and get her to meet you somewhere. My favorite thing has always been to get a woman to hop on the train and head into Manhattan, yours may be different.

5. This is probably the MOST important tip of all– Think of EVERY FAILED ATTEMPT AS JUST A PRACTICE RUN.

If you think of every rejection or every conversation that leads to nowhere as just being a test run, a practice, then it will not have as big of an impact on you as if you think of it as being just another sign that you suck with women. You probably DON’T suck with women as much as you think you do, and when it starts to “click” and you start to get more and more dates with women, then you will look back on all of those failed attempts as just being either funny or a lesson learned and nothing more.

There is no shortage of women that are worth dating out there, so don’t have the mentality that you let one get away and that you might never get another opportunity like that. Look around, beautiful women are everywhere, and every day you can end up coming across a woman that is even better than the last.

Even though it can be intimidating at first, and you might think that you have nothing worth saying, the more times that you get out there, you will discover how to talk to women in a way that builds intense attraction.

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